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viper88
post Oct 10 2009, 10:47 PM

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No wonder la.. ur past experience makes u think with more security $$$$ guy/husband, things will be much better.
You don't have do those hassle things u dun like/ mafan stuff by urself and leave it for others to kau time using $$$$.

Have u heard the saying "Sorry, no cure".? No matter how hard u say sorry, the damage is done and the crack will alwys be in ur heart.
Sometimes, its the person attitude that put love aside and give lotsa excuses when bad things happen.

Like my friend, she's also a full time mother, Hubby earns 15K.
She alwys complain her baby hard to take care n alwys kacau her when she o9 in her room.
Recently she put her baby play alone outside her room, but the baby alwy try go into her room. She close the door try to block her baby go into her room but din
notice her baby finger is at the side of the door hinge den kiap the baby finger till kemek... lotsa blood and whole finger turn black.. baby cry non-stop. cry.gif
Sent to specialist for treatment chk finger bone break ady...
dunno next time still can write properly onot...

Maybe wat i wrote above way out topic ady.. its just my adv for full time mother dun take things for granted even u have rich hubby, u need to take care ur children or love ones well.

Good luck.

QUOTE(moorish @ Oct 10 2009, 07:55 PM)
Life was hard for the remaining 1 and a half years I think, dad was tied to the bed, his skin would be very flaky, i would take leave until nearly kena fire, and at night I really really party getting high not only in alcohol. Many times mom would call me to come back early cos dad made a mess and I would just delay and sometimes ignore her, I was really tired of all these, I was passed the stage where I feel ashame of myself, I just couldnt take the burden.

Many times I would pray to God to take my dad away, I would say it is for his own good but I think I do it because I cant take the burden anymore. one fine morning having breakfast with my mom, she ask me to check on dad as he was coughing, she told me to take him to see doc few days ago but I just dili dali, so I got up and went to dads room and I saw he was yellow, I went near him and feel his hands, it was really could, tears gather at my eyes I gave a last kiss on his forehead, my lips was like kissing on a cold tile.

I've phail, but I gave excuse to myself I'm only human, I can only take burden to only a certain load, I feel guilty and sorry, it has been many years since dad passed away I've never fail to go pray and put orkids to his grave every month, orkid was his fav flower. This is to remind myself, the failure I once was for I couldnt keep a simple promise to look after father.

Actually I duno if its good that I share such personal matter here, but guess nobody knows who I am they wont know who my dad was. And hopefully my experience will bring light to others here, because I know one day it would be my moms turn and this time I think I;m better prepared. And hopefully you guys be prepared to.
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post Oct 10 2009, 10:52 PM

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QUOTE(viper88 @ Oct 10 2009, 10:47 PM)
No wonder la.. ur past experience makes u think with more security $$$$ guy/husband, things will be much better.
You don't have do those hassle things u dun like/ mafan stuff by urself and leave it for others to kau time using $$$$.

Have u heard the saying "Sorry, no cure".? No matter how hard u say sorry, the damage is done and the crack will alwys be in ur heart.
Sometimes, its the person attitude that put love aside and give lotsa excuses when bad things happen.

Like my friend, she's also a full time mother, Hubby earns 15K.
She alwys complain her baby hard to take care n alwys kacau her when she o9 in her room.
Recently she put her baby play alone outside her room, but the baby alwy try go into her room. She close the door try to block her baby go into her room but din
notice her baby finger is at the side of the door hinge den kiap the baby finger till kemek... lotsa blood and whole finger turn black.. baby cry non-stop.  cry.gif
Sent to specialist for treatment chk finger bone break ady...
dunno next time still can write properly onot...

Maybe wat i wrote above way out topic ady.. its just my adv for full time mother dun take things for granted even u have rich hubby, u need to take care ur children or love ones well.

Good luck.
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post Oct 10 2009, 11:14 PM

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QUOTE(moorish @ Oct 10 2009, 07:55 PM)
Many times I would pray to God to take my dad away, I would say it is for his own good but I think I do it because I cant take the burden anymore. one fine morning having breakfast with my mom, she ask me to check on dad as he was coughing, she told me to take him to see doc few days ago but I just dili dali, so I got up and went to dads room and I saw he was yellow, I went near him and feel his hands, it was really could, tears gather at my eyes I gave a last kiss on his forehead, my lips was like kissing on a cold tile.
So, you admit to denying your own father medical care so that he would die and unburden you?

