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Advice Wanted Age 22 and still single, having monotone life, Big problem or wut
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silverhawk
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Oct 4 2008, 02:45 PM
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Your problem is socialisation, you're not doing enough. Socialise, get to know people, both guys and girls, don't worry about getting a partner, that will come naturally as you socialise.
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silverhawk
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Oct 4 2008, 02:59 PM
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QUOTE(MagicPudding @ Oct 4 2008, 02:47 PM) It's too late and too busy to redo the socializing as now is my final year, that's why I have regret of choosing to stay at home because of comfortableness Excuses, its never too late, and you're never too busy. If you're too busy, that just shows you do not know how to manage your time, you're trying to tell me its hard to spare 1-2 hours in a day to go yumcha with friends or something? Set some time on the weekends or something to go have fun and socialise. Whether its going to clubs, pubs, a book club, etc. Just go somewhere where you can meet people. Stop making excuses for yourself.
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silverhawk
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Oct 4 2008, 03:12 PM
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QUOTE(MagicPudding @ Oct 4 2008, 03:04 PM) You are right, however in my current situation, I found it weird to suddenly call up people which never called me, seldom talk to me, to have a meetup or events. I am a person that worry about what people think of me, I know I have to wipe off of that. At times I feel some of my friends call me only when they need my help, when they are living good they won't bother me. To call them out means I have to let go of my ego. Then let go of it. I'll give you a task. Pick up your phone, call one or more of your friends, and ask them out for a movie/lunch/dinner/drinks/etc. Then just go meet up with them and talk. Don't expect anything except maybe some catching up, or something. Go, do this, NOW. Its a saturday, just call someone and see if they're free to hangout.
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silverhawk
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Oct 4 2008, 03:46 PM
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QUOTE(ah_suknat @ Oct 4 2008, 03:35 PM) man what's wrong with being single? come everybody curse me so that I will not fall in love with ANY women. I need it. I curse you to fall in love with a woman, 300 pounds in weight, suffering from severe acne and eating disorders, but she'll be good in bed (or as a bed).
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silverhawk
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Oct 4 2008, 03:54 PM
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QUOTE(MagicPudding @ Oct 4 2008, 03:53 PM) I know I ought to do something, just that don't have the guts  Coward
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silverhawk
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Oct 4 2008, 04:03 PM
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I'm 14
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silverhawk
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Oct 4 2008, 04:07 PM
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QUOTE(ling~ @ Oct 4 2008, 04:05 PM) really 14 la
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