dont owrry..
no matter how u will get one soon..

Dear MagicPudding

I believe your suffering from what we known as failure to launch, its a movie tittle but its meaningful. Your having fear of commitment and being independent. Its always hard to take the first step whether in a relationship or being independent and staying near the college. But it takes time to launch and take your first step, and the simplest way for you to face this fear its to being socializing. By being the first to start a conversation.

24, single, enjoying each moment of it ... why?
1. i can do what i want without having to send a report message.
2. i can go out flirt and not feel guilty
3. i can drink until i fall with my friends and no one will ask me to stop
4. i can just pack my bags and leave to another place when enuff cash
5. i can do random things without someone keep on asking where am i
6 i think u can fill this list up if u're creative enough to brighten up ur life.. at 22, plenty of things to enjoy and lots of life ahead! cheer up mate! ...

am mid 20s, single and still kicking! else wouldnt have tat much time to lepaking here

This post has been edited by elru: Apr 27 2009, 01:23 AM

22, single....never been into a serious relationship...if that makes u feel better....agree with elrone....alot of freedom....not that im shitass queer or sth....i do like gurls just not ready la....just keep dating and getting to know ppl...date doesnt mean hav to get into relationship....

Hi there!
Take my advice: Don't try to make friends, you'll look like a dumb arse.

Regards, Joey.

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Added on April 28, 2009, 12:14 pmFor whatever yu have written, I still love your avatar! Joey~~~

This post has been edited by Joey Christensen: Apr 28 2009, 12:14 PM

i am 25, still single for the moment, and i like to do whatever i wanted....but i know sooner or later i will need to find a stable one

get a hobby. come fishing. you'll meet lots of people. all sorts.

http://www.fishing.net.my/forum/active.asp

life is never meant to be get married or get gf, im appreciate what i have and i think the most important thing is 'appreciation' and acceptance, along the life i had met 2 girls which i never ever forgotten in my life (eventhough we never start our relationship, but cuz of them, i learned to appreciate), i barely take my courage out even they hinted me (what a coward ). Like u, i put the blame on myself, till i realized my parents r the one who concern me the most.

ya by the way, im 22yrs old and still single , my advice is ' life is wonderful, appreciate it'

join club n society,noe more fren
gal wil come when ur social skill are remarkable

im 25 here single, being single since 6 years ago my ex died in car accident during CNY.

but its not the incident makes me dont want to find gurls, just want to take some rest and offcourse flirting and date more

During class, look at the people who is sitting beside you and says Hi to them. Tell them your name and start a conversation. That's one of the method to get to know more people.

I have similar situation like you,TS. I'm 22, single and still studying. Before going into relationship, start making friends. People wear mask as they go around facing the world but there will always be at least 1 true friend who's willing to listen to you and hang out with you. Friends come and go, that's a fact. That is why we'd rather enjoy life to share joy memories instead of doing nothing, leaving empty memories behind.


PS: being single without anyone is way better than being single but in love with people you cant have. Therefore, live life to the fullest.

thanks again for the feedbacks, to find a girlfriend is not my current aim, all I want is to know more people, make me feels that at least I am remembered by some people

I've a quiet and shy personality but yet I get to know some friends in college. I click well with people who stick around me usually. Unless you're in a totally new environment I don't see why you can't get to know people. Are you sissy or somethin? No offence.

everything will be fine, don't worry

I did made some friends of course, even had 2 trips with them b4. But time pass by, people change and moved on, I need to move on too, I feel the urge to meet new people which are totally unrelated with existing ones, that is where I encounter difficulties

One way of expanding your network of friends is to stick with your existing friends, get comfortable with them. Why? When you're close with them eventually they will introduce their friends to you as well it's natural. So there's no need for the extreme mentality to go mix around new people like walking up to them or to randomly pick up some phone numbers and call (which I think is quite dumb, because you're not being who you are. How long can this fakeness last anyway?) Besides, having a few quality friends are better than having 1000 acquaintances whom you don't really know.

PS: Are you effeminate?

This post has been edited by fastandfurious: May 1 2009, 03:28 PM