I dont know what happened.. I can easily fall in love with chinese girl.. even Im not chinese

I have found many people and I ask them abt this... some of them said this is good and some of them said this is not good..

btw, what is your opinion?

Do you have GF?

yah...first thing first..u already hv GF meh??

(^___^)

i m chinese , but some malay gals are damn attractive to me

no, Im single ..and Im a student

The chances are, well... the answer she gave might disappointed you. No offense.

U r unlucky unless the Chinese Gal also like Malay boy...... hehehe

Only the chinese gal that willing turn into Malay suitable to become ur wife....

This is tough like a rock

if the girl is not a racist, you have chance to own her heart

Most of chinese parent wont approved this marriage unless Malaysia change the Law

if you want her, just go for it. make it happen bro. u only live once. live life to the fullest

This post has been edited by izaman: May 29 2009, 11:29 PM

it doesn't matter, love is colourblind

Is there Chinese Gal that dont like Malay boy? Why they dont like Malay boy?

So if I love her, can I become a Chinese..?

and what do you mean "turn into Malay"?

I thought you can't convert yourself to Chinese? If you do, now, the chances are, you get the higher chance (:

aww so sweet. lol. confrontation. I've always accepted the idea of inter-racial relationship. I dont know it would be a bad thing if its just two persons into each other. maybe just in view of different religions. but if you put that aside for a while, its just being in a relationship.

In Malaysia, Malay is the powerful.. who ever marry malay need to convert into ISLAM

And when their death, the body all belong to ISLAM and must follow the funeral of ISLAM.....

And all the property belong to and control by one ISLAM body

u got moneh or not?

yeah... I have money and a company

what do you mean by that? Chinese girl only love rich guy?

how about if I throw all my money.. is she not love me anymore?

Ask Malaysia goverment,

you mean.. the lifestyle?

you sound very chinese actually

If not the girl...

Parent can be a very big obstacle

lol obvious troll.
Dont feed it.

maybe because you are chinese... so you know it sound very chinese

btw, are you chinese?

what matters is your level not your race

yeah.. thats good opinion..

your profile picture look like chinese girl.. thats cuute

Mostly parents do not like their children convert into Islam { no offence }

why they dont like it?

One of the reason, if i am not mistaken, is name change

She is belong to our Moderator Baronic..... She cut or not, also not ur turn... wait till future see the fate lor

Well , according to the Malaysia law. When a chinese married to a Malay . They have to change their religions , name , culture and lost almost everything.

Japanese

example : Lim Pei Pei convert to Limpe Binti { dad's name } etc LOL
jkjk

For the matter of facts

1) NAme change
2) Convert to Islam
3) Parents objection coz of interracial relationship

i oso like chinese girl they really kind n they not sombong but when i talk malay girl jual mahal

no la.. chinese gal damn jual mahal -,-.. but when this situation occur on me , i jual x2 more mahal than them WAKAKAK

what? the name change? for me, chinese name is so cool.. why they need change?

if I married with a Chinese girl, i don't want her name changed

the law?

In reality, it is like this

Let's say....

Lin Xiao Yen

If she converted......

Her name is....

Example : Aminah Lin Abdullah

Again, an example

this TS have same situation like me . im malay and also love chinese girls . but got chinese girls also like me , and when i or she see each other , we will flutter and smile each other but i dunno to flirts girls im a shy guy

This post has been edited by Lov3Tikos: May 30 2009, 12:18 AM

IF the chinese gal is ENGLISH Educated then u will have bigger chance

yes... i love them too.. usually when i move to other class, the first person talk to me is chinese girl..

they are very kind and funny

level..??? u mean by social status...well anyone attracted and tempted to high social status level..its living a fairy tale i guess...

anyway...to TS...if u really love..not just a feeling of liking the girl..by all mean...go ahead..no one cann stop you..but hey..u still student..school or university i donno...u still have lot to learn..anyway..its ur call..we all can advice..talk anything we want about ur situation..but the decision is in ur hand...

there is no right or wrong in dating...or fall in love with Chinese girl..or other races...it just..how far and how well can you handle the "relationship"..??coz you know...when u in inter-racial relationship...or even..inter-racial-religion relationship...(u see how many troube u going to cross into)....u already got different in term of the culture value and believe....so unless you and ur partner...can come to an agreement on this issues...i don't think it would be any problem to bring the relationship to another level...

talk only less action also no point...so you like this girl by looking from far...or made ur first move already and decide to ask question here..??

not all chinese girls are kind.. some of them are more evil than u think

This is very true

Chinese girls from SK + SMK, normally more open minded to such relationnship

However, like any relationship related to different religion, parent's mindset, can be an issue

it's depends on what u believe in...if u believe that u can end up to be a inter-racial parents...than go for it....there r some Muslim Chinese around my place that not fully changed their name...maybe just need to add a Malay name in the beginning,middle or end of urs/theirs following with bin/binti Abdullah..that's what they tell me...cheers!!!

physical attraction lulz

Is it possible for someone, not to change his/her name at all?

