why not marry the rich guy and have affair with another rich guy...at least you can have sex in 6 stars hotels ,fine food and luxury presents   ok the guys will say I'm money minded even when comes to affairs

Normally rich guys are bald and fat I want leng chai to sextify me and they are normally poor and loyal.

In that case marry the rich father and have affair with the young and handsome son

"can and will leave their partners" ????    Where did that come from??
There is nothing that needs to be retracted.
Dont put words in my mouth. You have possibly just made the most pessimistic assumptions from what I said.
What I am talking about is reality. Ok, consider this:

1) Generally, everyone settles for the most attractive (soc dominant for women, fertile body for men) partner they are culturally compatible with
2) By the time a couple settles down, there will be emotional baggage. LOVE... yeah L-O-V-E...plus children and social connections common between them.
3) People stay monogamous because of LOVE....
BUT IF

1) The guy finds out that there are more attractive girls going after him...
OR
2) The girl finds out there are more eligable guys going after her...

Then there is a chance that the marriage will hit the rocks and that's when divorce comes to mind.
HOWEVER
By the time most people have raised two or three kids.. ie. they are in their late 30s:

1) Most men will never have more attractive girls going after them
2) Most women will never have more eligable guys going after them
EXCEPTIONS
1) Rich, socially dominant men can actually find more attractive girls - sleep around.
2) Pretty, attractive women who marry young (eg. early 20s) to a guy who turns out to be a loser (ie. non-socially dominant)... and knows that she should be with someone more worthy can actually find more worthy guys - sleep around.

^Im not saying everyone is like that... In fact.. most people will never be put in that situation and will never have the opportunity to do so. Not all guys are rich and socially dominant. Not all girls are hot. In the same way a poor hapless peasant who never had the opportunity to be corrupt cannot REALLY claim to be clean. Most monogamous people who never really had the opportunity to sleep around with more attractive people cannot REALLY claim to be moraly righteous.
EVEN IF
1) A guy knows he can do better, he may choose to stay monogamous due to personal convictions (eg. religion and spirituality), practical reasons (scared of STDs/ JAIS raids) and LOVE!!!
2) A girl knows she can do better, she may choose to stay monogamous due to personal convictions (eg. religion and spirituality), practical reasons (scared of STDs/ JAIS raids) and LOVE!!!

its normal..woman love rich guy, guy love pretty woman

its normal..woman love rich guy, guy love pretty woman

Has the word commitment lost all meaning to you people *sigh*

come on silverhawk... commitment is a nostalgic word in todays world... at least from what i have read here.

Has the word commitment lost all meaning to you people *sigh*

girlfriends or wives, its up to you to shoulder the responsibility as best to your ability. 

Business dont need 10 years. EVen in 1 day can be done too.

Do you think your business solution will work for other field? I am in 3D computer graphics and physical sculpture, do you have any suggestion?

"Everything will fall into place", yes I agree but I am wondering how most people make less than me and manage to raise a family, they don't work 2 jobs.
Something I miss or is there a secret that those who know are not telling?

LOVE = commitment lah...

You know the scary part is, everybody will say and claim they're committed, (period) yes i believe, but for how long?

you ever hear in a wedding a man/woman says I'm not committed? We dont have a future reading commitment detector.

Divorce happen, and it is a common thing now, I heard from lawyer 2 most common factor in divorce is 3rd party and financial problem.
heart change and people change.

Love doesn't mean commitment. People who love each other can still cheat and destroy their relationship. I've seen it many times, its not that the person doesn't love their partner, they do... its because their own personal gratification came first to their commitment.
Its simply because people don't know what it means to commit anymore. That term has lost its meaning to people. Its bloody sad.

Thats why we need to take care of ourselves....don want later husband runaway with some girls and left you with 3 kids to take care.

What about poor guy with rich girl? From my personal experience, most of the girls who are born in rich family, they don’t mind about rich guy or poor guy. Only girls who are from poor family, they are TOO money minded. Maybe since they are small, they always dream to shops luxury stuff, but cannot because doesn’t have enough money. To skip this hard part, they choose to marry rich guys.

Well, the same applies to guys as well, what I said was perfectly gender neutral