QUOTE(SunofaBeach @ Mar 14 2011, 05:17 PM)
I dont know about you people encouraging youngsters out there.
Myself would nt say things like this to youngsters. Everyone knows the fact working is not easy, but at least letting youngsters begin the career and learn all the way with confidence. Sharing experience to youngsters is fine, but depressing them at 1st before they even have the chance to experience it. . I think that is not quite a right way.
Anyway, that's just my thought,again I do not mean to challenge anyone in here.
Indeed.
I don't know why people like to share it in a harsh tone. Can't it be an active way to coach one another? Why does it must be a harsh tone? I know some people would take advantage of you if you are not firm in your view but this doesn't suit every one.
I admire those "60s" and "70s" people's professionalism, but for sure I will not take them as example to improve my interpersonal skill.
One who can't adapt different communications skills to different people isn't that great in my eyes at all.
QUOTE(kelvin_tan @ Mar 14 2011, 05:44 PM)
@sunofabeach
Malaysia cannot be compared to wherever you are (I think UK ? mentioned in earlier post?). Working in Asian related countries, you are always expected to work hard (Our auditors in Malaysia sometimes work 70 - 80 hours a week or more).
Politics exist everywhere even in the country you are in right now (maybe not so extreme but it still exists). It depends on how smartly you play the game. Hence why some people say street smarts is more important than book smarts.
Not all industries are that scary though.
Malaysia can't compare to european countries, doesn't mean Malaysia culture is RIGHT.
Don't you think giving someone guidance in an active way would show better impact on him? Active guidance is always look at the strengths and talents one has, there then the person will gain confidence and acknowledgement of themselves. Sad to say, what I have seen here are all about passive comment, which is maximizing the "mistakes" and "weaknesses" one has. You want others to point out your every mistake and not to look at what brilliant jobs you have done? Why always view a life from a passive angle?