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TSMayAnne
post Aug 2 2008, 04:54 PM, updated 15y ago

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Okay, this thread is a SERIOUS THREAD (meaning not for spams and no value postings) for all LYN forumers to post and share their INSPIRATIONAL STORIES, QUOTES, PICTURES etc. There may be stories we have read or even real life lessons we may want to share, so all of us can learn something from those stories. There are quotes that may make us think and ponder. Or there may be a picture that conveys a message more than words can say.

I'm not looking for comments, instead I'm encouraging participation by contribution. However, even if you do not have anything to contribute at the moment, I hope that by just reading some stories here or viewing some pictures here, you would have already learnt something.

I had wanted to start this sort of thread for a long time now, so all of us can share and learn and I guess Kopitiam is the place to post since the traffic here is the highest and the thread will be viewed more often. But kopitiam being kopitiam, I expect some spams, no-value and irrelevant postings even with the "Serious Talk" tag. So, I just want to say beforehand, that all irrelevant postings will be deleted by the Moderating Team.

This thread is created with good intentions for the benefit of everyone who reads it. Let's keep it that way ya. So come... let's share and learn... smile.gif

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post Aug 2 2008, 04:57 PM

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My first story here...


There are two days in every week about which we should not worry. Two days which should be kept free from fear and apprehension.

One of these days is yesterday, with its mistakes and cares, its faults and blunders, its aches and pains. Yesterday has passed forever beyond our control. All the money in the world cannot bring back yesterday. We cannot undo a single act we performed. We cannot erase a single word we said. Yesterday is gone!!

The other day we should not worry about is tomorrow, with its possible adversities, its burdens, its large promise and poor performance. Tomorrow is beyond our immediate control. Tomorrow's sun will rise, whether in splendor or behind a mask of clouds. But it will rise. Until it does we have no stake in tomorrow, for it is yet unborn.

This leaves only one day: today.

Any man can fight the battles of just one day. It is when you and I add the burdens of two awful eternities - yesterday and tomorrow, that we break down.

It is not necessarily the experience of today that disturbs one's peace of mind. It is often time the bitterness for something which happened yesterday and the dread of what tomorrow may bring. Let us therefore live one day at a time.


This is to remind all of us that while we should remember the past and plan and anticipate the future, it is critical that we don’t get paralyzed by either. By focusing on making the best of the present, we can actually make the past a sweeter learning experience, and make tomorrow’s hopes and dreams closer to reality.

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"Almost all of us have childhood dreams; for example, being an astronaut, or making movies or video games for a living. Sadly, most people don’t achieve theirs, and I think that’s a shame. I had several specific childhood dreams, and I’ve actually achieved most of them. More importantly, I have found ways, in particular the creation (with Don Marinelli), of CMU’s Entertainment Technology Center of helping many young people actually *achieve* their childhood dreams." - Randy Pausch, Oct. 23, 1960 - July 25, 2008

Carnegie Mellon Professor Randy Pausch, who was dying of pancreatic cancer, gave his last lecture at the university Sept. 18, 2007, before a packed McConomy Auditorium. In his moving talk, "Really Achieving Your Childhood Dreams," Pausch talked about his lessons learned and gave advice to students on how to achieve their own career and personal goals.

Pausch, a professor of computer science, human computer interaction and design, co-founded Carnegie Mellon’s Entertainment Technology Center and was the creator of the Alice interactive computing program, which is being used by students worldwide. (http://www.cmu.edu/uls/journeys/randy-pausch/index.html)

The Last Lecture -1.5 hours of video, http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ji5_MqicxSo

Other links,

Randy Pausch - Carnegie Mellon University (http://www.cmu.edu/uls/journeys/randy-pausch/index.html)

The Last Lecture | Randy Pausch (http://www.thelastlecture.com/)

Randy Pausch ABC Special about the "Last Lecture", April 2008(http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=265263428002185148)

A Final Farewell( http://online.wsj.com/article/SB120951287174854465.html)

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well, i've an inspirational video i would like to share

it's a skit/drama which is really moving. video may not work for everyone though.

music is "everything" by lifehouse

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cyheJ480LYA




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post Aug 2 2008, 05:15 PM

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Betting on same set of number for 8 years
Toto player wins RM4 million
Kuala Lumpur (Friday)

Perseverance of a Sports Toto player has finally paid off. A punter who has been betting consistently on a set of number in Toto 6D game for the past eight years won the first prize of RM4 million in last Saturday's Toto 6D draw. The number he bet 619827 was drawn as the first prize winning number for Toto 6D game drawn on that day.

Accompanied by his two sons, the winner, a retired businessman from the Klang Valley, happily collected his winnings at Sports Toto Malaysia head office on Wednesday morning (9/7/03).

According to the winner, the set of number was chosen from birth dates of his four grandchildren. He used to invest RM50 in this number practically every Toto 6D draw for the past eight years.

However, the sixties something winner said, when he made his regular bet on the same number last Saturday (5/7/03), he only managed to wager RM40 in that number for that particular draw.

The jubilant winner said he planned to throw a party to celebrate his newfound fortune with his family members and added that he needed time to decide on how to use his windfall.

"For the time being, I will keep the money in the bank to earn interest before deciding on my next move." He said.

According to a spokesman of Sports Toto, this is the second largest amount won by a single winner in Toto 6D game so far this year. Barely three months ago in April, a retiree won a hefty sum of RM4.9 million in Toto 6D, the biggest amount won by a single winner in the history of the 6D game, which was introduced in 1988.

Toto 6D is a popular digit game in the country. The first prize of the game is RM100,000 per every ringgit bet. To win the first prize, the 6-digit numbers on the 6D ticket must be in correct sequence with that of the drawn 6-digit numbers. However, players still stand to win second (RM3,000) third (RM300), forth (RM30) or fifth prize (RM4) if the front or back 5, 4, 3 or 2 digit numbers are in correct sequence with 5, 4, 3, or 2 digit numbers of the drawn winning 6-digit numbers.

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I stoles this from some site. Unselfish men are hard to find, ones that are willing to sacrifice themselves for one another even harder. We could all learn something about it ya?

We live only for so long, but by giving a bit of what life we have to others, we carve a niche for ourselves in the eternity of people's hearts and memories.

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In August of 1942, the first major USMC assault landings against the Japanese Empire occurred in the Solomon Islands, Pacific. The island chosen for the invasion was Guadalcanal.

As they moved inland, four Marines were walking point into the jungle. Advancing into an open area without cover, they came under heavy fire from the entrenched Japanese. All four Marines were wounded but managed to crawl into a shell crater, about fifty yards from where they had emerged from the jungle.

A Hospital Corpsman ran from cover into the crater with the wounded Marines, and ran back to cover, under fire. Having dressed the wounds of the Marine, he sprinted back for another, only this time he was hit. Not stopping to dress his own wounds, he carried the second Marine to cover receiving a second wound. After giving aid to the Marine, the Corpsman was hit for a third time going into the crater. Staggering toward the treeline with the third Marine, he was again struck by enemy fire.

When the third Marine's wounds were dressed, the Corpsman started after the last Marine in the crater. The Corpsman still had not stopped to care for his own wounds. In a final valiant effort, he stumbled toward the crater, where he was brought down by concentrated enemy machine gun fire. He lunged forward into the crater falling across the fourth Marine, finally giving up his life.

Reaching up to his own bleeding wounds, the Marine wrote on the back of the Corpsman's bullet riddled shirt,

"WHERE ANGELS AND MARINES FEAR TO TREAD, THERE YOU'LL FIND A CORPSMAN DEAD."

This was that dying Marine's final tribute to his shipmate's supreme sacrifice in fulfilling his oath, "TO AID THE WOUNDED, IN THEIR MOMENT OF NEED."

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A quote I particularly like,

“Every morning in Africa, when a Gazelle wakes up, it knows it must run faster than the fastest lion or it will be killed. Every morning a Lion wakes up, it knows it must outrun the slowest Gazelle or it will starve to death. It doesn't matter whether you are a Lion or a Gazelle... when the sun comes up, you'd better be running.”

Tells you the truth about globalisation and regardless of which side of the fence you're on, you better start running.
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A Story of Redemption

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During the course of World War II,many people gained fame in one way or another. One man was Butch O'Hare. He was a fighter pilot assigned to an aircraft carrier in the Pacific. One time his entire squadron was assigned to fly a particular mission. After he was airborne, he looked at his fuel gauge and realized that someone had forgotten to top off his fuel tank. Because of this, he would not have enough fuel to complete his mission and get back to his ship. His flight leader told him to leave formation and return.

As he was returning to the mother ship, he could see a squadron of Japanese Zeroes heading toward the fleet to attack. And with all the fighter planes gone, the fleet was almost defenseless. His was the only opportunity to distract and divert them. Single-handedly, he dove into the formation of Japanese planes and attacked them. The American fighter planes were rigged with cameras, so that as they flew and fought, pictures were taken so pilots could learn more about the terrain, enemy maneuvers, etc. Butch dove at them and shot until all his ammunition was gone, then he would dive and try to clip off a wing or tail or anything that would make the enemy planes unfit to fly. He did anything he could to keep them from reaching the American ships. Finally, the Japanese squadron took off in another direction, and Butch O'Hare and his fighter, both badly shot up, limped back to the carrier.

He told his story, but not until the film from the camera on his plane was developed, did they realize the extent he really went to, to protect his fleet. He was recognized as a hero and given one of the nation's highest military honors. And as you know, the O'Hare Airport was also named after him.

Prior to this time in Chicago, there was a man named Easy Eddie. He was working for a man you've all heard about, Al Capone. Al Capone wasn't famous for anything heroic, but he was notorious for the murders he'd committed and the illegal things he'd done. Easy Eddie was Al Capone's lawyer, and he was very good. In fact, because of his skill, he was able to keep Al Capone out of jail.

To show his appreciation, Al Capone paid him very well. He not only earned big money, he would get extra things, like a residence that filled an entire Chicago city block. The house was fenced, and he had live-in help and all of the conveniences of the day.

Easy Eddie had a son. He loved his son and gave him all the best things while he was growing up: clothes, cars, and a good education. And because he loved his son he tried to teach him right from wrong. But one thing he couldn't give his son was a good name, and a good example.

Easy Eddie decided that this was much more important than all the riches he had given him. So, he went to the authorities in order to rectify the wrong he had done. In order to tell the truth, it meant he must testify against Al Capone, and he knew that Al Capone would do his best to have him killed.

But he wanted most of all to try to be an example and to do the best he could to give back to his son, a good name. So he testified. Within the year, he was shot and killed on a lonely street in Chicago. This sounds like two unrelated stories. But Butch O'Hare was Easy Eddie's son.

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Phew... I just spring-cleaned the thread. But thanks to the contributions by those who are still here. Well, I guess old habits die hard but nonetheless... here's a quote that makes us all think...

NEVER ATTRIBUTE TO MALICE THAT WHICH CAN BE ADEQUATELY EXPLAINED BY STUPIDITY.



To the spammers,

Look guys, you never know... maybe someone out there may just be needing some encouragement right now and may be reading this thread...
Please remember the intention of this thread. If you do not have that intention, I hope you will save your contribution for somewhere else, but thanks for reading through anyway...

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"I've missed more than 9000 shots. I've lost almost 300 games. I've failed over and over again in my life And that is why I succeed." -Michael Jordan
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My contribution today...


In the days when an ice cream sundae cost much less, a 10-year-old boy entered a hotel coffee shop and sat at a table. A waitress put a glass of water in front of him.

"How much is an ice cream sundae?" he asked. "Fifty cents," replied the waitress.

The little boy pulled is hand out of his pocket and studied the coins in it. "Well, how much is a plain dish of ice cream?" he inquired.

By now more people were waiting for a table and the waitress was growing impatient.

"Thirty-five cents," she brusquely replied.

The little boy again counted his coins. "I'll have the plain ice cream," he said.

The waitress brought the ice cream, put the bill on the table and walked away. The boy finished the ice cream, paid the cashier and left. When the waitress came back, she began to cry as she wiped down the table. There, placed neatly beside the empty dish, were two nickels and five pennies.

You see, he couldn't have the sundae, because he had to have enough left to leave her a tip.



Always remember those who serve us AND those whom we serve. smile.gif

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A group of children were playing near two railway tracks, one still in use
while the other disused. Only one child played on the disused track, the
rest on the operational track.

The train is coming, and you are just beside the track interchange. You can
make the train change its course to the disused track and save most of the
kids. However, that would also mean the lone child playing by the disused
track would be sacrificed. Or would you rather let the train go its way?

Let's take a pause to think what kind of decision we could
make.



Most people might choose to divert the course of the train, and sacrifice
only one child. You might think the same way, I guess. Exactly, to save
most of the children at the expense of only one child was rational decision
most people would make, morally and emotionally. But, have you ever thought
that the child choosing to play on the disused track had in fact made the
right decision to play at a safe place?

Nevertheless, he had to be sacrificed because of his ignorant friends who
chose to play where the danger was. This kind of dilemma happens around us
everyday. In the office, community, in politics and especially in a
democratic society, the minority is often sacrificed for the interest of
the majority, no matter how foolish or ignorant the majority are, and how
farsighted and knowledgeable the minority are. The child who chose not to
play with the rest on the operational track was sidelined. And in the case
he was sacrificed, no one would shed a tear for him.

The great critic Leo Velski Julian who told the story said he would not try
to change the course of the train because he believed that the kids playing
on the operational track should have known very well that track was still
in use, and that they should have run away if they heard the train's
sirens. If the train was diverted, that lone child would definitely die
because he never thought the train could come over to that track! Moreover,
that track was not in use probably because it was not safe. If the train
was diverted to the track, we could put the lives of all passengers on
board at stake! And in your attempt to save a few kids by sacrificing one
child, you might end up sacrificing hundreds of people to save these few
kids.

While we are all aware that life is full of tough decisions that need to be
made, we may not realize that hasty decisions may not always be the right
one.

'Remember that what's right isn't always popular... and what's popular
isn't always right.'

Everybody makes mistakes; that's why they put erasers on pencils.



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TWO GLASSES OF WINE

When things in your life seem almost too much to handle,
when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and
the 2 glasses of wine theory...

A professor stood before his philosophy class with some
items on his desk in front of him. When the class began, wordlessly,
he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill
it with golf balls.

He then asked the students if the jar was full. They
agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured
them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into
the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if
the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it
into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked
once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous
'YES.'

The professor then produced two glasses of wine from
under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar,
effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.

'Now,' said the professor, as the laughter subsided, 'I
want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf
balls are the important things; your family, your children, your health,
your friends, and your favorite passions; things that if everything else
was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.

The pebbles are the other things that matter like your
job, your house, and your car. The sand is everything else; the small
stuff.

If you put the sand into the jar first', he continued,
'there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for
life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you
will never have room for the good things that are important to you.
Pay attention to the things that are critical to your
happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups.
Take your partner out to dinner. Play another 18 holes. Do one more
run down the ski slope. There will always be time to clean the house and
fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first; the things that
really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.'

One of the students raised her hand and
inquired what the wine represented.

The professor smiled. 'I'm glad you asked. It
just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem,
there's always room for a couple of glasses of wine with a friend.'


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Of Sand and Stones...


There is a story of two friends who were walking through a desert. At a certain point of the journey they had an argument, and one friend slapped the other one right across the face. The one who got slapped was very hurt, but without saying anything, wrote in the sand: "Today my closest friend slapped me."

The two friends kept on walking until they found an oasis, where they decided to go into the water. The one, who had been slapped, got stuck in the mire and started drowning, but his friend saved him. After the friend recovered from near drowning, he carved out on a stone: "Today my closest friend saved my life."

The friend who had slapped and saved his best friend asked him, "After I hurt you, you wrote in the sand and now, you write on a stone, why?"

The other friend replied: "When someone hurts us, we should write it down in sand where winds of forgiveness can erase it away. But, when someone does something good for us, we must engrave it in stone where no wind can ever erase it."



Just a reminder that we should not hold on to grudges but instead to never forget those who have helped us.

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RED MARBLES

I was at the corner grocery store buying some early potatoes.

I noticed a small boy, delicate of bone and feature, ragged but clean, hungrily apprizing a basket of freshly picked green peas.

I paid for my potatoes, but was also drawn to the display of fresh green peas.

I am a pushover for creamed peas and new potatoes. Pondering the peas, I couldn't help overhearing the conversation between Mr. Miller (the store owner) and the ragged boy next to me.

'Hello Barry, how are you today?'

'H'lo, Mr. Miller. Fine, thank ya. Jus' admirin' them peas. They sure look good.'

'They are good, Barry. How's your Ma?'

'Fine. Gittin' stronger alla' time.'

'Good. Anything I can help you with?'

'No, Sir. Jus' admirin' them peas.'

'Would you like take some home?' asked Mr. Miller.

'No, Sir. Got nuthin' to pay for 'em with.'

'Well, what have you to trade me for some of those peas?'

'All I got's my prize marble here.'

'Is that right? Let me see it' said Miller.

'Here 'tis. She's a dandy.'

'I can see that. Hmmmmm, only thing is this one is blue and I sort of go for red. Do you have a red one like this at home?' the store owner asked.

'Not zackley but almost.'

'Tell you what. Take this sack of peas home with you and next trip this way let me look at that red marble', Mr. Miller told the boy.

'Sure will. Thanks Mr. Miller.'

Mrs. Miller, who had been standing nearby, came over to help me.

With a smile said, 'There are two other boys like him in our community, all three are in very poor circumstances. Jim just loves to bargain with them for peas, apples, tomatoes, or whatever.

When they come back with their red marbles, and they always do, he decides he doesn't like red after all and he sends them home with a bag of produce for a green marble or an orange one, when they come on their next trip to the store.'

I left the store smiling to myself, impressed with this man.

A short time later I moved to Colorado , but I never forgot the story of this man, the boys, and their bartering for marbles.

Several years went by, each more rapid than the previous one.

Just recently I had occasion to visit some old friends in that Idaho community and while I was there learned that Mr. Miller had died..

They were having his visitation that evening and knowing my friends wanted to go, I agreed to accompany them.

Upon arrival at the mortuary we fell into line to meet the relatives of the deceased and to offer whatever words of comfort we could.

Ahead of us in line were three young men.

One was in an army uniform and the other two wore nice haircuts, dark suits and white shirts...all very professional looking.

They approached Mrs. Miller, standing composed and smiling by her husband's casket.

Each of the young men hugged her, kissed her on the cheek, spoke briefly with her and moved on to the casket.

Her misty light blue eyes followed them as, one by one, each young man stopped briefly and placed his own warm hand over the cold pale hand in the casket.

Each left the mortuary awkwardly, wiping his eyes.

Our turn came to meet Mrs. Miller. I told her who I was and reminded her of the story from those many years ago and what she had told me about her husband's bartering for marbles.

With her eyes glistening, she took my hand and led me to the casket.

'Those three young men who just left were the boys I told you about. They just told me how they appreciated the things Jim 'traded' them.

Now, at last, when Jim could not change his mind about color or size...they came to pay their debt.'

'We've never had a great deal of the wealth of this world,' she confided, 'but right now, Jim would consider himself the richest man in Idaho '.

With loving gentleness she lifted the lifeless fingers of her deceased husband. Resting underneath were three exquisitely shined red marbles.

The Moral: We will not be remembered by our words, but by our kind deeds. Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath.

Today I wish you a day of ordinary miracles ~ A fresh pot of coffee you didn't make yourself.

An unexpected phone call from an old friend.

Green stoplights on your way to work.

The fastest line at the grocery store.

A good sing-along song on the radio.

Your keys found right where you left them.

...
It's not what you gather, but what you scatter that tells what kind of life you have lived!
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what i'm about to write is not for the lulz.
its something i wake up to every morning as a reminder....


Quote " Never underestimate the power of stupid people in large groups"




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~How Poor We Are~

One day a father, of a very wealthy family, took his son on a trip to the country with the firm purpose of showing his son how poor people can be. They spent a couple of days and nights on the farm of what would be considered a very poor family.

On their return from the trip, the father asked his son,"How was the trip?"

"It was great Dad!"

"Did you see how poor people can be?" the father asked.

"Oh yeah," said the son.

"So what did you learn from the trip?" asked the father.

The son answered,

"I saw we have one dog and they have four. We have a pool that reaches to the middle of our garden and they have a creek that has no end. We have imported lanterns in our garden and they have the stars at night. Our patio reaches to the front yard and they have the whole horizon.

We have a small piece of land to live on and they have fields that go beyond our sight. We have servants who serve us, but they serve others. We buy our food, but they grow theirs. We have walls around our property to protect us, they have friends to protect them."

With this the boy's father was speechless.

Then his son added,

"Thanks Dad for showing me how poor we are."

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As a child gathering pebbles on the shore

I do not know what I may appear to the world, but to myself I seem to have been only like a boy playing on the sea-shore, and diverting myself in now and then finding a smoother pebble or a prettier shell than ordinary, whilst the great ocean of truth lay all undiscovered before me.

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“If you are going through hell, keep going.”

Quotes by Winston Churchill

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“What do you mean? Do you wish me a good morning, or mean that it is a good morning whether I want it or not; or that you feel good on this morning; or that it is a morning to be good on?”

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At an airport, I overheard a father and his daughter in their last moments together. They had announced her plane's departure and standing near
the door she said, "Daddy, our life together has been more than enough. Your love is all I ever needed. I wish you enough too, Daddy."

They kissed goodbye and she left. He walked over towards the window where I was seated. Standing there I could see he wanted and needed to cry. I tried not to intrude on his privacy, but he welcomed me in by asking, "Did you ever say goodbye to someone knowing it would be forever?" "Yes, I have," I replied.

Saying that brought back memories I had of expressing my love and appreciation for all my Mom had done for me. Recognizing that her days
were limited, I took the time to tell her face to face how much she meant to me. So I knew what this man was experiencing.

"Forgive me for asking, but why is this forever goodbye?" I asked. "I am old and she lives much too far away. I have challenges ahead and the reality is, her next trip back will be for my funeral," he said. "When you were saying goodbye I heard you say, 'I wish you enough'. May I ask what that means?" He began to smile. "That's a wish that has been handed down from other generations. My parents used to say it to everyone."

He paused for a moment and looking up as if trying to remember it in detail, he smiled even more. "When we said, 'I wish you enough,' we were wanting the other person to have a life filled with enough good things to sustain them." He continued and then turning toward me, he shared the following as if he were reciting it from memory:

I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright.
I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun more.
I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive.
I wish you enough pain so that the smallest joys in life appear much bigger.
I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.
I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess.
I wish you enough "Hellos" to get you through the final "Goodbye".


He then began to sob and walked away.


I WISH YOU ENOUGH.

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HOPE is a wonderful gift from God, a source of strength and courage in the face of life’s harshest trials.

- When we are trapped in a tunnel of misery, hope points to the light at the end.

- When we are overworked and exhausted, hope gives fresh energy.

- When we are discouraged, hope lifts our spirits.

- When we are tempted to quit, hope keeps us going.

- When we lose our way and confusion blurs the destination, hope dulls the edge of panic.

- When we struggle with a crippling disease or a lingering illness, hope helps us persevere beyond the pain.

- When we fear the worst, hope brings reminders that God is still in control.

- When we must endure the consequences of bad decisions, hope fuels our recovery.

- When we find ourselves unemployed, hope tells us we still have a future.

- When we are forced to sit back and wait, hope gives us the patience to trust.

- When we feel rejected and abandoned, hope reminds us we’re not alone…we’ll make it.

- When we say our final farewell to someone we love, hope in the life beyond gets us through our grief.

Put simply, when life hurts and dreams fade, nothing helps like HOPE.


from Charles Swindoll’s "HOPE AGAIN".



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The Real You

One woman describes herself as "Five feet, three inches tall and pleasingly plump." After she had a minor accident, her mother accompanied her to the hospital emergency room. The admitting nurse asked for her height and weight, and she blurted out, "Five-foot- eight, 125 pounds."

The nurse pondered over this information and looked over the patient. Then the woman's mother leaned over to her and gently chided, "Sweetheart, this is not the Internet."

If you could change your appearance in life as easily as you can make one up on the Internet, would you remake yourself? It's tempting to think so. We live in an age when most of us are increasingly dissatisfied with our bodies. We want liposuction, face lifts, tummy tucks, silicon implants and cosmetic surgery - too often for no other reason than to look like someone else!

And don't think I am only talking about women. Men too place great emphasis on their bodies. Studies show that in 1972, one in six men didn't like their appearance; today, almost 50% of men surveyed reported being unhappy with their looks.

Of course, our bodies keep changing. I have less hair on top than twenty years ago. An older man who happens to be bald looked at my head recently and said, "It looks like you go to the same barber as I do."

According to the book THE ADONIS COMPLEX (The Free Press, 2000), more and more men are feeling insecure about their appearance. In 1996, over 700,000 men had some cosmetic surgery - often in an unhealthy attempt to fix a perceived flaw that nobody else noticed. Eating disorders and steroid abuse are common among males.

The book's authors Harrison Pope, Katharine Phillips, and Robert Olivardia did an experiment in which men were asked to take a computer image of an ordinary man and add muscle mass to him until he was the size these men wanted to be. On average, the men packed about 28 more pounds of muscle mass on the computer image; women, on the other hand, only added a negligible amount of muscles to the image to create their ideal guy.

Poet Khalil Gibran said, "Beauty is not in the face; beauty is a light in the heart." When you and I choose to believe that our most attractive qualities lie within, we can let go of those unrealistic expectations of our bodies.

Let's care for our bodies; we'll keep them for the rest of our lives. Let's be thankful for them and treat them well.

But remember, the real you, the essence of you, cannot be improved by a bottle or a pill or a salon. It is a beautiful and glorious light shining from your heart to the heart of the world. Cherish the real you - it's pretty terrific. And let it shine.

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Hi guys .. 1st of all sorry that I've nothing to share with you guys .. mods feel free to delete if it's inappropriate but I sincerely would like to thank the TS and everyone who contributed.

I'm going tru a hard time and this thread has seriously brighten up my day ... thanks to everyone ... more of this should be going on in LYN .. cheers guys

May life be brighter for everyone here

Edit: Something I've juz camed out with ... it just suddenly crossed my mind ... for those who've just turned from a young adult to a real adult ..

I've forgotten how to be happy, but i've learnt how to be a man - Gymboi

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"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others."

-Marianne Williamson
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QUOTE(happy4ever @ Aug 9 2008, 04:46 AM)
What you can do tomorrow, why do it today. There's always another tomorrow. Procrastinate!
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Thanks for your contribution. Thank you all who contributed too. smile.gif

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QUOTE(MayAnne @ Aug 9 2008, 11:57 AM)
Sounds a lot like Scarlet O'Hara from "Gone With The Wind".

Thanks for your contribution.  Thank you all who contributed too.  smile.gif
And thank YOU for the great big smile so early in the morning!  laugh.gif
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QUOTE(happy4ever @ Aug 9 2008, 01:34 PM)
Frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn.  sweat.gif
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Gone With The Wind... I read the book... and I think Rhett Butler is sooooo man! wub.gif

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THE RAIN - THOMAS KINKAKE

Stop at the picture for a second, and watch the Rain… then read on…

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One rainy afternoon I was driving along one of the main streets of town, taking those extra precautions necessary when the roads are wet and slick.

Suddenly, my daughter, Aspen, spoke up from her relaxed position in her seat. "Dad, I'm thinking of something."

This announcement usually meant she had been pondering some fact for a while, and was now ready to expound all that her six-year-old mind had discovered. I was eager to hear.

"What are you thinking?" I asked.

"The rain!" she began, "is like sin, and the windshield wipers are like God wiping our sins away."

After the chill bumps raced up my arms I was able to respond.

"That's really good, Aspen."

Then my curiosity broke in. How far would this little girl take this revelation? So I asked… "Do you notice how the rain keeps on coming? What does that tell you?"

Aspen didn't hesitate one moment with her answer:

"We keep on sinning, and God just keeps on forgiving us."

I will always remember this whenever I turn my wipers on.

IN ORDER TO SEE THE RAINBOW, WE MUST FIRST ENDURE SOME RAIN.

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QUOTE(MayAnne @ Aug 9 2008, 02:21 PM)
Yes, sometimes we have to look at things that way. Save a lot of headaches and heartaches.

Gone With The Wind... I read the book... and I think Rhett Butler is sooooo man!  wub.gif
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I watched to show actually. Vivien leigh was just so hot!!!
Clark Cable and his mustache gives me the turn on too!


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A Story on Friendship

A story is told about a soldier who was finally coming home after having fought in Vietnam. He called his parents from San Francisco.

"Mom and Dad, I'm coming home, but I've a favor to ask. I have a friend I'd like to bring home with me.

"Sure," they replied, "we'd love to meet him."

"There's something you should know," the son continued, "he was hurt pretty badly in the fighting. He stepped on a land mind and lost an arm and a leg. He has nowhere else to go, and I want him to come live with us."

"I'm sorry to hear that, son. Maybe we can help him find somewhere to live."

"No, Mom and Dad, I want him to live with us."

"Son," said the father, "you don't know what you're asking. Someone with such a handicap would be a terrible burden on us. We have our own lives to live, and we can't let something like this interfere with our lives. I think you should just come home and forget about this guy. He'll find a way to live on his own."

At that point, the son hung up the phone. The parents heard nothing more from him. A few days later, however, they received a call from the San Francisco police. Their son had died after falling from a building, they were told. The police believed it was suicide.

The grief-stricken parents flew to San Francisco and were taken to the city morgue to identify the body of their son. They recognized him, but to their horror they also discovered something they didn't know, their son had only one arm and one leg.

The parents in this story are like many of us. We find it easy to love those who are good-looking or fun to have around, but we don't like people who inconvenience us or make us feel uncomfortable. We would rather stay away from people who aren't as healthy, beautiful, or smart as we are.

Thankfully, there's someone who won't treat us that way. Someone who loves us with an unconditional love that welcomes us into the forever family, regardless of how messed up we are.

Tonight, before you tuck yourself in for the night, say a little prayer that God will give you the strength you need to accept people as they are, and to help us all be more understanding of those who are different from us!!! There's a miracle called Friendship That dwells in the heart You don't know how it happens Or when it gets started But you know the special lift It always brings. And you realize that Friendship Is God's most precious gift!

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QUOTE(SilenTz_1993 @ Aug 9 2008, 11:31 PM)
The parents in this story are like many of us. We find it easy to love those who are good-looking or fun to have around, but we don't like people who inconvenience us or make us feel uncomfortable. We would rather stay away from people who aren't as healthy, beautiful, or smart as we are.

Thankfully, there's someone who won't treat us that way. Someone who loves us with an unconditional love that welcomes us into the forever family, regardless of how messed up we are.

Tonight, before you tuck yourself in for the night, say a little prayer that God will give you the strength you need to accept people as they are, and to help us all be more understanding of those who are different from us!!! There's a miracle called Friendship That dwells in the heart You don't know how it happens Or when it gets started But you know the special lift It always brings. And you realize that Friendship Is God's most precious gift!

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Years ago, there was a very wealthy man who, with his devoted young son, shared a passion for art collecting. Together they traveled around the world, adding only the finest art treasures to their collection. Priceless works by Picasso, Van Gogh, Monet and many others adorned the walls of the family estate. The widowed elder man looked on with satisfaction as his only child became an experienced art collector. The son's trained eye and sharp business mind caused his father to beam with pride as they dealt with art collectors around the world.

As winter approached, war engulfed the nation, and the young man left to serve his country. After only a few short weeks, his father received a telegram. His beloved son was missing in action. The art collector anxiously awaited more news, fearing he would never see his son again. Within days, his fears were confirmed. The young man had died while rushing a fellow soldier to a medic.

Distraught and lonely, the old man faced the upcoming Christmas holidays with anguish and sadness. The joy of the season-a season that he and his son had so looked forward to-would visit his house no longer.

On Christmas morning, a knock on the door awakened the depressed old man. As he walked to the door, the masterpieces of art on the walls only reminded him that his son was not coming home. As he opened the door, he was greeted by a soldier with a large package in his hand. He introduced himself to the man by saying, "I was a friend of your son. I was the one he was rescuing when he died. May I come in for a few moments? I have something to show you."

As the two began to talk, the soldier told of how the man's son had told everyone of his-not to mention his father's-love of fine art. "I'm an artist," said the soldier, "and I want to give you this." As the old man unwrapped the package, the paper gave way to reveal a portrait of the man's son.

Though the world would never consider it the work of a genius, the painting featured the young man's face in striking detail. Overcome with emotion, the man thanked the soldier, promising to hang the picture above the fireplace. A few hours later, after the soldier had departed, the old man set about his task.

True to his word, the painting went above the fireplace, pushing aside thousands of dollars of paintings. And then the man sat in his chair and spent Christmas gazing at the gift he had been given. During the days and weeks that followed, the man realized that even though his son was no longer with him, the boy's life would live on because of those he had touched. He would soon learn that his son had rescued dozens of wounded soldiers before a bullet stilled his caring heart. As the stories of his son's gallantry continued to reach him, fatherly pride and satisfaction began to ease the grief. The painting of his son soon became his most prized possession, far eclipsing any interest in the pieces for which museums around the world clamored. He told his neighbors it was the greatest gift he had ever received.

The following spring, the old man became ill and passed away. The art world was in anticipation. With the collector's passing, and his only son dead, those paintings would be sold at an auction. According to the will of the old man, all of the art works would be auctioned on Christmas day, the day he had received his greatest gift. The day soon arrived and art collectors from around the world gathered to bid on some of the world's most spectacular paintings. Dreams would be fulfilled this day; greatness would be achieved as many would claim "I have the greatest collection." The auction began with a painting that was not on any museum's list. It was the painting of the man's son. The auctioneer asked for an opening bid. The room was silent. "Who will open the bidding with $100?", he asked. Minutes passed. No one spoke.

From the back of the room came, "Who cares about that painting? It's just a picture of his son. Let's forget it and go on to the good stuff." More voices echoed in agreement. "No, we have to sell this one first," replied the auctioneer. "Now, who will take the son?" Finally, a friend of the old man spoke. "Will you take ten dollars for the painting? That's all I have. I knew the boy, so I'd like to have it." "I have ten dollars. Will anyone go higher?" called the auctioneer. After more silence, the auctioneer said, "Going once, going twice. Gone." The gavel fell. Cheers filled the room and someone exclaimed, "Now we can get on with it and we can bid on these treasures!" The auctioneer looked at the audience and announced the auction was over. Stunned disbelief quieted the room. Someone spoke up and asked, "What do you mean it's over? We didn't come here for a picture of some old guy's son. What about all of these paintings? There are millions of dollars of art here! I demand that you explain what's going on here!" The auctioneer replied, "It's very simple. According to the will of the father, whoever takes the son gets it all."

Puts things into perspective, doesn't it? Just as those art collectors discovered on that Christmas day, the message is still the same-the love of a Father, a Father whose greatest joy came from His Son who went away and gave His life rescuing others. And because of that Father's love, whoever takes the Son gets it all.



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A store owner was tacking a sign above his door that read "Puppies for Sale." Signs like that have a way of attracting small children, and sure enough a little boy appeared under the store owner's sign. "How much are you going to sell the puppies for?" the little boy asked. The store owner replied, "anywhere from $30 to $50." The little boy reached into his pocket and pulled out some change. "I have $2.37" he said. "May I please look at them?" The store owner smiled and whistled and out of the kennel came Lady, who ran down the aisle of his store followed by five teeny, tiny balls of fur.

