Not many people are capable of compartmentalizing love and sex. Once you've had enough of it, sex tends to feel empty because it's just another partner. And when you finally realize you can compartmentalize these 2 elements repeatedly, it becomes frightening because we tend to lose a lil' bit of our humanity everytime we do so. It's when you have a more profound connection with someone you care about then only will it feel special again.

i hear ya. Y'know... despite the impression I give people that I'm a wild child, my thoughts echo your sentiments. I can be extremely loyal if I'm in a relationship and I would be devastated if my partner were to do that to me. Like you, the sanctity of a relationship is something i would guard with the utmost of my abilities. I've stepped into pretty dark paths before and those memories are something which I'm not proud of. Youth, impetuousness and an overdosage of male hormones are a dangerous combination.

This post has been edited by darklight79: Dec 9 2008, 05:37 PM

Aye... well said my friend.

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Added on December 9, 2008, 5:43 pmI never fukked a tree stump. =(



This post has been edited by darklight79: Dec 9 2008, 05:43 PM

It's because it's the cool factor, especially among guys. Something like smoking except comparing how many partners you've screwed is way cooler than the mundane act of smoking. It definitely feels good, it definitely is exciting initially; we are talking about sex from a guy's perspective, let's be realistic.

But as you progress in life, you tend to wake up and ask yourself, is that the way you want to live the rest of your existence? When I tell someone life is too short, I don't mean life is too short not to screw around. I say life is too short not to have someone you really, really care for by your side. This is what separates us from animals. I believe in this statement:-

The fact that we desire something we cannot deny, but we can deny our desires, especially if it's for the greater good.

Heh thanks I guess.

I don't think that's relevant to the topic. You need to read the first post more in detail.

I lust after my girl and we're very into each other. Tell me it's evil.

Really? Because if she isn't mature enough to handle it when the time is right to tell her, what's the point of being with her in the first place?

My girl knew my past before i hooked up with her. You seem to underestimate the tolerance and acceptance some women are capable of. Why?

Sigh... chill. They'll learn sooner or later. We cannot change the way people think. Which is why wisdom is never innate, it is acquired.

Careful. =) In that case, you shouldn't be so patronizing. I don't think you know me well enough to describe me as having "squarish" perceptions. The experiences you so crave for are not as blissful as you think they are.