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 Enough Whining Already., THIS is why you fail.

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post Oct 18 2010, 07:13 PM

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QUOTE(crisboy @ Oct 18 2010, 12:41 PM)
arrrrkkkkk pui!!

Think and see nice guys better or Jerk better? THINK la girls.. Use your brain...

You want PAIN or you want to be like Queen?? XD

Nice guys = Treat you like queen give everything you want and love you the most.. When danger comes he protect you even he is small and useless ATLEAST HE PROTECTED YOU!!!

Jerk = Treat you like slave .. maybe will hit you beat you, even worst sell you off!! Ask you for money, no money beat you up. IF GOT DANGER COMES "Wohooo I RUN FIRST!!!" you die your problem..
Do you understand the meaning of the term "middle ground"?

This article is not saying that nice guys have to turn into jerks. This article is telling guys to find a middle ground. Be nice to girls, but have a limit to the amount of shit you'll take from her. Know when you're being taken advantage of. Have some pride in yourself.

What this article is saying is that most so-called "nice guys" are not really nice at all, they're stupid and lame. And if they decide in the end to turn into jerks, then they're just being even more stupid and lame.

Added on October 18, 2010, 7:19 pm
QUOTE(liez @ Oct 18 2010, 10:05 AM)
instead of saying nice guys are attention seekers without self-esteem, why don't you say girls are picky? why is the guy always be the one to know everything, when to give, what to give and how much to give?
Why is that so difficult?

There will always be nasty people who will take advantage of you, girls and guys. You can't expect the world to mould itself to your liking. You can only learn how to judge character, avoid the bad people and choose the good people.

Again, this is not difficult. Most people learn this. If you can't, you might as well live alone on a mountaintop.




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post Oct 19 2010, 11:58 AM

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QUOTE(Drian @ Oct 19 2010, 09:30 AM)
Well I'm just saying females also play a part in imposing such mindset on guys. Some of the girls here in this forum or perhaps the public also encourages guys to be doormats and the tell them that that's the way to get a girl or maintain a girl.
Then it's up to you to avoid them and choose better girls.
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post Oct 19 2010, 09:58 PM

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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Oct 19 2010, 09:33 PM)
thing is, you guys always say you want girls like that, and when you actually do meet one, she's too "aggressive" for you because you want a submissive woman that doesn't give you shit.

Sorry, either aggressive and independent, or submissive and clingy. Pick one.
False dichotomy. I choose independent yet loving. thumbup.gif


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post Oct 19 2010, 11:37 PM

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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Oct 19 2010, 11:20 PM)
both are capable of loving - I never said they weren't capable of loving Now pick one: indepedent and aggressive, or submissive and clingy.
False dichotomy. I like independent but I don't like aggressive. A person doesn't have to be both.
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post Nov 5 2010, 02:31 AM

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In short:

"Bad boy" = guy who got the girl.
"Nice guy" = guy who didn't get the girl and blames everyone else for it. laugh.gif


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post Nov 15 2010, 01:52 PM

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QUOTE(Selectt @ Nov 15 2010, 01:06 AM)
yes, it explains the part where some guys are "too nice" and insecure. This only covers 50% of the whole situation. There is another 50% left where the article did not explain why most girls are b!tches to begin with.
You can't control how other people treat you. You can only control how you expect to be treated, and what kind of treatment you'll put up with. There's no point writing an article about your "other 50%", because it'll just be an article full of whining.
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post Nov 16 2010, 02:01 AM

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QUOTE(Selectt @ Nov 15 2010, 07:36 PM)
not really. whats the purpose of putting up this article if you are not helping? whine about whiners? lol
<sigh> This article helps by telling guys to stop being doormats. Which is something you can control. Girls who are b1tches is not something you can control, so whining about them would be, well, whining. Unna stan?
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