One puppy was lagging considerably behind. Immediately the little boy singled out the lagging, limping puppy and said, "What's wrong with that little dog?" The store owner explained that the veterinarian had examined the little puppy and had discovered that it didn't have a hip socket. It would always limp. It would always be lame. The little boy became excited. "That is the puppy I want to buy." The store owner said, "No, you don't want to buy that little dog. If you really want him, I'll just give him to you."

The little boy got quite upset. He looked straight into the store owner's eyes, pointing his finger, and said, "I don't want you to give him to me. That little dog is worth every bit as much as all the other dogs and I'll pay full price. In fact, I'll give you $2.37 now and 50 cents a month until I have him paid for."

The store owner countered, "You really don't want to buy this little dog. He is never going to be able to run and jump and play with you like the other puppies." To his surprise, the little boy reached down and rolled up his pant leg to reveal a badly twisted, crippled left leg supported by a big metal brace. He looked up at the store owner and softly replied, "Well, I don't run so well myself, and the little puppy will need someone who understands."


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The Master instructed the unhappy student to put a handful of salt in a glass of water and then to drink it. 'How does it taste?' the Master asked.

'Awful,' said the student.

The Master then asked the student to take another handful of salt and throw it in the lake. The two walked to the nearby lake and when the student swirled his handful of salt into the lake, the old man said, 'Now drink from
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The student did so and the Master asked, 'How does it taste?'

'Good!' remarked the student.

'Do you taste the salt?' asked the Master.

No, said the young man.

The Master sat beside this troubled young man, took his hands, and said, 'The pain of life is pure salt; no more, no less. The amount of pain in life remains the same, exactly the same. But the amount we taste the 'pain' depends on the container we put it into. So when you are in pain, the only thing you can do is to enlarge your sense of things..... Stop being a glass. Become a lake!'
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My first story here...
There are two days in every week about which we should not worry.  Two days which should be kept free from fear and apprehension.

One of these days is yesterday, with its mistakes and cares, its faults and blunders, its aches and pains. Yesterday has passed forever beyond our control.  All the money in the world cannot bring back yesterday. We cannot undo a single act we performed.  We cannot erase a single word we said.  Yesterday is gone!!

The other day we should not worry about is tomorrow, with its possible adversities, its burdens, its large promise and poor performance.  Tomorrow is beyond our immediate control.  Tomorrow's sun will rise, whether in splendor or behind a mask of clouds. But it will rise.  Until it does we have no stake in tomorrow, for it is yet unborn.

This leaves only one day: today.

Any man can fight the battles of just one day.  It is when you and I add the burdens of two awful eternities - yesterday and tomorrow, that we break down.

It is not necessarily the experience of today that disturbs one's peace of mind. It is often time the bitterness for something which happened yesterday and the dread of what tomorrow may bring.  Let us therefore live one day at a time.


This is to remind all of us that while we should remember the past and plan and anticipate the future, it is critical that we don’t get paralyzed by either.  By focusing on making the best of the present, we can actually make the past a sweeter learning experience, and make tomorrow’s hopes and dreams closer to reality.

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We say that "time flies" but a wise person observed that "time stays and we fly." Whether we rise early or stay in bed, we are being carried along by the mysterious force called "time."

So, have you accomplished what you have set out to do today? Perhaps you need to begin an essential task, address a lingering issue, or work to restore a valuable relationship before you fall asleep and need to be awakened again.

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GOOD MORNING... RISE AND SHINE!

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Today, when I awoke, I suddenly realized that this is the best day of my life, ever!

There were times when I wondered if I would make it to today; but I did! And because I did I'm going to celebrate! Today, I'm going to celebrate what an unbelievable life I have had so far: the accomplishments, the many blessings, and, yes, even the hardships because they have served to make me stronger.

I will go through this day with my head held high, and a happy heart. I will marvel at God's seemingly simple gifts: the morning dew, the sun, the clouds, the trees, the flowers, the birds.

Today, none of these miraculous creations will escape my notice. Today, I will share my excitement for life with other people. I'll make someone smile. I'll go out of my way to perform an unexpected act of kindness for someone I don't even know. Today, I'll give a sincere compliment to someone who seems down. I'll tell a child how special he is, and I'll tell someone I love just how deeply I care for him and how much he means to me.

Today is the day I quit worrying about what I don't have and start being grateful for all the wonderful things I have already been given. I'll remember that to worry is just a waste of time because my faith in the Divine Plan ensures everything will be just fine. And tonight, before I go to bed, I'll go outside and Praise my eyes to the heavens and stand in awe at the beauty of the stars and the moon.

As the day ends and I lay my head down on my pillow, and be thankful for the best day of my life. And I will sleep the sleep of a contented child, excited with expectation because I know tomorrow is going to be the best day of my life, ever!



If one of your goals in life is to be happy, re-read this piece every day... and joyfully watch how your outlook changes.

HAVE A GREAT DAY AHEAD... BECAUSE THIS IS THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE! smile.gif
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I will go through this day with my head held high, and a happy heart. I will marvel at God's seemingly simple gifts: the morning dew, the sun, the clouds, the trees, the flowers, the birds.

Today, none of these miraculous creations will escape my notice. Today, I will share my excitement for life with other people. I'll make someone smile. I'll go out of my way to perform an unexpected act of kindness for someone I don't even know. Today, I'll give a sincere compliment to someone who seems down. I'll tell a child how special he is, and I'll tell someone I love just how deeply I care for him and how much he means to me.

Today is the day I quit worrying about what I don't have and start being grateful for all the wonderful things I have already been given. I'll remember that to worry is just a waste of time because my faith in the Divine Plan ensures everything will be just fine. And tonight, before I go to bed, I'll go outside and Praise my eyes to the heavens and stand in awe at the beauty of the stars and the moon.
The little things in life that people tend to forget. Very insightful post. smile.gif
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We start doing something to achieve our goals or helping someone else. But bear in mind that we do not start doing something to give up.

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The Brick

A young and successful executive was traveling down a neighborhood street, going a bit too fast in his new Jaguar. He was watching for kids darting out from between parked cars and slowed down when he thought he saw something.

As his car passed, no children appeared. Instead, a brick smashed into the Jag's side door! He slammed on the brakes and backed the Jag back to the spot where the brick had been thrown.

The angry driver then jumped out of the car, grabbed the nearest kid and pushed him up against a parked car shouting, "What was that all about and who are you? Just what the heck are you doing? That's a new car, and that brick you threw is going to cost a lot of money. Why did you do it?"

The young boy was apologetic. "Please, mister...please, I'm sorry but I didn't know what else to do" He pleaded. I threw the brick because no one else would stop..."

With tears dripping down his face and off his chin, the youth pointed to a spot just around a parked car. "It's my brother," he said. "He rolled off the curb and fell out of his wheelchair and I can't lift him up."

Now sobbing, the boy asked the stunned executive, "Would you please help me get him back into his wheelchair? He's hurt and he's too heavy for me."

Moved beyond words, the driver tried to swallow the rapidly swelling lump in his throat. He hurriedly lifted the handicapped boy back into the wheelchair, then took out a handkerchief and dabbed at the fresh scrapes and cuts. A quick look told him everything was going to be okay.

"Thank you and may God bless you," the grateful child told the stranger.

Too shook up for words, the man simply watched the boy push his wheelchair-bound brother down the sidewalk toward their home. It was a long, slow walk back to the Jaguar. The damage was very noticeable, but the driver never bothered to repair the dented side door. He kept the dent there to remind him of this message:

"Don't go through life so fast that someone has to throw a brick at you to get your attention."

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well, i've an inspirational video i would like to share

it's a skit/drama which is really moving. video may not work for everyone though.

music is "everything" by lifehouse

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cyheJ480LYA


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The following pictures are of the same place but taken under different seasons.

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LESSONS ON LIFE


There was a man who had four sons. He wanted his sons to learn not to judge things too quickly. So he sent them each on a quest, in turn, to go and look at a pear tree that was a great distance away.

The first son went in the winter, the second in the spring, the third in summer, and the youngest son in the fall. When they had all gone and come back, he called them together to describe what they had seen.

The first son said that the tree was ugly, bent, and twisted. The second son said no it was covered with green buds and full of promise. The third son disagreed; he said it was laden with blossoms that smelled so sweet and looked so beautiful, it was the most graceful thing he had ever seen. The last son disagreed with all of them; he said it was ripe and drooping with fruit, full of life and fulfillment. The man then explained to his sons that they were all right, because they had each seen but only one season in the tree's life.

He told them that you cannot judge a tree, or a person, by only one season, and that the essence of who they are and the pleasure, joy, and love that come from that life can only be measured at the end, when all the seasons are up.

If you give up when it's winter, you will miss the promise of your spring, the beauty of your summer, fulfillment of your fall.

Don't let the pain of one season destroy the joy of all the rest. Don't judge life by one difficult season. Persevere through the difficult patches and better times are sure to come some time or later.

"... eye had not seen, nor ear heard... the things which GOD had prepared for them that love Him."

Have a wonderful morning and a great day ahead! smile.gif

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The following pictures are of the same place but taken under different seasons.

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LESSONS ON LIFE


There was a man who had four sons. He wanted his sons to learn not to judge things too quickly. So he sent them each on a quest, in turn, to go and look at a pear tree that was a great distance away.

The first son went in the winter, the second in the spring, the third in summer, and the youngest son in the fall. When they had all gone and come back, he called them together to describe what they had seen.

The first son said that the tree was ugly, bent, and twisted. The second son said no it was covered with green buds and full of  promise. The third son disagreed; he said it was laden with blossoms that smelled so sweet and looked so beautiful, it was the most graceful thing he had ever seen. The last son disagreed with all of them; he said it was ripe and drooping with fruit, full of life and fulfillment. The man then explained to his sons that they were all right, because they had each seen but only one season in the tree's life.

He told them that you cannot judge a tree, or a person, by only one season, and that the essence of who they are and the pleasure, joy, and love that come from that life can only be measured at the end, when all the seasons are up.

If you give up when it's winter, you will miss the promise of your spring, the beauty of your summer, fulfillment of your fall.

Don't let the pain of one season destroy the joy of all the rest. Don't  judge life by one difficult season. Persevere through the difficult patches and better times are sure to come some time or later.

"... eye had not seen, nor ear heard... the things which GOD had prepared for them that love Him."

Have a wonderful morning and a great day ahead!  smile.gif
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Who You Are Makes a Difference


A teacher in New York decided to honor each of her seniors in high school by telling them the difference they each made. She called each student to the front of the class, one at a time. First, she told each of them how they had made a difference to her and the class.

Then, she presented each of them with a blue ribbon imprinted with gold letters, which read, "Who I Am Makes a Difference." Afterwards, the teacher decided to do a class project to see what kind of impact recognition would have on a community. She gave each of the students three more ribbons and instructed them to go out and spread this acknowledgment ceremony. Then, they were to follow up on the results, see who honored whom, and report back to the class in about a week.

One of the boys in the class went to a junior executive in a nearby company and honored him for helping him with his career planning. He gave him a blue ribbon and put it on his shirt. Then, he gave him two extra ribbons and said, "We're doing a class project on recognition, and we'd like you to go out find somebody to honor, give them a blue ribbon, then give them the extra blue ribbon so they can acknowledge a third person to keep this acknowledgment ceremony going. Then, please report back to me and tell me what happened."

Later that day, the junior executive went in to see his boss, who had been noted, by the way, as being kind of a grouchy fellow. He sat his boss down, and he told him that he deeply admired him for being a creative genius. The boss seemed very surprised. The junior executive asked him if he would accept the gift of the blue ribbon and give him permission to put it on him. His surprised boss said, "Well, sure." The junior executive took the blue ribbon and placed it right on his boss's jacket above his heart.

As he gave him the last extra ribbon, he said, "Would you do me a favor? Would you take this extra ribbon and pass it on by honoring somebody else? The young boy who first gave me the ribbons is doing a project in school, and we want to keep this recognition ceremony going and find out how it affects people."

That night, the boss came home to his 14-year-old son and sat him down. He said, "The most incredible thing happened to me today. I was in my office, and one of the junior executives came in and told me he admired me and gave me a blue ribbon for being a creative genius.

Imagine. He thinks I'm a creative genius. Then, he put this blue ribbon that says: 'Who I Am Makes a Difference' on my jacket above my heart. He gave me an extra ribbon and asked me to find somebody else to honor. As I was driving home tonight, I started thinking about whom I would honor with this ribbon, and I thought about you.

I want to honor you. My days are really hectic, and when I come home, I don't pay a lot of attention to you. Sometimes, I scream at you for not getting good enough grades in school and for your bedroom being a mess, but somehow tonight, I just wanted to sit here and, well, just let you know that you do make a difference to me. Besides your mother, you are the most important person in my life. You're a great kid, and I love you!"

The startled boy started to sob and sob, and he couldn't stop crying. His whole body shook. He looked up at his father and said through his tears, "Dad, earlier tonight I sat in my room and wrote a letter to you and Mom explaining why I had killed myself and asking you to forgive me. I was going to commit suicide tonight after you were asleep. I just didn't think that you cared at all. The letter is upstairs. I don't think I need it after all."

His father walked upstairs and found a heartfelt letter full of anguish and pain. The envelope was addressed, "Mom and Dad."

The boss went back to work a changed man. He was no longer a grouch but made sure to let all his employees know that they made a difference. The junior executive helped several other young people with career planning and never forgot to let them know that they made a difference in his life...one being the boss's son.

And the young boy and his classmates learned a valuable lesson. Who you are DOES make a difference.
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"Without courage all virtues lose their meaning."
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Maximus:Patres!
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Maximus: Three weeks from now, I will be harvesting my crops. Imagine where you will be, and it will be so. Hold the line! Stay with me! If you find yourself alone, riding in the green fields with the sun on your face, do not be troubled. For you are in Elysium, and you're already dead!
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"Come and get them"

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"Alea iacta esta" [The die is cast]
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"If you want peace be prepared for war"
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"After a victory, tighten your helmet's knot"
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"War is not a practical necessity, it is also a theoretical necessity, an exigeary of logic. That war should ever be banished from the world is a hope not only absurd, but profoundly immoral"
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"The reason I'll be released is the same reason you think I'll be convicted. I do rub shoulders with some of the most vile, sadistic men calling themselves leaders today. But some of these men are the enemies of your enemies. And while the biggest arms dealer in the world is your boss - the President of the United States, who ships more merchandise in a day than I do in a year - sometimes it's embarrassing to have his fingerprints on the guns. Sometimes he needs a freelancer like me to supply forces he can't be seen supplying. So. You call me evil, but unfortunately for you, I'm a necessary evil."

-Yuri Orlov, Lord of War

"Of all the weapons in the vast soviet arsenal, nothing was more profitable than Avtomat Kalashnikova model of 1947. More commonly known as the AK-47, or Kalashnikov. It's the world's most popular assault rifle. A weapon all fighters love. An elegantly simple 9 pound amalgamation of forged steel and plywood. It doesn't break, jam, or overheat. It'll shoot whether it's covered in mud or filled with sand. It's so easy, even a child can use it; and they do. The Soviets put the gun on a coin. Mozambique put it on their flag. Since the end of the Cold War, the Kalashnikov has become the Russian people's greatest export. After that comes vodka, caviar, and suicidal novelists. One thing is for sure, no one was lining up to buy their cars."

-Yuri Orlov, Lord of War
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Anyone who clings to the historically untrue—and thoroughly immoral—doctrine that violence never settles anything I would advise to conjure up the ghosts of Napoleon Bonaparte and the Duke of Wellington and let them debate it. The ghost of Hitler would referee. Violence, naked force, has settled more issues in history than has any other factor, and the contrary opinion is wishful thinking at its worst. Breeds that forgot this basic truth have always paid for it with their lives and their freedoms.

- Robert Heinlein

'Violence has always been and remains a central interest of humankind and a recurrent, even obsessive theme of culture both high and low ... It engages the interest of children from an early age, as anyone familiar with the classic fairy tales collected by Grimm, Andersen, and Perrault are aware. To shield children right up to the age of 18 from exposure to violent descriptions and images would not only be quixotic, but deforming; it would leave them unequipped to cope with the world as we know it.'"

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"Don't go through life so fast that someone has to throw a brick at you to get your attention."

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And the young boy and his classmates learned a valuable lesson. Who you are DOES make a difference.
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OMG... i can feel my eyes beginning to water... thanks for the inspirational stories. the brick one is floating on my mind. I think about it wherever i go now. even when i go mandi.

Oh ya, great thread MayAnne! good to see ya on a less serious mode wink.gif

edit just finished reading all the posts here. OMG i'm srsly crying now... geez......

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BLESSINGS IN DISGUISE

The only survivor of a shipwreck washed up on a small, uninhabited island. He prayed feverishly to be rescued, and every day he scanned the horizon for help, but none seemed forthcoming. Exhausted, he eventually managed to build a little hut out of driftwood to protect him from the elements and to store his few possessions.

Then one day, after scavenging for food, he arrived home to find his little hut in flames, with the smoke rolling up to the sky. The worst had happened; everything was lost. He was stung with grief and anger.

"God, how could you do this to me!" he cried and complained.

Early the next day, however, he was awakened by the sound of a ship’s horn that was approaching the island. It had come to rescue him. "How did you know I was here?" asked the weary man of his rescuers.

"We saw your smoke signal," they replied.



This is a reminder to all of us to never forget that many blessings come in disguises. Often they show up as uncomfortable or even dangerous and painful situations. And often only later, sometimes decades later, does the true purpose of something revealed. May you all be blessed with revealed blessings. smile.gif

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He almost didn't see the old lady stranded on the side of the road, but even in the dim light of day, he could see she needed help. So he pulled up in front of her Mercedes and got out. His Pontiac was still sputtering when he approached her.

Even with the smile on his face, she was worried. No one had stopped to help for the last hour or so. Was he going to hurt her? He didn't look safe. He looked poor and hungry.

He could see that she was frightened, standing out there in the cold. He knew how she felt. It was that chill only fear can put in you.

He said, "I'm here to help you, ma'am. Why don't you wait in the car where it's warm? By the way, my name is Bryan Anderson."

Well, all she had was a flat tire, but for an old lady, that was bad enough. Bryan crawled under the car looking for a place to put the jack, skinning his knuckles a time or two. Soon he was able to change the tire. But, he had to get dirty, and his hands hurt.

As he was tightening up the lug nuts, she rolled down the window and began to talk to him. She told him that she was from St. Louis and was only just passing through. She couldn't thank him enough for coming to her aid.

Bryan just smiled as he closed her trunk. The lady asked how much she owed him. Any amount would have been all right with her. She already imagined all the awful things that could have happened had he not stopped. Bryan never thought twice about being paid. This was not a job to him. This was helping someone in need, and God knows there were plenty who had given him a hand in the past. He had lived his whole life that way, and it never occurred to him to act any other way.

He told her that if she really wanted to pay him back, the next time she saw someone who needed help, she could give that person the assistance they needed, and Bryan added, "And think of me."

He waited until she started her car and drove off. It had been a cold and depressing day, but he felt good as he headed for home, disappearing into the twilight.

A few miles down the road the lady saw a small cafe. She went in to grab a bite to eat and take the chill off before she made the last leg of her trip home. It was a dingy looking restaurant. Outside were two old gas pumps. The whole scene was unfamiliar to her. The waitress came over and brought a clean towel to wipe her wet hair. She had a sweet smile, one that even being on her feet for the whole day couldn't erase. The lady noticed the waitress was nearly eight months pregnant, but she never let the strain and aches change her attitude. The old lady wondered how someone who had so little could be so giving to a stranger. Then, she remembered Bryan.

After the lady finished her meal, she paid with a one hundred dollar bill. The waitress quickly went to get change for her one hundred dollar bill, but the old lady had slipped right out the door. She was gone by the time the waitress came back. The waitress wondered where the lady could be. Then she noticed something written on the napkin. There were tears in her eyes when she read what the lady wrote: "You don't owe me anything. I have been there too. Somebody once helped me out, the way I'm helping you. If you really want to pay me back, here is what you do: Do not let this chain of love end with you."

Under the napkin were four more $100 bills.

Well, there were tables to clear, sugar bowls to fill, and people to serve, but the waitress made it through another day. That night when she got home from work and climbed into bed, she was thinking about the money and what the lady had written. How could the lady have known how much she and her husband needed it?

With the baby due next month, it was going to be hard...

She knew how worried her husband was, and as he lay sleeping next to her, she gave him a soft kiss and whispered soft and low, "Everything's gonna be all right. I love you, Bryan Anderson."
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Jack took a long look at his speedometer before slowing down: 73 in a 55 zone. Fourth time in as many months. How could a guy get caught so often?

When his car had slowed to 10 miles an hour, Jack pulled over, but only partially. Let the cop worry about the potential traffic hazard. Maybe some other car will tweak his backside with a mirror. The cop was stepping out of his car, the big pad in hand.

Bob? Bob from Church? Jack sunk farther into his trench coat. This was worse than the coming ticket. A cop catching a guy from his own church. A guy who happened to be a little eager to get home after a long day at the office. A guy he was about to play golf with tomorrow.

Jumping out of the car, he approached a man he saw every Sunday, a man he'd never seen in uniform.

"Hi, Bob. Fancy meeting you like this."

"Hello, Jack." No smile.

"Guess you caught me red-handed in a rush to see my wife and kids."

"Yeah, I guess." Bob seemed uncertain. Good.

"I've seen some long days at the office lately. I'm afraid I bent the rules a bit - just this once."

Jack toed at a pebble on the pavement. "Diane said something about roast beef and potatoes tonight. Know what I mean?"

"I know what you mean. I also know that you have a reputation in our precinct." Ouch. This was not going in the right direction. Time to change tactics.

"What'd you clock me at?"

"Seventy. Would you sit back in your car please?"

"Now wait a minute here, Bob. I checked as soon as I saw you. I was barely nudging 65." The lie seemed to come easier with every ticket.

"Please, Jack, in the car"

Flustered, Jack hunched himself through the still-open door. Slamming it shut, he stared at the dashboard. He was in no rush to open the window.

The minutes ticked by. Bob scribbled away on the pad.

Why hadn't he asked for a driver's license?

Whatever the reason, it would be a month of Sundays before Jack ever sat near this cop again. A tap on the door jerked his head to the left. There was Bob, a folded paper in hand. Jack rolled down the window a mere two inches, just enough room for Bob to pass him the slip.

"Thanks." Jack could not quite keep the sneer out of his voice.

Bob returned to his police car without a word. Jack watched his retreat in the mirror. Jack unfolded the sheet of paper. How much was this one going to cost?

Wait a minute. What was this? Some kind of joke?

Certainly not a ticket. Jack began to read:

"Dear Jack,

Once upon a time, I had a daughter. She was six when killed by a car. You guessed it - a speeding driver. A fine and three months in jail, and the man was free. Free to hug his daughters, all three of them. I had only one, and I'm going to have to wait until Heaven before I can ever hug her again.

A thousand times I've tried to forgive that man. A thousand times I thought I had. Maybe I did, but I need to do it again. Even now. Pray for me. And be careful, Jack, my son is all I have left.

-Bob"

Jack turned around in time to see Bob's car pull away and head down the road. Jack watched until it disappeared. A full 15 minutes later, he too, pulled away and drove slowly home, praying for forgiveness and hugging a surprised wife and kids when he arrived.
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Jack took a long look at his speedometer before slowing down: 73 in a 55 zone. Fourth time in as many months. How could a guy get caught so often?

When his car had slowed to 10 miles an hour, Jack pulled over, but only partially. Let the cop worry about the potential traffic hazard. Maybe some other car will tweak his backside with a mirror. The cop was stepping out of his car, the big pad in hand.

Bob? Bob from Church? Jack sunk farther into his trench coat. This was worse than the coming ticket. A cop catching a guy from his own church. A guy who happened to be a little eager to get home after a long day at the office. A guy he was about to play golf with tomorrow.

Jumping out of the car, he approached a man he saw every Sunday, a man he'd never seen in uniform.

"Hi, Bob. Fancy meeting you like this."

"Hello, Jack." No smile.

"Guess you caught me red-handed in a rush to see my wife and kids."

"Yeah, I guess." Bob seemed uncertain. Good.

"I've seen some long days at the office lately. I'm afraid I bent the rules a bit - just this once."

Jack toed at a pebble on the pavement. "Diane said something about roast beef and potatoes tonight. Know what I mean?"

"I know what you mean. I also know that you have a reputation in our precinct." Ouch. This was not going in the right direction. Time to change tactics.

"What'd you clock me at?"

"Seventy. Would you sit back in your car please?"

"Now wait a minute here, Bob. I checked as soon as I saw you. I was barely nudging 65." The lie seemed to come easier with every ticket.

"Please, Jack, in the car"

Flustered, Jack hunched himself through the still-open door. Slamming it shut, he stared at the dashboard. He was in no rush to open the window.

The minutes ticked by. Bob scribbled away on the pad.

Why hadn't he asked for a driver's license?

Whatever the reason, it would be a month of Sundays before Jack ever sat near this cop again. A tap on the door jerked his head to the left. There was Bob, a folded paper in hand. Jack rolled down the window a mere two inches, just enough room for Bob to pass him the slip.

"Thanks." Jack could not quite keep the sneer out of his voice.

Bob returned to his police car without a word. Jack watched his retreat in the mirror. Jack unfolded the sheet of paper. How much was this one going to cost?

Wait a minute. What was this? Some kind of joke?

Certainly not a ticket. Jack began to read:

"Dear Jack,

Once upon a time, I had a daughter. She was six when killed by a car. You guessed it - a speeding driver. A fine and three months in jail, and the man was free. Free to hug his daughters, all three of them. I had only one, and I'm going to have to wait until Heaven before I can ever hug her again.

A thousand times I've tried to forgive that man. A thousand times I thought I had. Maybe I did, but I need to do it again. Even now. Pray for me. And be careful, Jack, my son is all I have left.

-Bob"

Jack turned around in time to see Bob's car pull away and head down the road. Jack watched until it disappeared. A full 15 minutes later, he too, pulled away and drove slowly home, praying for forgiveness and hugging a surprised wife and kids when he arrived.
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The Farmer's Donkey

One day a farmer's donkey fell into an abandoned well. The animal cried piteously for hours as the farmer tried to figure out what to do. Finally, he decided the animal was too old and the well needed to be covered up anyway; so it just wasn't worth it to him to try to retrieve the donkey.

He invited all his neighbors to come over and help him. They each grabbed a shovel and began to shovel dirt into the well. Realizing what was happening, the donkey at first cried and wailed horribly.

Then, a few shovel-fulls later, he quieted down completely. The farmer peered down into the well, and was astounded by what he saw. With every shovel-full of dirt that hit his back, the donkey would shake it off and take a step up on the new layer of dirt.

As the farmer's neighbors continued to shovel dirt on top of the animal, he would shake it off and take a step up. Pretty soon, the donkey stepped up over the edge of the well and trotted off, to the shock and astonishment of everyone.

The Moral: Life is going to shovel dirt on you, all kinds of dirt. The trick to getting out of the well is to stop wailing, and not let the dirt bury you, but to shake it off and take a step up. Each one of our troubles is a stepping-stone. We can get out of the deepest wells just by not stopping, never giving up! Shake it off and take a step up.
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He was in the first third grade class I taught Saint Mary's School in Morris, Minn. All 34 of my students were dear to me, but Mark Eklund was one in a million. Very neat in appearance, but had that happy-to-be-alive attitude that made even his occasional mischievousness delightful. Mark talked incessantly. I had to remind him again and again that talking without permission was not acceptable. What impressed me so much, though, was his sincere response every time I had to correct him for misbehaving - "Thank you for correcting me, Sister!"I didn't know what to make of it at first, but before long I became accustomed to hearing it many times a day. One morning my patience was growing thin when Mark talked once too often, and then I made a novice teacher's mistake. I looked at Mark and said, "If you say one more word, I am going to tape your mouth shut!" It wasn't ten seconds later when Chuck blurted out, "Mark is talking again." I hadn't asked any of the students to help me watch Mark, but since I had stated the punishment in front of the class, I had to act on it. I remember the scene as if it had occurred this morning. I walked to my desk, very deliberately opened my drawer and took out a roll of masking tape. Without saying a word, I proceeded to Mark's desk,tore off two pieces of tape and made a big X with them over his mouth. I then returned to the front of the room. As I glanced at Mark to see how he was doing, he winked at me. That did it!! I started laughing. The class cheered as I walked back to Mark's desk, removed the tape, and shrugged my shoulders. His first words were, "Thank you for correcting me, Sister." At the end of the year, I was asked to teach junior-high math. The years flew by, and before I knew it Mark was in my classroom again. He was more handsome than ever and just as polite. Since he had to listen carefully to my instruction in the "new math," he did not talk as much in ninth grade as he had in third. One Friday, things just didn't feel right. We had worked hard on a new concept all week, and I sensed that the students were frowning, frustrated with themselves and edgy with one another.I had to stop this crankiness before it got out of hand. So I asked them to list the names of the other students in the room on two sheets of paper, leaving a space between each name. Then I told them to think of the nicest thing they could say about each of their classmates and write it down. It took the remainder of the class period to finish their assignment, and as the students left the room, each one handed me the papers. Charlie smiled. Mark said, "Thank you for teaching me, Sister. Have a good weekend." That Saturday, I wrote down the name of each student on a separate sheet of paper, and I listed what everyone else had said about that individual. On Monday I gave each student his or her list. Before long, the entire class was smiling. Really?" I heard whispered. "I never knew that I meant anything to anyone!" "I didn't know others liked me so much." No one ever mentioned those papers in class again. I never knew if they discussed them after class or with their parents, but it didn't matter. The exercise had accomplished its purpose. The studends were happy with themselves and one another again. That group of students moved on. Several years later, after I returned from vacation, my parents met me at the airport. As we were driving home, Mother asked me the usual questions about the trip, the weather, my experiences in general. There was a lull in the conversation. Mother gave Dad a sideways glance and simply says, "Dad?" My father cleared his throat as he usually did before something important. "The Eklunds called last night," he began. "Really?" I said. "I haven't heard from them in years. I wonder how Mark is." Dad responded quietly. "Mark was killed in Vietnam," he said. "The funeral is tomorrow, all parents would like it if you could attend." To this day I can still point to the exact spot on I-494 where Dad told me about Mark. I had never seen a serviceman in a military coffin before. Mark looked so handsome, so mature. All I could think at that moment was, "Mark, I would give all the masking tape in the world if only you would talk to me." The church was packed with Mark's friends. Chuck's sister sang "The Battle Hymn of the republic." Why did it have to rain on the day of the funeral? It was difficult enough at the graveside. The pastor said the usual prayers, and the bugler played taps. One by one those who loved Mark took a last walk by the coffin and sprinkled it with holy water. I was the last one to bless the coffin. As I stood there, one of the soldiers who acted as pallbearer came up to me. "Were you Mark's math teacher?" he asked. I nodded as I continued to stare at the coffin. "Mark talked about you a lot," he said. After the funeral, most of Mark's former classmates headed to Chuck's farmhouse for lunch. Mark's mother and father were there, obviously waiting for me. "We want to show you something," his father said, takinga wallet out of his pocket. "They found this on Mark when he was killed. We thought you might recognize it." Opening the billfold, he carefully removed two worn pieces of notebook paper that had obviously been taped, folded and refolded many times. I knew without looking that the papers were the ones on which I had listed all the good things each of Mark's classmates had said about him. "Thank you so much for doing that," Mark's mother said. "As you can see, Mark treasured it." Mark's classmates started to gather around us. Charlie smiled rather sheepishly and said, "I still have my list. It's in the top drawer of my desk at home." Chuck's wife said, "Chuck asked me to put his in our wedding album." "I have mine too," Marilyn said. "It's in my diary." Then Vicki, another classmate, reached into her pocketbook, took out her wallet and showed her worn and frazzled list to the group. I carry this with me at all times," Vicki said without batting an eyelash. "I think we all saved our lists." That's when I finally sat down and cried. I cried for Mark and for all his friends who would never see him again. The density of people in society is so thick that we forget that life will end one day. And we don't know when that one day will be. So please, tell the people you love and care for, that they are special and important. cry.gif
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A story behind the rainbow



Once upon a time the colors of the world started to quarrel.All claimed that they were the best.The most important.The most useful.The favorite.


Green said:"Clearly I am the most important. I am the sign of life and of hope. I was chosen for grass, trees and leaves. Without me, all animals would die. Look over the countryside and you will see that I am in the majority."


Blue interrupted:"You only think about the earth, but consider the sky and the sea. It is the water that is the basis of life and drawn up by the clouds from the deep sea. The sky gives space and peace and serenity. Without my peace, you would all be nothing."


Yellow chuckled:"You are all so serious. I bring laughter, gaiety, and warmth into the world. The sun is yellow, the moon is yellow, the stars are yellow. Every time you look at a sunflower, the whole world starts to smile. Without me there would be no fun."


Orange started next to blow her trumpet:"I am the color of health and strength. I may be scarce, but I am precious for I serve the needs of human life. I carry the most important vitamins. Think of carrots, pumpkins, oranges, mangoes, and papayas. I don't hang around all the time, but when I fill the sky at sunrise or sunset, my beauty is so striking that no one gives another thought to any of you."


Red could stand it no longer he shouted out:"I am the ruler of all of you. I am blood - life's blood! I am the color of danger and of bravery. I am willing to fight for a cause. I bring fire into the blood. Without me, the earth would be as empty as the moon. I am the color of passion and of love, the red rose, the poinsettia and the poppy."


Purple rose up to his full height:He was very tall and spoke with great pomp: "I am the color of royalty and power. Kings, chiefs, and bishops have always chosen me for I am the sign of authority and wisdom. People do not question me! They listen and obey."


Finally Indigo spoke, much more quietly than all the others, but with just as much determination: "Think of me. I am the color of silence. You hardly notice me, but without me you all become superficial. I represent thought and reflection, twilight and deep water. You need me for balance and contrast, for prayer and inner peace."


And so the colors went on boasting, each convinced of his or her own superiority. Their quarreling became louder and louder. Suddenly there was a startling flash of bright lightening thunder rolled and boomed. Rain started to pour down relentlessly. The colors crouched down in fear, drawing close to one another for comfort.


In the midst of the clamor, rain began to speak:"You foolish colors, fighting amongst yourselves, each trying to dominate the rest. Don't you know that you were each made for a special purpose, unique and different? Join hands with one another and come to me."
Doing as they were told, the colors united and joined hands.


The rain continued:"From now on, when it rains, each of you will stretch across the sky in a great bow of color as a reminder that you can all live in peace. The Rainbow is a sign of hope for tomorrow." And so, whenever a good rain washes the world, and a Rainbow appears in the sky, let us remember to appreciate one another.

