I am having now..... Mmm....

LDR really high cost - Maintenance

I understand your meaning bro...Costly...

This is my 2nd LDR at the moment.There will be never be 3rd.lolz.

hi people..... i just broke up in my LDR

Welcome to my club. Mind to tell us what happened?

Anyway, cheer up.

eermm this.. past week when we talk on the phone she sounds like there is some problems... i askher her yesterday she told me everything was fine.... then just now in the morning at 5++ she told me that she wants to move on.... that she does not wan to he held back by me..... and the best thing is that she said that i was to committed?????...


dont ask me why, how, or what happen i am blur my self........


how to overcome it jdreamer i remember u had the same sh*t recently

She's feeling insecure, coz you guys are so far apart...

i think ello never mentioned anything about patching things up, he just want to overcome his sadness

what is there to patch she seem happier u know.. she said in fact i am fine with it... i am like.. W*F lord strike me with your kilat

when a person has changed, there's no turning back whether you like it or not

hello everyone, sorry for not reporting for a few days. hmm... so much of sad story recently...

ello, are you ok? are you kind of expecting the break up to come the wa? because you dont sound too sad. anyway, you can always relate to jdreamer's thread. there much of advices there. if really cannot, you can always post your problem here.

i wish you all the best, yeah.

i just dont understand..... for all i have done ... she just like 1 kick all fly.... how bout my feeling.. she thinks i am like a robot?? only got AI no feelings???


ne way it hurt have not been sleeping more then 30 hours YAY.... haiz

do you understand mandarin, if you do, follow this advise : 有些事情你现在不必问, 有些人你永远不必等

Bro, Im learning to let go, in fact Im doing it now. I know how u feel. I struggled for months until recently which things get better for me. Well, maybe u should try what I've done. I pack myself with lots of things to do so that I wont have the time to think about it at all. Whenever Im free, I'll get some books, or jam music into my ears. Beside these, u can try hang out with friends or something.

Just try ur best not to be alone.

yeah trying.. was talking to her parents.. hope everythign will be fine and this is a nightmare...

So, probably u two are getting back together? Or..?

no idea i think there is a third party... and if she is happy then i should not.. well i really dont know... lost in the vast ocean now... half wants the other half .....

I understand the situation. I've been there. Part of me wanted a return, but part of me wanted to step out.

yeah.. jdreamer we can start a group liau for LDR break ups...... heeh u become the president ok.... still dont know how to handle.. to let go i still love her but to hold on dont know if she still wans me at all or i have been written off

That's true. I know the feeling but seriously, if her heart has changed, there's nothing much we can do about it. I'm not interested in setting up a LDR break ups club or something, but more interested in an Anti-Spannars club. However, it doesnt matters anymore.

true true anti-spannars... but then again its the gurls fault also....