The need to do a D and C would depend on the type of abortion, not the fertility rate. If you have a complete abortion, there is no need to do a D&C because there is nothing to curette out. But if you have an incomplete abortion or any retained products, D&C is vital, because the retained products can cause a lot of trouble and maybe even cost you your life if it is not removed.

err question: when a mommy give birth..which part mummy in pain?? vagina??? or other

By doing abortions, you are actually at risk of not being able to conceive in the future. Imagine when you are married, financially prepared and you can't have a baby because of the abortion.

And I've read a lot of stories on girls/women who took the easy way out and end up regretting it for the rest of their life. The guilt. You'll miss the little thing in you.

Abortion=Killing a life!

So if you are looking for ways to get rid of the little precious, why don;t you look for ways on how to earn extra money so that you are financially ready for the baby?

yes, that is its an elected abortion. But spontaneous abortions do occur to people who want their pregnancy. Its commonly called miscarriage. D+C will sometimes need to be done for spontaneous abortion in which the conceptus has not fully aborted

MSA: God Bless you and your family

It's good when things are always black and white, isn't it?

Imagine this. You're a girl, then you were raped. You got pregnant as a result of that. Would you keep the baby knowing the baby is the child of your rapist? As much as the baby is your child, the hurt is still there. Would you, as a human being, be able to look past that hurt to have the baby and raise the child free of hate? And what about the society? What about their scorn and the stigma you and the baby will have?

I am pro-choice. I don't agree with abortion as a birth control method. I do, however, agree on abortion on certain conditions - condition being if the mother's life is threatened by having the baby.

In the rape case pregnancy, if I was in that situation, I'd have the baby. If there is no harm in me as mother to carry the baby to full term, then I'd carry the baby and raise the baby as best as I could.

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Added on February 10, 2009, 3:01 pmEverything hurts.

This post has been edited by budakjahat: Feb 10 2009, 03:01 PM

everywhere hurts + the 10 months suffering

wow =.= i can't believe someone said sperms are worms

Hehe.. worth it in the end, cause you're bring life to this earth, and only women can, it's a privilege!

They look like worms, dont they? Oh.. that's only under the microscope. But heck, why compare the future beings to worms? Not right at all!

at first, she'll have contraction pains, which will get more frequent & intense..
imagine that you have a stomachache, went to toilet, but nothing comes out, & stomach still hurts.. something like that..
during the delivery of the head, the vagina will feel painful, coz it;s being streeeeetched really badly..
but the delivery of the head is usually a very swift process..

of coz, the husband's hand will feel pain when kena genggam by the wife..

don't forget that their wallets will hurt for the next 20-25 years..
& sakit telinga, sakit tekak, sakit hati..

but anyway, childbirth is a very wonderful thing..

Wow, you're describing labour pains! Something that people never were able to describe! will keep in my the stomachache and toilet part! But I believe it's much much worst!

All your pain points are absolutely right! Experienced huh? hahahaha

LOL, i'm XY la..
experienced from watching women in labour.. hehe..

Figured that out.. was talking about your "pocket pain" husband suffers!

Hmmm.. watching them good enough to describe? How can...unless you feel it only can describe! Ppl feel it also cant describe! just say = TOO PAIN!

hehe.. true enough, can't describe it from a 1st person view..
but from what the Mom's tell me.. & watching d birth process.. can kinda guess it.. not 100% accurate though..

Hmmm
Being miscarriage 2 times also really painful and hurt so much for me ...
Gosh...Now I can't imagine how painful it is to be in labour
I wonder........

well..
the same principle kinda applies..
your uterus is contracting to expel whatever's inside it..
sorry to hear about your 2 losses..
wishing u a safe & healthy pregnancy in d future!

Hmmm...
So meaning I have little bit experience about how it's gonna be...
BTW how many children do you have aerikh, since u sound soo experienced about this..
Thank you for your wishes

OMG.. i'm not even married yet!
hehe.. have some experience of working in the labour room..
& talking to lots of parents..

Erkkk sori aerikh..
I don't mean it...Just that you know so much about these things
What other experience that you encounter while working at the labour room
Any interesting stuff to share

hehe.. no prob.. no offense taken..
hmm..
well..contrary to what you see on TV, we actually don't encourage Moms to scream..
the actual birth process can be quite fast if the Mom knows the correct way to push..
& episiotomy can be avoided if the birth is conducted by an experienced doctor/midwife.. provided that the baby's estimated birth weight is small, & the mom's perineum (area between the vagina & anus) is not too short..