fyi i had a fvcking so called father, but i never ever treated him as one.
it was my mum who doesnt want to let go, with the same excuse as urs. although I prefer her to ditch that fella off.

Throw him into rehab.

Set a date.. tell him if he does not stop by that date then let him go.

Hai,

If u still love him, why asking ppl advise? If u dun want sent him to rehab, will u think he will be changing?

It all depend how u want to brought up ur child as every women have a very forgive heart but when it was enough, it mean enough.

If u thinking being a single parent will make d child get ignorant, what will u think when d child know or his future fren know about ur drug addict hubby? Does it look heathly to u?

If u wish to listen on all our advise at Lowyat then act now but if u wish to remain. Kindly close this thread as it was useless to give a advise to people that cannot act.

Thanks in advance.

It better to act fast, if u keep on delay, maybe one day he (Hubby) will harm u and the baby. If he dare to take a parang to u n his father, it will harm u if he lost his mind.

thanks all.. i dy call up 4 da prof .... already arrange appointment wit them... really tQ 4 washing my brain...

Remember to tell us if your situation is getting better

Your baby is really adorable, hopefully your hubby will change and you'll have a happy family again

Feel so sorry for ur situations ....and u need to keep strong ,u need to knw the drug addict character ,some time they are violent ,dangerous ,and useless .

I meet this girl a friend introduce to me she is just 21 year's old ,which addicted to drug too ,her family dont want her anymore ,she have no place to stay ,no food ,no money ,some time ,she call me to buy for her some food ,and give her some money ,i have advice her not to join all this ,lucky my friend parent let her stay in his house ,so pity her .

think about ur future and ur baby future ,just ignore that dum idiot ,which i believe it will get worst and worst if u dont react now ,moreover ur just 24 there plenty of guy out there which is still single and hot .I just hope for the best in ur life .

totally agree !!!!!

intro her to us?

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Added on November 11, 2009, 11:29 amcome n let me save u baby

This post has been edited by kienu: Nov 11 2009, 11:29 AM

Actually you just ask him 1 question,do you still love me? ( I mean you ) , If he weirdly say yes that mean he is LIE!
If he say lower sound yes... ALSO LIE!

If he don care you that mean in his heart no more you...

about Drug Problem..i think you should bring him to rehab & try to give him eat carrot /spinach to make him calm down..but if he cant control the drug habit..then you only can bring him to rehab or police station that is the choice from yourself.

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Added on November 11, 2009, 11:45 amkelly that is 1 more thing..please bring your child and you go to hospital checkup..that is very important..because your husband drug fan..scare will got problem on child at first..so I recomment you for full body checkup with your child.

This post has been edited by merge88: Nov 11 2009, 11:45 AM

just leave him.........

Give timeline if still same, no need to think js leave~ for you and your baby. leave this fellow away

pls do pm me... i know there is a Rehab center at Broga, Semenyih... take him there.... he has to change so that you all will have a better future...