From what I noticed ... Alot of married woman nowadays tends to give birth after 30 cause of their career and such .

wow, at the age of 22 u oredi had a baby, huhu, im 23 right now, still single, hehe... i cant imagine being a mother when you still study, how you manage your time, spend wtih your baby, husband, n your time for your lecture...

wow, so child is not an obstacle in taking your degree.. you r a good example for all mother..   

Great sharing... hope you have great fun with your 10mth old boy! There's going to be a difference raising a boy and girl, and you will tell when he's a year and a half and starts walking around.. and then he'll run around.. and whoa, a boy is a boy!

well, there's always advantage getting pregnant in early years instead of older age...
1st, faster recovery period...and most important...you can regain your body shape faster...(from what i observe from younger mother)...

When ppl are having intercourse when bathing and the male partner ejeculate on the female partner's body, will the worms follow the water down and into the female's partner's body?

Hi,

btw im a young mother too.. in my age 23 i already have a daughter and now she was age 1 year 6 month already..
ya, is kind of hard to beeing a mother in the earlier age like this
tht time i dont have anyone to help me to care my baby and i have to stop working till now.. and i dont have any experience taking care a kids too... my mum was working and my in law was in sarawak coz their home at there... no one wanna help so i just help myself..
Its kindda stress but till now my daughter age 1 + every stress and tension was just over... Now i dont dare to have another kids 1st coz im worrying about taking care a kids is kinda headache for me.. wait till my in law really come to KL and permanently here then i only think about to have a 2nd child...  

By doing abortions, you are actually at risk of not being able to conceive in the future. Imagine when you are married, financially prepared and you can't have a baby because of the abortion.

And I've read a lot of stories on girls/women who took the easy way out and end up regretting it for the rest of their life. The guilt. You'll miss the little thing in you.

Abortion=Killing a life!

So if you are looking for ways to get rid of the little precious, why don;t you look for ways on how to earn extra money so that you are financially ready for the baby?

err question: when a mommy give birth..which part mummy in pain?? vagina??? or other

at first, she'll have contraction pains, which will get more frequent & intense..
imagine that you have a stomachache, went to toilet, but nothing comes out, & stomach still hurts.. something like that..
during the delivery of the head, the vagina will feel painful, coz it;s being streeeeetched really badly..
but the delivery of the head is usually a very swift process..

of coz, the husband's hand will feel pain when kena genggam by the wife..
don't forget that their wallets will hurt for the next 20-25 years..
& sakit telinga, sakit tekak, sakit hati..

but anyway, childbirth is a very wonderful thing.. 

So, this is sharing of experience? Thanks then...

But I thought the shoulders just slide out quickly?

Yup, you're absolutely right! They skull undergo a process called MOULDING which eases the delivery by adapting the the birth canal!

Ooo.. you had a BREECH delivery? Very cool.. didnt they try to turn the baby while she's still inside?

So how many children do you have? Interesting experience you're sharing with us!

your shot could be Pethidine (an opiate based analgesia), used to calm the mothers down & relieve the labour pains when it's not time to deliver..

LOL, can't imagine my mum having a LYN nick of "budakjahat"..

First and foremost, the "BudakJahat" nick sounds very misleading, LOL!

Anyway, I actually thought they should have discovered you had a breech much earlier based on USG and should have planned your delivery well. In the end, it still came out so not a problem la!

Congratulations! Good to hear you're expecting your child this saturday! Do tell us more stories k?

Btw, which hosp do you go to? Private? Government? KL?

Woops, I surely got that wrong!

Anyway, it's true what they said. Babies tend to move towards the end of pregnancy, and usually after 37 weeks if they're still stuck there, then they'll attempt to turn the guy/girl around. Anyway, yours came early so no choice. Surprise they didnt op for C-section! Any reasons?

yeah, i work at the Labour Room as a house officer, will be ending my posting over there soon..

well, the delivery of the head is solely the mother's effort.. hence the 'difficulty'..
whereas once the head is out, the midwife can then help to pull the baby out, while delivering the shoulders quite effortlessly..

contractions pains can occur any time, but to say that true labour has started, the pain has to be regular, & the cervix will gradually thin out & 'open'..
once the cervix has 'opened' to 3 or 4cm (depending on the Hosp), with adequate contractions (preferably 3-4 contractions in 10 mintes), labour will be allowed to progress for 8-12 hours..
it is expected that the cervix should be fully 'open' by then.. (correct term would be the cervical os)
after the oss is fully dilated, the mother is encouraged to bear down to deliver the baby..
usually the delivery process (the part where the Mum is asked to push) will be allowed to take up to 1 hour, but if the fetus' heart monitor shows that it is ok, then some centres may allow an additional 1 hour (provided that the Mother is healthy & not exhausted)

Fuyo, braxton-hicks contraction! Not bad.. complicated words coming out. Maybe we should get aerikh to explain!

Wow, so did your doctor teach you that? Not bad... did it really hurt? Can describe it in comparison to your true labour pains?

Hi,

Wanna ask about prenancy test kit..

I read the manual (Bought the ClearBlue brand), it says dip into the collected urine and the "|" will appear in the control window. Then wait for 2 mins before viewing result. But when my wife did the test, dip it into, but the result window has result already shown + before the control window show "|". Faulty test or pregnant liao? The manual say will see "|" first in control window before + is shown 2 minutes later.

No need liao...
If I knew pregnancy test only cost RM25, I rather goto clinic. Thats because the kit I bought (ClearBlue) also cost me around RM2x. Anyway, test with clinic also same result. I think maybe because my wife missed for 2 weeks liao thats why the result appear faster. The ClearBlue stated can test 4days before period due, so I guess its a little bit too sensitive.

Hi! is there any Prenatal Class, Yogas for preganancy around Ampang Cheras area? Thx

Yeah.. I agree.    Branded or non-branded actually from same manufacturer. Just print different brand only. Got to test twice with different types so be assured. Heard of any promotion for these test kit? Need to get few units to standby.