In that sense, i mean, the name, is exactly the same like before...

i always have believed that love conquers all... however when it comes to religion, especially islam, islam will conquer all.... at least for malaysia...

since ure already islam, its no prob for u. just need to see the girl's stance.

normally girls seem to be more open to it (i may be wrong)

not just physical attraction.. but everything..
i feel comfort when talk with chinese girl... i love to see her face... i love her joke..

just abt everything

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Added on May 30, 2009, 12:41 ameven evil, i still love it...

if i see evil, i will try to change it..

This post has been edited by bigbangtheory: May 30 2009, 12:41 AM

if u convert to other religion mayb u will get a SUPER GREAT chance HAHAHA

so you would prefer to have a chinese gf over others ?

yeah... thats good ..

many chinese girl is cute as button

chinese girl is created to be loved

i love malay guy. rich malay guy.

Think twice as its gonna be tough at the end....

This post has been edited by ailleen_82: May 30 2009, 01:48 AM

Converting is very very tough

Not just name

But leaving lifestyle, then your generation will halted at that moment..........turned to a new page...

are you willing to convert yourself out of islam?

how far will you go for her?
are you willing to follow chinese customs when you are at your in-law's house?

i've personally met a muslim man abandoned his own religion for a chinese lady. anyway, its her you are gonna spend the rest of your remaining life with. not your grandpa grandma.

if you are willing to follow chinese customs when you are at your in-law's place, you have a better chance of not getting her parents to object the relationship

esp the pressure from the thier family ( Gurl's side )...just like what my sis is facing rite now

Ah, i see

What is your opinion then?

Frankly, i liked one girl, but at the end, i opted not to have relationship, because i think, it will be very hard for me...

what are you talking about

your wow level la

coz all race got their own speciality orc,elf,human it depends on your level

As for me…I will try to avoid this kind of situation as I really really love my parents a lot …Although yes you might think parents are just out dated or not open minded but still we as a child shouldn’t break their heart in that way. So, if you are still at the early stage, please let go if you can. But if u just cant (I know love is blind) Then try to compromise in term of culture and everything between the two families. I am not saying islam is bad. All religions are good but please try to respect each other culture and religion as well ( Normally guys side ). Such as go to oversea to avoid the changes on the name, lifestyle and so on……n etc
Lazy to type: P

fetish.. me have fetish for malays/japs/thais, its normal la..

r u that clueless?

its not that they ( ie the chinese ppl ) dont like it. there are very valid reasons for such sentiments. its not for fun that some ppl cannot accept it...

its not as simple as just changin your name and adding a abdullah behind. there much more to it...

to explain would take a lot of time

Ah, from my history, there was a girl (Malay) who liked me and i liked her....but i guess, too much for me...

People may say love is only about 2 persons....unfortunately, in my opinion, two families will always involve in that matter

when u mean u can fall easily in love with a chinese girl , what is it u love about her?

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Added on May 30, 2009, 1:50 ami second u

This post has been edited by StAnon: May 30 2009, 01:50 AM

whats not to like

the milky white skin
the sexy slant eye
the flat airport

don think it will work =.=
if i am a girl .
just my 2 cent

wow . urs is true love indeed.. ! congrats .. gg

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Added on May 30, 2009, 1:59 ami think u need a friend first.

friendly does Not mean love. =) just to clarify.


This post has been edited by StAnon: May 30 2009, 01:59 AM

TS sounds like a troll.

haha if u marry chinese / indian/ orang putih /etc etc

its not ur choice that u dont want her name changed.

its not ur choice bro.

its never your choice.

