erm, those are luxurious, materialistic pursuits.

not every girl is like that, okay?

the problem is you think it is meaningful, but to most girl an LV or tiffany would be our dream

true.

but not every girl will appreciate what you have done.

especially materialistic girls who indulge in luxury and seeks to life a luxurious and materialistic lifestyle.

find a girl that is contented to be with you.

The question is who do you think will get the girl faster if lets say the both the man look equally handsome and same quality character.

incorrect.

the correct word to use should be:

but to materialistic girls an LV or tiffany would be our dream

but the gals nvr think of how many % of salary will encoutered for their bf?

they didnt think how the bf work condition, gals are selfish.....

I can see from SPA some guys their are relaxing without gals calling them......

dream is 1 thing, reality is 1 thing....

let said u r my gf, i like ferrari then u hav to buy 4 me in order make me happy?

that strongly depends on how materialistic the girl is.

if the girl is 100% materialistic, she will pick the rich guy.

i also dunno...

sometime gals think what i dunno...

lmao... moorish ignoring me

i didnt ignore u ma

The question is, are those materialistic girls mostly pretty/hot/sexy?

all la.....

not necessarily pretty / hot / sexy.

most of the time, it is they themselves who they think they are pretty / hot / sexy only.

they are so full of themselves lol.

I find it surprising that the thread title is even a subject of discussion. That girls are money minded, especially those in the city, is something everyone knows but apparently few admit. Why that is so is something I don't quite understand. And I'm not even saying this to criticize girls, for the demands of modern-day living and the natural desire of humans (both male and female btw) to live a better life surely propels us all to try to gain more of the ability to achieve that, and that ability comes in the form of money.

I do not know if the OP is a male or female, but that is actually quite irrelevant. He/she simply stated something that's been true for centuries. Yet, I would opine that all is not lost for us poorer guys out there, for every rule has its exception. Different girls attach different weights to the value of money relative to their expectation of a good life, and this can range from wild obsession to mere indifference. Don't try to fight it or deny it, for there is indeed a market for every type of girl out there. It is up to us guys to find one who places the meter at a realistic value and something that we individually can achieve. Why worry about the rest?

One of the richest man in Malaysia, he didn’t buy branded things. His primary car is just Proton Perdana. Half of his income goes to charity.

Hey, how do you feel when your girl friends came to your house and say “wow….wow”?

girls are money minded (even though they said they're not) and guys are sex minded. fact of life. full stop.

u r sex minded as u think it

Guys are also money minded to be exact. We buy so many things and what makes our world goes round, is that we impress girls with the materials we have (ask any experienced male e.g our dad and uncles) and trade it for sex indirectly. I think, assume here, if we vice-versa both men and women, women too will lure us men for sex. I think materialism boost sex appeal in a way. If girls are aiming at our materials, indirectly we're to blame because we're the one who provide the material for them to crave on. As the saying goes, no money, no sex. If we were to blame money, blame sex too. Unfortunately, we can't put a blame on sex. So, might as well don't blame money.

Guess the only way, is to accept this trade of interest and don't whine about any loss or losses...

This post has been edited by Tawara_Bunshichi: Apr 1 2009, 04:11 PM

Money minded is ok, but be proud of it is not ok.