LOL~~
Poison him with the drugs he seemed to love and report 2 police let him rot in prison/rehab where he belongs..
Y wanna salvage a broken material/save a sinking ship..
All u can do is die with the ship lol..
Advice : LEAVE~~

i think the chicks to blame here... she knew he was a junkie, she knew what she was getting into, probably f***ed him on the first or second date judging by the timeline of events, the guys under the influence, but whats her excuse for being so stupid and careless....

its cos of people like this that abortion should not be abolished....

i say report the guy into rehab and give the baby to the in laws.

online gamers wil believe wat is said from game 2 real life...

1. Get a new hobby especially play sport (to reduce the focus on drugs)

2. Travel to oversea except to Amsterdam (the best way to open his mind)

he use knife point me den e other day he pujuk me back...

You ought know what to do ?If he continuously being like this ,you'll suffer ,not him .

his hobby is play online game.. how 2 change him? u got enuf cash 2 go travel he rather use at money 2 buy drugs le...

TS, stop wasting time on LYN. Your problem is too serious for anyone here to help you with.

Go to these people. At the very least, they can point you in the right direction.

I tell you drug addict are no difference with armed criminals. Your life now is not safe. He can anytime threathen you for money to buy drugs.

And now you already have a child.

When did you know about him being a drug addict? Being marriage or what? If you already knew he was one, but still marry to him, you are the one looking for trouble and now you should clear the mess by yourself.

thanks 4 advise..

How old is he? Most probably his mental is haven’t mature yet.

Call them. Now.

I guarantee you that no one here - not even myself - is qualified to help you with your problem. Stop reading their replies. Get proper help.

after i married wit him oni i know he addict 2 drug so deep b4 tis he say he just take 5 jai.. when he stay wit me he suddenly take a packet of ice come my home.. i terkejut dunno wat 2 say.. marry him cos i feel he's da 1 n he care bout me but after tat .........

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Added on November 7, 2009, 2:53 pmlol he's 31yrs tis yr...

This post has been edited by kellyan: Nov 7 2009, 02:53 PM

31 years old.

Sometimes, letting go of someone you love, is a form to love him, too.

thru up and down thru good and bad times or whatever marriage vows ppl make when they tie the knot....THIS IS THE TIME TO APPLY IT.

Screw ppl here who suggest she leaves her husband without first seeking professional advice.

Kellyan...your husband is at aweak point of his life right now....Its up to you now to save the marriage...get help!!

I knew many drug addicts who are already settle down when they reach the age of 27. Only few are still haven’t and those normally got internal problem which is really abnormal and need to seek for professional help.

Or must be your husband is just a newbie on drugs. Just started few months ago or years. Still syok syok want to try this thing and that thing. Curious is the best word.

This post has been edited by POYOZER: Nov 7 2009, 03:16 PM

Letting go doesn't mean divorce him.

Letting go mean leave him for awhile, with the baby. Guide him to change and persuade him to change. Give both a promise.

All i can say is having no father is better than having a lousy father. If u think about ur child, you cant put ur love for ur husband in front. Its the love for ur child. Every mum will do so. You will feel sakit hati if u report him to police, but if u dont, the pain in the future will be more. End up u will need to report to the police as well. If its so, y not report now rather than latter? You wanted to give him a chance to change, but isnt it obvious that he wont change after all ur effort? Do u wan to live beside a timebomb that may explode anytime? In this situation, let logic take over, not feelingS.

you can guide him while still being by his side. All you haters just know how to punish ppl and talk is cheap coz u've never been a victim.

Sometimes we need to be cruel for our own good especially to the baby and the future of the family.