Wow. What a good daughter you are. Yeah, you really deserve our sympathy.

Yeah right. rolleyes.gif


Added on October 10, 2009, 11:18 pm
QUOTE(myvi5949 @ Oct 10 2009, 10:16 PM)
After 90+ pages, one would think that she would be open to POSIIBILITY that her paradigm are flawed. 

What happen instead was she "editted" her first post.. Ignore relevant points by others. She focuses on some negative feedbacks and take it personally.
I have to admit, some of the responses here are abit immature and uncalled for.. but she need to know that people are generally here to "help". 
You could only help people so much.  Changing core beliefs is really hard.  One must be courageous and willing.  If one is not willing, no amount of convincing would be enough.  wink.gif
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This thread and its author should be given only as much respect as it deserves. Which is not much at all.

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post Oct 10 2009, 11:26 PM

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QUOTE(viper88 @ Oct 10 2009, 10:47 PM)
No wonder la.. ur past experience makes u think with more security $$$$ guy/husband, things will be much better.
You don't have do those hassle things u dun like/ mafan stuff by urself and leave it for others to kau time using $$$$.

Have u heard the saying "Sorry, no cure".? No matter how hard u say sorry, the damage is done and the crack will alwys be in ur heart.
Sometimes, its the person attitude that put love aside and give lotsa excuses when bad things happen.

Like my friend, she's also a full time mother, Hubby earns 15K.
She alwys complain her baby hard to take care n alwys kacau her when she o9 in her room.
Recently she put her baby play alone outside her room, but the baby alwy try go into her room. She close the door try to block her baby go into her room but din
notice her baby finger is at the side of the door hinge den kiap the baby finger till kemek... lotsa blood and whole finger turn black.. baby cry non-stop.  cry.gif
Sent to specialist for treatment chk finger bone break ady...
dunno next time still can write properly onot...

Maybe wat i wrote above way out topic ady.. its just my adv for full time mother dun take things for granted even u have rich hubby, u need to take care ur children or love ones well.

Good luck.
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erm viper, to your understanding, impression itself is important in expressing one views to others

they way you used "No wonder la" and other broken english seems to be one of the reason people don't take you seriously in expressing your thought, it somehow show unnecessary emotion by being judgemental over a person, hence people will more likely try to ignore it
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post Oct 10 2009, 11:33 PM

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QUOTE(Dickson Poon @ Oct 10 2009, 11:14 PM)
So, you admit to denying your own father medical care so that he would die and unburden you?

Wow. What a good daughter you are. Yeah, you really deserve our sympathy.

Yeah right.  rolleyes.gif
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not untill you experiences it yourself mate, it's really tough especially when they are still young

plus that's how evil mind works for everyone, they'll attack when we are at a vulnerable state, don't tell me you are all saints to yourself in whatever you do rolleyes.gif
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post Oct 10 2009, 11:36 PM

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QUOTE(nickisthemost @ Oct 10 2009, 11:33 PM)
not untill you experiences it yourself mate, it's really tough especially when they are still young

plus that's how evil mind works for everyone, they'll attack when we are at a vulnerable state, don't tell me you are all saints to yourself in whatever you do rolleyes.gif
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This thread is probably the MOST attention she has ever gotten in her entire life, for the things she has to say.

Continue letting yourself get played like a shoe string. You are in good company here.
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post Oct 10 2009, 11:42 PM

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QUOTE(nickisthemost @ Oct 10 2009, 10:34 PM)
it started to make sense now after hearing this and the story you tell before about your bum bf, i feel that you have been misguided by money, it then turn out the be your biggest insecurity in your life, hence the reason why you want to find a rich hushband

you want to solve problems with money, or perhaps preventing it from happening, it's actually not wrong to think that way, but to me, life is not about preventing problems to happen, but is to be prepare when problem arise, how to prepare you ask ? collecting lots of money ? lol no of course, but our attitude and mentality itself that when we fall, we can rise up again with our own two feet, see ? money it's not even involve in it, hence money is not even the biggest problem solver but our character itself

and that's the character that girl wish to choose compare to money in a person
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wow! ur comment truly inspire me...
+2 from me...
maybe someone should have take this as an advice...
he/she may have wrong interpretion regarding the purpose of money in ther life...
in common sense money will solve many problems and with money anything can be settle...
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post Oct 11 2009, 12:01 AM

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QUOTE(Dickson Poon @ Oct 10 2009, 11:36 PM)
This thread is probably the MOST attention she has ever gotten in her entire life, for the things she has to say.

