RICH ..
get back to getting rich pls ..

1. If you have been giving tuition, if you have been teaching all these years, you will find out that there are teachers holding forged certificates, teaching piano, giving tuitions. If you happen to meet a person who teach without proper qualification, that is COMMON. There are many people buy degree cert and apply jobs nowadays! But I don't share my views without prior real life experiences.

2. If you see my posts showing hatred emotion that can also mean I am telling the fact in this world. Why must you think it's happening to me? Even if I am complaining now doesn't mean that I will sit there and do nothing to breakthrough.

3. My boss has lousy and nasty temper though she is in her 50s now, Senior Manager position, she's trying to teach me the way she handles things but NONE of her teachings work on me. There are many different ways to get things done, everyone has his own way, I believe; with her way of doing things (yell at people to convince others; interrupt people's conversations whenever people sharing opinions so no one can go against her will; fast to judge and slow to listen etc), it makes someone looks "ugly" and unprofessional. I have the choice to choose and I will choose to be the best - be a nice person and able to get things done.

I'm clarifying these not because for my own glory. I just want to share that people with good personality and has great achievements worth our attention much more than those with brilliant life but poor personality.

Whatever Dreamer is sharing here, to be honest, I only adopt 30% to 40% of his teaching. No one's teaching is suitable to every one; none of us have the same career path in order to become success. But giving 2 persons to learn from, of course I will go for the person who has personality and achievement equally good. You can yell at people to get things done but what's the meaning if you get people to obey you physically but in their hearts they hate you? Furthermore, even things go well it would only go for temporary.

I would say both of your biology teachers are fine to me according to what you elaborated here. But I would value further as how would they respond if I bring up my questions and ask them in person, would they show annoyance or being patient.

Last but not least, if you follow one's teaching blindly, be it he is top successful person, you are plain silly.

If you are talking to someone with good communications skill, he/she doesn't bother how do you phrase your question. These persons will instead put themselves in your shoes and think how you think, they are able to get what you are trying to ask, and answer your question directly.

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Added on August 18, 2011, 11:06 pmif she is single, even

This post has been edited by ch_teo: Aug 18 2011, 11:06 PM

This thread created this morning 8AM..
Now already 5 pages long, Dreamer really powerful and influential..

Do you have any business relationship with Lowyat.net?

Dreamer, your thinking really different from others... Very critical and sharp..

I just felt that if i am continuing to do my job at corrent company,
my dream will be getting far away each day...

Good point.

However, can you convince me that "Those unsuccessful chicken rice seller won't do the same thing like the successful one does?"
I will put an extreme example here: Let's say that the business of SuperGreatCompany Sdn Bhd grows on UnluckyPoorCompany Sdn Bhd loss. Will you still say the same thing? As SuperGreatCompany employee, will you slow down your business on behalf of helping UnluckyPoorCompany? I bet you won't. A communist will do so, will you?

As an Asian, I know exactly that this is cruel. But that's business. Furthermore, that's competition and even further, that's Evolution. Natural selection. The fittest and the one most responsive to change wins. Don't say to me that you will prefer an ugly boyfriend/girlfriend to a handsome/beautiful boyfriend/girlfriend just because you pity him/her.

To all:
Sometimes, I really hope that dreamer will use a better way to communicate his idea. But I don't care how he does it. What I care is "the content" of his thoughts. Dreamer's communication technique is irrelevant to his message.

Go dreamer, I am waiting for more.

your the father i sorry but at what age he passed away? are you the refugee/asylum people from other country? how come all the fathered dieded so early?

i thinks the poor ppl got the no good advantage, but also can other ways to fix the no good. just have to search the repair. care to sharing some repair.

I dont believe in putting all your thoughts and energy to become rich. I pity those who chase money and fortune blindly. I think I'm pretty successful in my own way. I'm not rich, not poor either. Yeah I'm average. Have always been an average student. What I value more in life is my family and relationships with people. I'm grateful for having them and I'll still like the extra time to relax and enjoy life while I'm young rather than constantly be possessed by this drive to become rich and abnormal.

