Me and 2 of my friends are now 24 and we still don't have / never had a gf before. Do you guys/girls think this could be a problem or do we still have lots of chances in the future? According to some people, girls nowadays are starting relationships early, around during school days 16-18 age and by the time we, 24 -25 age meet them in their 21-24, they're already taken and are in a stable relationship. Do you guys/girls think this is true?

Some girls commented that the 3 of us are a group of too 'husband-looking' guys and girls at 20s do not like to go out with us because we don't like parties/clubbing that much. We are those honest types of guys where, in the outside might look boring (because we dress normal and not very attractive) and girls say that we might get our love only around 30s because that's when girls finally find guys with our character to secure a future. What do you girls/guys think on this issue?

Do give me some feedback on this.

you are actually right, so get out from that boring life and enjoy, you've got only one life, its your choice, go F around some girls, let me tell you, i am only 20 and i have screwed more than 7 chicks... what about you?? think about it...

go clubbing more

But we don't like clubbing at all. I don't know if what I heard is true but according to a lot of girls, they say that they like playful guys more in their 20s and that's why we're still eating 'white-fruit'. However my main concern is, is it too late for guys at 24 to begin having first loves and all or we don't even get chances because girls at these times should already being taken?

life only once... effort for it

wah...................

whats wrong taken girls?

are there not up for grabs anymore?

let me tell you.. some attached girls are actually just waiting for mr right or their dream prince charming( better guys ) to rescue them

From what experiences we got, all attached girls stay stable to their current bf no matter how not right they are. One of my friends that I mentioned, got too close to a girl and when he showed intention of furthering, the girl immediately told her bf about it and the bf came and told him off. How sad he was, looking at how both of them are suitable with each other. This makes me think that getting girls nowadays is a game of first come first served.

yalor....1st come get 1st ....so now day need to booked fast fast ,expectualy the pretty girlsss

And I seriously doubt a taken/attached girl will wait for a Mr Right. I myself tried to see see if some of my female friends that are taken is interested in me or not, and the result was, eventhough their bf might not be the right one, they are satisfied from whom they chose and might not choose again in a short period.

if you really wanna score...go hit the clubs, and don't say no just because you don't like it...

if you really wanna look for a proper suit...well...i can't tell you how...but it's usually with those people whom are already in your circle of friends (or at least, some people whom you are able to have communication with)

This post has been edited by LostWanderer: Oct 4 2009, 09:01 PM

Damn,after reading this thread,i beginning to worry about myself.

STDs

hey dude... m 30 n yet no gf.. cheer up dude.. don't feel sad.. u can pay to get girls.. )

nop .. it's not true. Certain percentage may be only. For me myself, i'm owned but i'm still waiting for the Mr. Right to come for the rescue.

Yeah, according to some surveys I read of Malaysian/Singaporean girls and guys and they are hitting on me and my friends hard.

One survey said that girls today are normally taken by age 18 so school is the only probable place a guy can score first love. - We're out already long time

Another said that girls often choose playful guys during their early 20s and when they are done playing, they might find homey guys for future plans. - This is so hurting me

One more said that it is impossible to hit on attached girls because girls are normally true to their relationships. They will never betray their partner even if the partner is not their Mr. Right. They will wait for their other halves to change and they shape them to what they deem fit them at that point of time. - So saddening, since I always had crush on attached girls.

And the above are so true looking at current conditions now, and I am feeling worried because most people asked me, "What? You're looking for first love now? You must be joking, you should had a couple in school days already".

I have some male friends (aged 30s) haven't had a relationship, too.

how old r u,Cheesenium???

mid 20's?

Ok,so,you mean non-clubbing,more carrier focused,non playboy guys have absolutely no chance to get attached now?

What happen to the be yourself bit? Or everyone just has to be a guy who goes to club to get drunk and shit to get attached?

ok dude. I'm gonna tell u what you need to do first and foremost. You seem to have very good hing tai but really you guys are what is holding yourselves back. You need to branch out and meet girls yourselves. Quit hanging out with each other every other day and go out and meet ppl on your own.

Sure you guys can meet up like once a week to hit the gym (Pls do this together and motivate each other to keep going to the gym) but having that safety net (ie your friends) is what is keeping you from taking the leap of faith and pursuing girls. I know this because when I was in secondary I had a very good bunch of hing tais. We were like brothers and because we always had each other we never courted girls. When I went off to college and they stayed and did form 6, I got my first gf.