There is no rule saying you must change your name when you convert into Islam. And no one can force you to. Most people change their name after converting to have a more Muslim name. Thats all. It has become sort of a tradition. Not a rule.

im malay!
my wife chinese!
married for 12yrs!
2 kids!
understanding eliminate differences !
im happy with my life

just an example !~

ps

hmm...
There are a lot of challenges... especially when the time you gonna marry the girl. In my situation, my cousin married to non-muslim girl(mix chinese-dayak)... and the girl's family side strongly disapproved the marriage. The only reason was that he's a muslim guy... and any muslims are labelled terrorist. WTH... this is BS... and this is very stupid thinking... if the muslims in Malaysia are terrorist ..why we still seeing non-muslim still walking freely in the street.
make the story short, my cousin finally convinced the family and the family finally accepted him.
TS, Its either you sacrifce your religion to the girl or the girl has to sacrifice her previous religion(convert to Islam), sacrifice relationship with her parent(if the family doesnt accept u n Islam) and abandon chinese custom/culture that is against Islam. It all about accepting each other(including the family) to be together...
A lot of ppl misunderstood this.. the name change after marrying a muslim.. it isnt an islamic rule/law at all. the non-muslims can still use/keep their original names and surnames.

This post has been edited by campsol2k: May 30 2009, 04:39 AM

yes a lot of people misunderstood this. it is not compulsory to change name. but i dont know lah about malaysian Law. aish~

anyway every1..what are the chinese custom etc that would make it hard for the interracial relationship?
mind telling me?
i think as long as it is not against Islam law, then it's ok lah.

Very ironic to say that only chinese have problem to have interracial marriage with Muslim??no problem with others??or is this world already having a interracial plague that everybody eager to have a different kind of race to be their couples???why can't everybody think that one simple logic which is boys will married a gurl without concern about their customs,religion...they will figure out how to solve any future problem that occurs...n that's will be called LIFE...isn't it?

no wonder

what is fetish?

because, the parents want their child to pray (hold the joss stick which Islam can't do that) and pay the last respect to them at their funeral, or else he/she is anak derhaka.
my brother breaks my parents heart so badly by marrying my sister-in-law, they have migrated to australia and my parents anggap they never have this son anymore. after 5 years of marriage, he regrets his choice but can't do anything to reverse. sigh~~

i believe many chinese parents are not like that.. because i have found them!

y feed the troll?

well, i wish u good luck, then

the main reason why most chinese wont want to marry a malay is due to the conservertive lifestlye thats forced upon them. racistsm, no religious freedom, no other freedom and what not. i might not be much to a malay guy but for someone who grew up with another culture such a sudden change will be taken rather awkwardly and with scorn.

its not a racial thing, but since the government and society created such differences and built invisible walls. theres a somewhat point to it.

i believe many chinese parents are not like that.. because i have found them!

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oya? im a malay, been with a chinese gf, TWICE, one being the longest (4 years) it was all good, but I had to SUFFER for almost 2 years being bashed and trashed by her parents, after went for 3rd year...only they accepted me...but it only lasted almost a year and we broke up

interracial is cool, unique n shits like many other ppl talk about... but HONESTLY SPEAKING, you are about to destroy her family in the end ... u can deny and say , some parents are cool with it, but please, think reality for a sec

yeah.. i already know that. the reality is varies... some of them is okay.. while some of them not.. thats the reality...

i agree..
In my life, I've been best friends with a chinese girl who is my neighbor when we were in our kindergarten years. We were together from kindergarten to the end of high school (form 3 started to become more than friends)to our 20's.
her family issues got in our way and then we broke up and I never seen her again because she moved away.
so kind off 15 years together

This post has been edited by mrmagic21: May 30 2009, 01:54 PM

dun blame you, I'm a chinese girl and I too am attracted to chinese girls....wait, what am I talking here..

yup its interesting..
LOL its sound funny..but why you attracted to chinese girls?

you are chinese girl.. so, are you attracted to yourself too?

she aint chinese she iz moorish

Stop feeding the troll yo...

i like chinese girl coz of their milky white skin and skinny body

trolls

it doesn't matter, love is colourblind ma

i dont see why a malay cant have a chinese or other race as gf...it not even wrong...lol..and TS..rite nw..i alredi saw alot of malay guys couple with chinese girls..well at first i was surprise..after awhile...it juz normal...no matter the race..we are still human...xD..and yea..thr sum barrier u must go through..tat is.family..xD

show ur true love to her, i'm sure u can make it...

yes... I come here to discuss.. maybe you have tips, questions, "Do and dont", etc etc etc..

yes I will go thru the barrier... and when we can understand each other... then I will bring peace to the whole world...

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Added on May 30, 2009, 11:04 pmI love it too... not just she can have good relation with other people, but appereance is also important

thats good point

by the way, I love chinese girl with black hair.. it looks natural

This post has been edited by bigbangtheory: May 30 2009, 11:04 PM

Just go convert to christian can already. Both also convert. So family won't argue so much

By the ways, I'm chinese but i go for some malay girl too. xD . Some of them just too nice

This post has been edited by HamSapZai: May 30 2009, 11:59 PM

Rubbish.

it all depends on both of u.