Go for rehab =)

rehabilition centre is = pusat pemulihan ahlak .its very hard 2 erase that habits,as drugs always give u power and energized ur day .this is what ppl say la.

Sigh sadness, why did you marry him? Unless he's addicted to drugs only after marriage. Now that you've got the baby, it becomes even harder to leave.

Soft approach is not gonna work. I doubt he'll change. And if you're to divorce, I wonder what are your chances to re-marry, unless you're super rich, which I doubt cuz he wouldn't need to borrow money from friends.

I would suggest you use the hard approach. Report him to police and force him into rehab. At least he knows you will take action and hope with this bad experience he will change. Hopefully after a few years of sacrifice, he will change and give a better future for the baby.

If you don't do that, then I would say the next best step is to divorce him. Chances are, you might be a single mum for life, but it would be better than staying on with him. Addicted to drug will lead on to greater problems such as robbing, stealing, gambling, ah-long, wife-beating, violence, and perhaps even... suicide. Do you really want all that? And worst of all, do you really want your kid to grow up in a screwed-up environment? So I suggest you leave him. I know love will make you think 'oh it's okay to stay on', but guess what, it's NOT OK! You can survive without him.

Drug addict husband will be of bad influence to your child.

Child abuse may happen too.

Please think.

Kellyan, does your husband know he has a problem? you can only help a person if he admits he has a problem.

Think of the future.

Do you want your child to live in conducive environment?

Report to police.

And in the mean time, get your brain checked.

if u continue to support him, u are ruining his life.

either report him, or send him to drug rehanitation centre, threathen to divorce him might help.
other wise, better divorce him than to suffer further, moreover, pls make sure u take precautions as not to be infected by him.

For your child's sake you should consider divorce. Simply because the bad nature of the father is not healthy for the child's upbringing. Remember that the decisions you make affect both your child and yourself. How would you feel if you had to go to school and teacher asked "What does your father do?". I'd gladly accept that I have no father as opposed to one who is a druggie.

good god i hope this is fake....
no one can be stupid enough to stay with a jobless junkie especially with a baby, HAVE YOU NOT WATCHED TRAINSPOTTING!!! ><"

first of all you dont ask advise from this forum unless you are a dumb a$$ f**k.
second paste on his forehead - " I m a druggie " then paste on your forehead " I m a stupid biatch "

How healthy is it for your son, when the family have some form of abuses?

How long have you known him before marriage?

cis now i know its fake... online gaming love... pishtosh!!!

Want to rehabilitate him? Teach you how. Beat him with a spoon everytime he takes drugs. Again and again and again and again and again..



Video related.

The world are virtual now !You know someone from Online Games and married with him ? ridiculous ! Just run to another country and don't let him know !Survive yourself if you're strong !!

lol, he uses a knife pointing at you and you still love him? You must be nuts.

1. Get a new hobby especially play sport (to reduce the focus on drugs)

2. Travel to oversea except to Amsterdam (the best way to open his mind)

TS, stop wasting time on LYN. Your problem is too serious for anyone here to help you with.

Go to these people. At the very least, they can point you in the right direction.

I tell you drug addict are no difference with armed criminals. Your life now is not safe. He can anytime threathen you for money to buy drugs.

And now you already have a child.

When did you know about him being a drug addict? Being marriage or what? If you already knew he was one, but still marry to him, you are the one looking for trouble and now you should clear the mess by yourself.

How old is he? Most probably his mental is haven’t mature yet.

consult u [private clinic doc...now they got medicine to make ppl not addicted to drug

Doesn't sound like reasoning is going to work. You need to jolt your relationship and reset it. Tell him how what he's doing is destroying your marriage. He's a bum, plain and simple. If he isn't going to change, then leave him. Go back to your parents for some time. If you and your marriage mean enough to him, he'll change and if not, you never meant that much to him anyway. He has to know what it feels like to lose You. Strong u must be to do this.