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A little girl went to her bedroom and pulled a glass jelly jar from its hiding place in the closet. She poured the change out on the floor and counted it carefully. The total had to be exactly perfect. No chance here for mistakes. Carefully placing the coins back in the jar and twisting on the cap, she slipped out the back door and made her way 6 blocks to Rexall's Drug Store with the big red Indian Chief sign above the door.
She waited patiently for the pharmacist to give her some attention, but he was too busy at this moment. Tess twisted her feet to make a scuffing noise. Nothing. She cleared her throat with the most disgusting sound she could muster. No good. Finally she took a quarter from her jar and banged it on the glass counter. That did it!
"And what do you want?" the pharmacist asked in an annoyed tone of voice. "I'm talking to my brother from Chicago whom I haven't seen in ages," he said without waiting for a reply to his question.
"Well, I want to talk to you about my brother," Tess answered back in the same annoyed tone. "He's really, really sick...and I want to buy a miracle."
"I beg your pardon?" said the pharmacist.
"His name is Andrew, and he has something bad growing inside his head, and my Daddy says only a miracle can save him now. So how much does a miracle cost?"
"We don't sell miracles here, little girl. I'm sorry, but I can't help you," the pharmacist said, softening a little.
"Listen, I have the money to pay for it. If it isn't enough, I will get the rest. Just tell me how much it costs."
The pharmacist's brother was a well dressed man. He stooped down and asked the little girl, "What kind of a miracle does your brother need?"
"I don't know," Tess replied with her eyes welling up. I just know he's really sick, and Mommy says he needs an operation. But my Daddy can't pay for it, so I want to use my money."
"How much do you have?" asked the man from Chicago.
"One dollar and eleven cents," Tess answered barely audibly. "And it's all the money I have, but I can get some more if I need to."
"Well, what a coincidence," smiled the man. "A dollar and eleven cents--the exact price of a miracle for little brothers."
He took her money in one hand and with the other hand he grasped her mitten and said "Take me to where you live. I want to see your brother and meet your parents. Let's see if I have the miracle you need."
That well dressed man was a surgeon specializing in neurosurgery. The operation was completed free of charge, and it wasn't long until Andrew was home again and doing well.
Mom and Dad were happily talking about the chain of events that had led them to this place.
"That surgery," her Mom whispered. "was a real miracle. I wonder how much it would have cost?"
Tess smiled. She knew exactly how much a miracle cost...one dollar and eleven cents...plus the faith of a little child.
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I ran into a stranger as he passed by,

"Oh excuse me please" was my reply.

He said, "Please excuse me too;

I wasn't watching for you."

We were very polite, this stranger and I.

We went on our way and we said goodbye.

But at home a different story is told,

How we treat our loved ones, young and old.

Later that day, cooking the evening meal,

My son stood beside me very still.

When I turned, I nearly knocked him down.

"Move out of the way," I said with a frown.

He walked away, his little heart broken.I didn't realize how harshly I'd
spoken.

While I lay awake in bed,

God's still small voice came to me and said,

"While dealing with a stranger,
common courtesy you use,
but the family you love, you seem to abuse.

Go and look on the kitchen floor,
You'll find some flowers there by the door.

Those are the flowers he brought for you.
He picked them himself: pink, yellow and blue.

He stood very quietly not to spoil the surprise,
you never saw the tears that filled his little eyes."

By this time, I felt very small,
And now my tears began to fall.

I quietly went and knelt by his bed;
"Wake up, little one, wake up," I said.

"Are these the flowers you picked for me?"
He smiled, "I found 'em, out by the tree.

I picked 'em because they're pretty like you.
I knew you'd like 'em, especially the blue."

I said, "Son, I'm very sorry for the way I acted today;
I shouldn't have yelled at you that way."

He said, "Oh, Mom, that's okay.
I love you anyway."

I said, "Son, I love you too,
and I do like the flowers, especially the blue."

FAMILY
Are you aware that if we died tomorrow, the company
that we are working for could easily replace us in
a matter of days.
But the family we left behind will feel the loss
for the rest of their lives.
And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more
into work than into our own family,
an unwise investment indeed,
don't you think?So what is behind the story?
Do you know what the word FAMILY means?
FAMILY = (F)ATHER (A)ND (M)OTHER>(I) (L)OVE (Y)OU
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In ancient Greece, Socrates was reputed to hold knowledge in high esteem.

One day one fellow met the great philosopher and said, "Do you know what I just heard about your friend?"

"Hold on a minute," Socrates replied. "Before telling me anything I'd like you to pass a little test. It's called the Triple Filter Test."

"Triple filter?"

"That's right," Socrates continued.

"Before you talk to me about my friend, it might be a good idea to take a moment and filter what you're going to say. That's why I call it the triple filter test.

The first filter is Truth. Have you made absolutely sure that what you are about to tell me is true?"

"No," the man said, "actually I just heard about it and..."

"All right," said Socrates. "So you don't know if it's true or not.Now let's try the second filter, the filter of Goodness. Is what you are about to tell me about my friend something good?"

"No, on the contrary..."

"So," Socrates continued, "you want to tell me something bad about him, but you're not certain it's true. You may still pass the test though, because there's one filter left: the filter of Usefulness. Is what you want to tell me about my friend going to be useful to me?"

"No, not really."

"Well," concluded Socrates, "if what you want to tell me is neither true nor good nor even useful, why tell it to me at all?" This is why Socrates was a great philosopher and held in such high esteem. Friend, use this triple filter each time you hear loose talk about any of your near and dear friends.



We should ALWAYS think before we speak. If what we are going to say is harmful, force ourselves to wait an hour – and then ask ourselves is it worth it. Usually it is not. smile.gif


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*Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same
hospital room. One man was
allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each
afternoon to help drain the
fluid from his lungs. His bed was next to the
room's only window. The other
man had to spend all his time flat on his back.
The men talked for hours on
end. They spoke of their wives and families,
their homes, their jobs, their
involvement in the military service, where they
had been on vacation.*



*Every afternoon when the man in the bed by
the window could sit up, he
would pass the time by describing to his
roommate all the things he could
see outside the window.*



*The man in the other bed began to live for
those one hour periods where his
world would be broadened and enlivened by all
the activity and color of the
world outside.*



*The window overlooked a park with a lovely
lake. Ducks and swans played on
the water while children sailed their model
boats. Young lovers walked arm
in arm amidst flowers of every color and a fine
view of the city skyline
could be seen in the distance.*



*As the man by the window described all this in
exquisite detail, the man on
the other side of the room would close his eyes
and imagine the picturesque
scene.*



*One warm afternoon the man by the window
described a parade passing by.*



*Although the other man couldn't hear the
band - he could see it. In his
mind's eye as the gentleman by the window
portrayed it with descriptive
words.*



*Days and weeks passed.*



*One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring
water for their baths only to
find the lifeless body of the man by the
window, who had died peacefully in
his sleep. She was saddened and called the
hospital attendants to take the
body away.*



*As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other
man asked if he could be moved
next to the *
*window. The nurse was happy to make the
switch, and after making sure he
was comfortable, she left him alone.*



*Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on
one elbow to take his first
look at the real world outside.*



*He strained to slowly turn to look out the
window beside the bed.*



*It faced a blank wall. The man asked the
nurse what could have compelled
his deceased roommate who had described
such wonderful things outside this
window*



*The nurse responded that the man was blind
and could not even see the wall.*




*She said, "Perhaps he just wanted to
encourage you."*



*Epilogue:*



*There is tremendous happiness in making
others happy, despite our own
situations.*



*Shared grief is half the sorrow, but happiness
when shared, is doubled.*



*If you want to feel rich, just count all the
things you have that money
can't buy.*



*"Today is a gift, that's why it is called the
present."*

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After twenty-five years in the same parish, Father O'Malley was saying his farewells at his retirement dinner. An eminent member of the congregation - a leading politician - had been asked to make a presentation and a short speech, but was late arriving. So the priest took it upon himself to fill the time, and stood up to the microphone:

"I remember the first confession I heard here twenty-five years ago and it worried me as to what sort of place I'd come to... That first confession remains the worst I've ever heard. The chap confessed that he'd stolen a TV set from a neighbor and lied to the police when questioned, successfully blaming it on a local scallywag. He said that he'd stolen money from his parents and from his employer; that he'd had affairs with several of his friends' wives; that he'd taken hard drugs, and had slept with another woman and given her a disease.

You can imagine what I thought... However I'm pleased to say that as the days passed I soon realized that this sad fellow was a frightful exception and that this parish was indeed a wonderful place full of kind and decent people..."

At this point the politician arrived and apologized for being late, and keen to take the stage, he immediately stepped up to the microphone and pulled his speech from his pocket: "I'll always remember when Father O'Malley first came to our parish," said the politician, "In fact, I'm pretty certain that I was the first person in the parish that he heard in confession....."


Initially I wasn't sure whether to post this at the Jokes Section or here as a motivational piece. But I guess we could all learn from this, that being on time is a virtue. It simply shows us that first of all we respect ourselves and our own time, and that we take life seriously. It also shows others that we respect them and value their time.

If you are a perennially late person, push yourself hard to be on time for just days --- and then see if you feel better about yourself.

Have a great Monday, and same to every day of the week! smile.gif


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"A Hundred years from now....

It will not matter what my bank account was,

the sort of house I lived in, or the kind of car I drove.

But, the world may be different

because I was important in the life of a child"

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There is this old Chinese tale about a woman whose only son died.

In her grief, she went to the holy man and asked, "What prayers, what magical incantations do you have to bring my son back to life?" Instead of sending her away or reasoning with her, he said to her,

"Fetch me a mustard seed from a home that has never known sorrow. We will use it to drive the sorrow out of your life."

The woman went off at once in search of that magical mustard seed. She came first to a splendid mansion, knocked at the door, and said, "I am looking for a home that has never known sorrow. Is this such a place? It is very important to me."

They told her, "You've certainly come to the wrong place," and began to describe all the tragic things that recently had befallen them. The woman said to herself, "Who is better able to help these unfortunate people than I, who have had misfortune of my own?" She stayed to comfort them, then went on in search of a home that had never known sorrow.

But wherever she turned, in hotels, in cities, in villages small and large and throughout the land, she found one tale after another of sadness and misfortune. The woman became so involved in helping others cope with their sorrows that she eventually let go of her own.

She would later come to understand that it was the quest to find the magical mustard seed that drove away her suffering.



We all have pain and sorrow, don't we? Well, it is part of the divine plan to help us grow and channel our energy into helping others. smile.gif

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QUOTES THAT MAKE YOU THINK. Quotes that focus on education and youth... for all those going back to school on Monday or those sending someone in your family back... smile.gif

I have never let my schooling interfere with my education.
- Mark Twain

If there were no schools to take the children away from home part of the time, the insane asylums would be filled with mothers.
- Edgar W. Howe

The whole purpose of education is to turn mirrors into windows.
- Sydney J. Harris

The object of education is to prepare the young to educate themselves throughout their lives.
- Robert Maynard Hutchins

I like a teacher who gives you something to take home to think about besides homework.
- Lily Tomlin

The best teachers teach from the heart, not from the book.
- Author Unknown

The roots of education are bitter, but the fruit is sweet.
- Aristotle

A professor is someone who talks in someone else's sleep.
- W.H. Auden

You can lead a boy to college, but you cannot make him think.
- Elbert Hubbard

An investment in knowledge always pays the best interest.
- Benjamin Franklin

You can get all A's and still flunk life.
- Walker Percy

Live as if you were to die tomorrow; learn as if you were to live forever.
- Mohandas Gandhi

Education is what remains after one has forgotten what one has learned in school.
- Albert Einstein

Labor Day is a glorious holiday because your child will be going back to school the next day. It would have been called Independence Day, but that name was already taken.
- Bill Dodds


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Love is a sentiment that only requires us to do the best of what we can. Because it'll always show somehow.
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QUOTE(empire23 @ Aug 23 2008, 09:47 PM)
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Love is a sentiment that only requires us to do the best of what we can. Because it'll always show somehow.
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Didn't know you keep such stuff in your HDD. Good one!

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Have a Blessed Day!

A blind boy sat on the steps of a building with a hat by his feet. He held up a sign which said: 'I am blind, please help.' There were only a few coins in the hat.

A man was walking by. He took a few coins from his pocket and dropped them into the hat. He then took the sign, turned it around, and wrote some words. He put the sign back so that everyone who walked by would see the new words.

Soon the hat began to fill up. A lot more people were giving money to the blind boy. That afternoon the man who had changed the sign came to see how things were. The boy recognized his footsteps and asked, 'Were you the one who changed my sign this morning? What did you write?'

The man said, 'I only wrote the truth. I said what you said but in a different way.'
What he had written was: 'Today is a beautiful day and I cannot see it.'

Do you think the first sign and the second sign were saying the same thing?

Of course both signs told people the boy was blind. But the first sign simply said the boy was blind. The second sign told people they were so lucky that they were not blind. Should we be surprised that the second sign was more effective?

Moral of the Story: Be thankful for what you have. Be creative. Be innovative. Think differently and positively.

Invite others towards good with wisdom. Live life with no excuse and love with no regrets. When life gives you a 100 reasons to cry, show life that you have 1000 reasons to smile. Face your past without regret. Handle your present with confidence. Prepare for the future without fear. Keep the faith and eradicate the fear.

Great men say, 'Life has to be an incessant process of repair and reconstruction, of discarding evil and developing goodness. In the journey of life, if you want to travel without fear, you must have the ticket of a good conscience.'

The most beautiful thing is to see a person smiling
And even more beautiful is, knowing that you are the reason behind it!!!

Have a Blessed Day!


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This is one of the better threads around! Update it often! I'll keep a lookout for these articles~!
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oh this is an ispirational story indeed, it reminded me of my cat that had always brought rats which was in half and usually the head part, i thought hed just made a mess for the fun of it, so i beat it off with a broom and it went away .....

and how so wrong was i, after googling up and studying cats behavioural, the other half was meant for me in show of appreciation, i miss my cat now and my house is full of rodents cry.gif
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What he valued most

A young man learns what's most important in life from the guy next door.
It had been some time since Jack had seen the old man. College, girls,
career, and life itself got in the way. In fact, Jack moved clear across
the country in pursuit of his dreams. There, in the rush of his busy
life, Jack had little time to think about the past and often no time to
spend with his wife and son. He was working on his future, and nothing
could stop him.

Over the phone, his mother told him, "Mr. Belser died last night. The
funeral is Wednesday." Memories flashed through his mind like an old
newsreel as he sat quietly remembering his childhood days.

"Jack, did you hear me?"
"Oh, sorry, Mom. Yes, I heard you. It's been so long since I thought of
him. I'm sorry, but I honestly thought he died years ago," Jack said.

"Well, he didn't forget you. Every time I saw him he'd ask how you were
doing. He'd reminisce about the many days you spent over 'his side of
the fence' as he put it," Mom told him.

"I loved that old house he lived in," Jack said.

"You know, Jack, after your father died, Mr. Belser stepped in to make
sure you had a man's influence in your life," she said.

"He's the one who taught me carpentry," he said. "I wouldn't be in this
business if it weren't for him. He spent a lot of time teaching me
things he thought were important...Mom, I'll be there for the funeral,"
Jack said.

As busy as he was, he kept his word. Jack caught the next flight to his
hometown. Mr. Belser's funeral was small and uneventful. He had no
children of his own, and most of his relatives had passed away.

The night before he had to return home, Jack and his Mom stopped by to
see the old house next door one more time.

Standing in the doorway, Jack paused for a moment. It was like crossing
over into another dimension, a leap through space and time. The house
was exactly as he remembered. Every step held memories. Every picture,
every piece of furniture....Jack stopped suddenly.

"What's wrong, Jack?" his Mom asked.

"The box is gone," he said.

"What box? " Mom asked.

"There was a small gold box that he kept locked on top of his desk. I
must have asked him a thousand times what was inside. All he'd ever tell
me was 'the thing I value most,'" Jack said.

It was gone. Everything about the house was exactly how Jack remembered
it, except for the box. He figured someone from the Belser family had
taken it.

"Now I'll never know what was so valuable to him," Jack said. "I better
get some sleep. I have an early flight home, Mom."

It had been about two weeks since Mr. Belser died. Returning home from
work one day Jack discovered a note in his mailbox. "Signature required
on a package. No one at home. Please stop by the main post office within
the next three days," the note read.

Early the next day Jack retrieved the package. The small box was old and
looked like it had been mailed a hundred years ago. The handwriting was
difficult to read, but the return address caught his attention.

"Mr. Harold Belser" it read.

Jack took the box out to his car and ripped open the package. There
inside was the gold box and an envelope. Jack's hands shook as he read
the note inside.

"Upon my death, please forward this box and its contents to Jack
Bennett. It's the thing I valued most in my life." A small key was taped
to the letter. His heart racing, as tears filling his eyes, Jack
carefully unlocked the box. There inside he found a beautiful gold
pocket watch. Running his fingers slowly over the finely etched casing,
he unlatched the cover.

Inside he found these words engraved: "Jack, Thanks for your time!
Harold Belser."

"The thing he valued most...was...my time."

Jack held the watch for a few minutes, then called his office and
cleared his appointments for the next two days. "Why?" Janet, his
assistant asked.

"I need some time to spend with my son," he said.

"Oh, by the way, Janet...thanks for your time!"




P/s. Spend more time with your loved one.

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Somalia’s runners provide inspiration

BEIJING – Samia Yusuf Omar headed back to Somalia Sunday, returning to the small two-room house in Mogadishu shared by seven family members. Her mother lives there, selling fruits and vegetables. Her father is buried there, the victim of a wayward artillery shell that hit their home and also killed Samia’s aunt and uncle.

This is the Olympic story we never heard.

It’s about a girl whose Beijing moment lasted a mere 32 seconds – the slowest 200-meter dash time out of the 46 women who competed in the event. Thirty-two seconds that almost nobody saw but that she carries home with her, swelled with joy and wonderment. Back to a decades-long civil war that has flattened much of her city. Back to an Olympic program with few Olympians and no facilities. Back to meals of flat bread, wheat porridge and tap water.

“I have my pride,” she said through a translator before leaving China. “This is the highest thing any athlete can hope for. It has been a very happy experience for me. I am proud to bring the Somali flag to fly with all of these countries, and to stand with the best athletes in the world.”

There are many life stories that collide in each Olympics – many intriguing tales of glory and tragedy. Beijing delivered the electricity of Usain Bolt and the determination of Michael Phelps. It left hearts heavy with the disappointment of Liu Xiang and the heartache of Hugh McCutcheon.

But it also gave us Samia Yusuf Omar – one small girl from one chaotic country – and a story that might have gone unnoticed if it hadn’t been for a roaring half-empty stadium.


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It was Aug. 19, and the tiny girl had crossed over seven lanes to find her starting block in her 200-meter heat. She walked past Jamaica’s Veronica Campbell-Brown – the eventual gold medalist in the event. Samia had read about Campbell-Brown in track and field magazines and once watched her in wonderment on television. As a cameraman panned down the starting blocks, it settled on lane No. 2, on a 17-year old girl with the frame of a Kenyan distance runner. Samia’s biography in the Olympic media system contained almost no information, other than her 5-foot-4, 119-pound frame. There was no mention of her personal best times and nothing on previous track meets. Somalia, it was later explained, has a hard time organizing the records of its athletes.

She looked so odd and out of place among her competitors, with her white headband and a baggy, untucked T-shirt. The legs on her wiry frame were thin and spindly, and her arms poked out of her sleeves like the twigs of a sapling. She tugged at the bottom of her shirt and shot an occasional nervous glance at the other runners in her heat. Each had muscles bulging from beneath their skin-tight track suits. Many outweighed Samia by nearly 40 pounds.

After introductions, she knelt into her starting block.

***

The country of Somalia sent two athletes to the Beijing Games – Samia and distance runner Abdi Said Ibrahim, who competed in the men’s 5,000-meter event. Like Samia, Abdi finished last in his event, overmatched by competitors who were groomed for their Olympic moment. Somalia has only loose-knit programs supporting its Olympians, few coaches, and few facilities. With a civil war tearing the city apart since the Somali government’s collapse in 1991, Mogadishu Stadium has become one of the bloodiest pieces of real estate in the city – housing U.N. forces in the early 1990s and now a military compound for insurgents.

That has left the country’s track athletes to train in Coni Stadium, an artillery-pocked structure built in 1958 which has no track, endless divots, and has been overtaken by weeds and plants.

“Sports are not a priority for Somalia,” said Duran Farah, vice president of the Somali Olympic Committee. “There is no money for facilities or training. The war, the security, the difficulties with food and everything – there are just many other internal difficulties to deal with.”

That leaves athletes such as Samia and 18-year old Abdi without the normal comforts and structure enjoyed by almost every other athlete in the Olympic Games. They don’t receive consistent coaching, don’t compete in meets on a regular basis and struggle to find safety in something as simple as going out for a daily run.

When Samia cannot make it to the stadium, she runs in the streets, where she runs into roadblocks of burning tires and refuse set out by insurgents. She is often bullied and threatened by militia or locals who believe that Muslim women should not take part in sports. In hopes of lessening the abuse, she runs in the oppressive heat wearing long sleeves, sweat pants and a head scarf. Even then, she is told her place should be in the home – not participating in sports.

“For some men, nothing is good enough,” Farah said.

Even Abdi faces constant difficulties, passing through military checkpoints where he is shaken down for money. And when he has competed in sanctioned track events, gun-toting insurgents have threatened his life for what they viewed as compliance with the interim government.

“Once, the insurgents were very unhappy,” he said. “When we went back home, my friends and I were rounded up and we were told if we did it again, we would get killed. Some of my friends stopped being in sports. I had many phone calls threatening me, that if I didn’t stop running, I would get killed. Lately, I do not have these problems. I think probably they realized we just wanted to be athletes and were not involved with the government.”

But the interim government has not been able to offer support, instead spending its cash and energy arming Ethiopian allies for the fight against insurgents. Other than organizing a meet to compete for Olympic selection – in which the Somali Olympic federation chose whom it believed to be its two best performers – there has been little lavished on athletes. While other countries pour millions into the training and perfecting of their Olympic stars, Somalia offers little guidance and no doctors, not even a stipend for food.

“The food is not something that is measured and given to us every day,” Samia said. “We eat whatever we can get.”

On the best days, that means getting protein from a small portion of fish, camel or goat meat, and carbohydrates from bananas or citrus fruits growing in local trees. On the worst days – and there are long stretches of those – it means surviving on water and Angera, a flat bread made from a mixture of wheat and barley.

“There is no grocery store,” Abdi said. “We can’t go shopping for whatever we want.”

He laughs at this thought, with a smile that is missing a front tooth.


***

When the gun went off in Samia’s 200-meter heat, seven women blasted from their starting blocks, registering as little as 16 one-hundredths of a second of reaction time. Samia’s start was slow enough that the computer didn’t read it, leaving her reaction time blank on the heat’s statistical printout.

Within seconds, seven competitors were thundering around the curve in Beijing’s Bird’s Nest, struggling to separate themselves from one another. Samia was just entering the curve when her opponents were nearing the finish line. A local television feed had lost her entirely by the time Veronica Campbell-Brown crossed the finish line in a trotting 23.04 seconds.

As the athletes came to a halt and knelt, stretching and sucking deep breaths, a camera moved to ground level. In the background of the picture, a white dot wearing a headband could be seen coming down the stretch.

***

Until this month, Samia had been to two countries outside of her own – Djibouti and Ethiopia. Asked how she will describe Beijing, her eyes get big and she snickers from under a blue and white Olympic baseball cap.

“The stadiums, I never thought something like this existed in the world,” she said. “The buildings in the city, it was all very surprising. It will probably take days to finish all the stories we have to tell.”

Asked about Beijing’s otherworldly Water Cube, she lets out a sigh: “Ahhhhhhh.”

Before she can answer, Abdi cuts her off.

“I didn’t know what it was when I saw it,” he said. “Is it plastic? Is it magic?”

Few buildings are beyond two or three stories tall in Mogadishu, and those still standing are mostly in tatters. Only pictures will be able to describe some of Beijing’s structures, from the ancient architecture of the Forbidden City to the modernity of the Water Cube and the Bird’s Nest.

“The Olympic fire in the stadium, everywhere I am, it is always up there,” Samia said. “It’s like the moon. I look up wherever I go, it is there.”

These are the stories they will relish when they return to Somalia, which they believe has, for one brief moment, united the country’s warring tribes. Farah said he had received calls from countrymen all over the world, asking how their two athletes were doing and what they had experienced in China. On the morning of Samia’s race, it was just after 5 a.m., and locals from her neighborhood were scrambling to find a television with a broadcast.

“People stayed awake to see it,” Farah said. “The good thing, sports is the one thing which unites all of Somalia.”

That is one of the common threads they share with every athlete at the Games. Just being an Olympian and carrying the country’s flag brings an immense sense of pride to families and neighborhoods which typically know only despair.

A pride that Samia will share with her mother, three brothers and three sisters. A pride that Abdi will carry home to his father, two brothers and two sisters. Like Samia’s father two years ago, Abdi’s mother was killed in the civil war, by a mortar shell that hit the family’s home in 1993.

“We are very proud,” Samia said. “Because of us, the Somali flag is raised among all the other nations’ flags. You can’t imagine how proud we were when we were marching in the Opening Ceremonies with the flag.

“Despite the difficulties and everything we’ve had with our country, we feel great pride in our accomplishment.”

***

As Samia came down the stretch in her 200-meter heat, she realized that the Somalian Olympic federation had chosen to place her in the wrong event. The 200 wasn’t nearly the best event for a middle distance runner. But the federation believed the dash would serve as a “good experience” for her. Now she was coming down the stretch alone, pumping her arms and tilting her head to the side with a look of despair.

Suddenly, the half-empty stadium realized there was still a runner on the track, still pushing to get across the finish line almost eight seconds behind the seven women who had already completed the race. In the last 50 meters, much of the stadium rose to its feet, flooding the track below with cheers of encouragement. A few competitors who had left Samia behind turned and watched it unfold.

As Samia crossed the line in 32.16 seconds, the crowd roared in applause. Bahamian runner Sheniqua Ferguson, the next smallest woman on the track at 5-foot-7 and 130 pounds, looked at the girl crossing the finish and thought to herself, “Wow, she’s tiny.”

“She must love running,” Ferguson said later.

***

Several days later, Samia waved off her Olympic moment as being inspirational. While she was still filled with joy over her chance to compete, and though she knew she had done all she could, part of her seemed embarrassed that the crowd had risen to its feet to help push her across the finish line.

“I was happy the people were cheering and encouraging me,” she said. “But I would have liked to be cheered because I won, not because I needed encouragement. It is something I will work on. I will try my best not to be the last person next time. It was very nice for people to give me that encouragement, but I would prefer the winning cheer.

She shrugged and smiled.

“I knew it was an uphill task.”

And there it was. While the Olympics are often promoted for the fastest and strongest and most agile champions, there is something to be said for the ones who finish out of the limelight. The ones who finish last and leave with their pride.

At their best, the Olympics still signify competition and purity, a love for sport. What represents that better than two athletes who carry their country’s flag into the Games despite their country’s inability to carry them before that moment? What better way to find the best of the Olympic spirit than by looking at those who endure so much that would break it?

“We know that we are different from the other athletes,” Samia said. “But we don’t want to show it. We try our best to look like all the rest. We understand we are not anywhere near the level of the other competitors here. We understand that very, very well. But more than anything else, we would like to show the dignity of ourselves and our country.”

She smiles when she says this, sitting a stone’s throw from a Somalian flag that she and her countryman Abdi brought to these Games. They came and went from Beijing largely unnoticed, but may have been the most dignified example these Olympics could offer.
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Struggle To Be Free

A man found a cocoon of a butterfly, that he brought home.

One day a small opening appeared he sat and watched the butterfly for several hours. It struggled to force its body through that little hole. Then it seemed to stop making any progress. It appeared as if it had gotten as far as it could and it could go no farther.

So the man decided to help the butterfly. He took a pair of scissors and snipped off the remaining bit of the cocoon. The butterfly then emerged easily, but, it had a swollen body and small, shriveled wings. He continued to watch the butterfly, he expected that, at any moment, the wings would enlarge and the body would contract. Neither happened!

In fact, the butterfly spent the rest of its life crawling around with a swollen body and shriveled wings. It was never able to fly.

The man acted with well-intentioned kindness but he didn't understand the consequences. The restricting cocoon and the struggle required to get through the tiny opening, were nature's way of forcing fluid from the body of the butterfly once it achieved its freedom from the cocoon.


Sometimes struggles are exactly what we need in our life. If we were to go through life without any obstacles, it would cripple us. We would not be as strong as we could have been and we could never fly. So the next time you are faced with an obstacle, a challenge, or a problem, remember the butterfly. Struggle a little - then fly!


HAVE A GREAT DAY AHEAD! smile.gif

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Struggle To  Be Free

A man found a cocoon of a butterfly, that he brought home.

One day a small opening appeared he sat and watched the butterfly for several hours. It struggled to force its body through that little hole. Then it seemed to stop making any progress. It appeared as if it had gotten as far as it could and it could go no farther.

So the man decided to help the butterfly. He took a pair of scissors and snipped off the remaining bit of the cocoon. The butterfly then emerged easily, but, it had a swollen body and small, shriveled wings. He continued to watch the butterfly, he expected that, at any moment, the wings would enlarge and the body would contract. Neither happened!

In fact, the butterfly spent the rest of its life crawling around with a swollen body and shriveled wings. It was never able to fly.

The man acted with well-intentioned kindness but he didn't understand the consequences. The restricting cocoon and the struggle required to get through the tiny opening, were nature's way of forcing fluid from the body of the butterfly once it achieved its freedom from the cocoon.


Sometimes struggles are exactly what we need in our life. If we were to go through life without any obstacles, it would cripple us. We would not be as strong as we could have been and we could never fly. So the next time you are faced with an obstacle, a challenge, or a problem, remember the butterfly. Struggle a little - then fly!
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The Ship of Life

Across the shore awaits a boat
Though sea's are rough, its still afloat

Raise the sails, held up by mast
Forget the troubles of distant past

As wave crash down upon the deck
Steady the boat; not quite a wreak

Tend the mast, and fix the scratch
Light the lantern with one last match

The storm will end, pull anchor and rope.
Look up to see the stars of hope.



This day and your life... are God's gift to you, so give thanks and be joyful always! smile.gif

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Let your love flow outward through the universe,
To its height, its depth, its broad extent,
A limitless love, without hatred or enmity.
Then as you stand or walk,
Sit or lie down,
As long as you are awake,
Strive for this with a one-pointed mind;
Your life will bring heaven to earth.
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and the life of the candle will not be shortened.
Happiness never decreases by being shared.
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Good night! Good Night! Far flies the light; but still God's love shall flame above, making all bright. Good night! Good night!

The best bridge between despair and hope is a good night's sleep. ~ E. Joseph Cossman



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The Wise Woman

A wise woman who was traveling in the mountains found a precious stone in a stream.

The next day she met another traveler who was hungry, and the wise woman opened her bag to share her food. The hungry traveler saw the precious stone and asked the woman to give it to him. She did so without hesitation.

The traveler left, rejoicing in his good fortune. He knew the stone was worth enough to give him security for a lifetime.

But, a few days later, he came back to return the stone to the wise woman. "I've been thinking," he said. "I know how valuable this stone is, but I give it back in the hope that you can give me something even more precious. Give me what you have within you that enabled you to give me this stone."



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He is rich or poor according to what he is, not according to what he has. ~ Henry Ward Beecher

You aren't wealthy until you have something money can't buy. ~ Garth Brooks

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give. ~ Winston Churchill

Wealth is the product of man's capacity to think. ~ Ayn Rand


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Nothing worth doing is completed in our lifetime,
Therefore, we are saved by hope.
Nothing true or beautiful or good makes complete sense in any immediate context of history;
Therefore, we are saved by faith.
Nothing we do, however virtuous, can be accomplished alone.
Therefore, we are saved by love.
No virtuous act is quite a virtuous from the standpoint of our friend or foe as from our own;
Therefore, we are saved by the final form of love which is forgiveness.
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Creativity comes from trust. Trust your instincts. And never hope more than you work.
~Rita Mae Brown

I believe that imagination is stronger than knowledge -- myth is more potent than history -- dreams are more powerful than facts -- hope always triumphs over experience -- laughter is the cure for grief -- love is stronger than death.
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Never give out while there is hope; but hope not beyond reason, for that shows more desire than judgment.
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The Trouble Tree

The carpenter I hired to help me restore an old farmhouse had just finished a rough day on the job. A flat tire made him lose an hour of work. His electric saw quit, and now his ancient pickup truck refused to start. While I drove him home, he sat in stony silence.

On arriving, he invited me in to meet his family. As we walked toward the front door, he paused briefly at a tall tree, touching tips of the branches with both hands. When opening the door, he underwent an amazing transformation. His tanned face was wreathed with smiles and he hugged his two small children and gave his wife a kiss.

Afterward he walked me to the car. We passed the tree and my curiosity got the better of me. I asked him about what I had seen him do earlier.

"Oh, that's my trouble tree" he replied. "I know that I can't help having troubles on the job, but one thing's for sure. Troubles don't belong in the house with my wife and children. So I just hang them up on the tree every night when I get home. Then in the morning I pick them up again. "Funny thing is," he smiled, "when I come out in the morning to pick 'em up, there ain't nearly as many as I remember hanging up the night before."


Do you have a Trouble Tree you can hang your problems on? Do not take your troubles home with you, but instead find peace with the Trouble Tree.

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May your blessings be too many to count... and your worries too few to matter.
May your days be filled with sunshine... and your nights in comfort.
May you never go hungry... and be able to share your bounty.
May God bless and protect you... and answer all your prayers.

My wish to all Muslim forumers for a blessed Ramadan.
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The song Sky or 天空 from the Olympics album, it's my favorite song, I like the lyrics and the singer sounds like Faye Wong.
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Rainbow Connection - Kermit the Frog



Why are there so many
Songs about rainbows
And what's on the other side
Rainbow's are visions
They're only illusions
And rainbows have nothing to hide
So we've been told and some chose to
Believe it
But I know they're wrong wait and see

Someday we'll find it
The Rainbow Connection
The lovers, the dreamers and me

Who said that every wish
Would be heard and answered
When wished on the morning star
Somebody thought of that
And someone believed it
And look what it's done so far
What's so amazing
That keeps us star gazing
What so we think we might see

Someday we'll find it
That Rainbow Connection
The lovers the dreamers and me

Have you been half asleep
And have you heard voices
I've heard them calling my name
Are these the sweet sounds that called
The young sailors
I think they're one and the same
I've heard it too many times to ignore it
There's something that I'm supposed to be

Someday we'll find it
The Rainbow Connection
The lovers, the dreamers and me

-- this song picks me up all the time.. it's on high rotation for my kiddies' lullabies..
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I Believe in Little Things - Tony Bennet and Elmo



I believe in little things
That you can hardly see
Like honeycomb and spider webs
And starfish in the sea

I believe in little things
Like icy drops of rain
That melt into the morning mist
When winds are warm again

I believe in little things
Like colors in the sky
And noticing the waves roll in
And how the flowers die

Knowing they'll be back again
Whenever it's July

I believe in little things
Like you and me
And just how big
Little things can be


-- this one's from elmo.. the kiddies love this as well, so does the mommy btw..
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CATCH OF A LIFETIME

There was once an 11-year-old who went fishing every chance he got from the dock at his family's cabin on an island in the middle of a New Hampshire lake.

On the day before bass season opened, he and his father were fishing early in the evening, catching sunfish and perch with worms. Then he tied on a small silver lure and practiced casting. The lure struck the water and caused colored ripples in the sunset, then silver ripples as the moon rose over the lake.

When his pole doubled over, he knew something huge was on the other end. His father watched with admiration as the boy skillfully worked the fish alongside the dock. Finally he very gingerly lifted the exhausted fish from the water. It was the largest one he had ever seen, but it was a bass.

The boy and his father looked at the handsome fish, gills playing back and forth in the moonlight. The father lit a match and looked at his watch. It was 10 p.m. -- two hours before the season opened. He looked at the fish, then at the boy. "You'll have to put it back, son," he said.

