Hmm.. not racist.. then i think "parasite" would be more appropriate..LOL

I fully agree on this!

So if you just intend to BUY a wife, yeah you can. but LOVE? sorry dude.

Fundamentally Agree With You

Same thing apply to girls, don’t dream too much one day can get Prince Charming who are almost perfect in any aspects of life. Thanks to Disney cartoon because of brainwashing girls since they are young.

The best solutions for both sides, just think logic, don’t dream too much. Sure, it fair for all, but I don’t think this is possible to happen. Because human are too needy.

human are picky.

that's when they start hiring private detectives

to get a girl or wife, man must able to provode living basic.

Of course guys must provide the basics, but the girls shouldn't expect too much and beyond the reality of life. All those are fantasy. Come on, why not just think logic. That will be much better. Am I right?



This post has been edited by POYOZER: Mar 21 2009, 07:26 PM

what logic? the girl had 2 guys after her.

It’s common for girls to have a lot of admires. Now we are talking about other things, not about that girl. Correct me if I’m wrong.

its not about girl blindly hunt for rich man, pls read first post

Ok then.

Btw, I still don’t agree with this…

“So girls, be proud when you choose a rich husband, and to those girl who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the mother instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice.”

I don't know why.

This post has been edited by POYOZER: Mar 22 2009, 01:29 PM

Two extremes :

- One who chases those with moolah

- One that blindly follows love ala Korean drama

Ideally, one should not be in any of these two extremes

This post has been edited by Kampung2005: Mar 22 2009, 01:31 PM

thats why i said security should be one of the important factor when choosing a husband

Thus, i echo your view

I don’t think rich is important when choosing a husband and of course not really poor.

TS!

I agreed with you. As proverb "a kick in the teeth will feel the pain". Thats why you'll see many early marriage & lead to divorcy. But your "security=money" has been convert to the members think gals are materialistic but indeed is not. But debate in detail, the most important is depend on the guy individual attitude & behaviour. Because be it the guy has a luxurious family background may not ending good. As i had replied to the tread u mentioned, judge the guys attidude & by not the rich assets he has.

For those disagree with TS judgement, may you has make up with divorcy friends & get their feedback. You will feedback with the reality world of life.Btw, Im a guy & i has 5 divorcy gals friend to share their valuable experience & what lead to their marriage failure at young age. This had been surfing in my head that is it due to guy incapability or the immature of girl to make decision at young age(puppy love is everything), but history always grow a person to maturity with the pay off to bare.

This post has been edited by Gary1981: Mar 22 2009, 11:56 PM

Are you trying to say we are not mature yet to understand the reality of real world?

Come on, good relationship always work together to improve their life. Not 1 side work very hard and another side just lepak at home or hangout with friends.

And, have you heard about hamsap Datin? If yes, you wanna know why it happen?


This post has been edited by POYOZER: Mar 23 2009, 12:37 AM

Hahaha! Ogay, ogay. Ahem, so y'all like a guy who's rich, AND handsome, ALWAYS romantic, ALWAYS CARING AND NEVER CHEATS on you? (Basically, the entire PERFECT PACKAGE)

Pleaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaase. , would you stop dreaming already? Where the hell is such a man? But you know what, before you can find a guy such as the one I mentioned above, you'll prolly got married FIRST, and then REGRET when you found that KIND OF GUY............................................................................AFTER.

Worst is, when you found out a guy with such qualities...are mostly gays, lol! Or more likely, taken.

This post has been edited by Deadlocks: Mar 23 2009, 05:02 AM

I've been holding off for awhile.


TS, you must realize that money isnt everything... just as beauty isnt everything to guys.


That said, girls would much more readily empathize (ie. notice the "nice" characteristics) with guys who have money. And guys would much more readily empathize (ie. notice the "nice" characteristics) with girls who are fit and fertile (read: hourglass figures & youth).



I disagree on your point regarding monogamy.

Despite what I've written in my threads (that deal with the first step of dating), I do realize that in the CIVILIZED world, infedelity is quite inconvienient. Even IF a guy has the desire to fvck around, MOST GUYS WILL NOT HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY to do so with women they find reasonably attractive (as those women are likely to be taken/attached).


Hence, society does not break down even in first world secular countries. It's all about supply and demand. Yeah, the pretty girls that the guys hunt are almost never available to the guys who hunt em. That's reality.


..of course, the human ego is such that they would rather tell themselves that "love is more important" or "I am being a good muslim/christian/buddhist/jew/hindu/etc". EVEN when they never had the opportunity to fvck around. Sheesh... the things people tell themselves to feel good about themselves.

I contend that MOST PEOPLE ARE MONOGAMOUS NOT BY CHOICE BUT OUT OF NECESSITY/CIRCUMSTANCE.


Face The Truth™

This post has been edited by ezralimm: Mar 23 2009, 06:19 AM