A job is a blessing but if it refrains you from taking a step back and reflect on and enjoy life, then it becomes a curse.

howszat,

<<If the way you want to live your life is to be average, >>

If that is a person's goal, WHY even bother reading this thread??

Dreamer

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Added on August 19, 2011, 5:48 amwaxppl,

Is your goal is ONLY just to be good?? Aka, not the BEST in the world?? In Malaysia??

<<i found out i can be good at anything as long as i put effort. so actually after that i believe that interest can be build.>>

But, will you be THE BEST?? Is good = good enough for you??

Dreamer

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Added on August 19, 2011, 5:53 amalaskanbunny,

He died at 49 years old.

<<are you the refugee/asylum people from other country? how come all the fathered dieded so early?>>

My family had been in Klang for 150+ years. That was common age for many of our fathers to die for that generation. Their life expectancy was only 55.

But, they had a better life. 50% of my grandparents generation and including sibling of my parents were massacred by Japanese during WWII.

Dreamer

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Added on August 19, 2011, 6:00 amxuzen,

What is SUCCESS for YOU??

What motivates YOU??

What do you ENJOY doing??

What can you DO better than average people??

<<My cuurent job is the proprietor of my family Kedai Runcit and I have out-grown it. >>

What do you mean by out-grown it??

It is boring for you??

A problem is the DIFFERENCE between what you EXPECT and what it is.

What do you EXPECT that does not exist in current job??

If you could have ANYTHING, why would you rather have in your new job??

If you could change ONLY one thing in current job, what would you change?? Then, what is STOPPING you from doing this now??

Dreamer

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Added on August 19, 2011, 6:39 amdebbieyss,

So, where is a SINGLE "Thank You" from you to me??

Where are your manner??

So, what does this make YOU??

I am NOT PAID to teach you. A basic COMMON COURTESY is say "Thank You" to someone that help you in some fashion. But, what do I get from you instead?? And, what does this SAY about YOU?? And, what kind of person that you are??

Look at the mirror and ask is this the kind of person that YOU are?? If not, time to change before it is TOO COSTLY for you.

Dreamer

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Added on August 19, 2011, 6:50 amMeruChan,

What makes you THINK that people that putting all their thoughts and energy to become rich are the people that are actually RICH??

The TRUTH is rich people do not become rich by aiming to be rich. That is the SIDE BENEFIT. Their AIM is to be ABOVE AVERAGE aka THE BEST in their chosen career / business. Becoming rich is the unintended benefits. They are having so much fun in their job / business that money is IRRELEVANT.

In fact, in general, people AIMING to be rich normally do not become rich. They do not have the DRIVE and PASSION to survive the dry spell in order to be successful. They will jump around dependent on what makes the most money.

YOU cannot be successful in life if your ONLY goal is MONEY. In fact, it is counter productive.

YOU are thinking like an average person. And, I believe probably you have very little to no FIRST HAND exposure to REAL rich people.

Dreamer


This post has been edited by dreamer101: Aug 19 2011, 06:50 AM

Ouch !

This post has been edited by ivanswk: Aug 19 2011, 09:41 AM

Dreamer,

Do you consider yourself successful?
Cheers.

BR
PenangLaksa.

being happy does not mean you have to be rich...diff ppl have diff financial goals

another fella this is not about happy + rich or happy = rich
this is about being above average and getting rich and happy indirectly

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Added on August 19, 2011, 1:21 pmcan u be more specific, i can read your mind,
u want to ask how Dreamer is above average and is he RICH aka alot of money, tio boh?


