like that need to carry how much $$$ wor?

Excuses, its never too late, and you're never too busy. If you're too busy, that just shows you do not know how to manage your time, you're trying to tell me its hard to spare 1-2 hours in a day to go yumcha with friends or something? Set some time on the weekends or something to go have fun and socialise. Whether its going to clubs, pubs, a book club, etc. Just go somewhere where you can meet people. Stop making excuses for yourself.

I am thinking of studying or working outstation actually, but my age defeats my wish. I feel that's not enough time for me, I wish to change thoroughly in 1-2 years.

hmm, thanks for invitation, but it is weird to hang out together just that

There you go. You identified your problems. If you have the will, break the tradition.

stop complaining and live life happilly... u are too comfortable until u look down on urself..this is a bad mistake..Don't ever look down on yourself.. u got parents.. no one love u more than parents...u should be happy that u got them..

u see other people got colorful life but do you ever know what things they faced? it is not all good by just looking..they won't be telling u how hard their life was or what they ever failed in life...

to be frank.. im same with u.. but i never look down on myself until make my life so hopeless... be cheerful and think brightly then u will me happy..

This post has been edited by PinkyWhite: Oct 4 2008, 03:05 PM

You are right, however in my current situation, I found it weird to suddenly call up people which never called me, seldom talk to me, to have a meetup or events. I am a person that worry about what people think of me, I know I have to wipe off of that. At times I feel some of my friends call me only when they need my help, when they are living good they won't bother me. To call them out means I have to let go of my ego.

This post has been edited by MagicPudding: Oct 4 2008, 03:06 PM

I'm 22, still studying, still staying at home while all my friends have already been working for a few months or years..., yes i do regret about my decision for staying at home and still taking pocket money from parent but there's nothing i can do about my pass...so what i do is focus on what i should do now and stop feeling being useless..

u still 22...still got time ma

hey bro...no worries man. Here to encourage you.....go go go!!

Anyway, if finding a friend is a little difficult, try to know ppl with at least something in common, in hobby wise, find a group or something, forum gathering........... like Nike said JUST DO IT!

interested to join a new course?

pak-toh-logy

And you have a problem letting your ego out? You haven't realized your enemies don't you?

This post has been edited by peinsama: Oct 4 2008, 03:12 PM

Then let go of it. I'll give you a task.

Pick up your phone, call one or more of your friends, and ask them out for a movie/lunch/dinner/drinks/etc. Then just go meet up with them and talk. Don't expect anything except maybe some catching up, or something. Go, do this, NOW. Its a saturday, just call someone and see if they're free to hangout.

human mentality is a complex thing, what I perceive their live is a sinusoidal wave, my life is a straight horizontal life, everyday live the same routine, it's neither good nor bad.

haih. I have plan to reform after my current year, that time still studying in uni but will be much free in time.

Sometimes I can't help to think too much

Did someone mention its saturday? Yay....its CATURDAY!!!

hmph... u need a lecture! i will nag u till ur ear burn!!!! BOOMBOOMBOOM~

Damn sometimes I am getting frustrated, I think of I should not deserve this kind of life. Thinking that I can only do little or nothing to amend things, I started to feel sad and the future is bleak, I keep thinking more of these as I am getting older. At 22 years old, I can't even achieve things of 16 year old did.

This post has been edited by MagicPudding: Oct 4 2008, 03:21 PM

let me try to make you feel better

maybe you learn something from my experience

i am 27 y.o
like you i inheret a big ego from my father, the never wanna lose kinda way.

Unlike you i don't have the opportunity to study in Uni or college
My edu ends at Form 6 and so is my social life
started working shortly after
till now, I am still with the same company

1st three years is due to family issue
I become the breadwinner temporary
after that the situation improved, my elder brother got a job
work life is work life,
the recreation club organized outing, I would always shy away
never gone out to have a beer after work with the colleague

Right now i would say, I was a very cynical person
couple with "stories of friendship" from my father
and my own life experience (keep holding on to the memories of friend using me for their own gain)

I never ever really have a good friend
I have friends that, when others more popular friends are not around
would come look for me
Invitation to night supper/gathering, again I shy away

My phone always has over due credit, and a year I would reload it ~ 10 times only (RM10~30)

then 3 years back met a girl at work
again my EGO have the better of me
couldnt let go the thinking of me being sub-par to her
that I thought I could not handle the rejection - which is a certainty

then couple of week back
everything snapped,
she have found someone (unofficially info)

and my heart was broken even before anything has started

now, two week of maddnessss
I am just happy reeling back the pieces of my life back together

SO whats is the lesson:
1. EGO is useful in winning fights, not a way of life
2. Dont analyse everything soo much, you tend to loose focus on whats important - Life
3. Forget the bad stuff, always remember the good stuff that happens around you
4. add your own here...

SO whats is the lesson:
1. EGO is useful in winning fights, not a way of life
2. Dont analyse everything soo much, you tend to loose focus on whats important - Life
3. Forget the bad stuff, always remember the good stuff that happens around you
4. add your own here...
5. Profit?

man what's wrong with being single?

come everybody curse me so that I will not fall in love with ANY women. I need it.

have u had a relationship with a girl before(boyfen girlfren) If u dont, its trouble, but if u have b4, its quite normal to be single at 22, let it go by its nature for 2 years, sure can find love one