QUOTE(Nemesis1980 @ Feb 13 2013, 09:04 AM)
As i always said, applying visa to stay is very personal. Any decision being made, we have to respect them with watever reason are. I think if you're thinking of letting your visa lapse, no one can stop you. You just have to take responsibility to bear the consequences what your family would do. If you intend to, then it's up to you. I believe you're grown up guy, what decision made, just be with it.
I made 2 big decision mistakenly is i refused to apply visa twice when there's opportunity. Luckily 3rd time is another chance for me to get it.
Been to melbourne before, yeah, like you said, the climate is horrible. a whole day will have like 4 seasons. i even got sick when i travel down from sydney to melb. the climate changing so fast.
1st entry will be whole family. 2nd entry will be going alone for job hunting. My wife still retain her job and all our property. at least a back up plan at home. Like wat my dad telling me is that we have 2 engine running, stop 1 will not giving you trouble to have income back home. but if shutting down 2 engine will giving you big trouble.haha...better listen to old man advise
One thing I want to bring up is the frustrations of applying jobs in Australia. You see, unlike here in Malaysia in which we got two main mediums - jobstreet and the Star, in Australia all job applications have to go through Job Recruitment firms.
So the ad goes on like this:
IT analyst at SME Company dealing in premier property construction in South Australia and Tasmania.
Job Requirements:
1) Bachelor degree in IT from reputable Australian university
2) Possess MSCE certification
3) Knowledge in Pro-+ programming
4) Experience in handling and coordinating with operational staffs.
All the job ads are like this. The disadvantage is:
1) You have to undergo two levels of interviews, first being screened by the job recruitment firm, then by the employer: wasting time
2) You don't know who you are applying to, so there is no merit in your results, if you are a high distinction performer, you may just end up with a ca kai company. Lets say you currently work in a high roller position in Shell Malaysia, paid well because you got good results in your bachelor's degree but when you go to Australia to work, you may end up with a Mom and Pop company that pays no increment because of bad company performance.
So in other words, you don't get rewarded by your good results and your previous work experience because you don't know who you're applying to.
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I know its my decision, I am just not sure if this should be my decision. I am in damn big dilemna, man. But I starting to think that there are better places to build my career like Singapore. THey got better job positions there plus its nearer to home.