This post has been edited by ivanswk: Aug 19 2011, 01:21 PM

i'm an average person, i also wish to start a business, i aim to retire at age 40+

however, i didn't take action to make a change as i scare to leave the comfort zone, with fix income every month and burden with many commitment.

i salute those dare to take the risk an try. i have seen friends who started their business 2-3 years ago, for these 2 years, they have zero income, but good news is their business is growing, start earning

just graduated and working now.. its nice to look at these post.. cause at least i get some infos from those experienced person... my thinking is the same as dreamer... average person cannot be someone like buffet or gates or even tan sri fernandes. so, must work hard, get info, knows ur direction and little bit of luck.... i myself is alwiz playing safe..... dunno will be successful or not.. but of course i will work hard towards it... =))

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Added on August 19, 2011, 6:50 am

MeruChan,

What makes you THINK that people that putting all their thoughts and energy to become rich are the people that are actually RICH??

The TRUTH is rich people do not become rich by aiming to be rich. That is the SIDE BENEFIT. Their AIM is to be ABOVE AVERAGE aka THE BEST in their chosen career / business. Becoming rich is the unintended benefits. They are having so much fun in their job / business that money is IRRELEVANT.

In fact, in general, people AIMING to be rich normally do not become rich. They do not have the DRIVE and PASSION to survive the dry spell in order

to be successful. They will jump around dependent on what makes the most money.

YOU cannot be successful in life if your ONLY goal is MONEY. In fact, it is counter productive.

YOU are thinking like an average person. And, I believe probably you have very little to no FIRST HAND exposure to REAL rich people.

Dreamer

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Dreamer, what's rich to you?
Different people have different views to what actually constitutes a person to be rich.
Why are you forcing your ideas on others like that?
What you're trying to say is to tell people to take thigs for granted and always seek and strive to be the best.

In this world, you can never be the best. You will always find someone better than you. Then yes, it's good to learn from people who are better than you and always be humble no matter how smart people say you are. Even if you're the best badminton player for this year , you can't be the best forever.

I agree. People who work with passion and interest will gradually develop the knack of it and become skilled and could then demand a higher pay for it. Yes I agree with this but theres nothing wrong to people who are average. If there's no average people, you can't be the best. If everyone is good at what they dO, this will result in stiff competition. Just like in Korea, I have so many Korean friends. They work so hard. I never really see them having fun. Why do you want to migrate to australia I ask?
There's too much people in Korea. Competition is too high. I can't be the best in Korea but I am at least good in Australia.

Take it easy, mate. Enjoy life as it comes. Never give up and grab golden opportunities when you sense them. Live life moderately and be grateful of what you have then saying to yourself "this is not enough, I need more. I need to try harder"

You know there's always opportunity cost in every choice u make. U learn this in economics. If you value in being the best and being rich then u need to forego something in return. If ure willing to sacrifice for example time with your kids, going out with ur mates, getting enough sleep. Then yeah sure.

I dont know dreamer but the way you're presenting this whole thing is kinda focus on how to get rich. And how average people are just losers. I just find that a bit offensive. Eg. A stay at home mom decides to sacrifice get career to bring up her 2 lovely kids. That's normal. It's parental love. It's unconditional. She's willing to sacrifice a career and bring up her kids. So would u then say she's not successful? Not the best? Just average person who will never get rich? Different people have different thing that gives them satisfactiOn in life. Who are you to say what people should be aiming for? To be te best and be rich? I think that's a load of crap.

Well I do have rich friends but most of them are dealing with illegal biz and I don't want to be a part of that. I don't want to say that I'm rich but I'm a lot more well off than a lot of people I've met. I'm grateful for that every single day. I'm grateful that I can spend more time with my mom who was diagnosed with cancer than chasing something materialistic.

Dreamer oh dreamer. Always talking like the almighty one. No offence anyway.

1) You're not answering waxppl's question. What does one do when they doesn't really know what their interests is?
2) You can't force manners from people. In this case, debbieyss.

What is the difference between attitude and behavior?

i can see many people getting out of topic or playing with words