I don't know, wouldn't want someone to cheat on me like that but....

Live a little, eh?

Haha, as long as it's not happening to me. Yes, double standards but you know what, you're thinking for her. She's not thinking for herself. And you don't need to think for her.

now no gf can think like dat lah... do it without worries...

when u got gf, whenever u do with other gal, u will think ur gf doing with some other guys....

well, u will tend to think alot during the intercourse...

wow....whats ur secret?
How come u can get chances like dat?
Just make sure their boyfriends aren't stronger than u....

Also keep this in ur mind........"What goes aroun...comes around"
How will u feel when sum other guy does it with ur gf?
will u still think that it was only for fun and it is ok?

lets say u go get a prostitue u must develope feelings for her too ?

Of course its intertwined, the point is that morally, sexuality has been repressed, it needs to be accepted. That doesn't mean you go around humping sheep though... People should learn that sex is NORMAL, and that women need it just as much as men. Its an essential part of human relationship, and its sad that most people just don't get to develop their sexuality properly.


I don't disagree, but sometimes... couples cheat emotionally and not just sexually. Regardless of what the needs are, if they don't get it from their partner, they will get it elsewhere. The point is, people need to learn to let go, and expect that such things will happen, such naivety is unhealthy to begin with.


Yeap, I agree wholeheartedly However, most people will not leave their comfort zones unless forced to. Which is why I actually don't mind people cheating and getting found out. Its better for everyone involved in the long run.

Totally unacceptable...Lust is the root of all evil

Nothing really matters , It's all depends on how you look it.

I can say Zebra is black with white stripes if you get what I mean.

And we're going to a 'better' place soon or later.

Live life to the fullest and don't regret it

they called it FB

This post has been edited by darkdevilrey: Dec 10 2008, 03:07 AM

I lust after my girl and we're very into each other. Tell me it's evil.

Rule number 1, never ever tell your future gf about your dark history

To some extent, if the we can really see through into people's thought I believe 99% of us will cheat on our partners. Whether we put our thoughts into action is another matter all together.

But to distrust our partners or have continued paranoid as though the other partner would run of into the sunset with another would be even more detrimental compared to doing nothing,.

for me.. its a no..
y dun TS find a gf n do that with lov to her
instead of what you did?

Really? Because if she isn't mature enough to handle it when the time is right to tell her, what's the point of being with her in the first place?

Make sure got protection. LOL~

While ur past has nothing to do with her, it shaped u to become the person that ur now. When is the right time to talk about the dark history then? After getting together? Or just never bringing it up at all when she asks "so how were u like before u met me?"?

oh really? well my bf did. wats gonna happen now?

i learned alot from this thread oh man, silverhawk cud u be my counsellor. Im so agree wit ur point

I do think that society now is a lot more open towards sex and it's no longer considered a really taboo subject in urban areas. It's just that what TS has highlighted here is promiscuity. Casual sex, next to dining and movies? Like he (or his friend) highlighted, "it's just a feel good activity for both parties". While so many people, especially the ones who don't have a moral conscience to question that kind of statement, must be feeling great joy, liberation, even. If so many people are doing it, screw my conscience! As it is, I don't know, maybe they learnt it from their parents' swinging parties, or maybe even discovering that their parents started having f*** buddies to feel young or something. Imagine the kinds of things they will teach their children about sexuality

This post has been edited by lux: Dec 10 2008, 12:55 PM

don't bring it up at all, even if u have changed after u have a bf/gf once she found out, it will never be the same thats my point

My girl knew my past before i hooked up with her. You seem to underestimate the tolerance and acceptance some women are capable of. Why?