oic...so u are fine.....hows the haze in msia?

is it better adi?

I'm gonna speak from experience here, jdreamer's case and many others akin to this make me really feel for you guys. Females may get offended here, but i've discussed this with my other female friends and they kind of agree.
Phrase : Pus sy's pus sy

Seems vulgar and offensive? Look at it from different perspectives. A woman is a woman, sex is sex, it's all the same howoever much variations there are in positions, foreplay, etc.
It's only DIFFERENT when you do it with someone you love.

At some high point in your relationships, you'll start having lovey dovey concepts like we're gonna be together forever, we were fated from the beginning, etc.

Fact:
1. Forever is a long time, time has a way of changing
2. Relationships are not fated, they are made
3. Any person can be the right one, provided effort is put in.
4. Fate gives you the opportunity to meet the one who can be the potential partner, the rest is up to you and the girl if you both want it to happen BUT if you guys keep grieving chronically over a love which is beyond repair, you people will DENY yourselves future opportunities to meet another potential life partner.

Life isn't really a Hongkie, Taiwanese sob story. It doesn't have to be. You can either continue whining, griping, pissing and moaning about the one you lost forever or you can start recovering slowly.
It takes time, everything takes time, from relationships being made to relationships ending. You think just cos a girl says she wanna break up and it's officially over, it's really over? It also takes time to sever yourself from the relationship completely, all it takes is time.
It's ok to cry, it reminds of we're still human and capable of feeling, but the reasons you cry over a broken relationship can either make you or break you. Do you cry because you're slowly letting go and starting the process of self healing or do you cry because you desperately want her back? It can be a little mix of both but the ratios better be in the favor of the former, not the latter or you're screwing your ownself over.

the sky is damn clear since yesterday.

thats good to know...hopefully it will be like that for the rest of the time....

im hoping to go back to mesia next week....just for 3,4 days...some work to do....

Yeah...appreciate things between u and ur ex. Congrats that u're able to move on. True, there's absolutely no point of looking back at ur past relationship, when u know it's already over. Think on the bright side, take the breakup as a lesson to make u a better person...and lover for ur potential future partner. I knew it, i've been thru a bad relationship b4, and i'm certain that i'm a better person now

What doesn't kill u, will only makes u stronger. All the best

Enough. Now get to work

yeah, crying is ok because we are just human, after all. crying is a healing process and remedy too.

jdreamer, now slowly let go and slowly gain back your life. because, sulking it for too long will not do you any good. you did not post anything here. are you ok?

coming back to malaysia? just for 3,4 days? why not longer? isnt it a waste of air-tickets?

something to do with work...
have to do my research.

Yea, learning to. Had been jamming music into my ears.

Jam it boy, jam it! I assume you're better, glad to hear.

Yea. But I wonder what u guys do beside online? I need to get myself things to do.

This post has been edited by jdreamer: Oct 27 2006, 10:41 PM

I'm heading to Hartamas for a shisha session soon.

Whats that?

Lol... you don't knwo what shisha is?? I thought you saw my friendster profile.

http://www.friendster.com/6323938

There's one pic of me doing shisha.

But I didnt browse through ur photos. Yea, looking at it now.

hmm dats bad for health rite? Since ure a bodybuilder sumore...

No it's fine. It's not the stuff done in Arab countries. If it was a hazard, they'd put an under 18 sign there. Besides, it's a once a week thingie.


This post has been edited by darklight79: Oct 27 2006, 11:31 PM

cigaratte is bad for health too, so do 2nd hand smoker. So i think shisha actually did no harm compared to that

good luck to all LDR'ers out there!!! hope u guys will last forever....

*off to bed*

waaa... juz got back from raya celebration. managed to visit her twice. now i hav to wait for months to see her again... kamon! kamon!

Today really a bad bad day for me. I kept my phone off because I am very moody due to a reason nothing related to our relationship, she wasn't happy since yesterday because I jokingly tease her for being 'stingy'.

Today, she still angry for yesterday incident, being cool to me, I off my phone because I am afraid I am lost my control and did something stupid. BUT she challenge me saying if I off my phone more than 3 hours, then we are DONE. I really couldn't believe it that she said that, I am wondering does she ever think what is the consequence? Told her I am really upsad, I really need to close the phone, do not want anybody to disturb me.

After 1 hour +, I on my phone back to check it out what sms she wrote to me. She ask me to take care in future. Quickly I call her up and ask whether she already give up, once I called her, she said aren't we broke up already, she has deleted everything about me. Fine, she so confirmed wanted to break up, so I have to no choice but to surrender(break up) and close the phone.

Very soon I close the phone, she called me up and ask not to break up. I really don't understand why she really dare to play all this kind of stuff?

P/S: She isn't childish at all, I do not know WHY suddenly she dare to take this risk and play with our relationship