The answer had been repeated too many times, its just that you're lazy to go back reading it. I've never mention about no need study and just wait for a rich person and grab. This thread is about marrying a poorer or richer person, there is a choice involve here beside your career. If based on your perception all girls who marry rich are casted materialistic then all the rich people are doom!

Lets analyse how attractive you are during proposal:
So you're the type of man

that insist your wife should share equal burden into raising the kid,
Go work and find money if she wants a diamond ring
if she even mention to you LV or diamond she is branded as materialistic
be contended and should feel lucky she even get someone to proposed to her.
Rich people are pure evil, they will flirt, so you dun intend to be rich one day.

Well Thank god I dont have a husband like you

And what if at the same time a young doctor came and propose to your gf, if she chooses the doctor she is materialistic? of coz in your mind she is. Coz you're loser!

The way you put it, marrying a rich man are considered materialistic, are you saying all the rich people in the world married materialistic woman with no love involve? I really pity all those young engineers, architect, doctors, entrepreneur's if life is so misearable that in their world love cease to exist. Then we better tell our children not to be rich or somebody because its hell hahahaha.

What you phail to understand about human,

Male are attracted to beautiful/sexy female
Female are attracted to mature/rich/understanding/faithful/responsible/romantic/caring/handsome male

If girl go with handsome guy, I bet you'll say he is playboy.

I think you're just trying to con some girls with your lazy attitude, and trying to scare them rich people are all evil and you would be casted as a materialistic b***h.... pure nonsense, you're just sour grape.

This post has been edited by moorish: Apr 2 2009, 08:41 AM

morning moorish, morining to all

morning morning

how are you? still think u gals are the best?

but i think man are like animal today...........

This thread is not about girl or man are better, its not a pissing contest.

Just that many people brand a woman materialistic when they've rich husband, if as love do not exist in the rich world. I think its a propaganda so the poorer ones dont have headache

Ya, actually it is related....

Guys will like to spend more if they really get into the gals.

Sometime guys will feel bored as they spend too much time with the gals.....

woman materialistic??? some gals willing sell body for some price, what can u said?

OF coz they're all kinda people that make up this world, those that sell their body, those that take drugs, those that kill, but they're also people like mother teresa.....they're devils and so they're aslo saints, so whats the point? what are you're trying to prove?

I'm agreed that girls quite have money minded. Coz they wan rely to the guys in the future. like my love story, money can change and breach the gal's promise eventhough it was a promise, if got money, they will say..."THIS IS ANOTHER STORY" so that , they still happy and comfortable that already breached their own rule and promises that they made b4...

thats why I say with money, it is easy to make a girl happy, so this is the world, actually not only girl, even man and this is why the world is so corrupted. you can bend people with money.

Old chinese saying

有钱能使鬼推磨

you are CHEAP.

99% lo, but money can't change my mind too. Only my beloved will have tis right to change my mind

If I'm cheap I would be with a poor man right? hence you;re cheap I'm expensive

I believe anyone anything has a price if proposed at the right time

i already fed up with those ppl betray own personality included my ex, i will won't to let myself bcome 1 of them.

He was obviously talking about your dignity.

Personally I do not mind if a girl goes for a rich guy. Provided she is willing to work a little for the family rather than merely leeching off her husband.

OffTopic : Is your white cat for sale?

Straight forward question. are you money minded?

Totally disagree with you.. They are not immature, I only can say they treasure bonding and feeling more than money. even if you are rich, can you list out your true best friend? The friends that wont betray you no matter what. Friend that is so close like the other half of you..

Maybe people who're so lucky they never experience some pain and sour in life, or maybe they're some people who're from comfort zone so they dont appreciate or care about "feelings" anymore.

Money alone is not enough to build a family, you have money and married then settle everything with money. You think your children will be happy from the inside when lack of parents love? They'll just envy why other family although poor but they're happy family, happy people.

People who choose love and relationship first is not immature. Because they know feelings and those happy memories are things you cannot buy with the dam money.
Of course, they also know without money love cant go on either. Here's one thing, money you can earn through work, but feeling you can buy with money. It follows you throughout your WHOLE LIFE. This explains the situation for celebrity like Britney Spears.


Think about this situation - You marry a rich husband, suddenly 1 day he bankrupt, lend money from ah long, then runaway leaving you and your child. You're left with no money, no husband, few child to raise and you're lost. Cuz you're so proud with your rich husband and now u're on ground 0, what should you do?? No true love cuz you chosemoney and no one to help you. Your rich friend wont help you cuz you're no longer rich.

~Just my 2 cents, no offence My advice - True love + stable income. We're all educated, it'll be a waste if we just marry a rich guy and do nothing. IMO people like that makes no contribution to the society = rubbish. So, I say, we work, we care for our lover, we have enough money, happy family. Even if he's down, im still able to support myself. I wont regret if I did my part well. I still have my best friends. Friend who accept me for who i am not my money.

I have few male friends who're rich, and girls around him just want his money. He's quite sad about it and very defensive against women. All they want is a girl who loves him not aiming his money Say no to money slave!!

Balance, balance!

Attention of affection and decent household salary, is the main GOAL!

the common formula -
beautiful gurl for rich man..
so if u are not beuatiful or rich, u have to settle down..
don't blame rich man looking for beautiful gurl because beautiful gurl also looking for rich man..

(no matter if the beautiful gurl/rich man is bad because that is not 1st impression, perhaps will be considered later)

and sometimes non-rich man looking for beautiful gurl.....
and non-beautiful gurl looking for rich man....
but u must have good internal qualities to win because u are not in the common formula..

I think you're confusing yourself and everyone here, happiness and disastrous marriage has no limit to only the rich, the poor suffers equally on this aspect. They're poor man who gamble heavily, involve in illegal activity or drugs. But there is an advantage in the rich

If the husband womanize the rich wife can still enjoy spending his money
If the poor man womanize the wife need to continue working to keep the family afloat now which is worse?

Why do you keep stressing there is no love in rich people?

They're unhappy family/children/wife/husband with the poor and rich, but i find the rich always have a better advantage.

This post has been edited by moorish: Apr 2 2009, 12:45 PM

Cuz most of the rich men I saw is kaki perempuan? 8 out of 10 always go out curi makan still tell us how shiok it is.. they say i love my wife but i just want to test my power lols ~