QUOTE(bigbangtheory @ Jun 4 2009, 12:48 AM)
There are many, many, many, many reasons why a "law" like this is wrong/bad/stupid/suck/fail.But that is not a discussion for CC.
Serious Im Malay, And I Love Chinese Girl, I Can Easily Fall In Love w Chinese Girl
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Jun 4 2009, 11:28 PM
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QUOTE(nerd @ Jun 4 2009, 07:15 PM) Sharia' law states that marriage can only be Muslim to Muslim, so a conversion is necessary if a non-Muslim wishes to marry a Muslim. however, conversion should not be forced. This is a contradictory statement.The very fact that I must convert to your religion, otherwise I cannot marry the person I love, is compulsion. No two ways about it. I respect your religion and your views, and I appreciate that you seem pretty moderate and sensible. But frankly, I don't know where the law came from, but it is simply wrong. People of different religions get married all the time; they still practice their separate religions, they raise their children in a neutral environment, and when the children are old enough they are allowed to choose their own faith. Christians, Buddhists, Hindus and Jews all over the world have marriages like this... but not Muslims. Does that seem right to you? Added on June 4, 2009, 11:40 pm QUOTE(zacharyyeo @ Jun 4 2009, 01:22 AM) no offense to ur race , but bcoz of all ur girls wana cover up , ur race male species are the people who drool and rape when they see girls wear sexy . Sorry dude. What you said is racist.most of the times i see ppl who drool and harass the girls in malls are malays. worst case scenario i have seen is malay small kids flipping my friends skirt . not being racist , just being observant. There are many reasons why men behave in the way you mentioned. Poor upbringing. Little interaction with the opposite sex. Peer pressure. No role models in gender-sensitive behaviour. Etc. etc. etc. Why must their race be one of those reasons? Why are you not criticizing those other reasons, instead of focusing on their race? I know what you're going to say. You said "most" of the people you see behaving this way are Malays. Again, why should you even notice such a thing? If you see someone behaving badly, why is his race at all relevant? You should certainly know that there Chinese, Indians, Orang Asli, Mat Sallehs aplenty who are also like this - so again, why is their race worth mentioning? QUOTE(zacharyyeo @ Jun 4 2009, 08:51 PM) You probably don't consider yourself racist. And if you do have Malay friends, you probably aren't.That doesn't change the fact that what you said is undeniably racist. QUOTE(zacharyyeo @ Jun 4 2009, 08:51 PM) I rest my case. This post has been edited by n00b13: Jun 4 2009, 11:40 PM |
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Jun 5 2009, 11:31 AM
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Jun 11 2009, 01:58 PM
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QUOTE(Xepz @ Jul 1 2009, 08:25 PM) Bigbangtheory, Either u is tarp or u is one huge freaking racist.I seriously need to ask....why Malay and Indian like to tackle our girls, huh? Remember we are the minority in this country..... I am a Chinese guy, and I always have notice many girls of Malay and Indian always admire me wherever I go...but so what? I even have strangers (non chinese girls) come and chat me up at public places...but frankly, I do not care for their attention at all. I know some of you guys will probably go ga-ga...but I guess those of you guys have difficulty getting girlfrens in the 1st place. If I am a guy and I can talk and think like this.....that should give u something to think about....(Really). Honestly, I prefer my own kind and note I'm not really attracted to other races but that does not mean I racist....I came from National school and I am friendly with all races.... I advise the TS to do the same. Or are you not proud of your race? Actually you don't sound "chinese" to me.... From reading all your posts I can conclude you are a "racist" as well...except not in the manner what we think "racist" means...it seems u are just lusting for ALL chinese girls...and at times your comments freak me out. "When I have a chinese girl, I think I can easily fall in love with other chinese girl.. I need to be strong to control it..." That is one of your comments...Tell me, if I am a girl (any girl, not just chinese), would I like someone who sounds so lecherous like you? Go look up the meaning of the word lecherous if you dunno...give me a break. So you wanna have 4 chinese wives then, eh? Aren't there good malay girls too? I mean 75% of Malaysia are Malay right? Cmon, Sorry buddy, but this is my opinion...otherwise I will refrain from further comment. And yes you sound like a dupe or troll.... |
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Jul 1 2009, 09:20 PM
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QUOTE(Xepz @ Jul 1 2009, 08:55 PM) Perasan summore. QUOTE(Xepz @ Jul 1 2009, 08:55 PM) But just becos I'm not racist I do not need to prove that by going for or dating someone outside my race. Correct? First of all, you think all women of your race are "your girls". Secondly, you sniff disdainfully at the attention of females of other races. Thirdly, you feel ridiculously threatened by a guy of a different race to professes to an attraction to women of your race. You're not just racist, you're an insecure racist. QUOTE(Xepz @ Jul 1 2009, 08:55 PM) Nah, I prefer to bait you. |
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Sep 18 2009, 09:30 PM
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QUOTE(Galaxino @ Sep 18 2009, 05:18 PM) seriously find your own race.. dont drag another chinese into your religion,, its not fair if chinese need to become muslim if getting married but muslim cannot become buddhits at all.. so go away beat your head to like your own race.. and no, dont u ever think by getting a chinese into your muslim you can get pahala...get your own skin ok |
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Sep 30 2009, 12:12 PM
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QUOTE(cc980024 @ Sep 30 2009, 11:35 AM) Let say the man really tak sayang me anymore.. QUOTE(cc980024 @ Sep 30 2009, 11:35 AM) Of coz, loving a man, we should trust him. You're contradicting yourself with these 2 sentences. |
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Sep 30 2009, 12:55 PM
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QUOTE(cc980024 @ Sep 30 2009, 12:41 PM) Of coz usually a woman marry the man whom she love and trust so much. Thats y i say "If we love him, should trust him". But really if "let say" few yrs later the man no more sayang me and show me that he intend to get more wives. I won't stick to "trust" him anymore. Thats y both sentences is not contradicting because it happen in different timing. And being a non-dreaming person, better be realistic and protect ourself. This is me as a woman thinking. No, it's you having no faith in love. Love is not a "now got, later dunno how" thing. Love is meant to last.QUOTE(cc980024 @ Sep 30 2009, 12:41 PM) If my hubby wanna fool around with dozens of mistresses, of coz I will be very sad. But at least I am still the only wife LEGALLY. One and only wife can fight for many things if she really wanted to. I AM A SCARY WOMAN... hahaha. Well, if you want to be so cautious... have you heard of a pre-nuptial agreement? Perhaps you should consider one. On the eve of your wedding, a time when you should be celebrating your love and commitment to your partner, you draw up a contract that basically starts with "In Case of Divorce". And in it, you tally precisely all the assets to be divided up between the both of you - the money, the car(s), the house, the furnishings, even the children. Every single little detail of what goes to who is worked out. And both you and your partner are working this out in the midst of your wedding photoshoot, sending out invitations, inspecting the hall, ordering your dress, etc.Do you see now how love is nothing without trust? |
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Oct 4 2009, 12:42 PM
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QUOTE(Tie Xing Lan @ Oct 4 2009, 10:28 AM) wah lao eh.. Are you stupid?20 years = 4 kids ah?? so; 5 years = 1 kid |
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QUOTE(Zen-X @ Sep 15 2010, 12:58 AM) in relationship with chinese girl too, wong min yi I sappork Min Yi! I wan date awek Melayu but I oso dun want to convert. Can ar? but she already said she dun want to convert |
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