Continue letting yourself get played like a shoe string. You are in good company here.
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the thing is even if she is or not what you perceive to be, i'm here to learn =P
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post Oct 11 2009, 12:02 AM

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Impression to kao leng lui, or leng lui wants to kao RICH man den its important la.. laugh.gif

Here is just a normal forum site. I dun bother much abt "Impression".
Whether they want to take it seriously or not, its up to them.

I don't expect much from her oso since so many ppl already replied here.

QUOTE(nickisthemost @ Oct 10 2009, 11:26 PM)
erm viper, to your understanding, impression itself is important in expressing one views to others

they way you used "No wonder la" and other broken english seems to be one of the reason people don't take you seriously in expressing your thought, it somehow show unnecessary emotion by being judgemental over a person, hence people will more likely try to ignore it
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post Oct 11 2009, 12:10 AM

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QUOTE(nickisthemost @ Oct 11 2009, 12:01 AM)
the thing is even if she is or not what you perceive to be, i'm here to learn =P
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Learn from this person?

A very strange choice of teacher and not something I can understand, but if it rocks your boat.... +_+" swt


Added on October 11, 2009, 12:12 am
QUOTE(nickisthemost @ Oct 10 2009, 11:26 PM)
erm viper, to your understanding, impression itself is important in expressing one views to others

they way you used "No wonder la" and other broken english seems to be one of the reason people don't take you seriously in expressing your thought, it somehow show unnecessary emotion by being judgemental over a person, hence people will more likely try to ignore it
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The messed up thing is, when I write very properly with perfect english and grammar also, people still ignore me.

Is it my face????

It's my face, isn't it? sad.gif

rclxub.gif

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post Oct 11 2009, 12:19 AM

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QUOTE(Dickson Poon @ Oct 11 2009, 12:10 AM)
Learn from this person?

A very strange choice of teacher and not something I can understand, but if it rocks your boat.... +_+" swt
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there are more poster in here than moorish herself in here lulz

capishe ?

QUOTE(Dickson Poon @ Oct 11 2009, 12:10 AM)
The messed up thing is, when I write very properly with perfect english and grammar also, people still ignore me.

Is it my face????

It's my face, isn't it? sad.gif

rclxub.gif
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cause maybe the problem is not you but the other way around
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post Oct 11 2009, 12:21 AM

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QUOTE(nickisthemost @ Oct 11 2009, 12:19 AM)
there are more poster in here than moorish herself in here lulz

capishe ?


Now only I understand rclxub.gif

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cause maybe the problem is not you but the other way around
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They have face probrem? icon_idea.gif
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post Oct 11 2009, 12:23 AM

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QUOTE(viper88 @ Oct 11 2009, 12:02 AM)
Impression to kao leng lui, or leng lui wants to kao RICH man den its  important la.. laugh.gif

Here is just a normal forum site. I dun bother much abt "Impression".
Whether they want to take it seriously or not, its up to them.

I don't expect much from her oso since so many ppl already replied here.
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then your comeback replies to her is because +_+ ?

else i do know what it is
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post Oct 11 2009, 12:25 AM

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QUOTE(viper88 @ Oct 10 2009, 10:47 PM)
No wonder la.. ur past experience makes u think with more security $$$$ guy/husband, things will be much better.
You don't have do those hassle things u dun like/ mafan stuff by urself and leave it for others to kau time using $$$$.

Have u heard the saying "Sorry, no cure".? No matter how hard u say sorry, the damage is done and the crack will alwys be in ur heart.
Sometimes, its the person attitude that put love aside and give lotsa excuses when bad things happen.


