I only want to know how many of you already engaged in a relationship at this age of mine ? 22 isn't old but ain't young either, shitty things are going on in my life,

I started to feel bored of staying with parents, my sis already married and my bro is moving to his new house, left me and my parents, they are good but many times I have been thinking, is it now the time I should move out and learn to be independent? I have left the home and stay in university for the first year, after that move back to stay with parents. I don't appreciate much during my 1st year at university which was 4 years ago, that time I was being naive and stupid. Because of the decision to stay at home, I was hard to meet new friends at uni, my class are few in girls, I do not talk well to both guys and girls classmates. Now going to uni is no different than going for a boring office work, the secondary school friends are busy with their careers, relationship and their final year in uni, leaving me alone and lost in my life.

My result isn't good and I have to extend the degree course by 1 year. Expecting a lonely year,

What I worrying now isn't how much money I could earn, what my parents have given me made my life comfortable enough. It's whether I will live and die alone if things keep their current way, seeing many blogs and friendsters around, many people at my age are leading a colorful life. Sometimes I think of that I rather be poorer a bit, if that's the price I need to pay in exchange of a unregrettable younger days. This isn't whining, there's many other people are sufferer than mine, I just feel setback at times

This post has been edited by MagicPudding: Oct 4 2008, 02:48 PM

Its even sadder to show your sadness in this forum.

Regardless what, you really need to improve your communication skills and go for outings with group of friends more. Be interactive.

Your problem is socialisation, you're not doing enough. Socialise, get to know people, both guys and girls, don't worry about getting a partner, that will come naturally as you socialise.

grass always greener on the other side huh

dont worry i also 22 still single

Yup .. go out more often. Meet up with new people and open up.

You can't expect people to love you if you don't love yourself.

It's too late and too busy to redo the socializing as now is my final year, that's why I have regret of choosing to stay at home because of comfortableness

Are you by any chance, choosy in meeting women?

i also like stay at home facin the computer. homy type

don't worry to much about it. yes, do try to socialize more but if your final year keeps you too busy, do so after your exams are over. Just get to know people. I'm 24, single and living with my parents but I still have lots of friends. In fact, my problem is finding time to meet with them!

The problem is not choosy in woman, title been edited, love relationship is just part of the bigger trouble. In fact, I even have difficulties in getting a friend, not even need to say girls

This post has been edited by Dzon: Oct 4 2008, 02:53 PM

27 y.o. here, flying solo

and having zilch in socilising attitude

when you feel great, tonnes of ppl feel better than you
when you feel bad, milions of ppl are worst than you

so do whats comes natural to you

you dont need to be poor jz to be more socialable fyi

no topic to chat when come to girls

i suggest u take a short course after u grad

So you're shy and passive type.

let me say something about the culture in my family, my parents plan well for our future, they saved enough money for educational and future needs. They used to be stingy, which is why we almost never went on a family trip before, the things I did during school break were mostly reading books, going shopping complexes. My family members sucks in expressing feelings, celebrating birthdays, mother and fathers day is not a tradition of my family. In other words, my family life is quite dull. Not I want to blame them but I grewed up in these cultures which made me quite dull and closed-minded as well.

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