Wow, great that your wife managed 3 vaginal deliries after the first caeserean.. usually the scar would be the weak point, and 2 normal births are advocated only. Wish you well

hehe.. my experience of delivery my 1st daughter is quite fast.. its only taken 20min then done already .. Last 2 years 9/06/07(my hubby grandma)just pass away and 10/06/07 i already give birth to my daughter  Morning was a bit stomachace but then still ok i still can stand of the pain... then the contraction was keep continue until 3pm (My hubby and MIL) only back from the funeral ceremony then my hubby bring me to nearby clinic but then the clinic which i visit (gynae) was close so my hubby directly fetch me to serdang hospital once reach the nurse ask me to lay down on the bed and they checking my "water" for 30min... i already feel the contraction coming every 15min then the nurse come in with a doctor and check my vaginal, she told me mine already open 3cm i was like OMG.. tht was fast, i tot they will ask me admit in hospital but then she ask me go back home  but then i didnt direct go home, i still when to carefour with my MIL and my hubby lolzzz... coz my MIL say wanna buy something.. so when there and have dinner too.. i still remember i've chicken rice at there. my contraction still the same 15min come awhile.  i still can tahan lolzz... reach home already 9 something. when to bath, contraction come again. i know im ready to give birth soon....so i ask my hubby to get ready to send me back to serdang hospital. But he was very very veryy tired coz whole morning in grandma funeral so i ask him go and have a rest. i tot was ntg so im trying to close my eyes and have some rest too but the contraction keep bothering me    was getting worse and worse then i when to the toilet i saw a bit blood come out already.. i directly go call my hubby to wake up and send me to hospital. He was like half awake >.< then not more then 5 min my water bag burst out already.then i shout to my hubby he directly wake her mother and drive me to serdang hospital.. tht time my feeling i donno how to describe about the situation haha.. worry + scare + PAIN......... >.< reach hospital i still need wait for tht damm.. reception to register.. Stupid ppl still ask me wait. I already pain until No enegry to say anything already.    then she only ask me go inside the room... the doctor still ask me go toilet and pee lolz.. i cant even pee coz already pain like a baby come out already.. so i go out directly from the toilet and told the nurse regarding this and she ask me to lay back on the bed again and the doctor come and check... she told me already open 8cm and have to rush me in to the labour room.. she still scare me with a words " Anak pertama ke ? sangat sakit tau... terutama kepala keluar masa itu, rasalah nanti sakit itu" zzzzzzzZZZZ reach labour room they ask me to change my clothes and ask me to wait until my cevical open till 10cm i was alone inside the room. SCARE + PAIN cant imagine i cant tahan lolz. i tot pain till donno how already as my fren told me deliver baby story was a scariest and horrible in alll women life. But i didnt tHink much i just feel the pain from my back tulang thts the worst pain i've ever had.  when the deliver prosses i just know the nurse ask me to "Push" then i just follow the intruction she told me she will cut a bit from my vaginal to the anus part to prevent "koyak" when the baby head come out that time. then not more then 20min baby successful on delivery already. the feeling once the baby out was like " when u go to toilet, hard to constipation" thats the feeling haha~ My hubby was like very shock coz the nurse promise to call him go inside the labour room and accompany me but then my delivery was too fast  i only feel pain on my vaginal when they doing the " jahit" on my vaginal part to the anus part thats the most painful    eventhough already pass for 2 years but i donno why i still feel my vaginal "jahit" part pain when having sex especially >.< my hubby saids maybe its ur own trouma  >.<

hi guys, was wondering u guys have any gd recommendation for cream to prevent strech mark? thanks in advance

Personally, I use Body Shop Cocoa Body Butter. (No wonder my kids are choc-lovers!) 

Another one I use is Palmer's Cocoa Butter (again, choc! See the pattern?) 

There's a lot of different brands out there. But my personal faves are those two. Some of my friends just use normal, Johnson n Johnson baby lotion because they're prone to allergies, ang J&J's stuff is supposed to be hypo-allergenic and stuff..

I was recommended for Cocoa for my cracked heels, although i dont find it useful for my needs but indeed it is the most moist products.  There are other brands from maternity co's to your needs but i don think it is necessary cos i was too lazy to apply of them and yet i dont find any marks left on my tummy.  After birth I have been using Amway slimming sets of cream, and that might be helpful if u do have some marks left on you.

I was recommended for Cocoa for my cracked heels, although i dont find it useful for my needs but indeed it is the most moist products.  There are other brands from maternity co's to your needs but i don think it is necessary cos i was too lazy to apply of them and yet i dont find any marks left on my tummy.  After birth I have been using Amway slimming sets of cream, and that might be helpful if u do have some marks left on you.

I had my 1st baby when I were 24 and it only takes not more than 20 mins for my baby to come out...Wow! I still remember the way how pain I am coz I asked my hubby to fetch me to hospital at night around 10pm. And after those test-test in the hospital, it was about 2am. Then I were asked by the nurse to wait first. Erm...I were just sitting, standing, walking, going to toilet for 2 hours because my backache make me can't sleep. Then I were shocked coz my water broke while i'm standing besides my bed. And the nurse asked me to walk to 'that' room for checking and she said I'm ready to welcome my baby...That was fast for 1st baby...Even the doctor was surprised when he's looking at my report.

After all the processes, I were just sent to another room which was all mothers & babies were there. And I still remember my mum's impressions coz she's looking for me at the other room which were all those pregnant women are there...And she was shocked and happy as my baby was sleeping next to me...LoL!!.

But for my 2nd baby, that's another challenging way to give birth to her...totally different from my 1st one O,o

I had my 1st baby when I were 24 and it only takes not more than 20 mins for my baby to come out...Wow! I still remember the way how pain I am coz I asked my hubby to fetch me to hospital at night around 10pm. And after those test-test in the hospital, it was about 2am. Then I were asked by the nurse to wait first. Erm...I were just sitting, standing, walking, going to toilet for 2 hours because my backache make me can't sleep. Then I were shocked coz my water broke while i'm standing besides my bed. And the nurse asked me to walk to 'that' room for checking and she said I'm ready to welcome my baby...That was fast for 1st baby...Even the doctor was surprised when he's looking at my report.

After all the processes, I were just sent to another room which was all mothers & babies were there. And I still remember my mum's impressions coz she's looking for me at the other room which were all those pregnant women are there...And she was shocked and happy as my baby was sleeping next to me...LoL!!.

But for my 2nd baby, that's another challenging way to give birth to her...totally different from my 1st one O,o

Hey, you guys with Govt Hosp, is it? So 1st & 2nd class moms get doctors? Not midwives? What about those who went through the Emergency room? Will they be handled by doctors or midwives?

im looking for a pre natal class. is there a directory for pre natal classes in klang valley ?

Hi all ,

Is pregnancy spotting normal during early stage of pregnancy?

I've confirmed with the doctor that I'm preggy 4 weeks++, scan already & claim everything OK. The problems is I'm having brownish red mucus/spotting today. Is it normal or not?
Because, in my previous pregnancy I miscarriage twice & the early symptons blood discharge .  I'm kinda worried it might happen again.

Am I over react about this or is it normal ?

i lost my baby while 3rd months pregnancy.. its hard.. hope i will pregnant again soon..

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Added on June 30, 2009, 10:24 am

which clinic or hospital u go?
before i miscarriage, my doctor also said that the baby is ok and do not worry..
but after i go home, .......
this clinic i went is a gov clinic ( i think not all gov clinic is like this).
but during four weeks.. i dont know..