My first story here...
There are two days in every week about which we should not worry.  Two days which should be kept free from fear and apprehension.

One of these days is yesterday, with its mistakes and cares, its faults and blunders, its aches and pains. Yesterday has passed forever beyond our control.  All the money in the world cannot bring back yesterday. We cannot undo a single act we performed.  We cannot erase a single word we said.  Yesterday is gone!!

The other day we should not worry about is tomorrow, with its possible adversities, its burdens, its large promise and poor performance.  Tomorrow is beyond our immediate control.  Tomorrow's sun will rise, whether in splendor or behind a mask of clouds. But it will rise.  Until it does we have no stake in tomorrow, for it is yet unborn.

This leaves only one day: today.

Any man can fight the battles of just one day.  It is when you and I add the burdens of two awful eternities - yesterday and tomorrow, that we break down.

It is not necessarily the experience of today that disturbs one's peace of mind. It is often time the bitterness for something which happened yesterday and the dread of what tomorrow may bring.  Let us therefore live one day at a time.

This is to remind all of us that while we should remember the past and plan and anticipate the future, it is critical that we don’t get paralyzed by either.  By focusing on making the best of the present, we can actually make the past a sweeter learning experience, and make tomorrow’s hopes and dreams closer to reality.

Cheers! 

There was a man who had four sons. He wanted his sons to learn not to judge things too quickly. So he sent them each on a quest, in turn, to go and look at a pear tree that was a great distance away.

The first son went in the winter, the second in the spring, the third in summer, and the youngest son in the fall. When they had all gone and come back, he called them together to describe what they had seen.

The first son said that the tree was ugly, bent, and twisted. The second son said no it was covered with green buds and full of  promise. The third son disagreed; he said it was laden with blossoms that smelled so sweet and looked so beautiful, it was the most graceful thing he had ever seen. The last son disagreed with all of them; he said it was ripe and drooping with fruit, full of life and fulfillment. The man then explained to his sons that they were all right, because they had each seen but only one season in the tree's life.

He told them that you cannot judge a tree, or a person, by only one season, and that the essence of who they are and the pleasure, joy, and love that come from that life can only be measured at the end, when all the seasons are up.

If you give up when it's winter, you will miss the promise of your spring, the beauty of your summer, fulfillment of your fall.

Don't let the pain of one season destroy the joy of all the rest. Don't  judge life by one difficult season. Persevere through the difficult patches and better times are sure to come some time or later.

"... eye had not seen, nor ear heard... the things which GOD had prepared for them that love Him."

Have a wonderful morning and a great day ahead! 

I just wanna share wf you what i wrote in my blog some time ago. This article was written after an event which caused me to almost tear apart. I was on the edge of dying.. until my frens snap me back to reality. until God reach me out. until i finally realized life is worth more than what we can think.
I hope it helps. (:


Life is more than just a game. Life is something very distinctive and very subjective. I would like to stress on the importance of life itself to every single being in this earth. Sometimes we may experience downfall. Sometimes it seems like the whole world is crashing on you, and when things seems to be sailing smoothly, that is when things goes out of hand. I personally experience it myself. And for a moment, it seems like my life is useless. But it came a point in time where i sat down and think about the possibilities of what happens now is partly the work of God, or perhaps things happened because it is meant to be that way. I know that sometimes life itself may fail to you to a point you are thinking that what is the use of you being born in this world. But allow me to say this, IT IS NOT ABOUT THE PURPOSE OF YOU LIVING IN THIS WORLD, IS WHAT YOU DID WHILE YOU ARE LIVING THAT MAKES A DIFFERENCE TO THE WORLD.

You may think that the statement only applies to certain people who feels positive about the whole idea of living, but again, you are wrong. Everyone has a part to play in life. Every single being in this world has a part to play either directly or indirectly. And yes the fact that one feels bad about them self is affected by the choices you made. The choices which reflects what personality you posses. Is you who determined whether you are sad, happy, emotional or even depressed. Its you who choose on how you look on that matter itself. If you choose to look it on a smaller scale, the only thing you will see in it is depression, sadness, anxiety, stress. But if you look on a bigger picture, you will see that it isn’t bad after all.

We all experience downfall. But its how we handle it that makes us stand out from the crowd. I admit, as a human myself, i dont do as i what i speak. My emotions take over all logics. My heart tells me to do things that is out of this world, when the fact that my brains tells me what i am doing is wrong. But that’s how it is. We all tend to follow what our heart says. But the main point here is, how do we handle this kind of situation? Recently, i went into a lot of problems that test my patience and my ability to handle things consciously. For a moment, i went into a state of depression. I isolate myself. I do things that is silly. I hurt myself. I was in an autopilot mode. But as things were going the way it is, people came to me and snap me back to reality. That is when i started to think back and review all my actions. I started to reflect back at the problem and find where did i go wrong. The problem i recently face was a problem which i lay blame on others but myself. Although i know deep down, i am not a fault, but everyone has a part in every problem. That is when i realized, instead of blaming others, i should start thinking of how to correct myself. You see, the funny thing about human is, we only learn from mistakes. If we never do mistakes, and even if we did but no one corrected us, we will never know it is wrong. So yeah, i started to think about the future. How do i correct it? How will i handle such situation if it were to occur again? And how do i overcome it if it happens? And after all that process of ’metamorphosis’ , i finally realized what happened isn’t bad after all. During the downfall period i had, I found out who my real friend are and who are just a bunch of pain in the ass people. I saw the true behaviour of certain people and during this period also, i realize a lot of things.

Many things are beyond our control. As a human, we can only pray to God for things to work out smoothly. The things i realize in this isolation and metamorphosis period changed me a lot. I became stronger and mature. Although right now i may still fell the pain, I am glad and proud to say i am slowly recovering from it. Its hard but life goes on. Any matter in this world can be overcome with time. Time is the most essential medication to any problem. No matter what problem we face,patience is the key to everything. During the time where the problem arise, I also realized that i was pushy. I kept pushing things to the limit when finally someone came and tell me that i am irritating. The truth sucks, but that’s the whole point. The truth is there for us to wake up and changed. I woke up. I glad i did. And now, i am slowly changing. I do not what to repeat what had been the becoming of me.

Today, i share my story with you readers for you to realize that ; LIFE ISN’T THAT BAD AFTER ALL. Its how we look on it that determines how well are we going to live in this world. I just want to stress again that it is not the problem you face that matters, its how you overcome it. I dont want to see others going through the pain i did before this. I want to live and see everyone facing every problem with confidence and maturity. No matter what we do, problems are sure to arise. So why face it with gloomy and negative attitude? Since there is problem no matter what we do, then face it positively. Learn to handle it and learn from it. We dont need to care what others think about us. We dont need to care what message we sent to others due to our behaviour and choices we made. What others think doesn’t matter, its what you think you are doing is right that matters. We cannot please everyone in this world. So let others think what they want to think because only God knows what is happening to you and only what HE knows that matters most.

I really hope that my personal experience i share with you all, my dear readers will play a part in the society by changing and sending out a clear message to every single one out there, that life is full of hope and joy. Although there maybe ups and downs, it is not the end of the world. If those part that makes living interesting. No matter what happens, do not give up. As long as there is God, there is hope. May God Bless You Guys and Good Luck in everything you do. Remember, face live positively and with God’s grace, things will turn out just fine. Amen.