I felt ur pain bro.

Hope ur son recover soon.

yea ... most important thing is my wife and my son is now safe ... thanks god.

Since you are asking then only i share our experience. My wife just deliver our son last week at Pantai KL (or Bangsar).  It was totally a nightmare, my wife was admitted to Pantai on 31st Dec for induction as we wanted to have a new year baby. But she was discharged on the 4th day after 3 times of tablet insertion to soften her cervix + 2 times of membrane sweep. Do note, after induction, you started to feel contraction and it is also very painful when Dr perform the membrane sweep.  This was our first disappointment as this is the first time we heard induce and baby is not coming out.  My wife started to feel real contraction on 2nd day after she discharged from pantai and her water broke on the 3rd day after she discharged. I rushed her to hospital again feeling all excited because this time it was a real labor. The nurses told us we have 12 hours duration for the baby to come out even the water bag rapture.  But we waited for 3 hours then only the doc came to assess my wife. Then she told us we can wait for 24 hours.  Some of the nurses are just not that experienced and the advice they gave u are not consistence. Some of them are nice but not all.

The real nightmare started after we waited for more than 24 hours and yet my wife still not dilated enough (about 9cm).  In between, i did asked the Dr if we can do anything to expedite the dilation process but she said my wife is doing fine (somehow she managed to convince me or she left me with no choice).  We just wait and wait. Finally I couldn't wait any longer and I insist the Dr to come immediately after my wife water bag burst for more than 24 hours. Finally the doc came and checked on my wife, still 9cm and she said need to wait for another 1 - 2 hours. Do note, during that time the baby already exposed to infection since the water already break for more than 24 hours.  Then i asked the doc if we can immediately deliver the baby. She then started to push the cervix open (DAMN PAIN FOR MY WIFE) and i can see even more water rushing out and some of it are blood.  During that time, there weren't any midwive beside the doctor until my wife shouted very loud as she was in pain, then one of the midwife rushed in and immediately she saw the doc started to deliver my baby then she put on the glove and assist the doc. After 1 and half hours my wife using all her strength to push, finally she is tired. Doc used the vacuum to suck my baby's head till the vacuum loosen by itself and my son's skin got peel off. She then started to use forceps but my wife already no more energy to push and doc suggest to go for C-sec.

Our baby boy was born finally but due to he was already exposed to risk of infections for more than 24 hours, he has to be given antibiotic for 3 days and his breathing is not stable and also his lung has water.  He was admitted to NICU for 4 days.

Total damage? >RM20K.

Choose the right doctor, choose the right hospital! The money u paid can earn back, but the life u put ur faith on cannot earn back!  For our case, we have chosen the wrong doctor, the wrong hospital ... We will never go back to that hospital anymore    

Since you are asking then only i share our experience. My wife just deliver our son last week at Pantai KL (or Bangsar).  It was totally a nightmare, my wife was admitted to Pantai on 31st Dec for induction as we wanted to have a new year baby. But she was discharged on the 4th day after 3 times of tablet insertion to soften her cervix + 2 times of membrane sweep. Do note, after induction, you started to feel contraction and it is also very painful when Dr perform the membrane sweep.  This was our first disappointment as this is the first time we heard induce and baby is not coming out.  My wife started to feel real contraction on 2nd day after she discharged from pantai and her water broke on the 3rd day after she discharged. I rushed her to hospital again feeling all excited because this time it was a real labor. The nurses told us we have 12 hours duration for the baby to come out even the water bag rapture.  But we waited for 3 hours then only the doc came to assess my wife. Then she told us we can wait for 24 hours.  Some of the nurses are just not that experienced and the advice they gave u are not consistence. Some of them are nice but not all.

The real nightmare started after we waited for more than 24 hours and yet my wife still not dilated enough (about 9cm).  In between, i did asked the Dr if we can do anything to expedite the dilation process but she said my wife is doing fine (somehow she managed to convince me or she left me with no choice).  We just wait and wait. Finally I couldn't wait any longer and I insist the Dr to come immediately after my wife water bag burst for more than 24 hours. Finally the doc came and checked on my wife, still 9cm and she said need to wait for another 1 - 2 hours. Do note, during that time the baby already exposed to infection since the water already break for more than 24 hours.  Then i asked the doc if we can immediately deliver the baby. She then started to push the cervix open (DAMN PAIN FOR MY WIFE) and i can see even more water rushing out and some of it are blood.  During that time, there weren't any midwive beside the doctor until my wife shouted very loud as she was in pain, then one of the midwife rushed in and immediately she saw the doc started to deliver my baby then she put on the glove and assist the doc. After 1 and half hours my wife using all her strength to push, finally she is tired. Doc used the vacuum to suck my baby's head till the vacuum loosen by itself and my son's skin got peel off. She then started to use forceps but my wife already no more energy to push and doc suggest to go for C-sec.

Our baby boy was born finally but due to he was already exposed to risk of infections for more than 24 hours, he has to be given antibiotic for 3 days and his breathing is not stable and also his lung has water.  He was admitted to NICU for 4 days.

Total damage? >RM20K.

Choose the right doctor, choose the right hospital! The money u paid can earn back, but the life u put ur faith on cannot earn back!  For our case, we have chosen the wrong doctor, the wrong hospital ... We will never go back to that hospital anymore    

Since you are asking then only i share our experience. My wife just deliver our son last week at Pantai KL (or Bangsar).  It was totally a nightmare, my wife was admitted to Pantai on 31st Dec for induction as we wanted to have a new year baby. But she was discharged on the 4th day after 3 times of tablet insertion to soften her cervix + 2 times of membrane sweep. Do note, after induction, you started to feel contraction and it is also very painful when Dr perform the membrane sweep.  This was our first disappointment as this is the first time we heard induce and baby is not coming out.  My wife started to feel real contraction on 2nd day after she discharged from pantai and her water broke on the 3rd day after she discharged. I rushed her to hospital again feeling all excited because this time it was a real labor. The nurses told us we have 12 hours duration for the baby to come out even the water bag rapture.  But we waited for 3 hours then only the doc came to assess my wife. Then she told us we can wait for 24 hours.  Some of the nurses are just not that experienced and the advice they gave u are not consistence. Some of them are nice but not all.

