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Girls are money minded, And be proud of it.
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debbieyss
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Oct 12 2009, 12:50 AM
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QUOTE(blitzboy @ Oct 12 2009, 12:40 AM) In english proverb is called "Penny wise, pound foolish", You saved every penny only to find yourself lose out on the opportunity to earn more pound.
Earning more pounds shouldn't fall on the responsibility of gals' side. What for you ask your wife to work just to earn merely RM2-3k more but neglected love and care for your children? Worth it?
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teongpeng
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Oct 12 2009, 12:51 AM
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QUOTE(blitzboy @ Oct 12 2009, 12:40 AM) If both working will increase the household income. And then they can build the family a better life because of the increase income and of course the child can have brighter future. Disagree. Now YOU are being money minded here. When both are working it will only be beneficial to the bank account. Not the marriage. And if you're going to argue that happy marriage involve having lots of money then indirectly you are agreeing with moorish and debbie liau...since u're putting the importance on money too. Try not to sway from one side to the other please.
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SUSbadmilk
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Oct 12 2009, 12:54 AM
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...kinda agree that MOST girls are money minded but not all ler... there are still Angels out there ..lolx..at least that i am hoping for.. Anyway..this disturbing trend can be seen in my college where most girls only date or entertain rich ppl more friendly..hehe
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blitzboy
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Oct 12 2009, 12:56 AM
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QUOTE(debbieyss @ Oct 12 2009, 12:50 AM) Earning more pounds shouldn't fall on the responsibility of gals' side. What for you ask your wife to work just to earn merely RM2-3k more but neglected love and care for your children? Worth it? I said, it is entirely her choice. In fact we have similar mindset that we won't settle for less. I myself believe it is a team of 2 person, husband and wife to build a family. But we treat ourselves with respect, praise and give moral support to each other in both bad and good times. As for the love and care for children, honestly speaking I am not a father yet. Can't comment much. I am expecting like both me and my gf taking turns juggling between working time and time at home to raise the child.
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teongpeng
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Oct 12 2009, 12:57 AM
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QUOTE(blitzboy @ Oct 12 2009, 12:49 AM) Well I don't mind sharing this actually. What me and my gf are trying to achieve is that to be financially independent whereby at one point, she can retire and be fulltime mother. But from what I see, that she can be reluctant to sacrifice her career even after married or after having baby. It is entirely her choice, but since both of us are still young and energetic we want to work towards improving our life-style, and won't settle down for a below average life-style. Well here's the situation. Your precise goal is what has already been achieved by moorish. So whats your point of rebuttal actually?  Its funny how you think you are 'attcking' someone's lifestyle when it is exactly this lifestyle that you ar aiming for. whats up with that dude? This post has been edited by teongpeng: Oct 12 2009, 01:01 AM
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debbieyss
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Oct 12 2009, 12:58 AM
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QUOTE(blitzboy @ Oct 12 2009, 12:56 AM) I said, it is entirely her choice. In fact we have similar mindset that we won't settle for less. I myself believe it is a team of 2 person, husband and wife to build a family. But we treat ourselves with respect, praise and give moral support to each other in both bad and good times. As for the love and care for children, honestly speaking I am not a father yet. Can't comment much. I am expecting like both me and my gf taking turns juggling between working time and time at home to raise the child. Since you're not a father yet, so what you are telling is just an assumption.
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debbieyss
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Oct 12 2009, 01:00 AM
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QUOTE(teongpeng @ Oct 12 2009, 12:57 AM) Well here's the situation. Your precise goal is what has already been achieved by moorish. So whats your point of rebuttal actually?  Moorish is having a sole provider husband that allows her to be a housewife. He is looking for a wife who earns her own money in order to become a housewife.
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blitzboy
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Oct 12 2009, 01:01 AM
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QUOTE(teongpeng @ Oct 12 2009, 12:51 AM) Disagree. Now YOU are being money minded here. When both are working it will only be beneficial to the bank account. Not the marriage. And if you're going to argue that happy marriage involve having lots of money then indirectly you are agreeing with moorish and debbie liau...since u're putting the importance on money too. Try not to sway from one side to the other please. I admitted that I am money minded. I said both men and women are money minded. At least both of us are doing something rather than some people who just marry rich and being lazy leeching money from husband. I disagree with moorish because she want money, but she admitted that she don't earn much money, and not career minded. She left the responsibility of earning money entirely to her husband, since day one she got married.
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teongpeng
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Oct 12 2009, 01:02 AM
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QUOTE(debbieyss @ Oct 12 2009, 01:00 AM) Moorish is having a sole provider husband that allows her to be a housewife. He is looking for a wife who earns her own money in order to become a housewife. So whats the differnece??? isnt the goal the same???
