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chocoholic221 I LOVE U !!!

what if, if some one set you up?...then...u r in a deep shit....so think twice...nothing comes free in this world...so u must pay the price later....may be in your future...so dun....

Arrogant dome i love you too!

this is an interesting perspective

True true. Again, some of them are my highschool frens. I think setting up may not be likely.
But more of karma at the end of the day.

why are they worse than hookers? why is it sad if both bf/gf are into such activities? Why are ye so judgemental?

Sex does not only affect you physically but emotionally as well. Are you sure you can feel emotionally unattached to a person after doing it? Well, if you think you can...by all means go for it. Just that I don't think its the right thing to do.

my story is another version
i done that many times with the same person, got feeling, but we chose to be like that only, not to be in a relationship but still doing those things

sad huh?

I was about to say that I wasn't being judgmental. But I guess I am. What's wrong with these people I wonder? Don't they believe in the sanctity of an intimate relationship anymore? Could u accept if u had a partner like that who're doing things behind ur back? (Or are there normal guys who would actually allow their gfs to sleep around?) And ppl wonder why is society is getting so complex (f***ed up) now...

To f- w/o feeling is no different from banging a tree stump that has been sawned off, or stick ur little bro in every hole u can find (incl but not limited to a vacum cleaner ABSOLUTE classic or whatever), or a plastic doll which coincidently has a hole in the mouth and its butt.

It's just mens urge to hump anything it comes across, when ur in ur early 20's u will find it difficult to control (exception is the "suxing me dry thread, when the gal is more hungry than the guy.)

self-praise is no praise at all... polis kata jgn perasaan (sic)

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Added on December 9, 2008, 5:29 pm5 mins of passionate love making, is much more satisfying compared to 50 mins of humping a dead body.

This post has been edited by aurora97: Dec 9 2008, 05:29 PM

Can intro to us ka ?

we are all rich, lengcai.
lolx...

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Added on December 9, 2008, 5:30 pmhe means ONE of the girl...in the scenario..

This post has been edited by NelsonBoy: Dec 9 2008, 05:30 PM

Everyone has different "needs", if they can get it without harming people, its ok. Would I like it if my partner is doing it behind my back? of course not. However if its something we discussed and agreed on, then its a different story.

Some people just don't get intimacy/romance they need out of their partner, maybe the guy ejaculates after 3 seconds and doesn't know how to please a woman, but is great in everything else. So the only logical choice for the girl, is to find a f*ck buddy. It may not be the "right" thing to do, but how many people will actually throw away a partner that fulfils 90% of their requirements to achieve get that missing 10%? Very very few, that is why you get so many people cheating.

Society has always been f**ked up. Its f**ked up now too, but not in the way you think. Sexuality has been made so taboo, that people are incredibly confused. Girls are shunned when they express their sexuality, and guys are now raised too softly, that they are no longer in-tune with their more aggressive instincts which is what attracts women. So you get a society where women pair up with the majority of men who are "soft", hiding their sexuality and only showing it in secret affair.

Not many people are capable of compartmentalizing love and sex. Once you've had enough of it, sex tends to feel empty because it's just another partner. And when you finally realize you can compartmentalize these 2 elements repeatedly, it becomes frightening because we tend to lose a lil' bit of our humanity everytime we do so. It's when you have a more profound connection with someone you care about then only will it feel special again.

i hear ya. Y'know... despite the impression I give people that I'm a wild child, my thoughts echo your sentiments. I can be extremely loyal if I'm in a relationship and I would be devastated if my partner were to do that to me. Like you, the sanctity of a relationship is something i would guard with the utmost of my abilities. I've stepped into pretty dark paths before and those memories are something which I'm not proud of. Youth, impetuousness and an overdosage of male hormones are a dangerous combination.

This post has been edited by darklight79: Dec 9 2008, 05:37 PM

personally i think we r living in a fast pace life-style, everything also wan fast, fast love makin, fast food, fast car, fast to get heated up, do work fast fast, fuk anything fast without any heart or feeling ... at the rate we r going so fast ... we miss out all the smaller things in life and we dont appreciate the more finer things in our life.

sex has just turned into some everyday thing we do, to f- aimlessly aimlessly a tree stump

AIDS is dangerous

I'm not sure how you compare it to f`king a tree stump... since its quite different I would agree with darklight though, it feels empty. It may feel great during the intercourse, but that's where it stays. You don't feel emotionally fulfilled.

Aye... well said my friend.

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Added on December 9, 2008, 5:43 pmI never fukked a tree stump. =(



This post has been edited by darklight79: Dec 9 2008, 05:43 PM

The logical choice isn't to sleep around or find one, two, or three f*** buddies. It's how both couples make an attempt to improve on their relationship by making compromises. Not by taking the easy way out as so many ppl do so easily, without effort even. If all else fails, why not just end the relationship? It's just so pathetic how people just fall so comfortably into their own comfort zone, and find a justification for everything they do, especially when there are a large group who thinks that way. Society has indeed been repressive about sexuality. For a very good reason. No one wants to bring their child up into this world where his parents are seen f***ing around with random neighbors and friends. Cos, hey, if everyone's ok with it, let's bring it on! Seriously, it's just disturbing. Kudos to TS for not having done the deed just yet, though.

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Added on December 9, 2008, 5:56 pmGlad that u have this thought too. Ur past is ur past, and now u know what is really urs to treasure.

This post has been edited by lux: Dec 9 2008, 05:56 PM

My thanks on your praise.