'sup... so this is where it's all at. My official first time post here.

You know why i hate spanners and 2 timers? I used to be one. I even stepped on three boats at the same time before. I know how it's like to hurt people and get hurt in turn. Karma. Things have a way of going around.
Back in Taylors 9 years ago, i had the near perfect partner, a New Zealand bred Chinese girl. She finished her pre U here and moved back to NZ but promised herself to me. I believed her, I still believe that if i never did all the bullshit i did, she would still be with me. She even tried fighting for me.
I had it, looks and the body, and i abused my gifts a lot, but once you find during that phase that the woman you go after behind the back of someone you truly love is not worth it, then it hits you on the face like cold water after a hangover, you tend to ask yourself, wtf have i done?
That's why if i hate certain individuals, i hate them for a reason because spanners and 2 timers represents a part of my past which i detest but acknowledge because i want to remember the mistakes i did so as not to repeat them again. History, the most wonderful teacher of life.

This post has been edited by darklight79: Oct 26 2006, 11:17 AM

i believe that was me who said that.

I was beginning to think Cupid's Corner was full of retards. So this is where all the sensible people hang out. I assume you guys quarantine people like wangpr and unbelievable from this place.

Hell... should've clicked on this thread sooner. I thought it was just a spam thread.

I'm a reg and Health and Fitness. I gave up on CC after too many retarded threads like "How to pick up girls?" and "how to know if he/she is a virgin?"
I only check out threads of those who seriously need help. Blame wangpr for a major part of CC's retardation. I'm sick of his threads degrading women. He needs to get shot.

I'm gonna speak from experience here, jdreamer's case and many others akin to this make me really feel for you guys. Females may get offended here, but i've discussed this with my other female friends and they kind of agree.
Phrase : Pus sy's pus sy

Seems vulgar and offensive? Look at it from different perspectives. A woman is a woman, sex is sex, it's all the same howoever much variations there are in positions, foreplay, etc.
It's only DIFFERENT when you do it with someone you love.

At some high point in your relationships, you'll start having lovey dovey concepts like we're gonna be together forever, we were fated from the beginning, etc.

Fact:
1. Forever is a long time, time has a way of changing
2. Relationships are not fated, they are made
3. Any person can be the right one, provided effort is put in.
4. Fate gives you the opportunity to meet the one who can be the potential partner, the rest is up to you and the girl if you both want it to happen BUT if you guys keep grieving chronically over a love which is beyond repair, you people will DENY yourselves future opportunities to meet another potential life partner.

Life isn't really a Hongkie, Taiwanese sob story. It doesn't have to be. You can either continue whining, griping, pissing and moaning about the one you lost forever or you can start recovering slowly.
It takes time, everything takes time, from relationships being made to relationships ending. You think just cos a girl says she wanna break up and it's officially over, it's really over? It also takes time to sever yourself from the relationship completely, all it takes is time.
It's ok to cry, it reminds of we're still human and capable of feeling, but the reasons you cry over a broken relationship can either make you or break you. Do you cry because you're slowly letting go and starting the process of self healing or do you cry because you desperately want her back? It can be a little mix of both but the ratios better be in the favor of the former, not the latter or you're screwing your ownself over.

Jam it boy, jam it! I assume you're better, glad to hear.

I'm heading to Hartamas for a shisha session soon.

Lol... you don't knwo what shisha is?? I thought you saw my friendster profile.

http://www.friendster.com/6323938

There's one pic of me doing shisha.

No it's fine. It's not the stuff done in Arab countries. If it was a hazard, they'd put an under 18 sign there. Besides, it's a once a week thingie.


This post has been edited by darklight79: Oct 27 2006, 11:31 PM

jdreamer is recovering. I knocked some sense into him, i hope.

Can someone knit me a pouch? I need one bad. My mobile keeps gettng scratched.

Only 4 attended? When is the next? I'll only be free after the 8th of March I'm afraid.

Yeah, i can make it if the date is convenient for me. I'm not the type to stand people up, if i tell them i'll go means i'll go but i can't make any promises yet cos nobody said when is it. Lol.