Yea thats like a hungry wolf ...

ahahahha

different thread..?

Wat diffren thread? that type of good until like girl is wolf la... Just wanner farkie farkie... ahha

Oh.. Correct too, wolf in sheep's clothing

sorry spunky, I know you are better kind

I only want nice guys, jerks got no chance at all, and I can spot one from far far away... Thanks to my rather 'colourful' dating experience.

I only date nice guys because:

1. I'm a self-respecting woman, no way would I allow a jerk to mistreat or abuse me. I would never tolerate a guy who puts his friends above me, treats me only as sex toy, thinks it's okay to fool around, does not appreciate my views or opinions, or thinks that a woman's role is just to make sammich and spread.

2. I've seen enough of broken families. Most of the time, the woman married a jerk, probably for his money. (Thus why I'm so damn against woman marrying for money and I think women must be able to earn her own) These real 'losers' are more likely to bring problems to the family such as alcoholic, gambling addiction, loan sharks, mistresses, or worse, children from 'accidents'.

3. Jerks are the most emo guys around. They just cannot control their emotions and often burst at minor things. They sometimes need a woman to 'handle' his emotions. They can be even more b****y than an average female.

4. The drama and trouble which comes with dating jerks... just not worth it. I want to be in a loving relationship which we adore each other, not one whereby he causes so much problem I always have to call my girlfriends to complain over ice cream tubs at sleepovers.

5. As per article, SELF-PROCLAIMED 'nice guys' are losers. Doormats, we don't need another. Losers aren't man enough to protect us, we're not confident in them.

6. REAL nice guys don't whine, they're happy to know that they can make their partners happy, and they did not have to lose their own self-respect to please a woman. While making her happy, he knows how to hold his own worth at the same time. That's the kinda man I date.

Do you understand the meaning of the term "middle ground"?

This article is not saying that nice guys have to turn into jerks. This article is telling guys to find a middle ground. Be nice to girls, but have a limit to the amount of shit you'll take from her. Know when you're being taken advantage of. Have some pride in yourself.

What this article is saying is that most so-called "nice guys" are not really nice at all, they're stupid and lame. And if they decide in the end to turn into jerks, then they're just being even more stupid and lame.

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Added on October 18, 2010, 7:19 pmWhy is that so difficult?

There will always be nasty people who will take advantage of you, girls and guys. You can't expect the world to mould itself to your liking. You can only learn how to judge character, avoid the bad people and choose the good people.

Again, this is not difficult. Most people learn this. If you can't, you might as well live alone on a mountaintop.




This post has been edited by n00b13: Oct 18 2010, 07:19 PM

+1, I like.
so do I look for such women, not girl.

lol you forget that she's a princess too, but she's a princess with a good head on her shoulders

Basically guys in relationships should just man up.

tell that to the majority of CC

Beats me spunky, but should we invite evangelistica to read this up? I think he needs to burn the note down(i dunno how it can be done online, but still, do or die) and swallow it up into his brain. =)

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Added on October 19, 2010, 12:34 amVery rare to get....either their dead silent, or they are overshadowed by the losers as you described. Well, Im from a broken family myself, but its always up to individual to see their environment they grow up in and make the best out of it instead of putting hatred and becoming another moron. But....ure a princess.....they're scary...seriously.=P

This post has been edited by [F]atalit[Y]: Oct 19 2010, 12:34 AM

I just wonder if princess ever step out of comfy zone...

definitely beats him going around spreading his noob negativity

Funny thing is the nice guys who think they are nice and end up whining and b!tching aren't really nice guys. If you're a nice guy u react nice all the time, you don't suddenly turn into an idiot after being screwed once or twice over.

The title is wrong the assumption that they are nice guys is also self deceiving and wrong. They are just a bunch of naive guys that tried to be nice but failed and went all emo.

Well I'm just saying females also play a part in imposing such mindset on guys. Some of the girls here in this forum or perhaps the public also encourages guys to be doormats and the tell them that that's the way to get a girl or maintain a girl.

This post has been edited by Drian: Oct 19 2010, 09:31 AM

I've seen that happen, and I think those girls have no brains anyway. They tell them to be that, and then complain that their guys are like that. HELLO?

That's my GF quality +6

Then it's up to you to avoid them and choose better girls.

This is WIN. if all women thought like that we would have :-

- Less marital problems
- divorce rates below 10%
- Less problematic kids
- Less Crime