QUOTE(GangHo @ Jun 16 2011, 02:03 PM)
Hello friend, give yourself and everybody a break and don't be so provocative. Everybody deserves to voice their opinion and nobody says that you are wrong when they defend their own. It's not wrong to go to Malaysian church or Asian church when they are in oversea because things will take time to change. Malaysia is multi racial country and all the races comes from different parts of the world previously and what is your opinion regarding Malaysian status now? Did all the races blend all? We got to be open minded and instil positive thoughts. A lot of time when the world changes, some would still insist on getting on with their own lifestyle of not having liquor, smoking,dancing, partying & etc. Does it mean they won't be able to assimilate well into the 21st century? Obviously no. Peace brother.

The point i am trying to make is that some of the people who migrated tend to have alot more tolerant level when the country they migrated to has negative impact on them. especially in orang putih country. For example, when they go to the immigration dept in australia or banks in australia, even though those people working there (usually white people) are slow in attending to them, they (the migrants) dare not make a fuss about it (i witness this with my own eyes). But when the malays are slow in the govt dept in malaysia or the malay staffs are slow in the banks in malaysia, we tend to be very aggressive towards them, some even scolded them (again witness with my own eyes).
What i don't agree is alot of this migrants when they go to western country, they tend to suck up to the white people, eventhough the things they do may be as bad, if not worse than the malays back here in malaysia.
For example, when going to interview in the govt dept here in australia, asians migrants generally can't get the job, but instead they don't admit to the fact that racism is happening, they tend to say well maybe they require different skills set and etc. But in malaysia, when govt dept don't hire non-malays, we will say is racism. I'm not saying racism in malaysia don't exist, of course it does. but it also exist in the western society also, but these migrants is like not willing to accept the fact that it exist.
I get the feeling like they think white people is more a superior race, so is ok to suck up to them. And even rejected by them, the migrants tend to think that they are not good enough yet. But the way we, Chinese treat malay attitude is like they are less superior than us, so we cannot be "neutralise" by them, and if they reject us, is not our problem, must be their narrow mindedness.
Sometime we need examine out attitude first before we blame everything.
Yes, i do apologize for the provocative tone of my remarks, but actually it is to stimulate discussion like what we are having here.