"Dad!" cried the boy. "There will be other fish," said his father. "Not as big as this one," cried the boy. He looked around the lake. No other fishermen or boats were anywhere around in the moonlight. He looked again at his father.

Even though no one had seen them, nor could anyone ever know what time he caught the fish, the boy could tell by the clarity of his father's voice that the decision was not negotiable. He slowly worked the hook out of the lip of the huge bass, and lowered it into the black water.

The creature swished its powerful body and disappeared. The boy suspected that he would never again see such a great fish.

That was 34 years ago. Today the boy is a successful architect in New York City. His father's cabin is still there on the lake. He takes his own son and daughters fishing from the same dock.

And he was right. He has never again caught such a magnificent fish as the one he landed that night long ago. But he does see that same fish...again and again...every time he comes up against a question of ethics. For, as his father taught him, ethics are simple matters of right and wrong. It is only the practice of ethics that is difficult.

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You will never walk alone

One night I dreamed I was walking along the beach with the Lord. Many scenes from my life flashed across the sky.

In each scene I noticed footprints in the sand. Sometimes there were two sets of footprints, other times there was one only.

This bothered me because I noticed that during the low periods of my life, when I was suffering from anguish, sorrow or defeat, I could see only one set of footprints, so I said to the Lord,

“You promised me Lord, that if I followed you, you would walk with me always. But I have noticed that during the most trying periods of my life there has only been one set of footprints in the sand. Why, when I needed you most, have you not been there for me?”

The Lord replied, “The years when you have seen only one set of footprints, my child, is when I carried you.”

have faith on everything you do, for Him will guide and lead you!

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Handwriting on the Wall

A weary mother returned from the store,
ugging groceries through the kitchen door.

Awaiting her arrival was her eight-year-old son,
Eager to relate what his younger brother had done.

"While I was out playing and Dad was on a call,
T.J. took his crayons and wrote on the wall!

It's on the new paper you just hung in the den.
I told him you'd be mad at having to do it again."

She let out a moan and furrowed her brow.
"Where is your little brother right now?"

She emptied her arms and with a purposeful stride,
She marched to his closet where he had gone to hide.

She called his full name as she entered his room.
He trembled with fear -- he knew that meant doom!

For the next ten minutes, she ranted and raved
About the expensive wallpaper and how she had saved.

Stressed over all the work it would take to repair,
She condemned his actions and total lack of care.

The more she scolded, the madder she got,
Then stomped from his room, totally distraught!

She headed for the den to confirm her fears.
When she saw the wall, her eyes flooded with tears.

The message she read pierced her soul with a dart.
It said, "I love Mommy," surrounded by a heart.

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Well, the wallpaper remained, just as she found it,
With an empty picture frame hung to surround it.

A reminder to her, and indeed to all,
Take time to read the handwriting on the wall!!!

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A dwarf standing on the shoulder on a giant may see farther than the giant himself.
(Robert Burton)


Listening could be inexpensive, but not listening could be costly.
(Tom Brewer)


Men and women are not limited by the colour of their skin, place of birth, but by their size of hope.
(John Johnson)


Lets the refining and improving of your own life keeps you so busy that you have little time to critisize others.
(H. Jackson Brown)


Many of life failures are people who did not realise how close they were to success when they gave up.
(Thomas Edison)


The difference between a successful person and others is not a lack of strength, not a lack of knowledge, but rather a lack of will.
(Vince Lombardi)

We cannot advance without new experiments in living, but no wise man tries everyday what he has proved wrong the day before.
(Sam Levenson)


It is rather be a failure at something you love rather than success at something you hate.
(George Burns)


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The only true wisdom is in knowing that you know nothing.
(Socrates)


The direct use of forces is such a poor solution to any problem, it is generally employed only by small children and large nations.
(David Friedman)


The years teach much which the days never even knew.
(Ralph Waldo Emerson)


We look forward to the time when the power of love will replace the love of power. Then there will be peace.
(William Gladstone)


Only those who dare to fail greatly can ever achieve greatly.
(Robert Francis Kennedy)


You will never find yourself until you face the truth.
(Pearl Bailey)


To get to nowhere, follow the crowd.
(Charlie Brown)


Loser lets it happen, winner makes it happen.


Dont make yourself a mouse, or the cat will eat you.
(A .B. Charles)

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I think these two books are worth a read,

The Cure for Grief: A Novel (Hardcover)
by Nellie Hermann (Author)

QUOTE
Editorial Reviews
From Publishers Weekly
The only girl in the strong, loving Bronstein family, nine-year-old Ruby anchors this adept debut from Hermann. Ruby has always felt both admiration for and rejected by her three charismatic older brothers; she is similarly intrigued by her Holocaust survivor father, whose observance of Jewish customs persists despite his professed loss of faith. Ruby's own sense of faith, family and self will be sorely tested over the next 10-plus years: her oldest brother Abe's schizophrenic break, a truly frightening event to 10-year-old Ruby, is but the first in a series of crises. The well-developed chapters have a tendency to read like individual stories, but Hermann keeps the novel's themes of loss and resiliency constant. Foreshadowing and symbolism get heavy, but what could have become a litany of family pain is tempered, in Hermann's eminently capable narrative, by young Ruby's concurrent journey toward self-discovery. (Aug.)
Copyright © Reed Business Information, a division of Reed Elsevier Inc. All rights reserved.

Review
"The Cure for Grief is a searingly beautiful, stunning debut, saturated in the lyricism of loss and mourning yet rooted in the everyday. The book's sadness is irradiated by a wild hope as the characters take their places among the living; we are drawn in by the force of their sorrow but elevated by their rich and complex attachments to each other, the past, the future, and their own inner lives." -- Mary Gordon, author of Circling My Mother

"Written in measured, splendid prose, Nellie Hermann's debut novel is a courageous gift to readers. Far more than a coming-of-age story, The Cure for Grief is both vivid in its immediacy and poignant in its timelessness." -- Howard Norman, author of Devotion

"The Cure for Grief is a profound and thrilling achievement -- an exemplar of the reason books should be written and read. Nellie Hermann is wise beyond her years, though to say this is to miss the point -- that all great artists float beyond age and outside of time. The Cure for Grief is a coming-of-age story that reaches far beyond its subject; it shimmers with clarity and grace, fulfilling the deepest of literature's promises -- drawing us into a riveting world, punching us with emotion, revealing the most secret truths of the soul. Her vision is that of the seer, whose illuminating beam might help the reader learn how better to live." -- Shira Nayman, author of Awake in the Dark

"Stunning. A subtle, elegiac coming-of-age novel about catastrophe, grief and the persistence of everyday life. A gorgeously readable meditation on mourning and survival. Hermann is a young author to watch."-- Kirkus Reviews, starred review
The Elegance of the Hedgehog (Paperback)
by Muriel Barbery (Author), Alison Anderson (Translator)

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Editorial Reviews
Review
“The formula that made more than half a million readers in France fall in love with this book has, among other ingredients: intelligent humor, fine sentiments, an excellent literary and philosophical backdrop, good taste, sophistication and substance.”
—La Repubblica

“Enthusiastically recommended for anyone who loves books that grow quietly and then blossom suddenly.”
—Marie Claire (France)

“An exquisite book in the form of a philosophical fable that has enchanted hundreds of thousands of readers.”
—Elle (Italy)

“Nobody ever imagined that this tender, funny book with a philosophical vein would have enjoyed such incredible success. For some, it is part Sophie’s World by Jostein Gaarder, part Monsieur Malaussene by Daniel Pennac. While for others it resembles a written version of the film Amelie. Either way, readers are responding in vast numbers.”
—Le Monde

Product Description
The enthralling international bestseller.

We are in the center of Paris, in an elegant apartment building inhabited by bourgeois families. Renée, the concierge, is witness to the lavish but vacuous lives of her numerous employers. Outwardly she conforms to every stereotype of the concierge: fat, cantankerous, addicted to television. Yet, unbeknownst to her employers, Renée is a cultured autodidact who adores art, philosophy, music, and Japanese culture. With humor and intelligence she scrutinizes the lives of the building’s tenants, who for their part are barely aware of her existence.

Then there’s Paloma, a twelve-year-old genius. She is the daughter of a tedious parliamentarian, a talented and startlingly lucid child who has decided to end her life on the sixteenth of June, her thirteenth birthday. Until then she will continue behaving as everyone expects her to behave: a mediocre pre-teen high on adolescent subculture, a good but not an outstanding student, an obedient if obstinate daughter.

Paloma and Renée hide both their true talents and their finest qualities from a world they suspect cannot or will not appreciate them. They discover their kindred souls when a wealthy Japanese man named Ozu arrives in the building. Only he is able to gain Paloma’s trust and to see through Renée’s timeworn disguise to the secret that haunts her. This is a moving, funny, triumphant novel that exalts the quiet victories of the inconspicuous among us.

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A nice and meaningful story

A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.

The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its color and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed, the mother hurried him to the hospital. He died.

The mother was stunned! She was terrified how she was going to face her husband. When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.


QUESTIONS:

1. What were the five words?
2. What is the implication of this story?

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ANSWER:

The husband just said "I am with you Darling".

The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened. No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.

If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world.

"A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step."

Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.

MORAL OF THE STORY
This story is really worth reading. Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out some warmth in human relationship.
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Seen from Loving Eyes...

A grandmother and a little girl whose face was sprinkled with bright red freckles spent the day at the zoo.

The children were waiting in line to get their cheeks painted by a local artist who was decorating them with tiger paws.

"You've got so many freckles, there's no place to paint!" a boy in the line cried. Embarrassed, the little girl dropped her head. Her grandmother knelt down next to her. "I love your freckles," she said.

"Not me," the girl replied. Well, when I was a little girl I always wanted freckles," the grandmother said, tracing her finger across the child's cheek. "Freckles are beautiful!" she continued.

The girl looked up. "Really?"

"Of course," said the grandmother. "Why, just name me one thing that's prettier than freckles."

The little girl peered into the old woman's smiling face, and answered softly, "Wrinkles."


Harmonizing heart and brain through love is what can establish a complete intelligence, a complete self, where a child can look at life and realise there are no dead ends, there are always possibilities. The greatest gift a parent (or a grandparent) can give a child during all the ups and downs of life is love.

As you continue to send out love, the energy returns to you in a regenerating spiral...

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one of the greatest thread in kopitiam!
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Watch Your Thoughts, For They Become Words...
Watch Your Words, For They Become Actions...
Watch Your Actions, For They Become Habits...
Watch Your Habits, For They Become Character...
Watch Your Character, For It Becomes Your Destiny...


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You know the fight is over whenever Ultraman unleashes his powerful Specium Beam!

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“Relativity applies to physics, not ethics” ~ Albert Einstein

This quote is amazing because it is so contrary to what everybody thinks and how they act
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PLANT THREE ROWS OF PEAS:
1. Peace of mind
2. Peace of heart
3. Peace of soul

PLANT FOUR ROWS OF SQUASH:
1. Squash gossip
2. Squash indifference
3. Squash grumbling
4. Squash selfishness

PLANT FOUR ROWS OF LETTUCE:
1. Lettuce be faithful
2. Lettuce be kind
3. Lettuce be patient
4. Lettuce really love one another

NO GARDEN WITHOUT TURNIPS:
1. Turnip for meetings
2. Turnip for service
3. Turnip to help one another

TO CONCLUDE OUR GARDEN WE MUST HAVE THYME:
1. Thyme for each other
2. Thyme for family
3. Thyme for friends... water freely with patience and cultivate with love



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Not The Glittering Weapon Fights The Fight, But Rather The Hero's Heart...
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Most of the inspirational e-mails I've received have already been posted here. I'll keep an eye out for anything that you guys might like. Thanks for this, MayAnne.
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The happiest people in the world are not those who have no problems, but those who learn to live with things that are less than perfect.

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Keep smilling friends...

In the bustling live of city folks, a small good deed may end up putting a big smile on the face of everyone. Who says we cannot smile while rushing to get into LRT or busses? While queuing up for your ride, turn to the people beside you and give them a friendly and warm smile. smile.gif
Perhaps your smile will make the person to feel the warmness and happy for the rest of the day.. Cheers..!!

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A smile costs nothing but gives much.
It enriches those who receive without making poorer those who give.
It takes but a moment, but the memory of it sometimes lasts forever.
None is so rich or mighty that he cannot get along without it.
And none is so poor that he cannot be made rich by it.
Yet a smile cannot be bought, begged, borrowed, or stolen,
for it is something that is of no value to anyone until it is given away.

Some people are too tired to give you a smile.
Give them one of yours,
as none needs a smile so much as he who has no more to give.


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Flame is the light like a star in the sky
It will burn forever strong and light the way for you and I
We wish upon the stars, that dreams will take us far
Hope and peace in the world we all belong

Love love love we will share together
Love love love we are one

One world one dream
Let us share our hearts together all as one
In a place where we join in the harmony
One world one dream
Let us celebrate the powers of our heroes
Who’ll rise with strength and pride

Love love love we will share together
Love love love we are one

Time and time again they flexed their power spirit and glory
Win or lose they stood together high
Hearts and souls unite together
Bring the worlds to love each other
Reach reach for the sky

One world one dream
Let us share our hearts together all as one
In a place where we join in harmony
One world one dream
Let us celebrate the powers of our heroes
Who’ll rise with strength and pride
Light the passion share the dream all as one

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What Letting Go Really Means...

To "let go" does not mean to stop caring. It means I can't do it for someone else.

To "let go" is not to cut myself off. It's the realization that I can't control another.

To "let go" is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands, but in God's.

To "let go" is not to try to change or blame another. It's to make the most possible out of myself.

To "let go" is not to care for, but care about.

To "let go" is not to fix, but to be supportive.

To "let go" is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being, as we all are.

To "let go" is not to be in the middle, arranging all the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own destinies.

To "let go" is not to deny, but to accept.

To "let go" is not to nag, scold, fuss, or argue; but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.

To "let go" is not to adjust everything to my desires, but to take each day as it comes and cherish myself in it.

To "let go" is not to regret the past, but to live for today and grow for the future.

To "let go" is to fear less and to love more.



This is to remind you and myself that each one of us has things in our life beyond our control – and often the healthy thing is to let go... in the proper way.

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A sign of new hope,
a hope of change,
a change in life,
a life full of love,
appreaciate these changes,
before it's too late.


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Ten thousand flowers in spring
the moon in autumn,
a cool breeze in summer,
snow in winter.
If your mind isn't clouded by unnecessary things,
this is the best season of your life.
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The instant you speak about a thing, you miss the mark.

If you're attached to anything, you surely will go far astray.

Only the crystal-clear question yields a transparent answer.

All of the significant battles are waged within the self.

Life is the only thing worth living for.

Better to sit all night than to go to bed with a dragon.

Live every day like your hair was on fire.

If you understand, things are just as they are; if you do not understand, things are just as they are.

When you get to the top of the mountain, keep climbing.

The mind should be as a mirror.


There is nothing infinite apart from finite things.

Everyday life is the way.

Great Faith. Great Doubt. Great Effort. - The three qualities necessary for training.

If you do not get it from yourself, Where will you go for it?

Do not permit the events of your daily life to bind you, but never withdraw yourself from them.

Where there is great doubt, there will be great awakening; small doubt, small awakening, no doubt, no awakening.

Sitting peacefully doing nothing Spring comes and the grass grows all by itself.

Everything the same; everything distinct.

Lovely snowflakes, they fall nowhere else!

Chop wood, carry water.

Possessing much knowledge is like having a thousand foot fishing line with a hook, but the fish is always an inch beyond the hook.

A noble heart never forces itself forward. Its words are as rare gems, seldom displayed and of great value.

If you meet on the way a man who knows, Don't speak a word -- Don't keep silent!

Even a good thing isn't as good as nothing.

This is not the Buddha, this is the Buddha.

One moon shows in every pool, in every pool the one moon.

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The ambiance was so soft, one could almost hear them talking...

The first candle said: "I'm PEACE! The world is full of anger and fighting, no one can keep me lit."
And the flame of Peace went out completely...

Then the second candle said: "I'm FAITH! I'm not longer indispensable. It doesn't make sense that I stay lit another moment."
And a breeze softly blew out Faith's flame...

Sadly the third candle began to speak: "I'm LOVE! People don't understand my importance. They completely put me aside. They even forget to love those who are nearest to them. I haven't the strength to stay lit."
And waiting no longer, Love's flame went out...

Suddenly, a child enterd the room and saw the three unlit candles.
"Why aren't you burning? You are supposed to stay lit till the end and saying this, he began to cry...

Then the fourth candle answered: "Don't be afraid, I'm HOPE! While I'm still burning, we can re-light the other candles!"
With shining eyes the child took the candle of Hope and did just that...

The flame of Hope should never go out from your life and with HOPE each of us can live a life with PEACE, FAITH and LOVE!


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"Life moves on.... even in sorrow and uncertainty.
The sun still rises and sets even in days of doubt and despair.
And all of the endless processes and purposes of life persist despite discouragement.
And despite discouragement there is still reason for living and building for the future
For what seems to be an ending event is not an end
But only another event in an eternal journey."


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but if there are gifts of prophecy,
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if there is knowledge,
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“Time is free, but it's priceless.
You can't own it, but you can use it. You can't keep it, but you can spend it.
Once you've lost it you can never get it back.”

~ Harvey MacKay


“Love is like swallowing hot chocolate before it has cooled off.
It takes you by surprise at first, but keeps you warm for a long time.”

~ Anon


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“Life is short and we never have enough time
for gladdening the hearts of those who travel the way with us.
Oh, be swift to love! Make haste to be kind.”

~Henri Frederic Amiel (Swiss writer known for his masterpiece Journal intime, 1821-1881)


“It is easier to be a lover than a husband for the simple reason that
it is more difficult to be witty every day than to say pretty things from time to time.”

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“We are not put on earth for ourselves, but are placed here for each other.
If you are there always for others, then in time of need, someone will be there for you.”

~Anon


“Time is a sort of river of passing events, and strong is its current;
no sooner is a thing brought to sight than it is swept by
and another takes its place, and this too will be swept away.”

~Marcus Aurelius (Roman emperor, best known for his Meditations on Stoic philosophy, AD 121-180)


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To Really Give...

There was a family that was experiencing a small tragedy. One of their two sons had acquired an illness that required a marrow transplant. Of course, the medical personel had all the family members tested to see who had the proper type of blood. It turned out the older brother of the sick boy was the perfect match.

So the father sat the older brother down and told what they needed to do in simplest terms for the young boy. The father told him that his little brother was very very sick and that he needed to show his little brother how much he loved him by having surgery. The doctors need to take a little piece of him and put it in his little brother's body so that he doesn't die. The young boy thought about it for a couple seconds, and then he said he would do it.

So the older brother went through surgery. it was a success, and his little brother was recovering quickly. After the relief and joy passed over and the family was just sitting around relaxing, the father noticed his older son looking a little down and depressed. He took his son aside and asked him why he wasn't happy- his brother was getting better. His son said that he was very glad that his brother was getting better. So the father asked again, why are you so sad? The boy said, "When is it time for me to die?"

That's when the father realized what the boy actually had on his mind. His older son believed in his heart of hearts that he had to give up his own life so that his little brother who he loved could live.



Can we really give the next time someone you know – or don’t know – really needs some help?

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Building Our Bridges...

In 1883, a creative engineer named John Roebling was inspired by an idea to build a spectacular bridge connecting New York with Brooklyn, however bridge building experts throughout the world thought that this was an impossible feat and told Roebling to forget the idea. It just could not be done. It was not practical. It had never been done before.

Roebling could not ignore the vision and after much discussion and persuasion he managed to convince his son Washington, an up and coming engineer, that the bridge in fact could be built. Working together for the first time, the father and son developed concepts of how it could be accomplished and how the obstacles could be overcome. With great excitement and inspiration, and the headiness of a wild challenge before them, they hired their crew and began to build their dream bridge.

The project started well, but when it was only a few months underway a tragic accident on the site took the life of John Roebling. Washington was injured and left with a certain amount of brain damage, which resulted in him not being able to walk or talk or even move.

In spite of the mockery and his handicap Washington was never discouraged and still had a burning desire to complete the bridge and his mind was still as sharp as ever. Suddenly an idea hit him. All he could do was move one finger and he decided to make the best use of it. By moving this, he slowly developed a code of communication with his wife.

He touched his wife's arm with that finger, indicating to her that he wanted her to call the engineers. Then he used the same method of tapping her arm to tell the engineers what to do. It seemed foolish but the project was under way again.


For 13 years Washington tapped out his instructions with his finger on his wife's arm, until the bridge was finally completed. Today the spectacular Brooklyn Bridge stands in all its glory as a tribute to the triumph of one man's indomitable spirit and his determination not to be defeated by circumstances. It is also a tribute to the engineers and their team work, and to their faith in a man who was considered mad by half the world. It stands too as a tangible monument to the love and devotion of his wife who for 13 long years patiently decoded the messages of her husband and told the engineers what to do.

Perhaps this is one of the best examples of a never-say-die attitude that overcomes a terrible physical handicap and achieves an impossible goal.

Even the most distant dream can be realized with determination and persistence.

This is to remind all of us you even the loftiest and most challenged dreams can be achieved with persistence and determination. So we should just go out and "build our bridge". smile.gif

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"Let me respectfully remind you, life & death are of supreme importance.  Time passes swiftly and opportunity is lost.  Each of us must strive to awaken.  Awaken!  Take heed, do not squander your lives."

A few important aspects of this quote that I think are worth highlighting are below.

1.  Your responsibility in life is to awaken.  Everything else is secondary.  EVERYTHING!  This does not mean you do not participate in the world, it means you participate according to the discipline your spiritual practice is creating for you.  Your supreme goal is always The Supreme.

2.  Human life is an invaluable opportunity that must not be squandered.  Don’t take this opportunity for granted and don’t waste it in pursuit of frivolous desires.

3.  Your house is on fire, this is not the time to hit the snooze button, you need to act; you need to get out!  You must have a great sense of urgency in order to summon the necessary energy to break through the trap of duality.  You can’t do this by dabbling about and being lukewarm about your dedication.  You need to have fierce passion and urgency, then you have a chance.  Act Now!

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Everything we need to know, we learned in kindergarten

Most of what I really need to know about how to live and what to do, and how to be, I learned in kindergarten. Wisdom was not at the top of the graduate school mountain, but there in the sandbox at nursery school.

These are the things I learned:

Share everything.

Play fair.

Don't hit people.

Put things back where you found them.

Clean up your own mess.

Don't take things that aren't yours.

Say you're sorry when you hurt somebody.

Wash your hands before you eat.

Flush.

Warm cookies and cold milk are good for you.

Live a balanced life.

Learn some and think some and draw and paint and sing and dance and play and work every day some.

Take a nap every afternoon.

When you go out into the world, watch for traffic, hold hands and stick together.

Be aware of wonder.

Remember the little seed in the plastic cup? The roots go down and the plant goes up and nobody really knows how or why, but we are all like that. Goldfish and hamsters and white mice and even the little seed in the plastic cup -- they all die. So do we.

And then remember the book about Peter and Jane and the first word you learned, the biggest word of all: look.

Everything you need to know is in there somewhere. The Golden Rule and love and basic sanitation. Ecology and politics and sane living.

Think what a better world it would be if we all -- the whole world -- had cookies and milk about 3 o'clock every afternoon and then lay down with our blankets for a nap. Or if we had a basic policy in our nation and other nations to always put things back where we found them and cleaned up our own messes. And it is still true, no matter how old you are, when you go out into the world, it is best to hold hands and stick together.


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The Cracked Pot

An elderly Chinese woman had two large pots, each hung on the ends of a pole, which she carried across her neck. One of the pots had a crack in it while the other pot was perfect and always delivered a full portion of water, at the end of the long walk from the stream to the house, the cracked pot arrived only half full.

For a full two years this went on daily, with the woman bringing home only one and a half pots of water. Of course, the perfect pot was proud of its accomplishments. But the poor cracked pot was ashamed of its own imperfection, and miserable that it could only do half of what it had been made to do.

After 2 years of what it perceived to be bitter failure, it spoke to the woman one day by the stream. "I am ashamed of myself, because this crack in my side causes water to leak out all the way back to your house."

The old woman smiled, "Did you notice that there are flowers on your side of the path, but not on the other pot's side? That's because I have always known about your flaw, so I planted flower seeds on your side of the path, and every day while we walk back, you water them. For two years I have been able to pick these beautiful flowers to decorate the table. Without you being just the way you are, there would not be this beauty to grace the house."



This is to remind us that each of us has our own unique flaw. But it's the cracks and flaws we each have that make our lives together so very interesting and rewarding. You've just got to take each person for what they are and look for the good in them.


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When facing a single tree, if you look at a single one of its red leaves, you will not see all the others. When the eye is not set on one leaf, and you face the tree with nothing at all in mind, any number of leaves are visible to the eye without limit. But if a single leaf holds the eye, it will be as if the remaining leaves were not there.

~ Takuan Soto

She did not consciously think, "Ah, today I learned this and that; I gained this much." You do not do it step by step that way, by adding on coatings of varnish, or new paint. When learning becomes you, then it appears as you need it, when you are being you. Sometimes true learning surprises you when it emerges.

~ Chungliang Al Huang

If only there were evil people somewhere insidiously committing evil deeds and it were necessary only to separate them from the rest of us and destroy them. But the line dividing good and evil cuts through the heart of every human being. And who is willing to destroy a piece of his own heart?

~ Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn

In the history of Chinese civilisation, no significant scientific advances came as a result of Confucian studies. They were scholastics, and a scholastic in those times was one who went by the book, who believed what the ancient text or the ancient scriptures said, and who studied them and became proficient in them like a rabbi or a Christian theologian.

But mystics have never been very interested in theology. Mystics are interested in direct experience, and therefore - although you may laugh at them and say they are not scientific - they are empirical in their approach. And the taoists, being mystics, were the only great group of ancient Chinese people who seriously studied nature. They were interested in its principles from the beginning, and their books are full of analogies between the taoist way of life and the behaviour of natural forces seen in water, wind, or plants and rocks.

~ Alan Watts (http://www.alanwatts.com)


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The Heartfelt Gift

According to legend, a young man, while roaming the desert, came across a spring of delicious crystal-clear water. The water was so sweet he filled his leather canteen so he could bring some back to a tribal elder who had been his teacher. After a four-day journey he presented the water to the old man who took a deep drink, smiled warmly and thanked his student lavishly for the sweet water. The young man returned to his village with a happy heart.

Later, the teacher let another student taste the water. He spat it out, saying it was awful. It apparently had become stale because of the old leather container. The student challenged his teacher: "Master, the water was foul. Why did you pretend to like it?"

The teacher replied, "You only tasted the water. I tasted the gift. The water was simply the container for an act of loving-kindness and nothing could be sweeter.


How did you respond the last time you received a gift that you didn't really want?

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You have said it, but you have not understood. ~ Jesus

Which is it, is man one of God’s blunders or is God one of man’s? ~ Friedrich Nietzsche

If God has made us in his image, we have returned him the favor. ~ Voltaire

Nothing happens unless first we dream. ~ Carl Sandburg

A person will worship something, have no doubt about that. We may think our tribute is paid in secret in the dark recesses of our hearts, but it will out. That which dominates our imaginations and our thoughts will determine our lives, and our character. Therefore, it behooves us to be careful what we worship, for what we are worshipping we are becoming. ~ Emerson

The bottom line is that (a) people are never perfect, but love can be, (b) that is the one and only way that the mediocre and vile can be transformed, and © doing that makes it that. We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love. ~ Tom Robbins

I shall tell you a great secret my friend. Do not wait for the last judgement, it takes place every day. ~ Albert Camus

The love that once was born can not die
For it has become part of us, of our life,
Woven into the very texture of our being.
Each of us would wish to leave some part of ourselves,
So here and now we bear witness to the one we knew in life,
Who now in death bequeaths a subtle part, precious and beloved,
Which will be with us in truth and beauty,
In dignity and courage and love
To the end of our days.

~ Algernon Black

My life closed twice before its close;
It yet remains to see
If Immortality unveil
A third event to me,
So huge, so hopeless to conceive,
As these that twice befell.
Parting is all we know of heaven,
And all we need of hell.

~ Emily Dickinson

The poem is a little myth of man's capacity of making life meaningful. And in the end, the poem is not a thing we see --i t is, rather, a light by which we may see -- and what we see is life. ~ Robert Penn Warren


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You made one step, God gave you another three step, hence the law of abundance....
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THE SECRETS TO HAPPINESS...

Live beneath your means and within your seams.

Return everything you borrow.

Donate blood.

Stop blaming other people.

Admit it when you make a mistake.

Give all the clothes you haven't worn in the last three years to charity.

Every day do something nice and try not to get caught.

Listen more; talk less.

Every day take a 30-minute walk in your neighborhood.

Skip two meals a week and give the money to the homeless.

Strive for excellence, not perfection.

Be on time.

Don't make excuses.

Don't argue.

Get organized.

Be kind to kind people.

Be even kinder to unkind people.

Let someone cut ahead of you in line.

Take time to be alone.

Reread a favorite book.

Cultivate good manners.

Be humble.

Understand and accept that life isn't always fair.

Know when to say something.

Know when to keep your mouth shut.

Don't criticize anyone for 24 hours.

Learn from the past, plan for the future, and live in the present.

Don't sweat the small stuff.



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Are Your Potatoes Heavy?

A teacher once told each of her students to bring a clear plastic bag and a sack of potatoes to school. For every person they refuse to forgive in their life's experience, they chose a potato, wrote on it the name and date, and put it in the plastic bag. Some of their bags were quite heavy.

They were then told to carry this bag with them everywhere for one week, putting it beside their bed at night, on the car seat when driving, next to their desk at work.

The hassle of lugging this around with them made it clear what a weight they were carrying spiritually, and how they had to pay attention to it all the time to not forget and keep leaving it in embarrassing places. Naturally, the condition of the potatoes deteriorated to a nasty smelly slime. This was a great metaphor for the price we pay for keeping our pain and heavy negativity!

Too often we think of forgiveness as a gift to the other person, and it clearly is for ourselves!


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"A human being is part of the whole, called by us "Universe," a part limited in time and space.

He experiences himself, his thoughts and feelings as something separated from the rest - a kind of optical delusion of his consciousness.

This delusion is a kind of prison for us, restricting us to our personal desires and to affection for a few persons nearest to us.

Our task must be to free ourselves from this prison by widening our circle of compassion
to embrace all living creatures and the whole [of] nature in its beauty."


~Albert Einstein, 1950

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Growing Good Corn

There was a Nebraska farmer who grew award-winning corn. Each year he entered his corn in the state fair where it won a blue ribbon...

One year a newspaper reporter interviewed him and learned something interesting about how he grew it. The reporter discovered that the farmer shared his seed corn with his neighbors.

"How can you afford to share your best seed corn with your neighbors when they are entering corn in competition with yours each year?" the reporter asked.

"Why sir," said the farmer, "didn't you know? The wind picks up pollen from the ripening corn and swirls it from field to field. If my neighbors grow inferior corn, cross-pollination will steadily degrade the quality of my corn. If I am to grow good corn, I must help my neighbors grow good corn."

He is very much aware of the connectedness of life. His corn cannot improve unless his neighbor's corn also improves.

So it is in other dimensions. Those who choose to be at peace must help their neighbors to be at peace. Those who choose to live well must help others to live well, for the value of a life is measured by the lives it touches. And those who choose to be happy must help others to find happiness for the welfare of each is bound up with the welfare of all.


The lesson for each of us is this: if we are to grow good corn, we must help our neighbors grow good corn too.

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#1 Exercise Tip: BUY A FULL-LENGTH MIRROR and make sure you look in it every day.


"All your life you are told the things you cannot do. All your life they will say you're not good enough or strong enough or talented enough; they will say you're the wrong height or the wrong weight or the wrong type to play this or be this or achieve this. THEY WILL TELL YOU NO, a thousand times no, until all the no's become meaningless. All your life they will tell you no, quite firmly and very quickly.
AND YOU WILL TELL THEM YES."


- Nike

You know a dream is like a river, ever changing as it flows.
And a dreamer's just a vessel that must follow where it goes.
Trying to learn from what's behind you and never knowing what's in store
makes each day a constant battle just to stay between the shores.
And I will sail my vessel 'til the river runs dry.
Like a bird upon the wind, these waters are my sky.
I'll never reach my destination if I never try,
So I will sail my vessel 'til the river runs dry.
Too many times we stand aside and let the water slip away.
To what we put off 'til tomorrow has now become today.
So don't you sit upon the shore and say you're satisfied.
Choose to chance the rapids and dare to dance the tides.


- Garth Brooks


The master in the art of living makes little distinction between his work and his play, his labor and his leisure, his mind and his body, his information and his recreation, his love and his religion. He hardly knows which is which. He simply pursues his vision of excellence at whatever he does, leaving others to decide whether he is working or playing. To him he's always doing both.

-James A. Michener,


The world is not respectable; it is mortal, tormented, confused, deluded forever; but it is shot through with beauty, with love, with glints of courage and laughter; and in these, the spirit blooms timidly, and struggles to the light amid the thorns.

-George Santayana


When you come to the end of all the light you know, and it's time to step into the darkness of the unknown, faith is knowing that one of two things shall happen: Either you will be given something solid to stand on or you will be taught to fly.

-Edward Teller

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The Wise Sage...

There once was a wise sage who wandered the countryside. One day, as he passed near a village, he was approached by a woman who told him of a sick child nearby. She beseeched him to help this child.

So the sage came to the village, and a crowd gathered around him, for such a man was a rare sight. One woman brought the sick child to him, and he said a prayer over her.

"Do you really think your prayer will help her, when medicine has failed?" yelled a man from the crowd.

"Sadly, my friend, you know little of such things,” replied the sage.

The man became very angry with these words and his face grew hot and red. He was about to say something, or perhaps strike out, when the sage walked over to him and said:

"If one word has such power as to make you so angry and hot, may not another have the power to heal?"

And thus, the sage’s words and prayers started the healing of two people that day.



If we really think about it, all of us have seen miracles in our lives, but more often than not the miracles come through nature, rather than above it.

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Our Parachutes

Charles Plum was a jet fighter pilot in Vietnam. After 75 combat missions, his plane was hit by a surface-to-air missile. Plumb ejected and parachuted into enemy hands. He was captured and spent six years in a Communist prison. He survived that ordeal and now lectures about lessons learned from that experience.

One day, when Plumb and his wife were sitting in a restaurant, a man at another table came up and said, "You're Plumb! You flew jet fighters in Vietnam from the aircraft carrier Kitty Hawk. You were shot down!" "How in the world did you know that?" asked Plumb.

"I packed your parachute," the man replied. Plumb gasped in surprise & gratitude. The man pumped his hand and said, "I guess it worked!"

Plumb assured him, "It sure did-if your 'chute hadn't worked, I wouldn't be here today."

Plumb couldn't sleep that night, thinking about that man. Plumb says, 'I kept wondering what he might have looked like in a Navy uniform-a Dixie cup hat, a bib in the back, and bell bottom trousers. I wondered how many times I might have passed him on the Kitty Hawk. I wondered how many times I might have seen him and not even said good morning, how are you or anything because, you see, I was a fighter pilot and he was just a sailor.

