May 31 2009, 12:12 PM
QUOTE(cbsim @ May 31 2009, 06:10 AM)
Well the problem is with the religion actually, I have seen a lot of Chinese girl married to Indian guy, like my neighbor, friends, and you can even see them holding hands in shopping complex, why with Indian and not Malay, is the religion again.
For Chinese, religion is nothing more than just a culture/custom most of the time, Chinese religion do not ban them from doing something, all the rules serve just as guidance(ajaran) only. Like for example, if I go to pub and have a drink, nothing will actually happen in the religion point of view, but in Islam is different, although you can see there are Muslim people who do the same, but they are considered as sin(berdosa), although you can pretend like nothing but deep inside, you feel like you had just done something wrong, or at least don't feel right psychologically, people might say you are not a real Muslim, you are a shame to Muslim, people might stare at you and so on. For me i don't feel anything not even in religion way, as i mentioned is just a guidance because I'm not an alcoholic or anything, in fact in 1 year I only drink once or twice that's also because of party or something and it's always under control. In other words I don't have to worry about anything cause I can control myself and I don't need the religion to tell me what to do. This is just 1 of the small reason out of many other reasons.
China probably have more Muslim than Malaysia, and even adopted it earlier than Malaysian and yet you don't see any problem there. That's because if not mistaken not all the Muslim country require convert, only some like Malaysia only. Chinese don't have any problem with Islam, just the Islamic law imposed here only. Chinese like most modern Asian wanna be modern, adopt new fashion, new technology, new trend without being restricted by religion.
In this world the number one problem that separate people is religion, people fight, go to war, kill just in the name of religion. Although one day even if religion disappear from the face of earth, other issue will still emerge such as race, let say now everyone mix marriage because no more religion problem, so no race issue, then they will be others like rich and poor, even without this, male and female, even without this, handsome and ugly, it keeps on going, there will always something that will separate people in this world, but we can at least minimize the problems, if we can try and put these issues behind.
For Malay guy that really wanna have any other type of girl beside Malay girl, just migrate to somewhere else. At that time you both wanna practice back your own religion also can, you wanna convert to the girl religion also can, or you both wanna be freethinker also no problem. For those who are willing to sacrifice, it will work.
As for me, my real religion is science and technology.
Just my humble opinions.
2nd your opinion... just curious, besides Muslim religion, does other countries impose law according to Hinduism, Christianity, & Buddhism?For Chinese, religion is nothing more than just a culture/custom most of the time, Chinese religion do not ban them from doing something, all the rules serve just as guidance(ajaran) only. Like for example, if I go to pub and have a drink, nothing will actually happen in the religion point of view, but in Islam is different, although you can see there are Muslim people who do the same, but they are considered as sin(berdosa), although you can pretend like nothing but deep inside, you feel like you had just done something wrong, or at least don't feel right psychologically, people might say you are not a real Muslim, you are a shame to Muslim, people might stare at you and so on. For me i don't feel anything not even in religion way, as i mentioned is just a guidance because I'm not an alcoholic or anything, in fact in 1 year I only drink once or twice that's also because of party or something and it's always under control. In other words I don't have to worry about anything cause I can control myself and I don't need the religion to tell me what to do. This is just 1 of the small reason out of many other reasons.
China probably have more Muslim than Malaysia, and even adopted it earlier than Malaysian and yet you don't see any problem there. That's because if not mistaken not all the Muslim country require convert, only some like Malaysia only. Chinese don't have any problem with Islam, just the Islamic law imposed here only. Chinese like most modern Asian wanna be modern, adopt new fashion, new technology, new trend without being restricted by religion.
In this world the number one problem that separate people is religion, people fight, go to war, kill just in the name of religion. Although one day even if religion disappear from the face of earth, other issue will still emerge such as race, let say now everyone mix marriage because no more religion problem, so no race issue, then they will be others like rich and poor, even without this, male and female, even without this, handsome and ugly, it keeps on going, there will always something that will separate people in this world, but we can at least minimize the problems, if we can try and put these issues behind.
For Malay guy that really wanna have any other type of girl beside Malay girl, just migrate to somewhere else. At that time you both wanna practice back your own religion also can, you wanna convert to the girl religion also can, or you both wanna be freethinker also no problem. For those who are willing to sacrifice, it will work.
As for me, my real religion is science and technology.
Just my humble opinions.
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