i sed Joshua was acting reasonable coz i tot he told his gf he will off his phone...(i assumed she knows and this is not only to stop her from contacting...it is oso to stop other people too.) coz sometimes...guys just need to be alone.

at this moment.....anything discussed will only be worse...nothing good will come out of it.

yeah.....if emergency than it wud be troubling....
but i guess Joshua ald took that into consideration. Only he knows his limits...and i think if he says he needs time alone...then leave him alone.

But thats what i think.
i cud be wrong.

Lately no news from Jdreamer.....wonder whats he doing...

1) girl likes to test on guys ---> yes, some girls likes to do this. however, i strongly disagree with doing so. i mean, who are we to test on our guy. yes, it's suppose to be "US", not "you & me". we shouldnt test our partner in order to know whether they are the one for us or not. we should work together with our partner to go through obstacles that comes in the way, not test our partner by simply saying breakup or divorce. it's really stressful and emotionally tired when the word breakup/divorce is always brought into the situation, just to test or to seek attention. why is only girls testing guys? let's look at it the other way around, what if guys do that to test their girls? how would girls feel? i myself certainly wouldnt want my guy to test on me like that. it would be so emotinally stressful for me. that is why i dont test my guy in such a way. however, being a girl myself, i was guilty of doing that before. however, realizing that it's really a stupid and silly move, i quit it. it's just not healthy to a relationship by testing it that way.

2) joshua is trying to be reasonable by turning off hp ---> that's not reasonable. that's a bit immature. the way her gf handles it also a bit immature. i mean, if joshua really needs to be alone, why not just tell his girl? turning off handphone just created another one problem, whereby his girl handled it immaturely and using the breakupword to threaten him in order to ask him not to do that again. in this kind of situation, i would always put myself in my partner's shoe and think how i would feel if my partner treats me that way. it certainly dont feel good to call into a voicemail everytime when my partner is not in the mood. what if anything happen to me and i needed to call him urgently to ask for his help and couldnt get him? therefore, joshua's girl certainly have a reason to be mad. however, she used "threatening" as a mean to get joshua not to do that again. which isnt a very proper way, because other than serving as a warning, it also created stress. now, everytime joshua wanted to be alone, he might still think of turning off his hp but he would be afraid that his girl might breakup with him. then he will feel stressful because he cant even get his own time to be alone. so, problem arise. however, if his girl tell him how she feel when joshua turn off his hp, then maybe next time joshua will not do it, because he knows how she feel. anyway, joshua, since you say that things are back to as sweet as ever with your girl, then i'm also happy for you. i wish you good luck, yeah.

i sed Joshua was acting reasonable coz i tot he told his gf he will off his phone...(i assumed she knows and this is not only to stop her from contacting...it is oso to stop other people too.) coz sometimes...guys just need to be alone.

at this moment.....anything discussed will only be worse...nothing good will come out of it.

yeah.....if emergency than it wud be troubling....
but i guess Joshua ald took that into consideration. Only he knows his limits...and i think if he says he needs time alone...then leave him alone.

But thats what i think.
i cud be wrong.

Lately no news from Jdreamer.....wonder whats he doing...

u didnt comment on point 1? no comment ah?

u didnt comment on point 1? no comment ah?

Ah ma come liao...

jdreamer is recovering. I knocked some sense into him, i hope.

Hello everyone..2day kena accident damn teruk..haihz..

What accident oh?

haloo pppl... how the thread going!?

haloo pppl... how the thread going!?

1. I wonder do question like 'Do you love me' is a test?

2. For me, I do feel that closing my phones does really help me to calm down a lot. I tense to be. I would then take those time to think what should I do and so on.

But of course, I will really look into some factors before I close the phone. I will make sure she is safe at least?, in the sense like... Ok, now she at office, won't be going anyway, then I will off my phone. If she off work already, then I won't off my phone. I admit I off my phone once she were outside, but I do really have no choice. If I get tense up, I lost my emotional, lost my control, then for sure negative negative result will appear which I do not want it at all. Just hope you guys understand my situation, I cannot raise my temper or lost my control already, it is all depends on me to decide in my relationship, she is the 'hard' type that do not want to lose, do not want to give up and blah blah blah    So, I need to be 'soft' in order to make our relationship smoother.
Yeah. I will curi curi on my handphone to make sure there no plenty of missed call from her, and make sure her sms isn't an emergency 1.

jdreamer is recovering. I knocked some sense into him, i hope.

Yea, Im getting better. Thanks.

I hit ppl's back bonnet yesterday then so mafan wanna make police report and pay saman oso..Anyway,how are you?Ur mmc card,I dunno when can take from you la..haih..Really sorry..

Been trying to go out with friends including opposite sex. My final exam for this semester is coming soon but I cant seemed to be able to squeeze anything to my brain yet. Probably, I still need time to adjust myself.

Yea, like miyoko said.. darklight has been very helpful. He woke me up the other day. And yea, my consolation now is... I still have u all here. Thanks..