Plumb thought of the many hours the sailor had spent on a long wooden table in the bowels of the ship carefully weaving the shrouds and folding the silks of each chute, holding in his hands each time the fate of someone he didn't know. Now, Plumb asks his audience, 'Who's packing your parachute?' Everyone has someone who provides what they need to make it through the day. Plumb also points out that he needed many kinds of parachutes when his plane was shot down over enemy territory-he needed his physical parachute, his mental parachute, his emotional parachute, and his spiritual parachute."


Plumb called on all these supports before reaching safety. His experience reminds us all to prepare ourselves to weather whatever storms lie ahead. We should look into our own life and see who is preparing our daily parachute, and make sure to thank them and appreciate them before we ever have to "eject".

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Do we know where we are heading to in Life?

A boat docked in a tiny Mexican village. An American tourist complimented the
Mexican fisherman on the quality of his fish and asked "How long it took him to catch them?"


"Not very long," answered the Mexican.

"But then, why didn't you stay out longer and catch more?" asked the American.
The Mexican explained that his small catch was sufficient to meet his needs and those of his family.

The American asked, "But what do you do with the rest of your time?"
"I sleep late, fish a little, play with my children, and take a siesta with my wife. In the evenings, I go into the village to see my friends,
play the guitar, and sing a few songs... I have a full life."

The American interrupted, "I have an MBA from Harvard, and I can help you!

You should start by fishing longer every day. You can then sell the extra fish you catch. With the extra revenue, you can buy a bigger boat."
"And after that?" asked the Mexican.

"With the extra money the larger boat will bring, you can buy a second one and a third one and so on until you have an entire fleet of trawlers.
Instead of selling your fish to a middle man, you can then negotiate directly with the processing plants and Maybe even open your own plant. You can then leave this little village and move to Mexico City , Los Angeles , or even New York City ! From there you can direct your huge new enterprise."

"How long would that take?" asked the Mexican?


"Twenty, perhaps twenty-five years," replied the American.

"And after that?"


"Well, my friend, that's when it gets really interesting, " answered the American, laughing.

"When your business gets really big, you can cart Selling stocks and make millions!"


"Millions? Really? And after that?" said the Mexican.

"After that you'll be able to retire, live in a tiny village near the coast,
sleep late, play with your children, catch a few fish, take a siesta with
your wife and spend your evenings doing what you like and enjoying your friends."

"With all due respect sir, but that's exactly what I am doing now.

So what's the point wasting twenty-five years?" asked the Mexican.



And the moral is:

Know where you're going in life...you may already be there.
Happiness comes from within your heart, not from your surroundings.

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Looking Up...

If you put a buzzard in a pen six or eight feet square and entirely open at the top, the bird, in spite of his ability to fly, will be an absolute prisoner. The reason is that a buzzard always begins a flight from the ground with a run of ten or twelve feet. Without space to run, as is his habit, he will not even attempt to fly, but will remain a prisoner for life in a small jail with no top.

The ordinary bat that flies around at night, a remarkable nimble creature in the air, cannot take off from a level place. If it is placed on the floor or flat ground, all it can do is shuffle about helplessly and, no doubt, painfully, until it reaches some slight elevation from which it can throw itself into the air. Then, at once, it takes off like a flash.

A Bumblebee if dropped into an open tumbler will be there until it dies, unless it is taken out. It never sees the means of escape at the top, but persists in trying to find some way out through the sides near the bottom. It will seek a way where none exists, until it completely destroys itself.

In many ways, there are lots of people like the buzzard, the bat and the bee. They are struggling about with all their problems and frustrations, not realizing that the answer is right there above them.


This is to remind us to step back, look at our situation as though we were in a helicopter looking down. If we feel like we are in the trees, step back and look at the forest – then we will realize that our problems have solutions.


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post Oct 20 2008, 01:42 AM

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i spend 1 solid hour reading page 1 to 11 . altho i skipped a few
however i find all these intresting and nice..
but i dont remember all of them tho.
thanks to all who had contributed in this thread.
keep it coming! imma bookmark it .
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Little Girl

There came a frantic knock at the doctor's office door,A knock, more urgent than he had ever heard before.
"Come in, Come in," the impatient doctor said,"Come in, Come in, before you wake the dead."In walked a frightened little girl, a child no more than nine,It was plain for all to see, she had troubles on her mind,"Oh doctor, I beg you, please come with me,My mother is surely dying, she's as sick as she can be."
"I don't make house calls, bring your mother here,"
"But she's too sick, so you must come or she will die I fear,"
The doctor, touched by her devotion, decided he would go,She said he would be blessed, more than he could know.

She led him to her house where her mother lay in bed,Her mother was so very sick she couldn't raise her head,But her eyes cried out for help and help her the doctor did,She would have died that very night had it not been for her kid.The doctor got her fever down and she lived through the night,And morning brought the doctor signs, that she would be all right,The doctor said he had to leave but would return again by two.
And later he came back to check, just like he said he'd do.The mother praised the doctor for all the things he'd done,He told her she would have died, were it not for her little one,"How proud you must be of your wonderful little girl,It was her pleading that made me come, she is really quite a pear!"
"But doctor, my daughter died over three years ago,Is the picture on the wall of the little girl you know?"
The doctors legs went limp for the picture on the wall,Was the same little girl for whom he'd made this call.The doctor stood motionless, for quite a little while,And then his solemn face, was broken by his smile,He was thinking of that frantic knock heard at his office door,And of the beautiful little angel that had walked across his floor



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$20 Bill

A well known speaker started off his seminar by holding up a $20 bill. In the room of 200, he asked, "Who would like this $20 bill?" Hands started going up. He said, "I am going to give this $20 to one of you but first, let me do this."

He proceeded to crumple the dollar bill up. He then asked, "Who still wants it?" Still the hands were up in the air. "Well," he replied, "What if I do this?" And he dropped it on the ground and started to grind it into the floor with his shoe. He picked it up, now all crumpled and dirty.

"Now who still wants it?" Still the hands went into the air.
"My friends, you have all learned a very valuable lesson. No matter what I did to the money, you still wanted it because it did not decrease in value. It was still worth $20. Many times in our lives, we are dropped, crumpled, and ground into the dirt by the decisions we make and the circumstances that come our way. We feel as though we are worthless. But no matter what has happened or what will happen, you will never lose your value in God's eyes. To Him, dirty or clean, crumpled or finely creased, you are still priceless to Him. Psalm 178 states that God will keep us, "as the apple of His eye." The worth of our lives comes not in what we do or who we are in ourselves, but in WHOSE WE ARE!"
You are special. Have a great day!

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A Loving Father

A young man was getting ready to graduate from college. For many months he had admired a beautiful sports car in a dealer's showroom, and knowing his father could well afford it, he told him that was all he wanted.

As Graduation Day approached, the young man awaited signs that his father had purchased the car. Finally, on the morning of his graduation his father called him into his private study. His father told him how proud he was to have such a fine son, and told him how much he loved him. He handed his son a beautifully wrapped gift box. Curious, but somewhat disappointed the young man opened the box and found a lovely, leather-bound Bible.

Angrily, he raised his voice at his father and said, "With all your money, you give me a Bible?" and stormed out of the house, leaving the holy book.

Many years passed and the young man was very successful in business. He had a beautiful home and wonderful family, but realized his father was very old, and thought perhaps he should go to him.

He had not seen him since that graduation day. Before he could make arrangements, he received a telegram telling him his father had passed away, and willed all of his possessions to his son. He needed to come home immediately and take care of things. When he arrived at his father's house, sudden sadness and regret filled his heart. He began to search his father's important papers and saw the still new Bible, just as he had left it years ago. With tears, he opened the Bible, and began to turn the pages. As he read those words, a car key dropped from an envelope taped behind the Bible. It had a tag with the dealer's name, the same dealer who had the sports car he had desired. On the tag was the date of his graduation, and the words ... PAID IN FULL.

How many times do we miss God's blessings because they are not packaged as we expected?

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“I cannot believe in a God who wants to be praised all the time.”
“After coming into contact with a religious man I always feel I must wash my hands”

Friedrich Nietzsche quotes (German classical Scholar, Philosopher and Critic of culture, 1844-1900.)


“I contend that we are both atheists. I just believe in one fewer god than you do. When you understand why you dismiss all the other possible gods, you will understand why I dismiss yours.”

Stephen Roberts quotes


“If there is a God, atheism must seem to Him as less of an insult than religion.”

Edmond de Goncourt quotes


“A thorough reading and understanding of the Bible is the surest path to atheism”

Donald Morgan quotes

“It is an interesting and demonstrable fact, that all children are atheists and were religion not inculcated into their minds, they would remain so”

Ernestine Rose quotes


“In some awful, strange, paradoxical way, atheists tend to take religion more seriously than the practitioners.”

Jonathon Miller quotes

“There can be but little liberty on earth while men worship a tyrant in heaven.”

Dion Fortune quotes

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The Power of ENCOURAGEMENT

A group of frogs were traveling through the woods, and two of them fell into a deep pit. When the other frogs saw how deep the pit was, they yelled to the two frogs that they were as good as dead. The two frogs ignored the comments and tried to jump up out of the pit with all their might. The other frogs kept telling to them to stop, that there was no hope.

Finally, one of the frogs took heed to what the other frogs were saying and gave up. He fell down and died.

The other frog continued jumping as hard as he could. Once again, the crowd of frogs yelled at him to stop his jumping and just die. He jumped even harder and finally made it out. When he got out, (after taking a needed rest) the other frogs clammered, "Didn’t you hear us?" The frog explained to them that he was deaf. He thought they were encouraging him the entire time.


From this we learn two lessons. There is power of life and death in the tongue.

a) An encouraging word to someone who is down can lift him up and help him make it through the day.
b) A destructive word to someone who is down can be what it takes to kill him.

Words have the power of life and death. We should be careful of what we say. Speak words of encouragement to those who cross your path. It is often difficult to understand that an encouraging word can go such a long way. Anyone can speak words that tend to rob another of the spirit to continue in difficult times. Special is the individual who will take the time to encourage another. Be that special person. smile.gif

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Ashes of Vengeance

Dun was a hard little city, proud and harsh; but impregnable because it was built upon a high rock. The host of the Visigoths had besieged it for months in vain. Then came a fugitive from the city, at midnight, to the tent of Alaric, the Chief of the besiegers.

The man was haggard and torn. His eyes were wild, his hands trembling. The Chief held and steadied him with a look.

"Who are you?" he asked. "Your name, the purpose that brings you here?"

"My name," said the man, "is the Avenger. For thirty years I have lived in Dun, and the people have been unjust and cruel to me. They persecuted my family, because they hated me. My wife died of a broken heart, my children of starvation. I have just escaped from the prison of Dun, and come to tell you how the city may be taken. There is a secret pathway, a hidden entrance. I know it and can reveal it to you."

"Good," said the Chief, measuring the man with tranquil eyes, "but what is your price?"

"Vengeance," said the man, "I ask only the right to revenge my sufferings upon those who have inflicted them, when you have taken the city."

Alaric bent his head and was silent for a moment. "It is a fair price," he said, "and I will pay it. Tell me the way to take the city, and I will leave at your command a troop of soldiers sufficient to work your will on it afterward."

The trumpet sounded the capture of the city in the morning. The Avenger, waking late from his troubled sleep, led his soldiers through the open gate.

It was like a city of the dead, and the bodies of those who had been killed in the last defense, lay where they had fallen. Empty and silent were the streets where lie had so often walked in humiliation. Gone were the familiar faces that had frowned on him and mocked him. The houses at whose doors he had often knocked were vacant. His wrath sank within him, and the arrow of solitude pierced him to the heart.

Then he came to the belfry, and there was the bell-ringer, one of the worst of his ancient persecutors, standing at the entrance of the tower.

"Why are you here?" said the Avenger.

"By the orders of King Alaric," answered the bell-ringer, "to ring the bells when peace comes to the city."

"Ring now," said the Avenger, "ring now!"

Then, at the sound of the bells, the people who had concealed themselves at Alaric's command came trooping forth from the cellars and caves where they had been hiding,--old men and women and children, a motley throng of sufferers.

The Avenger looked at them and the tears ran down his cheeks, because he remembered.

"Listen," he said, "don't be afraid. These soldiers are going on to join their army. You have done me great wrong. But the fire of hatred is burnt out, and in the ashes of vengeance we are going to plant the seeds of peace."

December, 1918.

~ THE END ~

Henry Van Dyke's short story: Ashes of Vengeance

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this maybe old but it really touches my heart, [ and made me weep too after watching this.....]

Yoo Ye Eun is a 5 year old prodigy (as of 2008) in piano from South Korea. She was born blind and has never had any formal piano lesson, but can play songs just by listening to it once. She has been playing piano since the age of three, after listening to her mother sing. Since then, she has been “learning” songs by listening to music on the computer. Yoo Ye Eun is also an adoptee. She has performed with Britain's Got Talent's Connie Talbot in a South Korean TV show called "Star King".




god bless sweet little Ye Eun....

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Concentration Skill Through Painting

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Teaching art is a sacred act. Every sacred act needs ‘ Concentration ‘ .Through our teaching we are developing ‘ Observation, Concentration, Memory and Imagination’ in Children. That’s why in our school even a 3 year old child sits for 2 hours and works with concentration.

In reality drawing is a method about “how to use a line and a curve”. A Line and a Curve…from these two symbols you can construct any picture in this universe. To do that, you have to change your way of thinking. Then you can draw any picture beautifully.That why drawing is not just getting some pictures on paper or canvas. It is a way of thinking. If the child’s thinking improves, his drawing will also become better.

Observation, concentration will come through Drawing & Painting, if taught through scientific methods. By achieving these skills, Children will get a third skill also. That third skill is ‘ Struggling to achieve some thing.’ Once children achieve these three skills that will lead to ‘ Understanding skills.’ This is the fourth skill. These skills will make children the best in their education and their future career also.


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Struggle

A man found a cocoon of a butterfly. One day a small opening appeared; he sat and watched the butterfly for several hours as it struggled to force its body through that little hole. Then it seemed to stop making any progress. It appeared as if it had gotten as far as it could and it could go no farther.

Then the man decided to help the butterfly, so he took a pair of scissors and snipped off the remaining bit of the cocoon. The butterfly then emerged easily. But it had a swollen body and small, shriveled wings.

The man continued to watch the butterfly because he expected that, at any moment, the wings would enlarge and expand to be able to support the body, which would contract in time.

Neither happened! In fact, the butterfly spent the rest of its life crawling around with a swollen body and shriveled wings. It never was able to fly.

What the man in his kindness and haste did not understand was that the restricting cocoon and the struggle required for the butterfly to get through the tiny opening were nature's way of forcing fluid from the body of the butterfly into its wings so that it would be ready for flight once it achieved its freedom from the cocoon.

Sometimes struggles are exactly what we need in our life. If nature allowed us to go through our life without any obstacles, it would cripple us. We would not be as strong as what we could have been.

And we could never fly...
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it was a quote from a TV series about a decade ago, which i couldn't recall exactly from which; but i could recall it's either from The X-files or The Millenium..

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One day, the father of a wealthy family took his son on a trip to the country with the express purpose of showing him how poor people live.

They spent a couple of days and nights on the farm of what would be considered a very poor family.

On their return from their trip, the father asked his son, “How was the trip?”

It was great, Dad.”

“Did you see how poor people live?” the father asked.

“Oh yeah,” said the son.

“So, tell me, what you learned from the trip?” asked the father.

The son answered:

“I saw that we have one dog and they had four.
We have a pool that reaches to the middle of our garden and they have a creek that has no end.
We have imported lanterns in our garden and they have the stars at night…
Our patio reaches to the front yard and they have the whole horizon.
We have a small piece of land to live on and they have fields that go beyond our sight.
We have servants who serve us, but they serve others.
We buy our food, but they grow theirs.
We have walls around our property to protect us;
They have friends to protect them.”

The boy’s father was speechless.

Then his son added, “Thanks Dad for showing me how poor we are.”

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Isn’t perspective a wonderful thing?
Makes you wonder what would happen if we all gave thanks for everything we have, instead of worrying about what we don’t have.

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I found this somewhere... Hope its not a repost.

Food For The Soul


An elderly carpenter was ready to retire. He told his employer, a building contractor, of his plans to leave the house building business and live a more leisurely life with his wife enjoying his extended family. He would miss the paycheck, but he needed to retire. They could get by.

His employer was sorry to see his good worker go and asked if he could build just one more house as a personal favor. The carpenter said yes, but it was easy to see that his heart was no longer in his work. He had lost his enthusiasm and had resorted to shoddy workmanship and used inferior materials. It was an unfortunate way to end his career.

When the carpenter finished his work and his boss came to inspect the new house, the contractor handed the front-door key to the carpenter. "This is your house," he said, "my gift to you."

What a shock! What a shame! If he had only known he was building his own house, he would have done it all so differently. Now he had to live in the home he had built none too well.

So it is with us. We build our lives in a distracted way, reacting rather than acting, willing to put up less than the best. At important points we do not give the job our best effort. Then with a shock we look at the situation we have created and find that we are now living in the house we have built for ourselves. If we had realized, we would have done it differently.

Think of yourself as the carpenter. Think about your house. Each day you hammer a nail, place a board, or erect a wall. Build wisely. It is the only life you will ever build. Even if you live it for only one day more, that day deserves to be lived graciously and with dignity.

The plaque on the wall says, "Life is a do-it-yourself project." Who could say it more clearly? Your life today is the result of your attitudes and choices in the past. Your life tomorrow will be the result.
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THE TOUCHSTONE

When the great library of Alexandria burned, the story goes, one book was saved. But it was not a valuable book; and so a poor man, who could read a little, bought it for a few copper coins.

The book wasn't very interesting, but between its pages there was something very interesting indeed. It was a thin strip of vellum on which was written the secret of the "Touchstone".

The touchstone was a small pebble that could turn any common metal into pure gold. The writing explained that it was lying among thousands and thousands of other pebbles that looked exactly like it. But the secret was this: The real stone would feel warm, while ordinary pebbles are cold.

So the man sold his few belongings, bought some simple supplies, camped on the seashore, and began testing pebbles.

He knew that if he picked up ordinary pebbles and threw them down again because they were cold, he might pick up the same pebble hundreds of times. So, when he felt one that was cold, he threw it into the sea. He spent a whole day doing this but none of them was the touchstone. Yet he went on and on this way. Pick up a pebble. Cold - throw it into the sea. Pick up another. Throw it into the sea.

The days stretched into weeks and the weeks into months. One day, however, about midafternoon, he picked up a pebble and it was warm. He threw it into the sea before he realized what he had done. He had formed such a strong habit of throwing each pebble into the sea that when the one he wanted came along, he still threw it away.

So it is with opportunity.


This is to remind us that "unless we are vigilant, it's easy to fail to recognize an opportunity when it is in hand and it's just as easy to throw it away." So we must be extra careful, and try not to dismiss things so easily. Just because something similar in the past failed, or someone else who seems similar didn’t turn out well, try not to be instinctively negative – or we may miss a God given opportunity that was sent to us.

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In youth men are apt to write more wisely than they really know or feel; and the remainder of life may be not idly spent in realizing and convincing themselves of the wisdom which they uttered long ago.
~ NATHANIEL HAWTHORNE, preface, The Snow-Image

Beauty is a precarious trace that eternity causes to appear to us and that it takes away from us. A manifestation of eternity, and a sign of death as well. Often it seems to me to be an evil flower of nothingness, or else the cry of the world as it dies, or a desperate, sumptuous prayer.
~EUGENE IONESCO, Present Past / Past Present

At some point in life the world's beauty becomes enough. You don't need to photograph, paint or even remember it. It is enough. No record of it needs to be kept and you don't need someone to share it with or tell it to. When that happens — that letting go — you let go because you can.
~TONI MORRISON, Tar Baby

It's important for all types of women to know that you don't have to fit a prototype of what one person thinks is beautiful in order to be beautiful or feel beautiful.... People think, Sexy, big breasts, curvy body, no cellulite. It's not that. Take the girl at the beach with the cellulite legs, wearing her bathing suit the way she likes it, walking with a certain air, comfortable with herself. That woman is sexy. Then you see the perfect girl who's really thin, tugging at her bathing suit, wondering how her hair looks. That's not sexy.
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HOPE...

Whether you are happy or disappointed with the results of this hotly fought election, it is now a time of hope for the country. Hope that regardless of who is running the country, our lot as a people improves.

Hope that the economy turns around and people are earning healthy livings. Hope that our borders – will be protected against terrorist threats – both internal and external. Hope that our education and healthcare improve. And hope that freedom and growth around the world rebound.

We judge of man's wisdom by his hope.
- Ralph Waldo Emerson

The very least you can do in your life is to figure out what you hope for. And the most you can do is live inside that hope. Not admire it from a distance but live right in it, under its roof.
- Barbara Kingsolver

Hope is the last thing that dies in man; and though it be exceedingly deceitful, yet it is of this good use to us, that while we are traveling through life it conducts us in an easier and more pleasant way to our journey’s end.
- François de la Rochefoucauld

Practice hope. As hopefulness becomes a habit, you can achieve a permanently happy spirit.
- Norman Vincent Peale

He who does not hope to win has already lost.
- Jose Joaquin Olmedo


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Obama's Win Inspires The World

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Race didn’t turn out to be much of a factor in the historic election of Barack Obama.

And that’s a good thing.

But there’s a chasm between the nonracial campaign (it really was the economy, stupid) that vaulted Obama into America’s highest office and a truly post-racial America, where ideas and energy trump skin color. I’m not sure if Tuesday’s election was a giant stride forward into a future that this nation may have been more ready to accept a generation from now.

But it’s the new reality — a black president — and aside from the bitterness of any white Americans who may feel somehow dispossessed after 43 straight white guys in the White House, the Obama presidency could be a remarkable avenue toward that goal of an America that has gotten past race.

This really is a big change in a big hurry, a 2050 moment that showed up quite unexpectedly in 2008, before a slew of other milestones that probably should have come first. Americans have elected just two black governors since 1865. They’ve only sent three blacks to the U.S. Senate in the same time, and Obama was the third, just four years ago.

Blacks are still more familiar to millions of Americans as sports stars and other entertainers than they are as captains of industry or political leaders.

So for some Americans, and older white Americans in particular, this must seem a sudden, even startling, shift in power. It’s a loss in power that could inspire feelings of lost power, and fear, perhaps the most dreaded of human emotions.

Almost no one would have predicted just four years ago that a black man would reach the pinnacle of leadership in this nation before many others had attained the intermediate steps that could have led to it.

And yet it happened precisely because Obama made it seem so normal.

He campaigned as an American who happened to be black, someone who wouldn’t run from race but also wasn’t running on it.

His candidacy was forged around ideas that could have come from anyone, black or white, and were intended to inspire hope for everyone.

It all worked. Voters ultimately saw him as the superior choice. A stunning number told pollsters Tuesday that race had nothing to do with their decision.

In that way, Obama’s win holds much promise for the social acceptance of the idea of black equality among national political leadership.

Think of it from the view of a young white child. For the next four or eight years, that child will know Obama as president. Not black. Not white. Just president. That perspective will shape the way a generation perceives leadership.

Obama didn’t run on race or run from it. It wasn’t the change he was talking about. But his inauguration can’t help but change the way a lot of people see race in this country. It won’t disappear under President Obama. But it will sure look different.
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"You can know the name of a bird in all the languages of the world, but when you're finished, you'll know absolutely nothing whatever about the bird... So let's look at the bird and see what it's doing -- that's what counts. I learned very early the difference between knowing the name of something and knowing something."

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found this to be an inspiring read. No deep qoutes, no heart melting tales. Just pure tips:
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src: http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/health/10-w...-happier-295265

I myself practiced (4), (6) and (7)... not good for wallet, but a boost for personal hapiness.

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OUT of the night that covers me, 
  Black as the Pit from pole to pole, 
I thank whatever gods may be 
  For my unconquerable soul. 
 
In the fell clutch of circumstance
  I have not winced nor cried aloud. 
Under the bludgeonings of chance 
  My head is bloody, but unbowed. 
 
Beyond this place of wrath and tears 
  Looms but the Horror of the shade,
And yet the menace of the years 
  Finds, and shall find, me unafraid. 
 
It matters not how strait the gate, 
  How charged with punishments the scroll, 
I am the master of my fate;
  I am the captain of my soul."


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Technical Support: Installing Love‏

Tech Support: Yes, how can I help you?

Customer: Well, after much consideration, I've decided to install Love. Can you guide me through the process?

Tech Support: Yes. I can help you. Are you ready to proceed?

Customer:Well, I'm not very technical, but I think I'm ready- What do I do first?

Tech Support: The first step is to open y our Heart. Have you located your Heart?

Customer: Yes, but there are several other programs running now.
Is it okay to install Love while they are running?

Tech Support: What programs are running ?

Customer: Let's see, I have Past Hurt, Low Self-Esteem, Grudge and Resentment running right now.

Tech Support: No problem. Love will gradually erase Past Hurt from your current operating system. It may remain in your permanent memory but it will no longer disrupt other programs. Love will eventually override Low Self-Esteem with a module of its own called High Self-Esteem. However, you have to completely turn off Grudge and Resentment. Those programs prevent Love from being properly installed. Can you turn those off?

Customer: I don't know how to turn them off. Can you tell me how?

Tech Support: With pleasure. Go to your start menu and invoke Forgiveness. Do this as many times as necessary until Grudge and Resentment have been completely erased.

Customer: Okay, done! Love has started installing itself. Is that normal?

Tech Support: Yes, but remember that you have only the base program. You need to begin connecting to other Hearts in order to get the upgrades.

Customer: Oops! I have an error message already. It says, ' Error - Program not run on external components' What should I do?

Tech Support: Don't worry. It means that the Love program is set up to run on Internal Hearts, but has not yet been run on your Heart.
In non-technical terms, it simply means you have to Love yourself before you can Love others.

Customer: So, what should I do?

Tech Support: Pull down Self-Acceptance; then click on the following files: Forgive-Self; Realize your Worth; and Acknowledge your Limitations.

Customer: Okay, done.

Tech Support: Now, copy them to the 'My Heart' directory. The system will overwrite any conflicting files and begin patching faulty programming. Also, you need to delete Verbose Self-Criticism from all directories and empty your Recycle Bin to make sure it is completely gone and never comes back

Customer: Got it. Hey! My heart is filling up with new files. Smile is playing on my monitor and Peace and Contentment are copying themselves all over My Heart. Is this normal?

Tech Support: Sometimes. For others it takes awhile, but eventually everything gets it at the proper time. So Love is installed and running. One more thing before we hang up. Love is Freeware. Be sure to give it and its various modules to everyone you meet. They will in turn share it with others and return some cool modules back to you.

Customer: Thank you, God.

God/Tech Support: You're Welcome, Anytime.

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Everything I Need To Know I Learned From Noah’s Ark

1. Don't miss the boat.

2. Remember that we are all in the same boat.

3. Plan ahead. It wasn't raining when Noah built the Ark.

4. Stay fit. When you're 600 years old, someone may ask you to do something really big.

5. Don't listen to critics; just get on with the job that needs to be done.

6. Build your future on high ground.

7. For safety's sake, travel in pairs.

8. Speed isn't always an advantage. The snails were on board with the cheetahs.

9. When you're stressed, float a while.

10. Remember, the Ark was built by amateurs; the Titanic by professionals.

11. No matter the storm, when you are with God, there's always a rainbow waiting.


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Sorry to all! I have been very selfish lately. I will learn to change. Thank You.
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"Buddhism has the characteristics

of what would be expected

in a cosmic religion for the future:

it transcends a personal God,

avoids dogmas and theology;

it covers both the natural & spiritual,

and it is based on a religious sense

aspiring from the experience of all things

as a meaningful unity"


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This 26 year old man's name is Chen Jian. During the big China earthquake, he was buried under three concrete slabs for 73 hours before he was found. He told the reporter that he wants to live because his wife is pregnant and he doesn't want his child born without the father. After 6 hours of hardwork, he was pulled out from the rubble, only to die shortly after.


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Quotes from Terry Pratchett's books :

"When someone is saved from certain death by a strange concatenation of of circumstances, they say that's a miracle. But of course if someone is killed by a freak chain of events -- the oil spilled just there, the safety fence broke just there -- that must also be a miracle. Just because it's not nice doesn't mean it's not miraculous."

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"'I always live in interestin' times,' said Cohen, in the satisfied voice of someone who did a lot to keep them interesting."

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Butterfly: 'But there are causes worth dying for!'

Rincewind: 'No, there aren't! Because you've only got one life but you can pick up another five causes on any street corner!'

Butterfly: 'Good grief, how can you live with a philosophy like that?'

Rincewind: 'Continuously!'

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This one really got me thinking :

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Saveloy: 'What do you call the things that grind corn?'

Beneficient Winds: 'Peasants.'

Saveloy: 'Yes, but what do they grind corn with?'

Beneficient Winds: 'I don't know. Why should I know? Only peasants need to know that.'

Saveloy: 'Yes, I suppose that says it all, really.'

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Do you know how to sweep a floor? do you know how to work a cash register? do you know how to drive a forklift truck?

Says it all, doesn't it?

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the guy under 3 slabs of concrete inspired me sad.gif R.I.P so pittyful to die after being saved and not able to see his wife
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that chinese guy is damn sad
fight so hard end up cant tahan.
dono his wife and baby how
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Teachers

Subject: Mrs. Thompson


There is a story many years ago of an elementary teacher.
Her name was Mrs. Thompson. And as she stood in front of
her 5th grade class on the very first day of school, she told
the children a lie. Like most teachers, she looked at her
students and said that she loved them all the same. But that
was impossible, because there in the front row, slumped in
his seat, was a little boy named Teddy Stoddard.

Mrs.Thompson had watched Teddy the year before and
noticed that he didn't play well with the other children, that his
clothes were messy and that he constantly needed a bath.
And Teddy could be unpleasant. It got to the point where
Mrs. Thompson would actually take delight in marking his
papers with a broad red pen, making bold X's and then putting
a big "F" at the top of his papers.

At the school where Mrs. Thompson taught, she was required
to review each child's past records and she put Teddy's off
until last. However, when she reviewed his file, she was in for
a surprise.

Teddy's first grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is a bright child with
a ready laugh. He does his work neatly and has good
manners...he is a joy to be around."

His second grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is an excellent
student, well-liked by his classmates, but he is troubled
because his mother has a terminal illness and life at home
must be a struggle."

His third grade teacher wrote, "His mother's death has been
hard on him. He tries to do his best but his father doesn't
show much interest and his home life will soon affect him if
some steps aren't taken."

Teddy's fourth grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is withdrawn and
doesn't show much interest in school. He doesn't have many
friends and sometimes sleeps in class."

By now, Mrs. Thompson realized the problem and she was
ashamed of herself. She felt even worse when her students
brought her Christmas presents, wrapped in beautiful ribbons
and bright paper, except for Teddy's. His present was
clumsily wrapped in the heavy, brown paper that he got from
a grocery bag. Mrs. Thompson took pains to open it in the
middle of the other presents. Some of the children started to
laugh when she found a rhinestone bracelet with some of the
stones missing and a bottle that was one quarter full of
perfume.

But she stifled the children's laughter when she exclaimed
how pretty the bracelet was, putting it on, and dabbing some
of the perfume on her wrist.

Teddy Stoddard stayed after school that day just long enough
to say, "Mrs. Thompson, today you smelled just like my
Mom used to."

After the children left she cried for at least an hour. On that
very day, she quit teaching reading, and writing, and
arithmetic. Instead, she began to teach children. Mrs.
Thompson paid particular attention to Teddy. As she worked
with him, his mind seemed to come alive. The more she
encouraged him, the faster he responded. By the end of the
year, Teddy had become one of the smartest children in the
class and, despite her lie that she would love all the children
the same, Teddy became one of her "teacher's pets."

A year later, she found a note under her door, from Teddy,
telling her that she was still the best teacher he ever had in
his whole life.

Six years went by before she got another note from Teddy.
He then wrote that he had finished high school, third in his
class, and she was still the best teacher he ever had in his
whole life.

Four years after that, she got another letter, saying that while
things had been tough at times, he'd stayed in school, had
stuck with it, and would soon graduate from college with the
highest of honors. He assured Mrs. Thompson that she was
still the best and favorite teacher he ever had in his whole life.

Then four more years passed and yet another letter came.
This time he explained that after he got his bachelor's degree,
he decided to go a little further. The letter explained that she
was still the best and favorite teacher he ever had. But now
his name was a little longer. The letter was signed,
Theodore F. Stoddard, M.D.

The story doesn't end there. You see, there was yet another
letter that spring. Teddy said he'd met this girl and was going
to be married. He explained that his father had died a couple
of years ago and he was wondering if Mrs. Thompson might
agree to sit in the place at the wedding that was usually
reserved for the mother of the groom. Of course, Mrs.
Thompson did. And guess what?

She wore that bracelet, the one with several rhinestones
missing. And she made sure she was wearing the perfume
that Teddy remembered his mother wearing on their last
Christmas together. They hugged each other, and Dr.
Stoddard whispered in Mrs. Thompson's ear, "Thank you,
Mrs. Thompson, for believing in me. Thank you so much for
making me feel important and showing me that I could make
a difference."

Mrs. Thompson, with tears in her eyes, whispered back. She
said, "Teddy, you have it all wrong. You were the one who
taught me that I could make a difference. I didn't know how to
teach until I met you."

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I wish you truth for your decisions,
I wish you doubts to make you sure,
I wish you fear to give you caution,
I wish you courage to keep you pure,
But beyond these hopes and wishes,
One prayer soars high above,
I wish for you my graduate
Faith and Hope and Love.

I wish defeats to make you humble,
I wish success to let you soar,
I wish you tears to make you tender,
I wish you joy and so much more.
For beyond these hopes and wishes,
one prayer soars high above,
I wish for you my graduate
Faith and hope and love.

So as you stand and face tomorrow,
When life gets rough and tough,
There's someone who believes in you
With faith and hope and love.
So I wish for you my graduate
Faith and hope and love.

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I find this song very inspiring in my life right now

It's a song to inspire women to fight against cancer but I treat it to fight other types of cancer it may apply to you, be it financial problems, Job Problem, etc.



Here's the live performance




Beyonce: The heart is stronger than you think
It’s like it can go through anything
And even when you think it can’t it finds a way to still push on, though

Carrie: Sometimes you want to run away
Ain’t got the patience for the pain
And if you don’t believe it look into
your heart the beat goes on

Rihanna: I’m tellin’ you that
Things get better
Through whatever
If you fall, dust it off, don’t let up

Sheryl: Don’t you know you can go be your own miracle

Beyonce: You need to know

CHORUS
Sheryl: If the mind keeps thinking you’ve had enough
But the heart keeps telling you don’t give up

Sheryl/Beyonce: Who are we to be
questioning, wondering what is what
Don’t give up
THROUGH IT ALL, JUST STAND UP!

Fergie: It’s like we all have better days
Problems getting all up in your face

Leona: Just because you go through it

Fergie: Don’t mean it got to take control, no

Leona: You ain’t gotta find no hiding place

Keyshia: Because the heart can beat the hate

Leona: Don’t wanna let your mind keep playin’ you

Keyshia: And sayin’ you can’t go on

Rihanna: I’m tellin’ you that

Miley: Things get better
Through whatever

Rihanna: If you fall

Miley: Dust if off, don’t let up

LeAnn: Don’t you know you

Natasha: Can go

LeAnn: Be your own

Natasha: Miracle

Carrie: You need to know

Ensemble: CHORUS

Mary: You don’t gotta be a prisoner in your mind

Ciara: If you fall, dust it off

Mary: You can live your life

Rihanna/Carrie: Yeah

Mary: Let your heart be your guide

Rihanna/Carrie: Yeah yeah yeah

Mariah: And you will know that you’re good if you trust in the good

Ashanti: Everything will be alright, yeah
Light up the dark, if you follow your heart

Mary: And it will get better

Mariah: Through whatever

CHORUS

Fergie: You got it in you, find it within
You got in now, find it within now
You got in you, find it within
You got in now, find it within now
You got in you, find it within
Find it within you, find it within
Everyone: THROUGH IT ALL, JUST STAND UP!

