Now i get you TS, the drug is to make him stay awake while play online game for 24hrs a day.^^ By the way, what online game is that??

If you don't want to make thing worst. Just go back to your mother house and stay there. Let him root in his father house or what ever..give him a time frame like a year from now to change.

Then only decide..

There are also non-drug addicts who abuse their wives and kill their mums.

This post has been edited by teongpeng: Nov 7 2009, 08:46 PM

i think your hubby is immature and has no sense of responsibility. he's already reached the age of 31 yrs and yet he's still hooked on drugs, playing online games 24/7.

what have your in-laws done to help? as you said your family is complicated, maybe you should consider talking to your in-laws about this. they definitely will not want their grandchild to grow up in such an environment.

like noob13 said, your only option is to get professional help because (and i'm not trying to rub salt into your wounds) from your responses, it's quite clear that you yourself are not even matured enough to deal with such a situation yet. and soft approach is definitely not going to help at this point. your husband needs some sense knocked into his thick skull cause i don't think he'll listen to any advice right now since he's so hooked on them drugs.

may i know if you're working? who's supporting your lifestyle currently? are you planning to depend on your in-laws since you say they're wealthy?

damn ts desperate

TS, I suggest you close this thread. As I mentioned before, no one here can give you the advice you need. Contact the Befrienders, get professional help. And good luck.

Sorry to hear that. Sometimes love can be too blind. But hey, you love your child too don't you? For the sake of the kid and yourself, kicking the habit of drug and get a job is a must. How bad things can go if it carry on, I'm sure you can imagine by listening to so many examples out there. Seeking advise from doc's or pro's is needed as mentioned by others already. Same time, what you need is plan ahead yourself. Eg, if your husband manage to change, it's great. But if not, by all means you need to plan on staying place, people who can take care of the kid while you work, etc. So at least, however it ends there's still a road out for you and the kid. As for the choices, it's really up to yourself TS. Can't give advise on such a thing that might change a persons life. Wish you luck.

it is nearly impossible to ask a drug addic to stop takin drug. there's once my
neighbour addicted to drugs and his mom bring him to temple, yes temple
where u pray, few month later, he has completely change into a different
person, stop takin drugs too.. brainwash? maybe

drug addict memang macam ini....

u shud hook up with this guy

http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/1183460

First off, never trust a drug addict.

Secondly, do you have such low esteem, that you cant even find a better guy ? This is the best you can do ?

Get a bum ass husband who takes drugs and doesnt work ?

Seriously ? SERIOUSLY ?

Leave the moron and get on with life. Your daughter is better off without knowing a dad like that.

Already have a baby girl but still doesnt know how to grow the f*** up.

Leave that piece of shit before he does something stupid while he is "high" and possibly kills his own daughter .

Oh boy... get over it. just divorce him. Do u think drug addict can be cure? Well, maybe but compare to people who go back to the some old habit is really high. Don't be like a 80's women where they love their husband so much that they rather being beat and kick by their husband. Go get yourself a lawyer. Divorce him and start a new life. You love him so much? Ko pikir cinta tu bole bagi ko makan ke? Bole bagi ko duit? C'mon. Don't be so stupid. Thousand of men out there that are waiting for you. Think about your baby. Someday, he maybe borrow money from Ah long and think what's gonna happen next. 24 years old. I think u can think wisely. If you still hope that he will change, then you will be in hell for a few years. Im sorry if my comment is too harsh but i cant stand for a stupid person like you. I saw my aunties involve in the same situation too. I just dont get it. If your men is a drug addict, it is time to take to the next level ; divorce. Im sure he will beg you to not to divorce him but get that shit out of your life. Please use your brain. LOVE LOVE LOVE? as i said. can love give u money?

kelly... to tell u the truth.. u shud discusst wit him n maybe his parent... to bring him to a place that to stop drug(agensi anitidadah) coz oni it cause of those drug n borrow munny from other's/....

I believe non of you speak from experience nor qualification

Including you don't you?

he's been thru that thats why he can speak out loud.

thank's 4 all advise.. i'll call up Befrienders today... even his parents oso scat of him cos he use parang chase his dad his dad curang... so they oso no idea...

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Added on November 9, 2009, 4:37 ambtw he's playing RAN online.. >.<

This post has been edited by kellyan: Nov 9 2009, 04:37 AM

Well, he's 31, no job, play online game...

you can introduce him to me to talk i may be able to help?

got experience dealing drug addict

amy winehouse 2007 hit.

your BF chases his dad with a parang, imagine what he will do when he is really chung out of his head.

u need to do some disappearing act.

go out of town, rent a place to stay. Even find new job there.
Call police to catch him. When he's out, you better pack and go.
Change fone number too. Same goes to your parents.

All hamplang chao lou. Make sure he dont find you, else will be hamkachan.

Wow. your dispute tag is sexy

for the baby's sake...
better divorce lor if he dont change