lol you're one to talk. I know a little bit about you, and how you use your emotions to argue/debate/whatever you want to call it. You like to make yourself sound right, even when you're wrong, by redefining words or changing what you said before. I don't think you're that much older than I am either, but I know people who are a lot more mature than you are younger than even myself.

How is it possible for you to not know very much yet know that you know more than I do? Are you secretly blonde? You can let your emotions carry you away in this discussion, like you seem to like to do, I'll just sit back and watch. Your telling of your story about your previous "trauma" with an ex boyfriend is supposed to make us feel pity for you? Or at least make ME feel pity for you? I know a little bit about that too. Everybody go "KESSIIANNNN!!!"

never once did I say I was right.

never once did I say I was right.

life of a lazy fulltime housewife before be mother and after be mother, no need work but asking money from husband.

Here is what happen.

Before be mother

As Husband for pocket money which she use for her shopping, grocery and household necessities and maybe some appliances. the extra money spend on beauty and cosmetics, pay utility bills ,and some for savings.  The rest of the day or the time in between is spent at home do some housework or gossiping with some other lazy ladies husbands about other people. Sex, romance and other people marital problems or family problems is often them hot topic, which turns out nothing useful after every chit-chat session and can spoil one's mind after listening all the negative stuffs. Sometimes play mahjong. This will go on and on everyday, with a little change of mode of entertainment like movies, karaoke, travel, of sometimes paying visits to friends or family.

After Being Mother.

Ask husband give more pocket money because must take care baby. Again the money shopping, baby products ,grocery and household necessities and maybe some appliances, pay bills. Not much extra money spend on beauty and cosmetics because more time is spent on taking care of the baby. The rest of the day or the time in between is spent at home do some housework or gossiping with some other aunties husbands about other people. This time added one more topic for gossiping about babies and who's child can perform better in school. This is showing-off session about their kids everytime they meet up in the market. Some bargaining and haggling at the market with the vegetable grocer is a common sight among these fulltime housewifes.  This will go on and on everyday, with a little change of mode of entertainment like movies, karaoke, travel, of sometimes paying visits to friends or family.

So what is there to be so PROUD OF???!!!! Other than spending your husband money on all those above?

My personal relationship shouldn't be brought into this discussion, and I'm not willing to bring it up here. I was not looking for sympathy instead I was looking for solution with the mere courage as a gal I have.

So, prove me that you are right then. All along I didn't see you sharing me your knowledge as what you have experienced, seen or been through. You're just telling me what your theory and your belief is.

Lastly, ain't I repeated a metaphor many times "I'm willing to be regretful one day if anyone of you can prove that I'm wrong"? However up to current none of you are able to prove me if there's any possibility to have a long lasting marriage if marry an average man who can't even support himself. None of you have shown me a real life example. Instead an immature person as me (for the sake to acknowledge what you want me to be), I have showed you many many real examples.

lol half the time I just read you saying/asking if people look down on full time mothers. Why? Ego boost when they say no they don't? A lot of people do NOT look down on full-time mothers .... it's just full-time mothers like you who bum off their husbands and think that they're entitled to it that irks all of us.

Good thats the most important answer from you.
Means pointless to debate with you since you admit you;re not right in the beginning.

Or are you here to ask us to prove you're right?

Thats how a family is supposed to be. You obvously dont understand.

The wife do not have to ask money from the husband to feed the baby and grocery and such. The husband should know how to give the wife if not then eat what? baby dont belong to husband ah?

house wife also got role to play ma. The house clean itself ah?

Ppl who say the wife spends all his husband's money still dont understand the meaning of being a couple. ITS her right to spend her husband's money. Thats how marriage works. If after marriage you still kirakira this is mine that is yours then you really bengang.

Because it is important to ask this question, if that person looks down on fulltime mothers than I can just skip his posting, he is coming from a mind beyond moral, beyond anything...really a walking man without soul.

LOL you like to try to make me wrong and say that I'm high and mighty right all the time ... but look at you? You're the one acting like you're right all the time AHHAHAHAHA. Seriously woman, look at yourself. I'm not wrong all the time, nor am I right all the time ... but you seem to think you're right all the time and trying to pin that on me. Don't do that, pinning your labels on a younger person like me.

alamak....why tell him the answer so fast want?
I wanted to pawn him like nickel just now

Thats how a family is supposed to be. You obvously dont understand.

The wife do not have to ask money from the husband to feed the baby and grocery and such. The husband should know how to give the wife if not then eat what? baby dont belong to husband ah?

house wife also got role to play ma. The house clean itself ah?

Ppl who say the wife spends all his husband's money still dont understand the meaning of being a couple. ITS her right to spend her husband's money. Thats how marriage works. If after marriage you still kirakira this is mine that is yours then you really bengang.

well, like you said, why bring it up here? The entire purpose of this thread is to argue about moorish's (and yours and other girls who think like you two) idea that money comes first above all else. That's a theoretical/abstract idea that we're arguing, aren't we? That's why I put forward what I believe and my theories/opinions about the topic.

I don't need to prove that I'm right. If people accept that I'm right, then I'm right. If not, then I'm wrong.
Why do you need others to prove you wrong? Shouldn't you be doing that yourself?

Real examples sure, but all of your own interpretations and maybe a little bit of a twisted mindset. Remember that movie, "He's Just Not That Into You"? Maybe all those examples you gave us are the minority. We're the majority.

I'm so confuse...but then I duno why I'm replying to you

you edi admit you're not right...so I guess you're not right

i thought u needed a short break after the victory over nicky

next time i'll leave the juicy part for you if u so insist

Look I am not against the idea of husband fulfilling his responsibility and give money to their wifes. I know I must give money to my future wife, in fact I am already doing it already, because me and my gf are very close liao.

The only thing is, is the wife worthy of accepting the money or not.

Apparently, in my example above the "wife" only know how to spend money but not earn money, and also living every single day as such, there is nothing to learn, no goal, no career, and boring. 

I have seen many capable women who works and can take care of their child.

Look I am not against the idea of husband fulfilling his responsibility and give money to their wifes. I know I must give money to my future wife, in fact I am already doing it already, because me and my gf are very close liao.

The only thing is, is the wife worthy of accepting the money or not.

Apparently, in my example above the "wife" only know how to spend money but not earn money, and also living every single day as such, there is nothing to learn, no goal, no career, and boring. 

I have seen many capable women who works and can take care of their child.

Do you know I'm really amazed how many guys in here doesnt know that as a husband it is their duty to take care of the family,

next I think they will argue if got robbers come inside their house they expect to fight off hand in hand with wife and baby as side kick

Do you know I'm really amazed how many guys in here doesnt know that as a husband it is their duty to take care of the family,

next I think they will argue if got robbers come inside their house they expect to fight off hand in hand with wife and baby as side kick