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24 Things To Always Remember:

Your presence is a present to the world.
You are unique and one of a kind.
Your life can be what you want it to be.
Take the days just one at a time.

Count your blessings, not your troubles.
You will make it through whatever comes along.
Within you are so many answers.
Understand, have courage, be strong.

Do not put limits on yourself.
So many dreams are waiting to be realized.
Decisions are too important to leave to chance.
Reach for your peak, your goal and you prize.

Nothing wastes more energy than worrying.
The longer one carries a problem the heavier it gets.
Do not take things too seriously.
Live a life of serenity, not a life of regrets.

Remember that a little love goes a long way.
Remember that a lot … goes forever.
Remember that friendship is a wise investment.
Life’s treasure are people together.

Realize that it is never too late.
Do ordinary things in an extraordinary way.
Have hearth and hope and happiness.
Take the time to wish upon a start.

AND DO NOT EVER FORGET ….
FOR EVEN A DAY
HOW VERY SPECIAL YOU ARE !
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Up To The Mountain - PATTY GRIFFIN

I went up to the mountain
Because you asked me to
Up over the clouds
To where the sky was blue
I could see all around me
Everywhere
I could see all around me
Everywhere

Sometimes I feel like
I've never been nothing but tired

And I'll be walking
Till the day I expire
Sometimes I lay down
No more can I do
But then I go on again
Because you ask me to

Some days I look down
Afraid I will fall
And though the sun shines
I see nothing at all
Then I hear your sweet voice, oh
Oh, come and then go, come and then go
Telling me softly
You love me so


The peaceful valley
Just over the mountain
The peaceful valley
Few come to know
I may never get there
Ever in this lifetime
But sooner or later
It's there I will go
Sooner or later
It's there I will go

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post Nov 25 2008, 11:37 AM

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As a mother would risk her life
to protect her child, her only child,
even so should one cultivate a limitless heart
with regard to all beings.
With good will for the entire cosmos,
cultivate a limitless heart:
Above, below, & all around,
unobstructed, without enmity or hate.
Whether standing, walking,
sitting, or lying down,
as long as one is alert,
one should be resolved on this mindfulness.
This is called a sublime abiding
here & now.


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It's How You Say It...

A man and his wife had been arguing all night, and as bedtime approached neither was speaking to the other. It was not unusual for the pair to continue this war of silence for two or three days, however, on this occasion the man was concerned; he needed to be awake at 4:30am the next morning to catch an important flight, and being a very heavy sleeper he normally relied on his wife to wake him. Cleverly, so he thought, while his wife was in the bathroom, he wrote on a piece of paper: "Please wake me at 4:30am - I have an important flight to catch". He put the note on his wife's pillow, then turned over and went to sleep.

The man awoke the next morning and looked at the clock. It was 8:00am. Enraged that he'd missed his flight, he was about to go in search of his errant wife to give her a piece of his mind, when he spotted a hand-written note on his bedside cabinet.

The note said: "It's 4:30am - get up."



This is to remind us that in life it is not always what you say, but how you say. Learn not just to speak, but to be heard.

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The Hand : A Thanksgiving Story

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Thanksgiving Day was near. The first grade teacher gave her class a fun assignment -- to draw a picture of something for which they were thankful.

Most of the class might be considered economically disadvantaged, but still many would celebrate the holiday with turkey and other traditional goodies of the season. These, the teacher thought, would be the subjects of most of her student's art. And they were.

But Douglas made a different kind of picture. Douglas was a different kind of boy. He was the teacher's true child of misery, frail and unhappy. As other children played at recess, Douglas was likely to stand close by her side. One could only guess at the pain Douglas felt behind those sad eyes.

Yes, his picture was different. When asked to draw a picture of something for which he was thankful, he drew a hand. Nothing else. Just an empty hand.

His abstract image captured the imagination of his peers. Whose hand could it be? One child guessed it was the hand of a farmer, because farmers raise turkeys. Another suggested a police officer, because the police protect and care for people. Still others guessed it was the hand of God, for God feeds us. And so the discussion went -- until the teacher almost forgot the young artist himself.

When the children had gone on to other assignments, she paused at Douglas' desk, bent down, and asked him whose hand it was. The little boy looked away and murmured, "It's yours, teacher."

She recalled the times she had taken his hand and walked with him here or there, as she had the other students. How often had she said, "Take my hand, Douglas, we'll go outside." Or, "Let me show you how to hold your pencil." Or, "Let's do this together." Douglas was most thankful for his teacher's hand.

Brushing aside a tear, she went on with her work.

The story speaks of more than thankfulness. It says something about teachers teaching and parents parenting and friends showing friendship, and how much it means to the Douglases of the world. They might not always say thanks. But they'll remember the hand that reaches out.

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The Stone Soup Story

Many years ago three soldiers, hungry and weary of battle, came upon a small village. The villagers,
suffering a meager harvest and the many years of war, quickly hid what little they had to eat and met
the three at the village square, wringing their hands and bemoaning the lack of anything to eat.

The soldiers spoke quietly among themselves and the first soldier then turned to the village elders.
"Your tired fields have left you nothing to share, so we will share what little we have: the secret of
how to make soup from stones."

Naturally the villagers were intrigued and soon a fire was put to the town's greatest kettle as the
soldiers dropped in three smooth stones. "Now this will be a fine soup", said the second soldier;
"but a pinch of salt and some parsley would make it wonderful!" Up jumped a villager, crying
"What luck! I've just remembered where some's been left!" And off she ran, returning with an apronful
of parsley and a turnip. As the kettle boiled on, the memory of the village improved: soon barley,
carrots, beef and cream had found their way into the great pot, and a cask of wine was rolled into the
square as all sat down to feast.

They ate and danced and sang well into the night, refreshed by the feast and their new-found friends.
In the morning the three soldiers awoke to find the entire village standing before them. At their feet lay
a satchel of the village's best breads and cheese. "You have given us the greatest of gifts: the secret of
how to make soup from stones", said an elder, "and we shall never forget." The third soldier turned to
the crowd, and said: "There is no secret, but this is certain: it is only by sharing that we may make a feast".
And off the soldiers wandered, down the road.

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The last one was from the previous page (with video of the actual person).

Sauce: http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=...3125&sec=nation

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A love story that goes beyond words

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MALACCA: They are childhood sweet­­­hearts with a love story beyond words.

Syukur Salim and Hafizah Abd Aziz are both deaf-mute. They tied the knot in their traditional akad nikah ceremony using only sign language.

The ceremony was held at the bride’s home in Kampung Ayer Mo­­lek on Friday evening – with the help of their long-time teacher Rosli Aliman, 42, who acted as interpreter when the required vows were performed before imams Adam Sabtu and Rustami Abu Bakar.

Rosli said it was a moment to be cherished for he had taught the couple from primary school at SK Pendidikan Khas in Semabok right up to the secondary education in SMK Tun Mutahir, Batu Berendam.

“I am blessed to have watched them grow up and witnessed their relationship blossom over the years.

“They were like any other kids. The only difference is, they expressed their feelings through hand signs and gestures,” he said.

About 500 family members and friends from as far as Kedah and Singapore gathered for the occasion.

It was also a first for 70-year-old imam Adam, for he had never married a special couple before.

“The ceremony was like any other marriage but it took a little longer as the vows had to be written out and translated for the couple,” he said.

Meanwhile, a beaming 25-year-old Syukur, an electrician, said Hafizah was a good friend whom he had grown to love over the years. He only courted her in Form Five.

“We used to meet in school and pass notes to each other, before relying on SMS messages later.

“Our relationship grew stronger although I attended college in Shah Alam while she took a tailoring course in Pasir Gudang, Johor,” he said using sign language.

The bride’s father, Abd Aziz Omar, 60, said his 24-year-old daughter suffered permanent hearing and speech impairment after a fall when she was only eight months old.

“I know Syukur like my own son. Both of them used to attend school, play and do schoolwork together.”

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Our Scars

Some years ago on a hot summer day in South Florida, a little boy decided to go for a swim in the old swimming hole behind his house. In a hurry to dive into the cool water, he ran out the back door, leaving behind shoes, socks, and shirt as he went. He flew into the water, not realizing that as he swam toward the middle of the lake, an alligator was swimming toward the shore.

His mother, in the house, was looking out the window-saw the two as they got closer and closer together. In utter fear, she ran toward the water, yelling to her son as loudly as she could. Hearing her voice, the little boy became alarmed and made a U-turn to swim to his mother. It was too late. Just as he reached her, the alligator reached him.

From the dock, the mother grabbed her little boy by the arms just as the alligator snatched his legs. That began an incredible tug-of-war between the two. The alligator was much stronger than the mother, but the mother was much too passionate to let go.

A farmer happened to drive by, heard her screams, raced from his truck, took aim and shot the alligator. Remarkably, after weeks and weeks in the hospital, the little boy survived.

His legs were extremely scarred by the vicious attack of the animal. And, on his arms, were deep scratches where his mother's fingernails dug into his flesh in her effort to hang on to the son she loved.

The newspaper reporter, who interviewed the boy after the trauma, asked if he would show him his scars. The boy lifted his pant legs. And then, with obvious pride, he said to the reporter, "But look at my arms. I have great scars on my arms, too. I have them because my Mom wouldn't let go."


We can identify with that little boy. We have scars, too. Maybe not from an alligator or anything quite so dramatic. But maybe the scars of a painful past. Some of those scars are unsightly and have caused us deep regret. But I strongly believe that some wounds are because God has refused to let go. In the midst of our struggle, He's been there holding on to us.

I hope the above story acts as a reminder that we should all view our scars as growth as we move along our path. And that we should be thankful for them as they are helpful in our growth to achieve what we are here for in this world.

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Oh gosh is that a true story? Sounds very scary! But yeah, we've really got to learn from our past experiences.
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post Dec 2 2008, 08:39 PM

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Dream Theater - Learning To Live



There was no time for pain
No energy for anger
The sightlessness of hatred slips away
Walking through winter streets alone
He stops and takes a breath
With confidence and self control

I look at the world and see no understanding
Im waiting to find some sense of strength
Im begging you from the bottom of my heart to show some understanding

I need to live life
Like some people never will
So find me kindness
Find me beauty
Find me truth
When temptation brings me to my knees
And I lay here drained on stength
Show me kindness
Show me beauty
Show me truth

The ways that your heart sounds makes all the difference
Its what decides if youll endure the pain that we all feel
The way that your heart beats makes all the difference
In learning to live
Here before me is my soul
Im learning to live
I wont give up
Till Ive no more to give

Listening to the city
Whispering its violence
I set out watching from above
The 90s bring new questions
New solutions to be found
I fell in love to be let down

Once again we dance in the crowd
At times a step away
From a common fear thats all spread out
It wont listen to what you say
Once youre touched and you stand alone
To face the bitter fight
Once I reached for love
And now I reach for life

Another chance to lift my life
Free the sensation in my heart
To ride the wings of dreams into changing horizons
It brings inner peace within my mind,
As Im lifted from where Ive split my life
I hear an innocnet voice
I hear kindness, beauty and truth

The way your heart sounds makes all the difference
Its what decides if youll endure the pain that we all feel
The way your heart beats makes all the difference
In learning to live
Spread before you is your soul
So forever hold the dreams within our hearts
Through natures inflexible grace


The lyrics are about fighting against HIV/AIDS which was on everyone's mind back in the late 80's/early 90's
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I just wanna share wf you what i wrote in my blog some time ago. This article was written after an event which caused me to almost tear apart. I was on the edge of dying.. until my frens snap me back to reality. until God reach me out. until i finally realized life is worth more than what we can think.
I hope it helps. (:


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Life is more than just a game. Life is something very distinctive and very subjective. I would like to stress on the importance of life itself to every single being in this earth. Sometimes we may experience downfall. Sometimes it seems like the whole world is crashing on you, and when things seems to be sailing smoothly, that is when things goes out of hand. I personally experience it myself. And for a moment, it seems like my life is useless. But it came a point in time where i sat down and think about the possibilities of what happens now is partly the work of God, or perhaps things happened because it is meant to be that way. I know that sometimes life itself may fail to you to a point you are thinking that what is the use of you being born in this world. But allow me to say this, IT IS NOT ABOUT THE PURPOSE OF YOU LIVING IN THIS WORLD, IS WHAT YOU DID WHILE YOU ARE LIVING THAT MAKES A DIFFERENCE TO THE WORLD.

You may think that the statement only applies to certain people who feels positive about the whole idea of living, but again, you are wrong. Everyone has a part to play in life. Every single being in this world has a part to play either directly or indirectly. And yes the fact that one feels bad about them self is affected by the choices you made. The choices which reflects what personality you posses. Is you who determined whether you are sad, happy, emotional or even depressed. Its you who choose on how you look on that matter itself. If you choose to look it on a smaller scale, the only thing you will see in it is depression, sadness, anxiety, stress. But if you look on a bigger picture, you will see that it isn’t bad after all.

We all experience downfall. But its how we handle it that makes us stand out from the crowd. I admit, as a human myself, i dont do as i what i speak. My emotions take over all logics. My heart tells me to do things that is out of this world, when the fact that my brains tells me what i am doing is wrong. But that’s how it is. We all tend to follow what our heart says. But the main point here is, how do we handle this kind of situation? Recently, i went into a lot of problems that test my patience and my ability to handle things consciously. For a moment, i went into a state of depression. I isolate myself. I do things that is silly. I hurt myself. I was in an autopilot mode. But as things were going the way it is, people came to me and snap me back to reality. That is when i started to think back and review all my actions. I started to reflect back at the problem and find where did i go wrong. The problem i recently face was a problem which i lay blame on others but myself. Although i know deep down, i am not a fault, but everyone has a part in every problem. That is when i realized, instead of blaming others, i should start thinking of how to correct myself. You see, the funny thing about human is, we only learn from mistakes. If we never do mistakes, and even if we did but no one corrected us, we will never know it is wrong. So yeah, i started to think about the future. How do i correct it? How will i handle such situation if it were to occur again? And how do i overcome it if it happens? And after all that process of ’metamorphosis’ , i finally realized what happened isn’t bad after all. During the downfall period i had, I found out who my real friend are and who are just a bunch of pain in the ass people. I saw the true behaviour of certain people and during this period also, i realize a lot of things.

Many things are beyond our control. As a human, we can only pray to God for things to work out smoothly. The things i realize in this isolation and metamorphosis period changed me a lot. I became stronger and mature. Although right now i may still fell the pain, I am glad and proud to say i am slowly recovering from it. Its hard but life goes on. Any matter in this world can be overcome with time. Time is the most essential medication to any problem. No matter what problem we face,patience is the key to everything. During the time where the problem arise, I also realized that i was pushy. I kept pushing things to the limit when finally someone came and tell me that i am irritating. The truth sucks, but that’s the whole point. The truth is there for us to wake up and changed. I woke up. I glad i did. And now, i am slowly changing. I do not what to repeat what had been the becoming of me.

Today, i share my story with you readers for you to realize that ; LIFE ISN’T THAT BAD AFTER ALL. Its how we look on it that determines how well are we going to live in this world. I just want to stress again that it is not the problem you face that matters, its how you overcome it. I dont want to see others going through the pain i did before this. I want to live and see everyone facing every problem with confidence and maturity. No matter what we do, problems are sure to arise. So why face it with gloomy and negative attitude? Since there is problem no matter what we do, then face it positively. Learn to handle it and learn from it. We dont need to care what others think about us. We dont need to care what message we sent to others due to our behaviour and choices we made. What others think doesn’t matter, its what you think you are doing is right that matters. We cannot please everyone in this world. So let others think what they want to think because only God knows what is happening to you and only what HE knows that matters most.

I really hope that my personal experience i share with you all, my dear readers will play a part in the society by changing and sending out a clear message to every single one out there, that life is full of hope and joy. Although there maybe ups and downs, it is not the end of the world. If those part that makes living interesting. No matter what happens, do not give up. As long as there is God, there is hope. May God Bless You Guys and Good Luck in everything you do. Remember, face live positively and with God’s grace, things will turn out just fine. Amen.
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QUOTE(flyguy @ Dec 3 2008, 12:25 AM)
I just wanna share wf you what i wrote in my blog some time ago. This article was written after an event which caused me to almost tear apart. I was on the edge of dying.. until my frens snap me back to reality. until God reach me out. until i finally realized life is worth more than what we can think.
I hope it helps. (:
user posted image

Life is more than just a game. Life is something very distinctive and very subjective. I would like to stress on the importance of life itself to every single being in this earth. Sometimes we may experience downfall. Sometimes it seems like the whole world is crashing on you, and when things seems to be sailing smoothly, that is when things goes out of hand. I personally experience it myself. And for a moment, it seems like my life is useless. But it came a point in time where i sat down and think about the possibilities of what happens now is partly the work of God, or perhaps things happened because it is meant to be that way. I know that sometimes life itself may fail to you to a point you are thinking that what is the use of you being born in this world. But allow me to say this, IT IS NOT ABOUT THE PURPOSE OF YOU LIVING IN THIS WORLD, IS WHAT YOU DID WHILE YOU ARE LIVING THAT MAKES A DIFFERENCE TO THE WORLD.

You may think that the statement only applies to certain people who feels positive about the whole idea of living, but again, you are wrong. Everyone has a part to play in life. Every single being in this world has a part to play either directly or indirectly. And yes the fact that one feels bad about them self is affected by the choices you made. The choices which reflects what personality you posses. Is you who determined whether you are sad, happy, emotional or even depressed. Its you who choose on how you look on that matter itself. If you choose to look it on a smaller scale, the only thing you will see in it is depression, sadness, anxiety, stress. But if you look on a bigger picture, you will see that it isn’t bad after all.

We all experience downfall. But its how we handle it that makes us stand out from the crowd. I admit, as a human myself, i dont do as i what i speak. My emotions take over all logics. My heart tells me to do things that is out of this world, when the fact that my brains tells me what i am doing is wrong. But that’s how it is. We all tend to follow what our heart says. But the main point here is, how do we handle this kind of situation? Recently, i went into a lot of problems that test my patience and my ability to handle things consciously. For a moment, i went into a state of depression. I isolate myself. I do things that is silly. I hurt myself. I was in an autopilot mode. But as things were going the way it is, people came to me and snap me back to reality. That is when i started to think back and review all my actions. I started to reflect back at the problem and find where did i go wrong. The problem i recently face was a problem which i lay blame on others but myself. Although i know deep down, i am not a fault, but everyone has a part in every problem. That is when i realized, instead of blaming others, i should start thinking of how to correct myself. You see, the funny thing about human is, we only learn from mistakes. If we never do mistakes, and even if we did but no one corrected us, we will never know it is wrong. So yeah, i started to think about the future. How do i correct it? How will i handle such situation if it were to occur again? And how do i overcome it if it happens? And after all that process of ’metamorphosis’ , i finally realized what happened isn’t bad after all. During the downfall period i had, I found out who my real friend are and who are just a bunch of pain in the ass people. I saw the true behaviour of certain people and during this period also, i realize a lot of things.

Many things are beyond our control. As a human, we can only pray to God for things to work out smoothly. The things i realize in this isolation and metamorphosis period changed me a lot. I became stronger and mature. Although right now i may still fell the pain, I am glad and proud to say i am slowly recovering from it. Its hard but life goes on. Any matter in this world can be overcome with time. Time is the most essential medication to any problem. No matter what problem we face,patience is the key to everything. During the time where the problem arise, I also realized that i was pushy. I kept pushing things to the limit when finally someone came and tell me that i am irritating. The truth sucks, but that’s the whole point. The truth is there for us to wake up and changed. I woke up. I glad i did. And now, i am slowly changing. I do not what to repeat what had been the becoming of me.

Today, i share my story with you readers for you to realize that ; LIFE ISN’T THAT BAD AFTER ALL. Its how we look on it that determines how well are we going to live in this world. I just want to stress again that it is not the problem you face that matters, its how you overcome it. I dont want to see others going through the pain i did before this. I want to live and see everyone facing every problem with confidence and maturity. No matter what we do, problems are sure to arise. So why face it with gloomy and negative attitude? Since there is problem no matter what we do, then face it positively. Learn to handle it and learn from it. We dont need to care what others think about us. We dont need to care what message we sent to others due to our behaviour and choices we made. What others think doesn’t matter, its what you think you are doing is right that matters. We cannot please everyone in this world. So let others think what they want to think because only God knows what is happening to you and only what HE knows that matters most.

I really hope that my personal experience i share with you all, my dear readers will play a part in the society by changing and sending out a clear message to every single one out there, that life is full of hope and joy. Although there maybe ups and downs, it is not the end of the world. If those part that makes living interesting. No matter what happens, do not give up. As long as there is God, there is hope. May God Bless You Guys and Good Luck in everything you do. Remember, face live positively and with God’s grace, things will turn out just fine. Amen.
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Live life as if it is your last day and try to do the right thing

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The time is always right to do what is right.
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We read a lot about mother's love, this is a story about a father's love

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There are no words to describe what you're about to see. It's all about HIM!

A Son asked his father, "Dad, will you take part in a marathon with me?" The father who, despite having a heart condition, says "Yes". They went on to complete the marathon together. Father and son went on to join other marathons. The father always saying "Yes" to his son's request of going through the race together. One day, the son asked his fater, "Dad, let's join the Ironman together."

To which, his father said "Yes".

For those who don't know, Ironman is the toughest triathlon ever. The race encompasses three endurance events of a 2.4 mile (3.86 kilometer) ocean swim, followed by a 112 mile (180.2 kilometer) bike ride and ending with a 26.2 mile (42.195 kilometer) marathon along the coast of the Big Island.

Father and son went on to complete the race together!




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How would you like to see a permanent end to all of your problems?

We all have problems – and our problems only end - when we do. The only people without problems are in the cemetery. I’d like to stick around – problems and all. How about you?

No matter what problems we have to face today, there is a solution, because we have nothing to deal with but our own thoughts. As long as we think that our destiny is in the hands of other people, the situation is hopeless. We need to confront our problems with courage, boldness and action.

There’s an old Chinese saying that goes, “If you live with a problem long enough, it could eventually become a blessing.” Within every adversity in life, there is always a seed of an equivalent or greater benefit. We have to look for it - find it - and act on it.

We learn courage - when we face danger. We learn patience - when we endure suffering. We learn tenderness - when we taste pain. We learn to prize true friends – when false ones forsake us. We treasure health - when illness strikes. We learn to prize freedom - when we are in danger of losing it. Without trouble we would be like plants that have sprouted, grown, and been nurtured in the overprotected shelter of a hothouse -- too tender ever to live in the open.

How can we possibly become a strong person, if we have an easy life? The tougher it is, the tougher we have a chance to become – if we choose to fight back. Tough times never last – but tough people do.

When you see a highly decorated military person all dressed up with rows of battle ribbons and awards on their chest, you are looking at someone who courageously faced and conquered danger, hardships, adversities, problems, life-threatening situations, torture, injury, and heartbreak, watching their buddies die terrible deaths. These people had fortitude - the ability to endure and last. They wouldn’t quit, give up or run away. Yes there were times, I’m sure they knew, when they bit off more than they could chew, but through it all when there was doubt – they ate it up – and spit it out – the records show – they took the blows – and did it their way.

We don’t just get the sweet out of life without the bitter - we’d like to, but we don’t. The sun doesn’t always shine; sometimes there are storms, tornadoes, earthquakes, car accidents, fires and death. No one escapes the problems of life. If it doesn’t happen sooner in life, it will happen later.

We can overcome just about any problem, obstacle, or adversity that life deals us – if we have a strong enough will. Where there is a will, there is a way. Create a “bull-dog” determination and a “burning desire,” that will eventually mow down all opposition.

Success is not measured by what a person accomplishes, but by the opposition they have encountered, and by the courage with which they have maintained the struggle against overwhelming odds.

Don’t pray for an easy life, without problems – pray to become a strong person. The higher you go in life, the more problems you will have to deal with.

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Warm Thoughts for the Holidays

Gratitude opens the heart.

Among friends there are no good-byes.

We cannot always do great things in life, but we can do small things with great love.

The organs weep the tears the eyes refuse to shed.

The important thing is this; To be ready to sacrifice what you are for what you could become.

A ship is safe in harbor - but that's not what ships are for.

What is to give light must endure burning.

Our prayers are always answered - it's just that God sometimes says no.

That you should find your happiness.

Dreams are where your realities are exchanged for infinite possibilities.

Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity.

We may give without loving, but we cannot love without giving.

Faults are thick when love is thin.

When all is said and done - More is said than done.

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Where's The Baby?

Two women, dressed in their finest, were having lunch together in an exclusive restaurant. A friend saw them and came over to their table to greet them. "What's the special occasion?" she asked. One of the women said, "We're having a birthday party for the baby in our family. He's 2 years old today." "But, where is the baby?" the friend asked. The child's mother answered, "Oh, I dropped him off ay my mother's house. She's taking care of him until the party's over. It wouldn't have been any fun with him along."

How ridiculous – a birthday celebration for a child who wasn't welcome at his own party! Yet, when you stop to think about it, that's no more foolish than going through the Christmas season, with all of its festivities, without remembering the One whose birth we are supposed to be honoring.

And that's the way many people celebrate Christmas. In all the busyness – the party-going, gift-shopping, and family gatherings – the One whose birthday they are commemorating is almost completely forgotten.

During this holiday season, in all of your good times with family and friends, make sure you don't leave out the "Birthday Boy". Give Him the honor He deserves.



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Glass Of Milk

One day, a poor boy who was selling goods from door to door to pay his way through school, found he had only one thin dime left, and he was hungry.

He decided he would ask for a meal at the next house. However, he lost his nerve when a lovely young woman opened the door.

Instead of a meal he asked for a drink of water. She thought he looked hungry so brought him a large glass of milk. He drank it so slowly, and then asked, "How much do I owe you?"

"You don't owe me anything," she replied. "Mother has taught us never to accept pay for a kindness."

He said ... "Then I thank you from the bottom of my heart."

As Howard Kelly left that house, he not only felt stronger physically, but his faith in God and man was strong also. He had been ready to give up and quit.

Many year's later that same young woman became critically ill. The local doctors were baffled. They finally sent her to the big city, where they called in specialists to study her rare disease.

Dr. Howard Kelly was called in for the consultation. When he heard the name of the town she came from, a strange light filled his eyes.

Immediately he rose and went down the hall of the hospital to her room.

Dressed in his doctor's gown he went in to see her. He recognized her at once.

He went back to the consultation room determined to do his best to save her life. From that day he gave special attention to her case.

After a long struggle, the battle was won.

Dr. Kelly requested the business office to pass the final bill to him for approval. He looked at it, then wrote something on the edge and the bill was sent t o her room. She feared to open it, for she was sure it would take the rest of her life to pay for it all. Finally she looked, and something caught her attention on the side of the bill. She read these words .. "Paid in full with one glass of milk"

(Signed) Dr. Howard Kelly.

Tears of joy flooded her eyes as her happy heart prayed: "Thank You God, that Your love has spread broad through human hearts and hands."

There's a saying which goes something like this:
Bread cast on the waters comes back to you. The good deed you do today may benefit you or someone you love at the least expected time. If you never see the deed again at least you will have made the world a better place - And, after all, isn't that what life is all about?!

The hardest thing to learn in life is which bridge to cross and which -- To burn

p/s Happy New Year, people!!! Let us all come together and Kiss Year 2008 Goodbye.
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I like to wish all LYNers a Happy New Year. laugh.gif

For this coming new year, I hope all of us can become more compassion and loving to one another without discrimination of any kind as to race, colour, sex, language, religion, political or other opinion, national or social origin, property, birth or other status.

I like to share a touching video (snippet) from Journeyman Pictures about the plight of untouchables in India.

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June 2008
Toji, Vidhya and Bency are three beautiful and charismatic young girls living with HIV in Kerala, India. Orphaned by the deaths of their AIDS infected parents, disowned by their extended families and ostracised by their communities, their grandmothers struggle to care for them. We follow these charming girls as they talk openly and eloquently about the daily hurdles they face. A film about human resilience in the face of the greatest obstacles.




http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JAqC2Z7hKL8...re=channel_page

LOVE is a powerful statement - I capture this picture of an infant silver leaf monkey snugging tightly to momma. I can feel the love...do u? smile.gif

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Who Am I...

Your best friend or greatest enemy, I am your greatest companion. I am your greatest helper or your heaviest burden. I will push you onwards or drag you down to failure. I am completely at your command.

Half the things you do, you might as well turn over to me and I'll do them quickly and correctly. I'm easily managed, but you must be firm with me. Show me exactly how you want something done and, after a few lessons, I'll do it automatically. I'm the servant of all great men and, alas, of all failures as well.

Those who are great, I have made great. Those who are failures, I have made failures. I work with the precision of a scientist and the passion of a patriot. You many run me for profit or run me for ruin; it makes no difference to me. Take me, train me, be firm with me and I will put the world at your feet. But be easy with me and I'll destroy you.

Who am I?

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This is to remind us that good habits elevate us, and bad habits bring us down. The trick is to know which is which, and for us to control them, not let them control us. On this New Years Day, it is time to review our habits, and to be honest with ourselves. Which of our habits are good, which need to be adjusted, and which are outright harmful. Knowing this is half the battle of moving forward. So let’s all start the process of evaluating our habits, and each day making progress towards serious personal growth. Then, we will have a truly "HAPPY" New Year.

MayAnne wishes all LYN forumers a BLESSED NEW YEAR!

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Covered in mange, suffering from severe malnutrition and with claws so long he couldn't walk Hobo was given just three days to live.

Weighing 40lb, the neglected German Shepherd was in such a bad condition vets could only guess what breed he was.

But Hobo has fought back and the 12-year-old now faces the new year with a spring in his paws happy in his new home with animal-lover owners Peter and Val Butcher.
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How Hobo came to be dropped off at the PDSA Pet Aid Hospital in Northampton in such a terrible condition last summer remains unclear.

Vets there wanted to put him down straight away, but gave him three days to see if he improved.

Student vet nurse Ruth Bates, one of the first nurses to look after him, said: 'None of us thought he was going to make it but we thought we'd give him a few days.

'It was really bad, I had never seen anything like that before and I have been in the veterinary practice for about six years.'

She said the neglect must have been going on for months and months and months.

Ms Bates said: 'We started by feeding him up, he was always happy to eat and that's what gave us hope.

'We couldn't treat him for the mange straight away because he was just too weak for the chemicals but he soon got stronger.'

Hobo was treated at the hospital for several weeks, until he came to the attention of the Butchers in July through local media.

Mrs Butcher, a fan of the German Shepherd breed, said: 'I cried, his condition was so awful. For days I could only think of him.

'We both wanted him and knew we would have the time, patience and love to help him recover.'

Mr Butcher said: 'We do a lot of work with the RSPCA and we home dogs as well, so I phoned them up and arranged for us to take Hobo.

'We got him on August 29 and that's what we class as his birthday now.'

Hobo's new home on the couple's farm in Shillington, Bedfordshire, has seen him move in with an array of other animals including ten dogs, ten alpacas, seven goats, 17 ponies, and 240 parrots.

He has been on courses of antibiotics, skin treatments and painkillers and is now up to his maximum weight of 66lb.
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This is Val Butcher who nursed Hobo back to health. At this point the German Shepherd was still in the process of recovering and had not yet reached the level of health he enjoys today

The average weight of a German Shepherd Hobo's age is between 57 and 66lb.

Mr Butcher said: 'At the moment he's in perfect health and perfect condition.

'To be honest now we class him as a perfect dog. It's very rare that he's in the house, he just wanders about on the farm.

'He is happy, perfect to train, all he wants to do is to please you.

'He had never been trained before he came to us and now he does a perfect sit, a stay, he walks on the lead properly. I only ever have to tell him off once.

'You would never know he's gone through everything that he has.'

Mrs Butcher said Hobo still took medication for pain caused by arthritis and antibiotics for his skin but has made 'wonderful' progress.

She said: 'Hobo enjoys life. He is so bright, he loves to help us and he loves to play.

'Hobo is a special dog who has gone through hell but still loves and trusts people.

'We love him to bits and know without a doubt that we are so lucky to have him.'

The couple have even funded a prosecution of Hobo's former owner who has pleaded guilty to causing unnecessary suffering to a dog.

Joy Battison, of Orchard Hill, Little Billing, Northants, is due to be sentenced in January at Northampton Magistrates Court.

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MOMENTs IN LIFE
There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real!

When the door of happiness closes, another opens; But often times we look so long at the Closed door that we don't see the one, Which has been opened for us

Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile, Because it takes only a smile to Make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile.

Dream what you want to dream; Go where you want to go; Be what you want to be, Because you have only one life And one chance to do all the things You want to do.

May you have enough happiness to make you sweet Enough trials to make you strong, Enough sorrow to keep you human and Enough hope to make you happy.

The happiest of people don't necessarily Have the best of everything; They just make the most of Everything that comes along their way.

The brightest future will always Be based on a forgotten past; You can't go forward in life until You let go of your past failures and heartaches.

When you were born, you were crying And everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so at the end, You're the one who is smiling and everyone Around you is crying.

appreciate those people Who mean something to you; To those who have touched your life in one way or another; To those who make you smile when you really need it; To those who make you see the Brighter side of things when you are really down; To those whose friendship you appreciate; To those who are so meaningful in your life.

This is THE MOMENTS IN OUR LIFE.
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here, i found this on the internet smile.gif

and i think this really helps and it tells us that there are two choices to be made in life, you either regret or rejoice. have a positve outlook in life, it'll do wonders biggrin.gif

http://www.deadlysolutions.com.au/admin/pr...al%20quotes.jpg
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A son says to his father: 'Dad, would you be willingly to run a marathon with me?'
The father, despite his age and a heart disease, says 'YES'.
And they run that marathon, together.
The son asks: 'Dad, can you run another marathon with me?' Again father says 'YES'.
They run another marathon, together.
One day the son asks his father: ?Dad would please do the Iron Man with me?'
Now just in case you wouldn't know, 'The Iron Man' is the toughest triathlon in existence; 4km swimming, then 180 km by bike, and finally another 42 km running, in one stroke.
Again father says 'YES'
Maybe this doesn't 'touch' you yet by heart ... until you see this movie (put on sound!):


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QUOTE(xobiianca @ Jan 10 2009, 01:12 AM)
here, i found this on the internet smile.gif

and i think this really helps and it tells us that there are two choices to be made in life, you either regret or rejoice. have a positve outlook in life, it'll do wonders biggrin.gif

http://www.deadlysolutions.com.au/admin/pr...al%20quotes.jpg
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Just to inform

1) Just last week, while walking home from the park to my house in broad daylight around 6 pm, 5 minutes walk, i was listening to music with my headphones and holding my pda in my hand. I sorta heard a motor bike coming up from behind me, and i turned to look behind. Luckily i turned away from the main road, because as i did so, the motor bike sped just right past beside me, and the pillion rider's hands reached out and just missed snatching my PDA from me. Before i could get the number of the bike they sped away. They were wearing full face helmets.