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POYOZER
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Oct 12 2009, 01:03 AM
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QUOTE(teongpeng @ Oct 12 2009, 01:02 AM) So whats the differnece??? isnt the goal the same???  You cannot differentiate? How old are you bro? Work already?
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teongpeng
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Oct 12 2009, 01:04 AM
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QUOTE(blitzboy @ Oct 12 2009, 01:01 AM) I admitted that I am money minded. I said both men and women are money minded. At least both of us are doing something rather than some people who just marry rich and being lazy leeching money from husband. I disagree with moorish because she want money, but she admitted that she don't earn much money, and not career minded. She left the responsibility of earning money entirely to her husband, since day one she got married. So? her 1 husband already enough to support her. what for need to work? And you're aiming to let your wife retire too....cant u see that your goal has already been achieved by moorish and here you are condeming (probably envy) her for it. Added on October 12, 2009, 1:05 amQUOTE(POYOZER @ Oct 12 2009, 01:03 AM) You cannot differentiate? How old are you bro? Work already? both wants their wife to stay at home in the end. Same. if you cant say something intelligent please go to sleep. This post has been edited by teongpeng: Oct 12 2009, 01:05 AM
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POYOZER
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Oct 12 2009, 01:05 AM
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QUOTE(teongpeng @ Oct 12 2009, 01:04 AM) So? her 1 husband already enough to support her. what for need to work? And you're aiming to let your wife retire too....cant u see that your goal has already been achieved by moorish and here you are condeming (probably envy) her for it. You still didn't get the points.
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debbieyss
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Oct 12 2009, 01:06 AM
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QUOTE(teongpeng @ Oct 12 2009, 01:02 AM) So whats the differnece??? isnt the goal the same???  The difference is moorish is fortunate. blitzboy's wife is less fortunate
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unknown warrior
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Oct 12 2009, 01:06 AM
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I thought TS original intention is to criticize the common girl disloyalty and insincerity?
This has diverted way too much.
Anyway I enjoy reading all the emotional responds from kids.
HAHAHA I find this hilarious.
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POYOZER
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Oct 12 2009, 01:06 AM
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QUOTE(teongpeng @ Oct 12 2009, 01:04 AM) both wants their wife to stay at home in the end. Same. if you cant say something intelligent please go to sleep. Blitzboy is already mention the points, so no need for me to add more points.
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teongpeng
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Oct 12 2009, 01:07 AM
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QUOTE(POYOZER @ Oct 12 2009, 01:05 AM) You still didn't get the points. Be constructive or STFU QUOTE(debbieyss @ Oct 12 2009, 01:06 AM) The difference is moorish is fortunate. blitzboy's wife is less fortunate  My point exactly. So cant blame anyone can he? QUOTE(POYOZER @ Oct 12 2009, 01:06 AM) Blitzboy is already mention the points, so no need for me to add more points. hence your existence on this thread is pointless. again..go to sleep. This post has been edited by teongpeng: Oct 12 2009, 01:08 AM
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unknown warrior
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Oct 12 2009, 01:08 AM
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I salute to all the money minded girls out there, please do better to make all the weak sissy lame Malaysian average guys feel insecure and /wrist.
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POYOZER
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Oct 12 2009, 01:09 AM
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QUOTE(teongpeng @ Oct 12 2009, 01:07 AM) Be constructive or STFU My point exactly. So cant blame anyone can he? hence your existence on this thread is pointless. again..go to sleep. I already give out my points many times already. Go read all the previous posts oh little kid.
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teongpeng
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Oct 12 2009, 01:10 AM
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QUOTE(unknown warrior @ Oct 12 2009, 01:08 AM) I salute to all the money minded girls out there, please do better to make all the weak sissy lame Malaysian average guys feel insecure and /wrist. +1. And they dont even know it.
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debbieyss
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Oct 12 2009, 01:12 AM
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QUOTE(teongpeng @ Oct 12 2009, 01:07 AM) My point exactly. So cant blame anyone can he? hence your existence on this thread is pointless. again..go to sleep. He can't be the main provider so his wife has to work and bare him babies and back to work and share the expenses and in the same time earn herself enough money and be a fulltime mother and in the same time he may expect his wife to cook him dinner and boil him soup after work. Because of his incapability his wife has to work and because his wife has to work he says his wife is hard-working and because of his wife is hard working he says moorish is lazy money leecher but then moorish is 24/7 taking care of baby and cooks her husband dinner and moorish provide mentally support and love and care and more time to her husband and baby.
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