Hi,

btw im a young mother too.. in my age 23 i already have a daughter and now she was age 1 year 6 month already..
ya, is kind of hard to beeing a mother in the earlier age like this
tht time i dont have anyone to help me to care my baby and i have to stop working till now.. and i dont have any experience taking care a kids too... my mum was working and my in law was in sarawak coz their home at there... no one wanna help so i just help myself..
Its kindda stress but till now my daughter age 1 + every stress and tension was just over... Now i dont dare to have another kids 1st coz im worrying about taking care a kids is kinda headache for me.. wait till my in law really come to KL and permanently here then i only think about to have a 2nd child...

well.. my relationship with my in law its just not as good as u guys think. But its kind of complicated too..How i wish they really can come and help me out but i know its sounds impossible.Anyway i dont hope much about them now... what i know is just take care my daughter till her age 3 or 4 then will let my daughter study in Nursery and i can continue my work too... I feel pity of my hubby working so hard alone.. i wanna help him out about some financial... its not easy to have a family in the young age without planning.. now i realise how hard it is.

i dont agree for those who wanna do abortion too.. it was danger and harm ur health eventhough ur abortion surgery are successful.i got a friend after her abortion surgery in pass of few years and now she married and cant have a baby anymore... its really cost the risk.

hehe.. my experience of delivery my 1st daughter is quite fast.. its only taken 20min then done already .. Last 2 years 9/06/07(my hubby grandma)just pass away and 10/06/07 i already give birth to my daughter Morning was a bit stomachace but then still ok i still can stand of the pain... then the contraction was keep continue until 3pm (My hubby and MIL) only back from the funeral ceremony then my hubby bring me to nearby clinic but then the clinic which i visit (gynae) was close so my hubby directly fetch me to serdang hospital once reach the nurse ask me to lay down on the bed and they checking my "water" for 30min... i already feel the contraction coming every 15min then the nurse come in with a doctor and check my vaginal, she told me mine already open 3cm i was like OMG.. tht was fast, i tot they will ask me admit in hospital but then she ask me go back home but then i didnt direct go home, i still when to carefour with my MIL and my hubby lolzzz... coz my MIL say wanna buy something.. so when there and have dinner too.. i still remember i've chicken rice at there. my contraction still the same 15min come awhile. i still can tahan lolzz... reach home already 9 something. when to bath, contraction come again. i know im ready to give birth soon....so i ask my hubby to get ready to send me back to serdang hospital. But he was very very veryy tired coz whole morning in grandma funeral so i ask him go and have a rest. i tot was ntg so im trying to close my eyes and have some rest too but the contraction keep bothering me was getting worse and worse then i when to the toilet i saw a bit blood come out already.. i directly go call my hubby to wake up and send me to hospital. He was like half awake >.< then not more then 5 min my water bag burst out already.then i shout to my hubby he directly wake her mother and drive me to serdang hospital.. tht time my feeling i donno how to describe about the situation haha.. worry + scare + PAIN......... >.< reach hospital i still need wait for tht damm.. reception to register.. Stupid ppl still ask me wait. I already pain until No enegry to say anything already. then she only ask me go inside the room... the doctor still ask me go toilet and pee lolz.. i cant even pee coz already pain like a baby come out already.. so i go out directly from the toilet and told the nurse regarding this and she ask me to lay back on the bed again and the doctor come and check... she told me already open 8cm and have to rush me in to the labour room.. she still scare me with a words " Anak pertama ke ? sangat sakit tau... terutama kepala keluar masa itu, rasalah nanti sakit itu" zzzzzzzZZZZ reach labour room they ask me to change my clothes and ask me to wait until my cevical open till 10cm i was alone inside the room. SCARE + PAIN cant imagine i cant tahan lolz. i tot pain till donno how already as my fren told me deliver baby story was a scariest and horrible in alll women life. But i didnt tHink much i just feel the pain from my back tulang thts the worst pain i've ever had. when the deliver prosses i just know the nurse ask me to "Push" then i just follow the intruction she told me she will cut a bit from my vaginal to the anus part to prevent "koyak" when the baby head come out that time. then not more then 20min baby successful on delivery already. the feeling once the baby out was like " when u go to toilet, hard to constipation" thats the feeling haha~ My hubby was like very shock coz the nurse promise to call him go inside the labour room and accompany me but then my delivery was too fast i only feel pain on my vaginal when they doing the " jahit" on my vaginal part to the anus part thats the most painful eventhough already pass for 2 years but i donno why i still feel my vaginal "jahit" part pain when having sex especially >.< my hubby saids maybe its ur own trouma >.<

wow... ur 1st baby is same as me 20min settle d hehehe... but how about ur 2nd baby ? how was it ? i wanna know ur story too

goverment just hundred something only INCLUDED the ward ya.
last time i went to serdang hospital for the delivery price was not that expensive and the ward are clean and tidy. they give u either choose with fan ward or air conditioning ward.
My husband choose air conditioning ward for me which is 4 person share in 1 room included a toilet. Eventhough i walk out to the nurse reception nearby the fan ward was ok also.. clean and no stinky smell at all.. Maybe the hospital are still new i guess

how many weeks now ? last time i was almost 7-8months to check at hospital serdang. luckly they still except me. But with no confirmation 1st. they got told us if the ward is full they need to transfer me to another goverment hospital which is at kajang or putrajaya if u wanted to deliver at pantai indah might the amount costing a lot. especially C-sect which is 1k above.My husband uncle wife which is delivery her baby at the same hospital (Pantai ampang) C-sec cost RM3K

opss... wrong detail is not 1k is 3-5k except normal delivery which cost 1k +

if there any mummy's here have minor headache and stiff neck during pregnancy ?

I have same situation as you. Not sure why this pregnancy cause a lot of trouble to me. Can't able to fall asleep well. Having baby aggressive movement at night.. Sleep in the left or right also not a good position. Feel very very very tired like lo energy to do everything. I only able to get a good sleep after 8am until 11am then in the afternoon only. Not at night..
I have a few of my friend which is going to labour soon was same situation too. Not sure itzzit because of baby dragon that's why so aggressive on the movement and a lot of bad systom coming out.
This is not my 1st pregnancy, but I feel quite big different then my previous one >.<
Sometimes I for the feelin of vomit also but not really wanna throw up. Just the feeling makes me not comfortable at all..