2 )Tonight, a friend of mine was walking home from the university in Damansara Uptown not very far from TTDI, and she saw a bike coming towards her direction, and rather close to the curb, and her instincts kicked in. She started to move inwards and started to run, the area was dark and quiet. The bike stopped and the passenger got off and tried to snatch her handbag from her. She struggled for a bit and managed to get free and ran, and as she turned back for a bit, she saw the biker and the rider just standing there, selamba only. Shows that they're not newbies at this and have done this before and will probably strike again. She did not manage to get the number as it was dark and she was too busy running away.

I suspect it may be the same two people who attacked me earlier.

Have anyone had similar experiences around the same area, or close by? Do report in, seems to me like we have a local menace and pest. Should a police report be made?

Please be careful when you're alone and in a dark area, and do not hold handphones etc in your hands. Be extra careful when u see a bike especially from behind or if u notice its coming too close to the curb.

anyone else who had a similar experience also, dun take it for granted, please make a police report, so that they note that the crime rate in the area increase. At least there's a chance some actions would be taken

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that must be snatching rempits....be careful to those who stay at that area.....shit..my office area at ttdi...gotta extra careful this time...
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ss2 also leh... cny week 17 ppl kena snatch thieve leh... damn scary

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ur sis 1 of the victim?

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whenever the town/cities was invade by evil, we all fear and ran into the dark............. and that why we need Dark Knight ~~~~~~

Bronic, got lapot polis? apa mereka ckp?
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long long ago YB Victor Gu also kena rompak in that uptown, and appeared in ntv7 news also.... kena snatch thief consider luck alreaady, i heard some are forced into car and raped in secluded area......
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QUOTE(SeLrAhC @ Feb 4 2009, 12:14 AM)
ss2 also leh... cny week 17 ppl kena snatch thieve leh... damn scary

1 occur opposite road
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QUOTE(lennon @ Feb 4 2009, 12:17 AM)
ur sis 1 of the victim?
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no lar... lol... one auntie at d back of my house... she very good 1... the community play ground she go do gardening grow flowers... then these 2 brownies stop n ask her for $$$ she say dun have... they go touch n feel her up... lol.. too bad she really dont have $$$, then when they leave they throw a rock towards her head.. now bruise d.. pity her

QUOTE(badkitteh @ Feb 4 2009, 12:18 AM)
coz theyre stupid walking at dark area ..
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coz they are rich dumbass... gomen feed u so much still so dumb.. aduhai... budak buka kepala
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QUOTE(Aggronax @ Feb 4 2009, 12:19 AM)
whenever the town/cities was invade by evil, we all fear and ran into the dark............. and that why we need Dark Knight ~~~~~~

Bronic, got lapot polis? apa mereka ckp?
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dun have the number also can report? hmmm what do we report?
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QUOTE(Ding_Chavez @ Feb 4 2009, 12:21 AM)
careful also in Petaling Street. A friend of mine was pushed by some ah beng. He claimed that my friend bumped into him when its actually the other way around

the ah beng then wanted 100 bucks for messing his day. my friend refuses and this ah beng called all his ah beng friends to whack my friend. my friend manage to run to the safety of central market.

lucklily there are some helpful and kind mat rempit who shielded my friend from being killed by the evil ah beng.

ceraful when walking in areas with high density of fake LV, DVDs and LOLEXes.

this is the new tactic employed by ah beng to extort money from people. With the credit crunch the ah beng are now try this new way to get money

CAREFUL IN PETALING STREET
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QUOTE(SeLrAhC @ Feb 4 2009, 12:22 AM)
no lar... lol... one auntie at d back of my house... she very good 1... the community play ground she go do gardening grow flowers... then these 2 brownies stop n ask her for $$$ she say dun have... they go touch n feel her up... lol.. too bad she really dont have $$$, then when they leave they throw a rock towards her head.. now bruise d.. pity her
coz they are rich dumbass... gomen feed u so much still so dumb.. aduhai... budak buka kepala
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it was the route from her uni to her house, not like she had a choice. it wasnt a dark alley. it was the MAIN ROAD. just dark cuz shops all close d
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QUOTE(badkitteh @ Feb 4 2009, 12:18 AM)
coz theyre stupid walking at dark area ..
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what if u kena snatched one day and ppl say you're stupid?


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dun have the number also can report? hmmm what do we report?
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report of the area you been assult lor ~ inform at least you got 50% chances they might patrol and monitor that area.
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QUOTE(Baronic @ Feb 4 2009, 12:22 AM)
dun have the number also can report? hmmm what do we report?
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so that they can get some police patrol around the area
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QUOTE(Ding_Chavez @ Feb 4 2009, 12:23 AM)
AH BENGS

cant u read?.. i guess not
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Anyway, for people, especially girls, if possible do not walk alone, as a person walking alone is more vulnerable to such crime...

If possible, share the ride with your friend instead of just walking alone

Crime do not happen at night, even snatch thief can happen at day...
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QUOTE(slushie @ Feb 4 2009, 12:24 AM)
certain things are inevitable..dont blame on ppl's stupidity..if everyone is so smart and can predict what will happen, there won't be any crime in the world

what if u kena snatched one day and ppl say you're stupid?
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nigga got advantages, u can see the police report ppl kena samun.

nigga are low compare wit chinese.

summary, u need to be nigga in the dark.
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QUOTE(Aggronax @ Feb 4 2009, 12:24 AM)
report of the area you been assult lor ~ inform at least you got 50% chances they might patrol and monitor that area.
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i guess my case is a bit late but i'll be sure to make my friend make a report. the scary thing is THEY DIDNT RUN when they failed. just stand there and almost like smiling probably. so selamba. thats scary
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QUOTE(bilabong @ Feb 4 2009, 12:20 AM)
long long ago YB Victor Gu also kena rompak in that uptown, and appeared in ntv7 news also.... kena snatch thief consider luck alreaady, i heard some are forced into car and raped in secluded area......
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Who's this YB victor fella?

QUOTE(Baronic @ Feb 4 2009, 12:22 AM)
dun have the number also can report? hmmm what do we report?
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Just report got snatch attempts, coz if that area got masalah, sure alot of ppl would have reported. Police would then patrol more. My area every night got police patrol now ( though the snatches were done in broad daylight)
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QUOTE(SeLrAhC @ Feb 4 2009, 12:22 AM)
no lar... lol... one auntie at d back of my house... she very good 1... the community play ground she go do gardening grow flowers... then these 2 brownies stop n ask her for $$$ she say dun have... they go touch n feel her up... lol.. too bad she really dont have $$$, then when they leave they throw a rock towards her head.. now bruise d.. pity her
coz they are rich dumbass... gomen feed u so much still so dumb.. aduhai... budak buka kepala
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that's why my house stock 10 30cm parang at every corner (i bought from diy for rm25) and 2 in my car front and back in case. when i went out, i alway carry along flipout knife. i remember law say that if i parang robber in my house whether he's armed or not, i'm not guilty and acquited of any charge icon_rolleyes.gif.....

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crowbar also helpful, i have one hidden at my porch too, plus 1 parang( one of the 10)....

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QUOTE(Baronic @ Feb 4 2009, 12:28 AM)
i guess my case is a bit late but i'll be sure to make my friend make a report. the scary thing is THEY DIDNT RUN when they failed. just stand there and almost like smiling probably. so selamba. thats scary
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In my neighbourhood of Bandar Utama, there are intermittent police patrol at late night...

Spotlight has been set up at focal points of the neighbourhood too...
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QUOTE(Baronic @ Feb 4 2009, 12:23 AM)
it was the route from her uni to her house, not like she had a choice. it wasnt a dark alley. it was the MAIN ROAD. just dark cuz shops all close d
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the auntie got molested/robbed in broad day light... 6 am with the sun shinning from the heavens, on the greenfield of the playground.. usually there will be a gang of maids ordered to help that auntie do gardening for the public playground but now CNY d gang of maids follow their masters all balik kampung d

gila man...

but i also wanna thank police lar... on nin sam sap man i was jogging at 11pm at night... i saw policecar waiting at the same field... i think they patrolling but their lights off... after i jog 1 round only they drove away... i think their intentions are good lar.. tq police.. not all bad 1
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QUOTE(Baronic @ Feb 4 2009, 12:28 AM)
i guess my case is a bit late but i'll be sure to make my friend make a report. the scary thing is THEY DIDNT RUN when they failed. just stand there and almost like smiling probably. so selamba. thats scary
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maybe they are pro already, many times doing it and also they might also monitor that area and they really confident thats no cop might be around.

that why you needed to report for the sake of anyone in the future.
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everyone should carry something in their bag for precaution
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Extra planning of trip will at least, cut down the possibility of feeling unsafe...
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again, not everything happens only during darkness. dont be so ignorant. -___-!!
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time for alone in the dark
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anyone else who had a similar experience also, dun take it for granted, please make a police report, so that they note that the crime rate in the area increase. At least there's a chance some actions would be taken
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again, not everything happens only during darkness. dont be so ignorant. -___-!!
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Snatch thief can happen during day, this occurs mainly in "lorong" and roads that has less traffic, although the road itself is wide
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careful also in Petaling Street. A friend of mine was pushed by some ah beng. He claimed that my friend bumped into him when its actually the other way around

the ah beng then wanted 100 bucks for messing his day. my friend refuses and this ah beng called all his ah beng friends to whack my friend. my friend manage to run to the safety of central market.

lucklily there are some helpful and kind mat rempitwho shielded my friend from being killed by the evil ah beng.

ceraful when walking in areas with high density of fake LV, DVDs and LOLEXes.

this is the new tactic employed by ah beng to extort money from people. With the credit crunch the ah beng are now try this new way to get money

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china town got rempit??


QUOTE(Ding_Chavez)

AH BENGS

cant u read?.. i guess not


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anyone else who had a similar experience also, dun take it for granted, please make a police report, so that they note that the crime rate in the area increase. At least there's a chance some actions would be taken
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Our neighbourhood association did some consultation with the police....
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They even set up a police beat base around here but nobody inside one. I see the police car stop at 7-11 almost every night XD
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if damansara uptown, report at TTDI police centre okay right? i mean any nearby police centre can also right?
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anyone else who had a similar experience also, dun take it for granted, please make a police report, so that they note that the crime rate in the area increase. At least there's a chance some actions would be taken
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Our neighbourhood association did some consultation with the police....
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which neighbourhood? care to elaborate??
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QUOTE(Baronic @ Feb 4 2009, 12:35 AM)
which neighbourhood? care to elaborate??
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Small crime do happen too, especially, even stealing flip flops

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we need to hold papper spray in hand while alone in the dark.
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we need to hold papper spray in hand while alone in the dark.
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That alone is not sufficient
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dun becareful, please visit that place more often.

later they change target to my area whistling.gif
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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Feb 4 2009, 12:38 AM)
That alone is not sufficient
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carry mace also?
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QUOTE(badkitteh @ Feb 4 2009, 12:31 AM)
budak buka kepala ? lol

yah they are rich and they are stupid coz walk in the dark ..
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QUOTE(Aggronax @ Feb 4 2009, 12:37 AM)
we need to hold papper spray in hand while alone in the dark.
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i last time sell it in lyn... until those stupid staff/admin/watever say i cannot sell.... see how many ppl get robbed/rape because they didnt get to buy it from me
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dun becareful, please visit that place more often.

later they change target to my area  whistling.gif
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kita seharus jalan balik beramai-ramai ~ cam orang balik kampung then they will not rob us
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the area is already known for snatch thieves and kes ragut.

go to the police station in uptown, report any attempted or snatch cases, and they'll ask for the assailant and bike description, and bike numberplate.

no further questions from the coppers, since frequency of it happening is very high.

Fyi, try to stay away from the IACT row. as a lot of cases happen where they target students leaving or entering college from across the road.
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stupid excuses, nobody want to buy from vroomm vroom people like you ..
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look at my tradelist u will know how many ppl buy from me lar...

wat race doesnt matter... as long as u r rich ppl will rob u... not everything vroom vroom 1 lar
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badkitteh, serious tag is on mind u.

again, can the report about the damansara uptown incident be made at TTDI police station?
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carry mace also?
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Lulz, not advisable...

Well, walk in groups and plan your trip beforehand
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QUOTE(Baronic @ Feb 4 2009, 12:42 AM)
badkitteh, serious tag is on mind u.

again, can the report about the damansara uptown incident be made at TTDI police station?
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I thought there is one police station right in Damansara Uptown?


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also if u got gf or old family member... dun let them go out alone lor
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QUOTE(Baronic @ Feb 4 2009, 12:42 AM)
badkitteh, serious tag is on mind u.

again, can the report about the damansara uptown incident be made at TTDI police station?
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snatches around my area (Happy Garden) all reported at SS2 coz here dun have police station, got a stupid police base with nobody inside.
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QUOTE(FauxHawk @ Feb 4 2009, 12:45 AM)
snatches around my area (Happy Garden) all reported at SS2 coz here dun have police station, got a stupid police base with nobody inside.
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my kampung is at happy garden lor... lol.. i was there every morning n night i go jogging so far no prob lar.. but a lot of communities hired guards now...
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can we wear like police and walk in da dark?
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QUOTE(SeLrAhC @ Feb 4 2009, 12:42 AM)
look at my tradelist u will know how many ppl buy from me lar...

wat race doesnt matter... as long as u r rich ppl will rob u... not everything vroom vroom 1 lar
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idiot, pepper spray wont work against ppl with helmets... parang/crowbar still is best defensive/ offensive weapon .... slash dulu baru report...
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teaser gun can or not ? lulz
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QUOTE(bilabong @ Feb 4 2009, 12:47 AM)
idiot, pepper spray wont work against ppl with helmets... parang/crowbar still is best defensive/ offensive weapon .... slash dulu baru report...
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its better than ntg.. u ask girl carry crowbar/parang ar? they rather hold dildo...

dun simply call me idiot lar.. i damn pandai 1 thumbup.gif
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QUOTE(bilabong @ Feb 4 2009, 12:47 AM)
idiot, pepper spray wont work against ppl with helmets... parang/crowbar still is best defensive/ offensive weapon .... slash dulu baru report...
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idiot, if the crime is in progress and the victim happens to be you, you got chance to take out ur parang/crowbar ah? btw carrying weapons is illegal in malaysia

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Ah, another thing, stubborn people should pay the fee to your own neighbourhood association......
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uptown is dark area.

my uncle shops at uptown being rob twice by chinese robber in full helmet mirror reflector front last year. Can't see the damn robber face.

My friend car got laptop inside the trunk. He just go up to office to collect some document, that would be less than 5 to 10 minutes. The sucker is damn fast. Can you imagine that.

Uptown is dark area.


My other friend also being rob when he cash out some cash from ATM. When he exit the the bank, the robber pook him from behind with something. Force him to get back to the bank and cash out more $$$$$. I think that bank is RHB or either CIMB.

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QUOTE(vexus @ Feb 4 2009, 12:54 AM)
uptown is dark area.

my uncle shops at uptown being rob twice by chinese robber in full helmet mirror reflector front last year. Can't see the damn robber face.

My friend car got laptop inside the trunk. He just go up to office to collect some document, that would be less than 5 to 10 minutes. The sucker is damn fast. Can you imagine that.

Uptown is dark area.
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how he know is chinese? .... lol... vroom vroom?

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QUOTE(vexus @ Feb 4 2009, 12:54 AM)
uptown is dark area.

my uncle shops at uptown being rob twice by chinese robber in full helmet mirror reflector front last year. Can't see the damn robber face.

My friend car got laptop inside the trunk. He just go up to office to collect some document, that would be less than 5 to 10 minutes. The sucker is damn fast. Can you imagine that.

Uptown is dark area.
My other friend also being rob when he cash out some cash from ATM. When he exit the the bank, the robber pook him from behind with something. Force him to get back to the bank and cash out more $$$$$. I think that bank is RHB or either CIMB.
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were the incidents reported? make sure u do yo.

carrying weapons even in self defence is illegal in Malaysia
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Crime is very commonplace these days, TS. We just don't know how close it is to us until we see it for our own eyes or become a victim of it
Check out this topic early last year -> http://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopic=500206&hl=
even i had my expereince in there
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I had an old creative mp3 player and was song scrolling(looking down) when a motor came slowly from my side on the side walk and tried to grab it from me. He was unsuccessful but it did fall on the ground. He looked back and we stared at each other for a few seconds and he sped off. No, dude this was a main road and its just nearby KLCC. Its all bloody true, these people are getting more desperate by the day due to gear envy or spiralling cost of living or for the sheer heck of it.
I would like to say that the bad hats are more locals than foreigners. BUt house break ins are a different story.

we just have to be more street smart and need to avoid the wrong places you know. thats the best we can do.

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QUOTE(SeLrAhC @ Feb 4 2009, 12:47 AM)
my kampung is at happy garden lor... lol.. i was there every morning n night i go jogging so far no prob lar.. but a lot of communities hired guards now...
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the other day got one aunty who go the morning market got chased by 2 guys with knives or parang on a motor, she at once threw her hand bag to the ground and jumped into a longkang. The 2 guys picked up handbag and sped of. She said she rather lose money than kena chop
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QUOTE(SeLrAhC @ Feb 4 2009, 12:57 AM)
how he know is chinese? .... lol... vroom vroom?

robber no matter what race are scums ler.. if we catch them they deserve a beating
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the person speak chinese language should be chinese. The police also suspect the gang is from sg. buloh. You enter every shop you will see police notice stick on the shop to identify the robber.
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QUOTE(Baronic @ Feb 4 2009, 12:58 AM)
were the incidents reported? make sure u do yo.

carrying weapons even in self defence is illegal in Malaysia
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illegal weapon like pen knife is always in my pocket. Retractable baton is always inside my car.
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im staying at pelangi utama near 1u. snatch thefts by motorcycles is rather common here.

i saw a negro lady had her bag snatched by a pillion rider in front of my eyes as i was walking back home from the mall. a few people gave chase but the bike managed to get away.

happened so fast...even I was in shocking.gif

nowadays dun dare to walk alone back from 1u to my condo
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QUOTE(Ding_Chavez @ Feb 4 2009, 01:03 AM)
i dunno why this never occured to all the females

all the snatch theft happen because you guys are carrying HANDBAGS. try reducing the possibility of being a victim by not carrying a handbag. Ya all know to eliminate snatch thiefs is next to impossible. But you can live without handbags. if there is no handbag there is nothing to snatch. HEY PRESTO SOLVED!

its like drink driving. if you wanna drink dont drive. take a cab. Better yet dont drink..... coz YA ALL know alcohol will never be BANNED in malaysia despite the countless deaths related to its consumption

listen females and fags

dont make urself a potential victim. dont carry a handbag!


it makes sense just as "dont carry your wallet in your hand out in the open" makes sense


COME ON! YOU KNOW IM RIGHT!
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agree lor... i always tell my grandma n sis dun carry handbag unless go dinner... they still dun 1 listen

QUOTE(vexus @ Feb 4 2009, 01:04 AM)
the person speak chinese language should be chinese. The police also suspect the gang is from sg. buloh. You enter every shop you will see police notice stick on the shop to identify the robber.
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ohh... i see... chinese or not.. they are a disgrace... if u ever catch them... give them a beating for me

QUOTE(vexus @ Feb 4 2009, 01:05 AM)
illegal weapon like pen knife is always in my pocket. Retractable baton is always inside my car.
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wah! same here... lol... but very mah fan carry pen knifce because very uncomfortable...

d baton i use n play paly until loose already... lol.. put in car also..

eh guys ... i teach u all make stun gun want or not? cannot shoot out 1 lar.. but if u touch it at d robber he will get stunned

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just a usual crime that happens everyday.
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QUOTE(Aggronax @ Feb 4 2009, 12:19 AM)
whenever the town/cities was invade by evil, we all fear and ran into the dark............. and that why we need Dark Knight ~~~~~~

Bronic, got lapot polis? apa mereka ckp?
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They just aim for girls handbags... so its safety for girls...
don't put expensive things such as phone/wallet at ur handbag...
when they come...just give them ur cheap handbag lah~!

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Why is this pinned in Kopitiam? not everyone comes in here in kopitiam. It should be pinned in the main page
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With regard to defending yourself against these street robberies, are you allowed to walk around with pepper spray, retractable baton or knife?
Are you allowed to keep them at home?
Are you allowed to have them in your car?
When someones breaks into my house am I allowed to defend my loved ones and myself with the help of pepper spray, retractable baton or knife?
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Baronic..

As far as I'm concern...living in P.J. I reconize 4 diffrent robbers, (popular ones)
I'm not related to them, so I don't know if its their conspiracy, gang or whatever political agenda of theirs.
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Back to topic,
the first gang is 2 indians, about 173-175 height, thin. (no not racist).
The second gang, one chinese and of another race (burma,thai,myan could be malay oso--coz of skin color and he did yell to one of them in engrish language.)
The third is 2 indians, 1 fat 1 thin and young (could be his son or nephew or whatever).
The fourth is 2 malay youth.

important.
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How I reconize them?? Over the years, in ss2, my mom and I witness people getting rob infront of my house, some sucessful some unsucessful.
Then my mom always let them in the house for a drink just to chill and let them call police or sumthing. (sheesh, waste my money). rclxub.gif

Police sometimes also ask us, why we didn't help the victim...(i take it as they wanna cari pasal with me only). "So i just ask them, what would you wan civilians to do, take sword and samurai with them or buy gun and shoot? but I belive the best way is report to you boys, right?"
Guessed what, the dumbo (police) agree with me.

Well its not all that bad, now a lot less of them rob infront of my house dee. I think I changed the feng shui, so the negitive energy went to my neighbour whistling.gif .
Yeah, now her house (my nieghbour)there very frequent got rob, but, she dun care the victim.

well, life goes on.

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God, my gym is in uptown doh.gif
and i used to work in TTDI...

which part of TTDI?
Jalan mohd fuad or the other side closer to 1U ?

dam, there's police station in both uptown and ttdi...
damn useless
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Everywhere also the same lah. TTDI, DU, DJ, SS2, SS1, Sea Park, Section 14, 17, etc. Whole of PJ and KL except those areas next to police stations, you might see less crime.

So, putting this as just DU and TTDI only is not enough. Should change title IMO.

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I heard other places where the robbers slashed first then only snatch. doh.gif





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QUOTE(yo el rey @ Feb 4 2009, 10:42 AM)
With regard to defending yourself against these street robberies, are you allowed to walk around with pepper spray, retractable baton or knife?
Are you allowed to keep them at home?
Are you allowed to have them in your car?
When someones breaks into my house am I allowed to defend my loved ones and myself with the help of pepper spray, retractable baton or knife?
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ermm.. i think allowed or not doesnt really matter as it is conceilable.. i thik ok if u leeave it in ur pocket..

police wont come n check 1 lar...

yes, if they enter ur house, let hell looose on them if u can, but once they can reataliate.. stop

QUOTE(joe_mamak @ Feb 4 2009, 11:49 AM)
Everywhere also the same lah.  TTDI, DU, DJ, SS2, SS1, Sea Park, Section 14, 17, etc.  Whole of PJ and KL except those areas next to police stations, you might see less crime. 

So, putting this as just DU and TTDI only is not enough.  Should change title IMO. 

PS
I heard other places where the robbers slashed first then only snatch.  doh.gif
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agree, a lot of robbers practice slash 1st lor... ss2 also got police stations what... right in the middle... but crime still high
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QUOTE(SeLrAhC @ Feb 4 2009, 12:05 PM)
ermm.. i think allowed or not doesnt really matter as it is conceilable.. i thik ok if u leeave it in ur pocket..

police wont come n check 1 lar...

yes, if they enter ur house, let hell looose on them if u can, but once they can reataliate.. stop
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I was just wondering what the Malaysian law is regarding carrying weapons and using them. So I guess your safest bet would be when you are being robbed on the street is, use pepper spray on them, bash in their heads with retractable baton. Then put them in the back of your car and bring them home, call the police and report that you were attacked by robbers in your very own home and while defending yourself, you might have killed them?
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If you carry any sharp object from shops unguarded, unprotected or no cover is consider a weapon. If buy from shop must have recipt and bag to prove it.

Pepper spray, sound alarm , smelly breath (yes, it worked) can be used to save urself from robbery.

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malaysia police BEST advise

The best way to stay safe, well 99% of the police will say, co-operate with the robbers, give them what they want and report to the police.
Don't put yourself into danger and get injured. It's not worth your taurma and our trouble. Let the police do the job, We (police) are working 24/7 to solve your case, at the same time the public too must help us to catch the robbers and togeather we keep malaysia peace.
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QUOTE(Elvinkun @ Feb 4 2009, 01:40 PM)
If you carry any sharp object  from shops unguarded, unprotected or no cover is consider a weapon. If buy from shop must have recipt and bag to prove it.

Pepper spray, sound alarm , smelly breath (yes, it worked) can be used to save urself from robbery.

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malaysia police BEST advise

The best way to stay safe, well 99% of the police will say, co-operate with the robbers, give them what they want and report to the police.
Don't put yourself into danger and get injured. It's not worth your taurma and our trouble. Let the police do the job, We (police) are working 24/7 to solve your case, at the same time the public too must help us to catch the robbers and togeather we keep malaysia peace.
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Thanks for the clear explanation, from now on I will be carrying pepper spray. With regard to Malaysia's Police best advise, I will co-operate with the robbers but if they give me the chance to crack their skulls I will. I'll explain to the police how the poor guys tripped and fell on their heads after I pepper sprayed them....
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here in sabah they act very fast. Witnessed one just inside a shopping complex. where this couple of uncle and aunty..

shopping but aunty de handbag put inside giant's trolley so when they turn to see some products..

the ******* acts.. take and run lightning fast.

this one i witnessed, was caught coz when he try to take a corner, the floor is slippery.. so he felled down.. and the guards pin him like u see in MMA. then he cry like a baby.

when the police come, he said he just playing with the uncle and aunty.
but the aunty is so furious go scold and spit on his face lolz.
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QUOTE(YungYung @ Feb 4 2009, 01:56 PM)
here in sabah they act very fast. Witnessed one just inside a shopping complex. where this couple of uncle and aunty..

shopping but aunty de handbag put inside giant's trolley so when they turn to see some products..

the ******* acts.. take and run lightning fast.

this one i witnessed, was caught coz when he try to take a corner, the floor is slippery.. so he felled down.. and the guards pin him like u see in MMA. then he cry like a baby.

when the police come, he said he just playing with the uncle and aunty.
but the aunty is so furious go scold and spit on his face lolz.
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QUOTE(SeLrAhC @ Feb 4 2009, 12:05 PM)
agree,  a lot of robbers practice slash 1st lor... ss2 also got police stations what... right in the middle... but crime still high
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Maybe the police should use some undercover agents as bait in these areas, I'm sure if they would the crime rate would drop drastically!

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QUOTE(yo el rey @ Feb 4 2009, 01:07 PM)
I was just wondering what the Malaysian law is regarding carrying weapons and using them. So I guess your safest bet would be when you are being robbed on the street is, use pepper spray on them, bash in their heads with retractable baton. Then put them in the back of your car and bring them home, call the police and report that you were attacked by robbers in your very own home and while defending yourself, you might have killed them?
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yea... best is pepper spray n baton... because pepper spray can only immobilize... baton can do d dmg.. blunt objects is always prefered... in court if u use sharp objects like knife most likely u will be on d wrong also
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The reason of caught is becoz..he sliped not police run and catch. =.="

This is real story....happen like 5 years back at KL.

I WITNESS A POLICE OFFICER ARMED WITH BATON AND GUN,
he was on his BIKE as well, watching movie of a crime scene.

This stranger , a lady, just opposite of the road, was robbed & draged for a bout 10 feet. before she let go and cried. Cry of pain, fright and also depression, and MOST of us looked at that officer. He was 'posing' on his motorbike like he very "YENG" like dat, but never chase or did anything. until when he was called by someone, with "OII, kejar dia la" the policeman was in a state of shocked and went "huh?, huh? apa jadi?, ooh kes rompak depan saya, tapi saya tak nampak leh, tengah fikir kes lain."--I CANNOT FORGET HIS FAKE FACE IMPRESSION..yes a malay cop.


Then continue " Balai depan sana, pergi BUAT REPORT, police nanti buat kerja. Dan Lain kali, dia rompak, jangan gaduh, bagi aje, report sama dia, police akan bertindak."

After that I left the scence with faceplam. But I heard her BF or someone ..like shouting at him with bad words...I din watch till end. Waste time.

sad la..but just becareful when u walk at night or dark quiet areas.



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Go placidly amid the noise and haste,
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As far as possible without surrender
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Speak your truth quietly and clearly;
and listen to others,
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they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons,
they are vexations to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others,
you may become vain and bitter;
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.

Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs;
for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals;
and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself.
Especially, do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love;
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment
it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline,
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You are a child of the universe,
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Therefore be at peace with God,
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With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
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Robberies and snatching are frequent in the Damansara area generally because the people here are more well off and this is a more family-oriented vicinity.

I live in SS2 and I got robbed twice.

Once I was just outside my house and I was talking on the phone for about an hour. A motorcycle approached me and there were two guys on it. They were very friendly towards me at first, the pillion rider kept asking for directions, so I had to tell my friend to hold the line so that I can give them directions. The moment I turn my body backwards to point them towards the direction, the pillion rider snactched the phone off my hand and they sped off.

Second time I was also just outside my house. This guy approached me and told me that he got into some gang fight in SS2 and he needed money to go back to JB. I probed him about the fight because I was also a gangster back then and I'd know if there's a fight. He got panicked and put a knife at my neck. I lost RM2,000 to him.

The funniest case that happened was my friend and I was walking home about 6 years ago. My friend had this long samurai sword hidden in his pants because he just finished a fight. This two guys came with small little knives and wanted to rob him. In the end, my friend robbed them back.
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QUOTE(Elvinkun @ Feb 4 2009, 02:58 PM)
The reason of caught is becoz..he sliped not police run and catch. =.="

This is real story....happen like 5 years back at KL.

I WITNESS A POLICE OFFICER ARMED WITH BATON AND GUN,
he was on his BIKE as well, watching movie of a crime scene.

This stranger , a lady, just opposite of the road, was robbed & draged for a bout 10 feet. before she let go and cried.  Cry of pain, fright and also depression, and MOST of us looked at that officer. He was 'posing' on his motorbike like he very "YENG" like dat,  but never chase  or did anything. until when he was called by someone, with "OII, kejar dia la" the policeman was in a state of shocked and went "huh?, huh? apa jadi?, ooh kes rompak depan saya, tapi saya tak nampak leh, tengah fikir kes lain."--I CANNOT FORGET HIS FAKE FACE IMPRESSION..yes a malay cop.
Then continue " Balai depan sana, pergi BUAT REPORT, police nanti buat kerja. Dan Lain kali, dia rompak, jangan gaduh, bagi aje, report sama dia, police akan bertindak."

After that I left the scence with faceplam. But I heard her BF or someone ..like shouting at him with bad words...I din watch till end. Waste time.

sad la..but just becareful when u walk at night or dark quiet areas.
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blink.gif I'm shocked! that's a sad story....
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Should get ready when anything happen just take a baseball bat and wack the F until she where he can run
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best is all malaysian = policeman..since its the same thing.p olice never do anything diffrent for those RELA people...

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Let me share the story in Wangsa Maju area.

1. Jan 08 6pm, my bag was snatched while I was walking out from my hostel. I hanged my bag at the inner side of the road, walking opposite of the direction of the cars. However, the two Malay guys came from behind with motor and snatched away my bag. I was stunned for a while, and the minute I 'woke up', my bag was gone. My W810 and few more stuffs gone.

2. August 08, I was walking back to my house. Again, I hanged my bag at the inner side of the road. 2 Malay guys came from behind and tried to snatch my bag, but they failed. They looked back at me for a while before speeding off.

3. A friend of mine's bag was snatched by 1 malay guy with motor and she fell down.

4. My lecturer went out around 3am. As he was walking, he heard motors are getting near, thus he ran faster, but the robbers were faster than him. One of them snatched his necklace. When he turned around, another one slashed his forehead with parang. Blood gushing out from his forehead and he fell down. The robbers asked for his wallet. Fortunately, his wallet is on the side where he fell, thus the robbers couldn't find it.

I believe there are even more cases in Wangsa Maju area.

Another case in Titiwangsa LRT, my friend's friend was robbed and slashed few times by malay teenagers.



For my case, I am already phobia of motors passing by. Whenever I hear motors passing by very fast, I will turn around. I ll place my wallet and handphones in my pockets. No handbag, unless I am going for shopping or special outing. When I am going out for meal, I will just take RM10 and a phone out.

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do make a police report... ask them to send a cop car to ronda that area...
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I gotta agree wif Elvinkun...not racist too...but quite a number lar....still got indians and chinese also.

Baronic,
don't bother reporting....police won't entertain your report unless they are really in a good mood or ur dad is a big shot.

I was once almost got robbed by two malays scums(this happen when I was in Form 5 and I knew those two pricks were in Form 2 or 3). I was riding my bike to my fren's hse dat time and they came up to me and ask whether I have some few green's to spare em' or not...I said none with me rite nw. They replied saying "Jangan bagi saya nampak ada duit, kalau tidak,siap lu nanti."

I stare right back at them saying "saya betul betul tak da, tak percaya ka"?

Then they buzz off with their old heap bike......useless childrens.....pity their mom and dad.....

Conclusion....don't fight with these silly ba$tards robbers....if you have 50 or even 100...juz give em.....think about this, IF you die,would you be able to earn back that 100? At least when you're alive you still have a chance to get a better job that pays you good right?

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yah ss2 really alot of case.
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section 14, PJ, walking from utar to house, behind digital mall there. 2 gals walking at the road towards their house on broad daylight, around 5pm. Then suddenly one of the girl's wrist was held by a guy (chinese guy in their teens) and attempted to pull her. The other friend SCREAMED and help her friend pull her hand and whack the guy (with umbrella). After awhile, the guy ran away while the girl attempted to run the other way.

i think he wanted to molest the gals. Cause the gals look very petite.



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TTDI very few .. i stay there .. so far very few ... most at ss2 .. my brother .. he goes to school in SMKDU .. he sed one of his frens got threatened by a indian riding a motorbike with a parang .. and the kid's only form 1 .. he was scared to death
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just now witnessed a snatch theft. two african females, most likely students, were crossing the road near damansara cineleisure over to the direction of Pelangi damansara. they were in the middle of the road, near the part where there wasnt a divider. i passed by in my car, saw a motorcycle turning around in the middle of the road. was curious as to why they would turn in the middle of the road, kept watching through my window mirror. saw them snatching the handbag from the females.
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juz becareful, its happen anywhere and mostly at event period. I got pickpocket in KL sentral, I made a report in the police there and they say this case is common happen in LRT and monorail. atleast 5-10 victims fall into it everyday yet it keep happen juz like a normal case.
Everywhere is danger not even in house, juz careful, don't show too much
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hearsay the police just saman those they caught.
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maybe we should go hunting for robbers and snatch thieves. whistling.gif


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then we divide their profit?
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QUOTE(kanzakicyn @ Feb 4 2009, 11:14 PM)
then we divide their profit?
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It should be returned to the poor victims.
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i'm seriously scared of even fighting back. they can turn around and sue for excessiveness. dunno in Malaysia will do that or not, but according to The Guardian its possible. lmao. but yea. scary times.
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A lot of snatch thieves happening nowadays and it's happened a lot lately within these few years in D.U. So far my mum ,brother in law and my grandma who doesn't frequent here has witness an incident.

