Good article. Though I think you should rename it as 'insecure guys'. Don't make 'nice guys' sound so bad lah... Real 'nice guys' aren't insecure about who they are, they're confident that they can make a girl happy, AND achieve success in the relationship.

The example above sounds more like a typical loser, doesn't rhyme with me as a 'nice guy'.

I only want nice guys, jerks got no chance at all, and I can spot one from far far away... Thanks to my rather 'colourful' dating experience.

I only date nice guys because:

1. I'm a self-respecting woman, no way would I allow a jerk to mistreat or abuse me. I would never tolerate a guy who puts his friends above me, treats me only as sex toy, thinks it's okay to fool around, does not appreciate my views or opinions, or thinks that a woman's role is just to make sammich and spread.

2. I've seen enough of broken families. Most of the time, the woman married a jerk, probably for his money. (Thus why I'm so damn against woman marrying for money and I think women must be able to earn her own) These real 'losers' are more likely to bring problems to the family such as alcoholic, gambling addiction, loan sharks, mistresses, or worse, children from 'accidents'.

3. Jerks are the most emo guys around. They just cannot control their emotions and often burst at minor things. They sometimes need a woman to 'handle' his emotions. They can be even more b****y than an average female.

4. The drama and trouble which comes with dating jerks... just not worth it. I want to be in a loving relationship which we adore each other, not one whereby he causes so much problem I always have to call my girlfriends to complain over ice cream tubs at sleepovers.

5. As per article, SELF-PROCLAIMED 'nice guys' are losers. Doormats, we don't need another. Losers aren't man enough to protect us, we're not confident in them.

6. REAL nice guys don't whine, they're happy to know that they can make their partners happy, and they did not have to lose their own self-respect to please a woman. While making her happy, he knows how to hold his own worth at the same time. That's the kinda man I date.