The real nightmare started after we waited for more than 24 hours and yet my wife still not dilated enough (about 9cm).  In between, i did asked the Dr if we can do anything to expedite the dilation process but she said my wife is doing fine (somehow she managed to convince me or she left me with no choice).  We just wait and wait. Finally I couldn't wait any longer and I insist the Dr to come immediately after my wife water bag burst for more than 24 hours. Finally the doc came and checked on my wife, still 9cm and she said need to wait for another 1 - 2 hours. Do note, during that time the baby already exposed to infection since the water already break for more than 24 hours.  Then i asked the doc if we can immediately deliver the baby. She then started to push the cervix open (DAMN PAIN FOR MY WIFE) and i can see even more water rushing out and some of it are blood.  During that time, there weren't any midwive beside the doctor until my wife shouted very loud as she was in pain, then one of the midwife rushed in and immediately she saw the doc started to deliver my baby then she put on the glove and assist the doc. After 1 and half hours my wife using all her strength to push, finally she is tired. Doc used the vacuum to suck my baby's head till the vacuum loosen by itself and my son's skin got peel off. She then started to use forceps but my wife already no more energy to push and doc suggest to go for C-sec.

Our baby boy was born finally but due to he was already exposed to risk of infections for more than 24 hours, he has to be given antibiotic for 3 days and his breathing is not stable and also his lung has water.  He was admitted to NICU for 4 days.

Total damage? >RM20K.

Choose the right doctor, choose the right hospital! The money u paid can earn back, but the life u put ur faith on cannot earn back!  For our case, we have chosen the wrong doctor, the wrong hospital ... We will never go back to that hospital anymore    

Hi we just got a very wonderful findings last Wednesday. Test kit shown 2 lines which indicates that my wife is pregnant.. Happiness were all around us as it will be our new experiance in life. At same time alot of questions jammed up our mind.
Few of it will be baby delivery.
1. Private/Govt
2. If private which hospital
3. When read through this thread more things jamming up my mind.. 😳

Anyway my wife will be in 6th week this week. We planning to go and see the specialist in 7th/8th week. Since we are around Bandar Sunway area, SDMC, SMC, Assuntha, KJMC, KPJ Selangor n Columbia Bkt.Rimau in our mind so far for private options. Looking at Gov, i have Putrajaya n PPUM in mind.
Also from the reading of this thread i found out in private if normal delivery range between RM3k-RM5k, of c-sec between RM7k-RM9k. If normal come to c-sec then not below RM8k for sure.
Still undecided which hospital to go for but Assunta n KJMC in my mind due to my budget+some good reviews i read about that 2 hosp.

Wow, reading your story alone makes my heart skips... Choose the right doctor, choose the right hospital! The money u paid can earn back, but the life u put ur faith on cannot earn back! Well said... hope your wife and baby is fine now.

I can feel your pain and too. I delivered via election c sec at pantai bangsar last yr sept but I quite happy their service. The gynae really not professional, cause you, wife and son in such dangerous situation.

I can totally feel your pain. but my O&G actually told me that once the water broken, longest is bout 12 hours, and if not the baby is expose to infection ....

hi, if around seri kembagan area, which gov/private hospital is recommended?

Mommy and BB is now fine. Just sharing my exp so that those who considering their options now will be aware.
Some nurses really nice but i would said majority of it are just wearing mask and treat u nicely. Some of them only are really nice to you from their heart. I bought some gift for those that i felt is nice since my son was in ICU during that time and i can see them really taking efforts to jaga my son.
That's the thing, what i heard is also 12 hours but the doctors overwrites everything right? She said 24 hours. Then after my son was delivered, he was diagnosed with antibiotic because he was exposed to infections due to water break for more than 24 hours. I really want to shout Wat the F ...

I think there is one near Kajang which is a good one. The one my wife go to is Putrajaya which is also very good

Given new born antibiotic is a bad thing. Might have side effect when they grow up. Is not recommended to give antibiotic until a child is 1 year. That will be the norm

For me its normal delivery without epidural and no vacuum/forceps. Only induced 

My wife recent delivery at SDMC early Dec 2013


Wife Rm5.6k - Dr Fong (vacuum, episiotomy and epidural)
Baby Rm800 - Dr Sofiah
Single Bedded 2D (single) + 1D (labour room)

Pro -

1) Nurse quite helpful in teaching everything from breastfeeding to wrapping the baby...
2) Recommend Breastfeed first priorty
3) Food just so-so

Con -

1) Some night shift nurse and mid-wife is less patient compare to early shift.
Lilyzhaowei, just wonder why your cost much more lower than mine?

Hi Sonerin, i hear Putrajaya need very early (5 months advance) booking for delivery baby. Is it true? Can you feed me more info cos I am considering Putrajaya too. For Putrajaya, where to do monthly checkup? Total delivery cost how much?

It's too late and I was leave with no choice as I do not have any medical knowledge background. What had happened already happened, what I can do now is just pray for the blessing.

But do you mind to share with me what's the side effects that you may know of? 

Your baby immunity will be weaken. So when during grow will easily fall sick. Also if serious case can cause liver problem.