yeah, in case u afraid for chromosomal abnormalities..

i thought giving birth was hard, today is my oldest's first day at kindy!!!

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Added on January 5, 2009, 12:24 pmIt was tough enough carrying a baby when you're in your 20s. In your 30s... I can't imagine la. But then again, yes, I'm part of a YahooGroups and in that group, there's a 38 year old lady who got pregnant.

I've always said that my daughter raised me, as much (if not more) as I'm raising her. I had her when I was 22. Gave birth to her in October, I went back to school for my degree in December. Those were trying times, and luckily, I did well in my studies...

Now I've another baby boy who's about 10 months old... And the cycle begins again...

This post has been edited by budakjahat: Jan 5 2009, 12:28 PM

wow, at the age of 22 u oredi had a baby, huhu, im 23 right now, still single, hehe... i cant imagine being a mother when you still study, how you manage your time, spend wtih your baby, husband, n your time for your lecture...

wow, so child is not an obstacle in taking your degree.. you r a good example for all mother..

Great sharing... hope you have great fun with your 10mth old boy! There's going to be a difference raising a boy and girl, and you will tell when he's a year and a half and starts walking around.. and then he'll run around.. and whoa, a boy is a boy!

boy?? congrat..

well, there's always advantage getting pregnant in early years instead of older age...
1st, faster recovery period...and most important...you can regain your body shape faster...(from what i observe from younger mother)...

one word (or maybe two?), support system. my parents helped me out A LOT. and my husband's really supportive. so, the rest is up to me, really..

no, never let your child stop you from doing anything good. but hey, like i said, she raised me as much as i raised her.

yes, he's quite a handful. already climbing all over the place although he still cannot walk. very different from the sister who, although quite adventurous herself, is slightly more... softer or girly la..

body shape? ahah. ahaha. AHAHAHA.

but ur right lah. I guess the still high metabolisme rate etc helps in this sense.

so, high metabolism helps maintain body shape??

not just because high metabolisme...
it's most likely because of regeneration rate is faster in younger age group...

if you see older women get pregnant...they become fat...then, most of them become "just like that" after pregnant..
for younger women...you'll reallize they regain their shape faster even they out of shape during pregnancy..

partially i think because of self esteem and initiative...why?
young girl ma...sure want pretty lor...
suddenly become fat already...sure cannot accept... some more so young..still want to go shopping, buy beautiful clothes...
body like "tat", macam boleh o...??

for older women, they might not care that much already lor (of course some of them care....no offense... )

hohoho..

sorry, what u mean by regeneration rate faster in youger people ya? coz that is for wound healing if im not mistaken..

Ya man... get pregnant early and then get back into awesome body shape! That's a good point!

haha.. if u have time lor. usually woman busy with their children. not like man..

Hi,

btw im a young mother too.. in my age 23 i already have a daughter and now she was age 1 year 6 month already..
ya, is kind of hard to beeing a mother in the earlier age like this
tht time i dont have anyone to help me to care my baby and i have to stop working till now.. and i dont have any experience taking care a kids too... my mum was working and my in law was in sarawak coz their home at there... no one wanna help so i just help myself..
Its kindda stress but till now my daughter age 1 + every stress and tension was just over... Now i dont dare to have another kids 1st coz im worrying about taking care a kids is kinda headache for me.. wait till my in law really come to KL and permanently here then i only think about to have a 2nd child...

Sounds good that your relationship with your in-laws are all good! That's usually a problem with people around us. Anyway, it's good that you're a strong mother at such a young age. Well, remember your priorities and everything should go on well! All the best in your life!

good that u have family planning in the situation like this. clever girl..

space 2 years for every pregnancy
you're still young anyway...probably can get another 3 before age of 30's...

well.. my relationship with my in law its just not as good as u guys think. But its kind of complicated too..How i wish they really can come and help me out but i know its sounds impossible.Anyway i dont hope much about them now... what i know is just take care my daughter till her age 3 or 4 then will let my daughter study in Nursery and i can continue my work too... I feel pity of my hubby working so hard alone.. i wanna help him out about some financial... its not easy to have a family in the young age without planning.. now i realise how hard it is.

yeah, we should rely on ourself. if anybody want to help, thats a bonus..