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 Sex with love, Wrong to have sex without feelings?

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TSasiuol
post Dec 9 2008, 03:48 PM, updated 17y ago

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I'm not sure fortunately or unfortunately, but lately i've been getting or perhaps offered into an opportunity to have sex without feelings. These people are all attached with BFs. blink.gif

Is it a growing trend? I am told by these people that, it is not wrong because it is more like a feel good activity. Just like going out watching movie and having dinner. It's just an activity to make us feel nice. rclxub.gif

For the record, i have not submitted to any of these "requests". brows.gif Trust me, its really difficult. Sometimes hormone take over my brain. shocking.gif What do you all think and would you do it or try?


TSasiuol
post Dec 9 2008, 03:58 PM

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QUOTE(chocoholic221 @ Dec 9 2008, 03:54 PM)
depends how you look at it. but mind, would your future gf approve of it? will it change the way she's gonna look at you, no matter how good a guy you are?
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I think on a common circumstances, gf definitely will mind. Unless of coz, she herself would be like that. doh.gif
Confusing part is, these girls all got bf ones. icon_question.gif
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post Dec 9 2008, 04:05 PM

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QUOTE(chocoholic221 @ Dec 9 2008, 04:00 PM)
maybe their bf havn't been satisfying them properly lol.
means you would do it if they were single?
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Thats a tough call. I have NOT succumb to that yet. Wouldn't want to walk down the path of a player. Don't want to be a saint here, i guess to some circumstances if both single and willing. Can consider. Dun judge me, hormones + alcohol = no willpower.

QUOTE(PeeNut @ Dec 9 2008, 04:00 PM)
Other ppl gf dun le. If single then nvm. Btw, I can join as well.

I'm rich and leng cai. Issit ok?
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No offence dude. Rich and lengchais dun say they are that. biggrin.gif
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post Dec 9 2008, 04:11 PM

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QUOTE(FaTJ3sT3R aka Th!NjOK3R @ Dec 9 2008, 04:10 PM)
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But the line that comes before that is...."Be A Man."
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Hhahahah... good ol' Russell Peters.
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post Dec 9 2008, 04:32 PM

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QUOTE(techassist @ Dec 9 2008, 04:27 PM)
what if, if some one set you up?...then...u r in a deep shit....so think twice...nothing comes free in this world...so u must pay the price later....may be in your future...so dun....
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True true. Again, some of them are my highschool frens. I think setting up may not be likely.
But more of karma at the end of the day.
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post Dec 9 2008, 05:58 PM

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QUOTE(lux @ Dec 9 2008, 05:52 PM)
The logical choice isn't to sleep around or find one, two, or three f*** buddies. It's how both couples make an attempt to improve on their relationship by making compromises. Not by taking the easy way out as so many ppl do so easily, without effort even. If all else fails, why not just end the relationship? It's just so pathetic how people just fall so comfortably into their own comfort zone, and find a justification for everything they do, especially when there are a large group who thinks that way. Society has indeed been repressive about sexuality. For a very good reason. No one wants to bring their child up into this world where his parents are seen f***ing around with random neighbors and friends. Cos, hey, if everyone's ok with it, let's bring it on! Seriously, it's just disturbing. Kudos to TS for not having done the deed just yet, though.
My thanks on your praise. smile.gif
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post Dec 9 2008, 06:05 PM

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QUOTE(aurora97 @ Dec 9 2008, 06:02 PM)
Simple words may be twisted and bent to paint a picture of a rosey path, all whom know the heart of men thou shall beware. The words in which he speaks may vary from his actions, if u can look urself in the mirror of the things u've done than your noble at heart indeed.
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Woh woh... lets not get all political and be grey or vague. Chill..... its just a simple discussion.
Ain't no right or wrong nor judge or be judged.
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post Dec 12 2008, 09:32 AM

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Hi folks,

i sincerely thank everyone for contributing but i'm closing the tread.

It seems that everyone is getting wayyyyyy too emotional and personal. That's the last thing i was hoping, anyways.

well, thanks again.

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