Kellyan, does your husband know he has a problem? you can only help a person if he admits he has a problem.
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thru up and down thru good and bad times or whatever marriage vows ppl make when they tie the knot....THIS IS THE TIME TO APPLY IT.
Screw ppl here who suggest she leaves her husband without first seeking professional advice. Kellyan...your husband is at aweak point of his life right now....Its up to you now to save the marriage...get help!! |
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QUOTE(debbieyss @ Nov 7 2009, 03:15 PM) Letting go doesn't mean divorce him. you can guide him while still being by his side. All you haters just know how to punish ppl and talk is cheap coz u've never been a victim.Letting go mean leave him for awhile, with the baby. Guide him to change and persuade him to change. Give both a promise.  |
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QUOTE(debbieyss @ Nov 7 2009, 03:20 PM) From her hubby's situation, apparently soft approach doesn't work. To guide someone, to influence somone, has to be innovative and find a better way that works on the victim's personality. soft approach doesnt work?? soft approach? what the hell? TRY some professional approach....get counselling. Has She tried that? No? then what soft approach?Wasting time in plan A for many years doesn't work, it will only ruin his years to come, so does to herself and the baby. I dont think you understand the meaning of marriage vows if your suggestion is for her to leave him. |
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QUOTE(eyhc89 @ Nov 7 2009, 08:27 PM) I have met a drug addict that abuses his wife. There are also non-drug addicts who abuse their wives and kill their mums.I know another drug addict that killed his own mum. I am not trying to scare you here, but in order to protect yourself and the baby, stay with your parents for now. This post has been edited by teongpeng: Nov 7 2009, 08:46 PM |
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I believe non of you speak from experience nor qualification
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