Like my friend, she's also a full time mother, Hubby earns 15K.
She alwys complain her baby hard to take care n alwys kacau her when she o9 in her room.
Recently she put her baby play alone outside her room, but the baby alwy try go into her room. She close the door try to block her baby go into her room but din
notice her baby finger is at the side of the door hinge den kiap the baby finger till kemek... lotsa blood and whole finger turn black.. baby cry non-stop.  cry.gif
Sent to specialist for treatment chk finger bone break ady...
dunno next time still can write properly onot...

Maybe wat i wrote above way out topic ady.. its just my adv for full time mother dun take things for granted even u have rich hubby, u need to take care ur children or love ones well.

Good luck.
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Saying you're sorry does not necessarily make everything OK. But we are human. We make mistakes, we are made through the image of God.. Bad things happens to good people ALL THE TIME. It does not matter wether you're rich or poor. Young or old. Regardless of race and religion. Its what you decided to do to over the face of adversity which will determine how strong you are. Will you sulk and cling to your insecurities in order to show your significance? Or will you raise above adversity? Will u live your life feeling sorry for yourself? Or will you except your shortcomings learn from it and live courageously?
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QUOTE(Dickson Poon @ Oct 11 2009, 12:21 AM)
Now only I understand  rclxub.gif
They have face probrem?  icon_idea.gif
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comprehension problem

what is face problem anyway ? lulz
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QUOTE(nickisthemost @ Oct 11 2009, 12:28 AM)
comprehension problem

what is face problem anyway ? lulz
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Haha, I only found out a month ago!

I understood when finally, in girl's club, I saw a thread that say "Anybody got face problem, ask here for advice". Or something like that.

LMAO!

I think "face problem" means like acne or eyebags and wrinkles and other stuff like that. ROFL!!!
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QUOTE(debbieyss @ Oct 9 2009, 11:21 PM)
sorry, my english is bad.
but i just want to say your statement seems the same like those shallow thought guys here: aiming for financial capable husband because i want to go for my personal luxury enjoyment, which i have already told you earlier on that for my personal high maintenance would all be on my own, nothing to do with my husband. I want my husband able to bare the expenses if uncertainties happen in future, which this can only be done if he is financial stable.

lol my statement only said that you like to redefine word definitions to suit your arguments. Nothing more. I'll just let you get all upset about something I didn't say in the statement that you're so upset about.
QUOTE(euphoria88 @ Oct 10 2009, 08:34 AM)
be amazed. Everyone who posts here wasted their time talking to you and it is obvious you do not want to accept any opinions but your own. Suit yourself.

I actually agree with you this time.
QUOTE(unknown warrior @ Oct 10 2009, 09:36 AM)
the very fact that this thread reached 100 over pages tells me most of you in here are too insecure about money minded girls.

It's either that or you have off topic as usual.

lol the arguments aren't even about that at all. lrn2read.

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QUOTE(nickisthemost @ Oct 10 2009, 10:34 PM)
it started to make sense now after hearing this and the story you tell before about your bum bf, i feel that you have been misguided by money, it then turn out the be your biggest insecurity in your life, hence the reason why you want to find a rich hushband

you want to solve problems with money, or perhaps preventing it from happening, it's actually not wrong to think that way, but to me, life is not about preventing problems to happen, but is to be prepare when problem arise, how to prepare you ask ? collecting lots of money ? lol no of course, but our attitude and mentality itself that when we fall, we can rise up again with our own two feet, see ? money it's not even involve in it, hence money is not even the biggest problem solver but our character itself

and that's the character that girl wish to choose compare to money in a person
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At the moment our loved one passed away, the first thing we think about is we are so sorry we haven't done our best to them.
And when you feel sorry you haven't done your best to your loved ones, you could hardly ask yourself to rise up again.

QUOTE(spunkberry @ Oct 11 2009, 12:34 AM)
lol my statement only said that you like to redefine word definitions to suit your arguments. Nothing more. I'll just let you get all upset about something I didn't say in the statement that you're so upset about.
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I have nothing to be upset about.
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post Oct 11 2009, 12:52 AM

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lol oh really? you keep saying I said something in that statement that I didn't say. Not upset? Puhleese, you're at least peeved
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Oct 11 2009, 12:34 AM)
lol the arguments aren't even about that at all. lrn2read.
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