do u mean u see or when u touch the abdomen. as i know,when u touch there is 1 lobe,its the head, if round with 2 lobe,its the baby's buttocks..

actually it's pretty easy..
first, you identify where the baby lies..
the longest axis which you can feel the parts is usually the back of the baby. by 36 weeks, the baby should have establish a stable lie, either right or left...if the lie unstable, better get a check see what's the reason. it commonly found in placenta praevia cases where the baby have unstable lies.

once you found the back of baby, move across the back, and feel for the end...(either upward/downward)
if it's hard, that's the head.
if it's soft, that's the buttock.

in my opinion, in vitro also cannot determine the gender.as we dont know which sperm carries the Y sex cromosome or not to determine the gender..

so,all depends on GOD..

My wife expecting in Jan '09 1st baby.
I am stoking up some aspirins to handle this boy.
...btw nice topic

i think, he's thinking about the looooong nights of baby crying - feeding - crying cycle

go to pharmacy buy the test urine one~~~Guardian will sell~

XY sperm survive within 24 hours & XX sperm survive within 72 hours, before the 14 days having sex should be high possibility can get baby girl + eat more vegetable and fruit.

God bless every women who wants to get pregnant =)

my mom gave birth on me at 17

what i heard from my mom conversation to determine offspring sex:

after the intercourse you must positioned ur self on left side(for babygirl) or right side(for babyboy)

dunno whether its true or not
btw,the gen of offspring more strong on the mother or father side ?

coz I hope my offspring will look like my gf and have a pair of blue eyes coz I'm not so good looking 

Yup

Only God will determine what will they be

I guess it just some kind of old folk stories

i thought it's the girl? not guy?
add point: girl who want to try this (eat more vege, get xx gender .eat more meats get xxx gender)

Not Working. Save your breath 
(tested by me  3 times )

1st pregnancy, after birth. I got  "buasir". Anyone here experiences the same?

buasir as in "piles" or "rectal prolapse?"

piles 
in english is called haemorrhoid 
you mean surgery?? 
some ppl advised me not to eat spicy food, drink more water ..

doesn't help at all..
and i dun want to do anything related with surgery .. scary 

i have 3 daughters and a son ..

what i meant was eat more vege will get girl, eat more meat will get boy ..

sorry for my unclear info 

i thought giving birth was hard, today is my oldest's first day at kindy!!! 

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Added on January 5, 2009, 12:24 pm

It was tough enough carrying a baby when you're in your 20s. In your 30s... I can't imagine la. But then again, yes, I'm part of a YahooGroups and in that group, there's a 38 year old lady who got pregnant.

I've always said that my daughter raised me, as much (if not more) as I'm raising her. I had her when I was 22. Gave birth to her in October, I went back to school for my degree in December. Those were trying times, and luckily, I did well in my studies...

Now I've another baby boy who's about 10 months old... And the cycle begins again...

Hi,

btw im a young mother too.. in my age 23 i already have a daughter and now she was age 1 year 6 month already..
ya, is kind of hard to beeing a mother in the earlier age like this
tht time i dont have anyone to help me to care my baby and i have to stop working till now.. and i dont have any experience taking care a kids too... my mum was working and my in law was in sarawak coz their home at there... no one wanna help so i just help myself..
Its kindda stress but till now my daughter age 1 + every stress and tension was just over... Now i dont dare to have another kids 1st coz im worrying about taking care a kids is kinda headache for me.. wait till my in law really come to KL and permanently here then i only think about to have a 2nd child...  

my friends is pregnancy n she is worry bout it..she is not going to give birth due to lask of financing to raise the baby..she wish to abort the baby..where can she get the medical abortion??it is can get easily at pharmacy??

First of all, they're not worms. (are you on drugs or something?)

Second, the chances of pregnancy that way is slim to none. #1, the "worms" have a long way to go. #2, there's still your ovulation cycle to take into consideration. #3 God is not that humourous. people who refer to sperm as 'worms' definitely needs a lot more growing up to do, ergo is in no business to have kids.