My next door neighbour got robbed twice in broad daylight, my neighbour was going on a brisk walk with my mom then all of a sudden a motorist came from behind and snatch her bags, luckily no one was injured. They were both in shock and went static for like a minute before realizing that theyve been robbed.

Another incident which is the same neighbour happened at night when her daughter just came back from work, the thugs were on a bike, one drop off to chase the victim while one stoodby in the motorbike so they could make a quick run for it, so my next door neighbour shouted tolong! tolong! my brother in law heard the commotion, went out and pushed the accomplice who was on the bike, both fell down and was stunned, so the thug pulled out in what it seems like a rambo knife, and my bro in law told him to do it "buatlah buatlah" to scare the fellow off, then out of nowhere my sister was shouting hysterically tolong! tolong! took a shoes and threw at the thug, the thieves were shocked and made a fled leaving evidence behind which was their motorbike, as soon as the police arrived, guess what they said? while holding my sisters shoes "ini bahan bukti ni,kena bawak balaini" doh.gif.

Third incident involving a chinese lady who was chased down by a parang wielding rempit, he chased the poor lady and hit her on the leg and their was blood everywhere, my mum witnessed it but was too afraid to go out, as soon as the rempit got what he wanted, he fled and the poor lady was all the way in the drain soaked in blood, my mum helped her out and asked if she needed any help, but she insisted she was ok and limped all the way to the clinic, my mum said that she shouted as if she was going to die.

My house has been broken in into twice but nothing taken off the shelves, pretty weird, at nights you can hear women shouting at the field. A lot of malay kids hanging out at the field making a havoc out of the place, performing dangerous stunts without their helmets on, my grandmother once witnessed an accident, the guy made a turn,felt and skid off the road leaving his ligament and fleshy white bone exposed, my grandma walked coolly to the guy and asked him whether hes ok laugh.gif

So far D.U is getting worst, with 100000 of indons unemployed and that kampung kayu ara, being where indons are breed (no offense to any indonesians) this place is just going to get worst. The DUROA security team are useless, where were they while this sort of things happened, maybe they were the one whos behind all these, how could they have known my house was empty unless they patrolled over and over again.

Btw i live near the dewan serbaguna, a lot of people who work at the shoplots park their car here in the morning, cars get breaken into and stolen, and robbery occurs all the time, day and night.

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No matter how many people you walk with in dark, as long as you have money, they will put an eye on you.

Another type of cases, there is a lot of stupid chinese poor guy and girls patrol around titiwangsa LRT bridge area, they giving out some kind of free winning ticket but all the ticket has set to win a car. After that they need you to pay the RM1000~RM10000 in order to get the stupid car, so beware when you walk through the bridge. I saw a lot malay old woman fall into the trap.

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QUOTE(Baronic @ Feb 4 2009, 12:12 AM)
Just to inform

1) Just last week, while walking home from the park to my house in broad daylight around 6 pm, 5 minutes walk, i was listening to music with my headphones and holding my pda in my hand. I sorta heard a motor bike coming up from behind me, and i turned to look behind. Luckily i turned away from the main road, because as i did so, the motor bike sped just right past beside me, and the pillion rider's hands reached out and just missed snatching my PDA from me. Before i could get the number of the bike they sped away. They were wearing full face helmets.

2 )Tonight, a friend of mine was walking home from the university in Damansara Uptown not very far from TTDI, and she saw a bike coming towards her direction, and rather close to the curb, and her instincts kicked in. She started to move inwards and started to run, the area was dark and quiet. The bike stopped and the passenger got off and tried to snatch her handbag from her. She struggled for a bit and managed to get free and ran, and as she turned back for a bit, she saw the biker and the rider just standing there, selamba only. Shows that they're not newbies at this and have done this before and will probably strike again. She did not manage to get the number as it was dark and she was too busy running away.

I suspect it may be the same two people who attacked me earlier.

Have anyone had similar experiences around the same area, or close by? Do report in, seems to me like we have a local menace and pest. Should a police report be made?

Please be careful when you're alone and in a dark area, and do not hold handphones etc in your hands. Be extra careful when u see a bike especially from behind or if u notice its coming too close to the curb.

anyone else who had a similar experience also, dun take it for granted, please make a police report, so that they note that the crime rate in the area increase. At least there's a chance some actions would be taken
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Spannar & screw-driver detected

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I got 1 baseball bat, and one rattan made sugar cane size baton below my driver seat. I don't have a good anger management and I will make them look like road kill if they threaten me.
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car parked at ss15 in front of KFC, next to the rojak stall there. car got broken into, lost my schoolbag and my bro lost his bag containing his passport. happen just now around 9.30 - 9.45pm. End of story.
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QUOTE(sqwerk2 @ Feb 6 2009, 12:39 AM)
car parked at ss15 in front of KFC, next to the rojak stall there. car got broken into, lost my schoolbag and my bro lost his bag containing his passport. happen just now around 9.30 - 9.45pm. End of story.
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i'm sorry for a rude reply but, passport > laptop. considereing malaysian passport is a hot item now, as told by the police officer.

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My car window got smashed @ ss2, coz I left an empty notebook bag inside my car.

I was suprise ..because..I was inside a CC and parked infront of Chef Loong at 9 pm when both places are quite full, my car window got smashed...and no one even came to shout at the bugger.

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When I came out and realized it, then i get to "listen" to advise from people.
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when confronted, just surrender your belongings because your life is worth more than anything else. i always wonder why ppl want to struggle for their handbag/handphone and risk getting killed.

i always carry my bag with my hand (in a straight position) when i walk because if they wanna snatch, it would happen without me getting injured (or minimum injury). sweat.gif

also, the bag would be at an awkward position to snatch because it is too low for the snatch thief to grab. my dad taught me this! laugh.gif
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put a mini bomb in handbag..when they rob...'PRESS THE RED BUTTON"
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last year dec .. i also kena ..
location : taman mayang ( 7-11 beside old limkokweng )
time : 5:30am
victim : me and 2 of my friend , there are another 4malay infront of the 7-11 too
attacker : more than 8bike come, each bike 2 ppl on it.

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QUOTE(badkitteh @ Feb 4 2009, 12:18 AM)
coz theyre stupid walking at dark area ..
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QUOTE(SeLrAhC @ Feb 4 2009, 12:22 AM)
no lar... lol... one auntie at d back of my house... she very good 1... the community play ground she go do gardening grow flowers... then these 2 brownies stop n ask her for $$$ she say dun have... they go touch n feel her up... lol.. too bad she really dont have $$$, then when they leave they throw a rock towards her head.. now bruise d.. pity her
coz they are rich dumbass... gomen feed u so much still so dumb.. aduhai... budak buka kepala
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btw, i got one friend being followed when she wanna step out from her car to get in to the house in damansara ( near the infamous expensive mamak store - Williams ). this always happened. duh! Malaysian are sick!

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This things are very common nowadays. that's why I think it is very important for you to learn self defense martial arts. Silat, taekwondo, wushu wutever goes with you. Even if that guy managed to parang me I rather have them going home with a broken bone.
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QUOTE(ariffdude @ Feb 7 2009, 07:32 AM)
This things are very common nowadays. that's why I think it is very important for you to learn self defense martial arts. Silat, taekwondo, wushu wutever goes with you. Even if that guy managed to parang me I rather have them going home with a broken bone.
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My area TTDI
alot of cases 2 on my road and about 4 in my area (zaaba)

in Burhanuddin Helmi olso quite frequent
theyll come with parang and all usually in pairs

my are dey put up homeguards - duno if work onot but atleast cn scare them off a bit

i noe one case in TTDI (Haji Openg area) the snatchers wanted to mug this person - suddenly all the neighbours(guys) came out and whack the two thieves up. they whack until the metal gate where they belasah the person bengkok
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QUOTE(ariffdude @ Feb 7 2009, 07:32 AM)
This things are very common nowadays. that's why I think it is very important for you to learn self defense martial arts. Silat, taekwondo, wushu wutever goes with you. Even if that guy managed to parang me I rather have them going home with a broken bone.
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or another way u go learn the French Parkour or free running
if the snatch thieves come u go lompat pagar orang or run away across obstacles laugh.gif
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I've always found this to be very inspiring to me. (:

Learn to let go

In a relationship, one of the hardest things to do is saying goodbye and letting go. It is as hard as breaking a crystal because you'll never know when you will be able to pick up the pieces again.

More often than not, they who go feel not the pain of parting: it is they who stay behind that suffer, because they are left with memories of a love that was meant to be, a love that was. At the beginning and at the end of a relationship, we are embarrassed to find ourselves alone. Unfair as it may seem, but that's the way love goes. That's the drama, the bittersweet and the risk of falling in love. After all, nothing is constant but change. Everything will eventually come to its end without us knowing when, without us knowing how, without us even knowing why. And we must forget not because we want to but because we have to.

In letting go, sorrows come not as a single spy but in battalion. It seems that everywhere you go, everything you do, every song you hear, every turn of your head, every move of your body, every beat of your heart, every blink of your eye and every breath you take always reminds you of him. It's like a stab of a knife, a torture in the night. Funny how the whole world becomes depopulated when only one person is missing. Just imagine, there are billion people on earth and yet it seems you feel lonely and empty without the other.

I don't know if it's worth calling an art, but letting go entails special skills sparkled with a considerable space and time. Time heals all wounds but it takes a little push on our part. Acceptance plays a part. Not all love stories ends with "...and they live happily ever after." Sometimes we have to part because of circumstances beyond our control. We have to suffer if it would mean happiness for others. We have to cry to temporarily let go of the pains. Every beginning has its end like every dawn has its dusk. It's something we can't control, something we had to live up.

It's over. He's/shes gone. But life has to go on. Goodbye doesn't always mean forever. There will always be a place and time where questions will be answered, words will be spoken, letters will be read, poems will be recited in the night, songs will be sung in harmony, love will be expressed in solitude and promises will be fulfilled.

"Somewhere. Somehow. Someday."

"Some of us think holding on makes us strong; but sometimes it is letting go..."

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i dont have enough time to write a long story here..
but have you all watching <forest gum> ?

so inspiring..really like that movie =)
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lol i got robbed last year actually not robbed but ALMOST
im from klang and tis is in klang area near bukit raja. i was cycling nearby housing area after taking some things from my fren so i cycling home. i saw these 3 motorbikes wif total of 5 ppl on them roaming around and i din take notice at first. when i gonna cycle nearby the field wif basketball court i got a phone call so i just answer.

suddenly i hear motorbike sounds den i see those asses coming from behind. they wear jackets and helmets but i could make out from their face that they're either indons or malays. so they were like chasing me and i was like wtf wtf wtf what to do! den then 1 of the bike passenger took out a spanar from his jacket and den his bike sped up and rode almost side by side to me den i jump down off my bicycle and i got hitted at my back by his spanar. lucky i jump off quickly den the impact wasnt so painful. den he got off the bike and hit my head wif the spanar(ouch)
but i did a leap (bicycle was on the road and it blocked them) and tried run to nearby house just on my right side. i took my sony walkman phone and just threw it into the nearest house den those 5guys surrounded me.

my fon smashed into the floor of the house and den got loud crash sound. it make everyone nearby the basketball court and the house alert and they saw. they 5 guys was like looking at me wif some kinda face and i just stare at them with the -bring it on- look. actually i was freaking terrified but well in tis circumstances i act accordingly to my instinct. luckily the ppl playing basketball saw and heard the phone crash sound and shouted at the indon/malay scumbags while running to my aid. those guys got scared and quickly got back on their motorbike and escaped.

i was dam terrified after they went lol my legs were shivering and wobbly. but i survived and lived to tell the story =.= i know it was stupid but i lived and my phone was ok cool2.gif


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you sounded like a superman even being hit by a spanar

anyways, the best thing is always carry a parang with u doh.gif if they bring out a 10 cm parang, u bring out a 20 cm parang lol see who longer
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being paranoid makes you an easy target

being alert saves you.

lol i just saw a rempit almost babas while taking the turn and i was looking athim and he jsut head towards the burger stall which i was just walking away from. i was holding my wallet on my hand coz no pocket
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HOT NEWS BUT..NOT SO FRESH.

Location : SS2...

Place: inbetween 2/6 and 2/4. yeah the dark road.

Crime: unsure...probably robbed. raped?? (lol, IDK,IDC oso)

Time: unsure..probably last nite or too early this morning.

Report:

I saw a girl, lying down near the conor longkang, injured. (I kindda regret infroming my mom about it)
Then I brought her back to my hse, (since my mom forced me too), I splash water on her face, alternative from CPR, she woke up, and .........2 mins later....
--(yes 2 mins after she woke up) she screamed like a
female dog, whose tail got stepped on. :S

Then she was sent to police station by me...(make me late for work). Coz police dowan to come my hse...(jibi-kias.)
She wanted me to accompany her the whole time, I told her I charge high. (woman, think wat...I free labour ar).

I dunno what's next, I dun care oso, help her enough lo.....NOPE, she not pretty and yes..I'm gay.



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some incident:
Whenever i'm coming back
i always see some motor routing around that area.
they do even stop and search for victim.
luckily, i didn't kena.
for whoever staying here.
don't come back here after 2am.

and i saw the 2 person motor.
carry some rigid weapon(mostly parang)
so care when u entering the area

sleep over friend's house until 8am.
then only go back.

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well one thing, although some may take it as a joke
the rise of these crimes are related to the recession
more people not doing well, becoming snatch thiefs and stuff
seriously, last time they may be rempits and part time workers
now become full time crime-pits....no joke
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QUOTE(aeronic @ Feb 9 2009, 09:13 PM)
well one thing, although some may take it as a joke
the rise of these crimes are related to the recession
more people not doing well, becoming snatch thiefs and stuff
seriously, last time they may be rempits and part time workers
now become full time crime-pits....no joke
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some even do that to feed drug addiction.

in certain kampungs [during weddings] even the big pot of curry also got to have ppl jaga overnite, else it'll be stolen by those addicts to sell to makan stall.

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Times are hard.

Recession here, Retrenchment there. Low oppurtunities, Low salary.

High Demands for jobs, Low Supply for oppurtunity.

Tell me....If they don't rob, how to survive?

My job oso, salary not enuf. I only eat, 3 times meal all small one.
small is SUPER SMALL, and just eating that my salary also hilang 30%.
My travel another 25%. total 55% gone. my bills 20%..new total.is 75% gone.

25%= 15% savings ...10% extra spending or saving lor

and my 10% is about RM50. so go figure.'

cannot quit job, cannot earn much...I really dunno la. Some more I must tahan those JIBI women's mouth. Feeling like robbing her everyday..kidnapping her children and torture her nicely...but I dun have that heart!!!

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last month, a senior lecturer (60+ years old) at HELP college (damansara area) was slashed and robbed of his laptop and wallet.

his forearm was almost totally severed. he was slashed in his back and head as well. luckily, he survived.

first, it was only one or two people who confronted him. then, when he started to show resistance, more of them came and assaulted him.

so, the moral of the story is, dun resist. just give them whatever they want and pray that they dun hurt u coz many of these idiots still harm u even if u do as they say.

times are hard. these people are desperate for money and would go far in order to get what they want. what kind of people would be so cruel to chop an oldman without thinking twice about it? this world is getting insane.
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They deserve to be beaten up to death in lockup
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_CheeZ_. the story so terrified. and u dared to against them. they so so evil.. riding bicycle also want to robe. whack them kao kao.....
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Wow, this is scary, my family house is just in Damansara sad.gif
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QUOTE(uhuk-uhuk @ Feb 11 2009, 06:35 PM)
last month, a senior lecturer (60+ years old) at HELP college (damansara area) was slashed and robbed of his laptop and wallet.

his forearm was almost totally severed. he was slashed in his back and head as well. luckily, he survived.

first, it was only one or two people who confronted him. then, when he started to show resistance, more of them came and assaulted him.

so, the moral of the story is, dun resist. just give them whatever they want and pray that they dun hurt u coz many of these idiots still harm u even if u do as they say.

times are hard. these people are desperate for money and would go far in order to get what they want. what kind of people would be so cruel to chop an oldman without thinking twice about it? this world is getting insane.
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Suggestion: ladies, when walking alone should carry some light assault weapon such as umbrellas, etc.
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Due to the rising amount of crime happening in my area, the police want to have a forum with the people here rclxms.gif PJ's Ketua Police coming to sit and talk with the people.

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They distributing the letter everywhere XD
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Well, I live in Dsara Utama, and I take the bus from Uptown frequently. Yst a woman was robbed right in front of my house, and there has been MANY cases fo robbery around my neighbourhood (mostly NEAR MY PLACE) and of course, a few at the Uptown bus-stop too, the one near the BHP petrol station.

Always be aware of one;s surrounding and NEVER take anything, especially your safety for granted. Keep your ears and eyes open all the time. Walk on the inside of the sidewalk.
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hav a story here..

i walked wif my 2 frens, at ss22. a man on a bike stopd us.. ask onli for rm15 to buy rokok... we agreed to pay rm5 per person, then after all of us took off our wallet to pay, they grab mine and one of my fren's..my other fren got lucky he quickly draw back his wallet..then that brat leave.. i saw no knife or other weapons, but his face, cannot say.. gigil satu badan.. 1 guy can paw 3....fuh...

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wahlaowei, today the police brought their horses to Section 17 again.
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ei TS... u post her not much use lah... ppl read then noe dun read dun noe... go report police lar! juz call 999, tell them got this kind this kind of thing happening at where where... they will send people to check it up and patrol the place more 1... no police in this forum 1 i think ...do the right thing
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i got snatched twice at ss2/6. twice also just near outside front of my house. and i personally saw 3 snatching cases before, also at ss2/6, also in front of my house. got one girl, she fell backward, and her head hit the road, and blood just gushed out. my landlord brought her to hospital. and all these cases happened in broad daylight, around 8am - 9am, where the road ss2/6 is kinda busy with cars becoz ppl going to work or school (those staying here, should know that for road ss2/6, if go straight can go to chow yang one). there were many many more snatch cases.

anyway, i did report police. i bet all the other victims also reported to police. but to date, no police come ronda ronda also. sien.

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hmm if it's people on motorbike, maybe we should start equipping ourselves with pepper spray? You can spray and run at the same time lol - of course, run in the opposite direction of the road so the bike can't follow you as easily?

I don't think the police would act unless something serious happened, like arson or kidnapping since everywhere in malaysia generally have pretty high crime rates
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For those of you with PLANTS/TREES outside surrounding your house, please beware.

My cousin was robbed a month ago right in front of her house in BANGSAR when she came back from work at night(around 10pm+). Two guys on a motorbike were hiding behind a pine tree outside her house. When she got down from her car they jumped out.

She screamed but her parents in the house thought it was the TV. Then the guys pointed a parang at her and took her briefcase with all her workload plus handphone and purse in it and sped off. My cousin was stunned for a while couldn't say anything. Traumatised.

After that her parents cut off all the trees in front of their house.

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police cannot do anything unless you got the plate number.

i was walking with my friend at kepong area on the way to food court (a LOT of peoples). So right in front of food court dy suddenly a bike came from the back and snatch her handbag. she resist so the indian guy pulled/drag her along on the floor for few meters until she let go... and those stupid ahpek makcik cina all sit there tengok saja and shout... none of them came and chase that guy... there's an ahpek in front of us already on his bike could have chase that indian.. but he just sit there on his bike waiting for the food to tapao.. so stupid rite.. my friend got bruise and cuts and bloods... report police, useless, nothing can be done.. only some paperwork is done. that's all
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this must be all the kayu ara people!!!
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this must be all the kayu ara people!!!
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Yeah, the police can't really do anything AFTER the robbery has happened. So the only thing to do is to be AWARE and take care of yourself before anything happens. PREVENTION is better than cure (which here in Msia, ain't gonna happen anytime soon).

Try to move around at unpredictable times (eg: don't always go out of ur house at a certain set time, vary your travel schedule). Always hold something that can be used as a makeshift weapon (Umbrella, pepperspray - hold it IN YOUR HANDS! NOT IN UR BAG! etc)
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Another type of robbery:

I was told that a chinese man dressed in business suit and looked damn smart was 'looking' for something at the street at 8am in the morning. 2 aunties, feeling curious went over and asked what is he looking for. he told them he was looking for his bracelet. then, he whipped out a knife and robbed them.

so becareful of people even they looked smart in nice suits. it happened in Seremban though. Baronic, be careful ah!
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just happened yesterday... ss2, my neighbour got robbed, all 5 of them while walking at night around 9pm... usually i am the one jogging but i went to play futsal that day.
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Bukit Aman's Malaysia Control Centre (MCC)

Key in these hotline numbers (03-22627555/03-22626555)
into your mobile phone. They may save your life.

Those are the numbers for Bukit Aman's Malaysia Control Centre (MCC), the call centre for all police emergencies. The police are urging Malaysians to have these numbers in their mobile phone. Bukit Aman Public Relations Superintendent, Mohamad Daud said motorists may help prevent cases like the recent murder of assistant computer engineer Mohamad Nazri Ismail.

He added that even after the crime has occurred, the police could go to the crime scene in the shortest possible time and it may result in the capture of those responsible.

An MCC spokesman said the public from any parts of Malaysia can call the centre to report an emergency anytime. "We will direct the call to the nearest police station for the officers there to handle the matter," said the spokesman.
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What is The Price of a Miracle?

Tess went to her bedroom and pulled a glass jelly jar from its hiding place in the closet. She poured all the change out on the floor and counted it carefully. She then slipped out the back door and made her way to the local drug store.

She waited patiently for the pharmacist to give her some attention but he was too busy at this moment. Tess twisted her feet to make a scuffing noise. Nothing. She cleared her throat with the most disgusting sound she could muster. No good. Finally she took a quarter from her jar and banged it on the glass counter. That did it!

"And what do you want?" the pharmacist asked in an annoyed tone of voice. "I'm talking to my brother from Chicago whom I haven't seen in ages," he said without waiting for a reply to his question. "Well, I want to talk to you about my brother," Tess answered back in the same annoyed tone. "He's really, really sick...and I want to buy a miracle." "I beg your pardon?" said the pharmacist. "His name is Andrew and he has something bad growing inside his head and my Daddy says only a miracle can save him now. So how much does a miracle cost?"

"We don't sell miracles here, little girl. I'm sorry but I can't help you," the pharmacist said, softening a little. "Listen, I have the money ! to pay for it. If it isn't enough, I will get the rest. Just tell me how much it costs." The pharmacist's brother was a well dressed man. He stooped down and asked the little girl, "What kind of a miracle does your brother need?"

"I don't know," Tess replied with her eyes welling up. "I just know he's really sick and Mommy says he needs an operation. But my Daddy can't pay for it, so I want to use my money". "How much do you have?" asked the man from Chicago. "One dollar and eleven cents," Tess answered barely audibly. "And it's all the money I have, but I can get some more if I need to."

"Well, what a coincidence," smiled the man. "A dollar and eleven cents - the exact price of a miracle for little brothers."

He took her money in one hand and with the other hand he grasped her mitten and said, "Take me to where you live. I want to see your brother and meet your parents. Let's see if I have the kind of miracle you need." That well dressed man was a surgeon, specializing in neuro-surgery. The operation was completed without charge and it wasn't long until Andrew was home again and doing well. Mom and Dad were happily talking about the chain of events that had led them to this place. "That surgery," her Mom whispered, "was a real miracle. I wonder how much it would have cost?

Tess smiled. She knew exactly how much a miracle cost...one dollar and eleven cents...plus the faith of a little child. A miracle is not the suspension of natural law, but the operation of a higher law...



This is to remind us that miracles happen every day, to each one of us. We just have to keep our eyes open and press on because, who knows, we may just be at the brink of a miracle! smile.gif


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QUOTE(Baronic @ Feb 4 2009, 12:12 AM)
Just to inform

1) Just last week, while walking home from the park to my house in broad daylight around 6 pm, 5 minutes walk, i was listening to music with my headphones and holding my pda in my hand. I sorta heard a motor bike coming up from behind me, and i turned to look behind. Luckily i turned away from the main road, because as i did so, the motor bike sped just right past beside me, and the pillion rider's hands reached out and just missed snatching my PDA from me. Before i could get the number of the bike they sped away. They were wearing full face helmets.

2 )Tonight, a friend of mine was walking home from the university in Damansara Uptown not very far from TTDI, and she saw a bike coming towards her direction, and rather close to the curb, and her instincts kicked in. She started to move inwards and started to run, the area was dark and quiet. The bike stopped and the passenger got off and tried to snatch her handbag from her. She struggled for a bit and managed to get free and ran, and as she turned back for a bit, she saw the biker and the rider just standing there, selamba only. Shows that they're not newbies at this and have done this before and will probably strike again. She did not manage to get the number as it was dark and she was too busy running away.

I suspect it may be the same two people who attacked me earlier.

Have anyone had similar experiences around the same area, or close by? Do report in, seems to me like we have a local menace and pest. Should a police report be made?

Please be careful when you're alone and in a dark area, and do not hold handphones etc in your hands. Be extra careful when u see a bike especially from behind or if u notice its coming too close to the curb.

anyone else who had a similar experience also, dun take it for granted, please make a police report, so that they note that the crime rate in the area increase. At least there's a chance some actions would be taken
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QUOTE(beatlesalbum @ Feb 22 2009, 12:58 PM)
I want to warn u all about bukit bintang especially in the areas of jalan alor, there are a bunch of thugs there who employ the same hit and grab tactic.
my cousin who was about like 6 feet plus and well built, got ambushed. although there were not like his size but they had pipes and knives.
they got away with his C902 and his gf's N95 and money. he has stiches on his head and other non-threatenig injuries. but suprisingly they left the girl alone.

anyway, it was late, and its dangerous in KL at certain areas when its late, and he made the mistake to walk alone with his gf and park in a poorly lit lane.

never have any false sense of security on KL sidewalks, never
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well, on the 17th tuesday 3.30am, my house almost got break in. well, the fella climed in my outside main gate. he cutted my saftey grille door ad and he was trying to break in my wooden door. i was up stairs playing cs luckily in a coincidence i took off my headphone i heard this loud noisy down staris. soo i quicky woke up my dad and i quicky went back my room to bring my jotar-fighting stick (mostly security guard holds that matel stick) soo i went down i peeped through my windown saw this fella squatting down trying to break in.

than my dad quickly went on the lamp light the one on the gate and all. i quickly opened the wooden door i whacked him at his head with superior power of my strength one loud sound i heard and than his reaction after got hit by me was just like got hit by a pillow he can even picked up his cutter slowly while i was keep hitting his head like twice and he hitted me on my neck with his cutter. and dont know how hited my thumb nail. and it smashed. than i fall back than my dad rush to him he was trying to whack my dad and my dad snatched his cutter from his hand and whacked him back and he was running ad trying to climb out my house from the main gate. but than fail my dad pulled him back they both rolling on the floor than i quickly came back and whacked his head for like 5 times he doesnt seem to care or even block when i was hitting his head seriously hard he was just trying to let go from my dads hands holding his body. after that my dad let go he trying to climb over my neighbour house to escape i pulled him back than. i dont know somehow he pushed me back than he quickly climbed out from the gate again my dad was too late to pull him back dont have the right grip to pull and his legs are like moving here and there hard to grap hold of him and i manage to grap his leg that time but few seconds i cant stand already cause i've got no strength cause of my thumb nail smashed flowing all the blood

at last he escaped left all his tools behind a big cutter, a crowar stick i dont knwo how to spell it (u can see it if you play half life instead of cs1.6 is the knife in half like its a stick thats the stick) and a long screw driver

luckly he didnt hited me with that crowar stick or dont im dead! LOL

his only a really small size fella like 5 feet only and skiny. and believe me.
me and my dad whacked the hell out of him he didnt even made a small little noisy.
his an indonesian i believe can saw in his face
seriously he dont feel a damn thing when we both whacked him didnt even block! most probably on drugs or those indonesian sprit.
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please tell us your housing area or vicinity. thanks

QUOTE(TangChristo @ Feb 23 2009, 03:56 AM)
well, on the 17th tuesday 3.30am, my house almost got break in. well, the fella climed in my outside main gate. he cutted my saftey grille door ad and he was trying to break in my wooden door. i was up stairs playing cs luckily in a coincidence i took off my headphone i heard this loud noisy down staris. soo i quicky woke up my dad and i quicky went back my room to bring my jotar-fighting stick (mostly security guard holds that matel stick) soo i went down i peeped through my windown saw this fella squatting down trying to break in.

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my drain cover in front of my house got stolen by scrap metal ppl
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Recently my neigbours house got robed by not single,but 6 MAN!

They stole some money,jewelry,car accessories & some electrical appliance.

Others neigbours that time saw the incident & try to scared them by shouting "Police are coming!" but they ignore it,maybe due to there are 6 of them that time.

My neigbourhood is at Ampang & yea there is so many crime case occured here.
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around section 14 , nearby digital mall, behind the old jaya building, few week's ago:

one girl walking with a hand bag, two M guys on a motor, slowly approaching her , snatch , girl shout " Pencuri !(repeat dono how many time the same word)".

haizzz....this is the second time witness such incident around section 14, not mush can help , sad ......
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Hyundai car stolen from SS17 Subang yesterday between lunch and 5-6pm. Parked roadside at housing area. 3rd case within 6 months, so ppl at Wisma Consplant who park car at SS17 pls take measure to lock secure your car.
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Not new but recent; all 3 occured nearby PV10 area in Genting Klang.

1. My ex hsemate - a chinese girl, was robbed at about 5-6PM while walkin out from the condo area towards the main road. Robbers armed with knife - she end up on the ground w bruises caused by the robbers. 100% male malay on bike.

2. Another hsemate - a chinese girl, was robbed at about 8-9PM at the same route as the 1st incident. This happened about 2weeks before my other hsemate got snatched tho. What happened was, she just got off the bus from work and was walking towards the condo. She was talking on the phone while this occured. Approximately 3-5mins after getting off the bus, she heard fast footsteps from behind and when she turned, the malay guy just pulled her handbag. She refused to let go at 1st, but the guy bitten her hand and then ran off into the dark >_> She was very certain that the guy that snatched her was the bus conductor of the previous metro bus that she was on. We met the same guy on the bus about a week later and can tell by the way he stares at her (and not me and my gf), as if he was threatening her w his freakin eyeballs.

3. Story told by a friend of mine. Occured last week around PV10. 2 Chinese guy got in their car that they parked by the roadside (as most does) and when they got in the car and locked the door, a bike w 2 malay guys stop beside the driver side and asked him to roll down the window. The driver refused and started the engine, and at that time, the 2nd guy on the bike kicked the mirror (broke duh), and sped off.

Incident 1 and 2 were reported to the police immediately but as expected, nothing was done.

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QUOTE(Characuta @ Feb 25 2009, 08:26 PM)
Not new but recent; both occured nearby PV10 area in Genting Klang.
Not to be a racist or something. Incident 1 and 2 were reported to the police immediately but as expected, nothing was done.
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vroommm vroommm ... if u said not to be racist u dont have to mention it ... keep it silence because police investigation is not link with racist ...
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my area been very bad in crime last month , but now slightly better

at my area , there is ,
rempit la
carjacking la
snacthing la
gun shot la
daylight break in la

many ...
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QUOTE(SkyNet000 @ Feb 25 2009, 08:24 PM)
my area been very bad in crime last month , but now slightly better

at my area , there is ,
rempit la
carjacking la
snacthing la
gun shot la
daylight break in la

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pls give full details of the crimes at your neigbourhood.
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behind my house at teluk pulai , there's a stalker. one of my neighbour spotted him(the stalker) masturbating while stalking a house thru a window.
we're gonna make a trap tonight.
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Some idiots even kill you or chop off your hands first then only get your barang..
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Taman Connaught....
The way where drivers use to go uphill towards Taman Len Sen junction
Snacthers (motorbikers) are always there on PASAR MALAM
seens 1 case with my own eyes already
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QUOTE(gavinchong @ Feb 27 2009, 07:36 PM)
Taman Connaught....
The way where drivers use to go uphill towards Taman Len Sen junction
Snacthers (motorbikers) are always there on PASAR MALAM
seens 1 case with my own eyes already
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ss2 is having a security gathering on march 7th, those staying in ss2 dont miss it... march 7 5.30pm, ss2/43 field
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Years ago, a farmer owned land along the Atlantic seacoast.
He constantly advertised for hired hands. Most people were
reluctant to work on farms along the Atlantic . They dreaded the
awful storms that raged across the Atlantic , wreaking havoc on the buildings and crops.
As the farmer interviewed applicants for the job, he received
A steady stream of refusals.

Finally, a short, thin man, well past middle age, approached
the farmer. 'Are you a good farm hand?' the farmer asked him.
'Well, I can sleep when the wind blows,' answered the little man.

Although puzzled by this answer, the farmer, desperate for help,
Hired him. The little man worked well around the farm, busy from
dawn to dusk, and the farmer felt satisfied with the man's work.
Then one night the wind howled loudly in from offshore.
Jumping out of bed, the farmer grabbed a lantern and rushed
next door to the hired hand's sleeping quarters. He shook the
little man and yelled, 'Get up! A storm is coming!
Tie things down before they blow away!'
The little man rolled over in bed and said firmly, 'No
sir. I told you, I can sleep when the wind blows.'

Enraged by the response, the farmer was tempted to fire him on
the spot. Instead, he hurried outside to prepare for the storm.
To his amazement, he discovered that all of the haystacks had
been covered with tarpaulins. The cows were in the barn, the chickens were in the coops, and the doors were barred.
The shutters were tightly secured. Everything was tied down.

Nothing could blow away. The farmer then understood what his
hired hand meant, so he returned to his bed to also sleep while
the wind blew.

When you're prepared, spiritually, mentally, and physically,
you have nothing to fear. Can you sleep when the
wind blows through your life?
The hired hand in the story was able to sleep because he
had secured the farm against the storm.
We secure ourselves against the storms of life by
grounding ourselves in the Word of God.
We don't need to understand, we just need to hold
His hand to have peace in the middle of storms.

A friend of mine sent this to me today,
and I enjoyed it so much, that I wanted to send it to you.
I hope you enjoy your day and you sleep well.

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Police can't help... can't say won't or can't...

A whole family was tied up as their house was broken into. Cash and jewelry was swept away faster than flushing after dumping nature's call number 2.

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my fren just been "rompak"
jengka... suspect is 3 indon n 1 local(maybe) org kampung...
he said there been rompak spree in jengka...
so fella... just be carefull...
they took 1 laptop
cash bout 1k
jewelry bout 1.5k
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there's at least 2 or 3 robbery per week here in ss15.. mostly night at the lorong which is the dark one.. normally ppl walk back from carrefour..
damn scary, just beside my house.. always ppl scream..
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i got 1...
last year d...
but d gang is still on...
at taman midah area...
usual time is 4 am to 6 am...
motorcycle gang come and smash car windows, attack people...

i kena frm last year...
tat time is august 14th 2008...
tat time is my physics trial exam sumore =.=
den i went out frm my hse...
near d car porch area...
waiting my neighbour to reverse his car...
den 2 motor, 4 people(2 on motor, 2 jumped out) come attack me...
i omfg-ed!
tat time he took a crowbar and wanna hit my head...
i use my left arm to block...
end up my meat fell off(sorta hanging by my skin)... and a part of my bone was scraped...
den they did not took anything, nor steal anything... they rode off wif a laugh....
ftards...

i was rushed to HUKM at first... but they always on hold... and my case is sort of serious...
den went to gleneagles... 20+ stitches....

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