Are they happy tho?

Told dy until fighting like hell

Tuesday to Friday this week will have at least 2 hours of gathering and another 1 or 2 hours of supper. Thats another consecutive 4 days.
From 9pm until... Do the math.

I told her its not even proper for a woman to hang out from 9pm onwards

I reckon the guy happy get car and makan milf
milf happy get makaned by another person

husband sour get green hat
kids sad cause mom not around anymore but dunno the family dynamics, maybe kids happy je

Just to reveal to everyone, as my sign of sincerity asking for advice, is that she plays ball for 2 hours and will have 1 to 2 hours of minum makan lepak afterwards. The bola session either start at 7pm or 9pm. do the math adding the hours

I told her its not proper for a married woman to hang out at such time and to such late hours. Deaf ears and fights follow. She say she deserve to make her own choices

We have kids. 7 and 9.

Now i just worry the kids. I dont think she has got the ability to care for them. I have been doing most of that work. wiping tbeir asses. Feed. Send to school. Tending to needs.

As much as i dont believe she has got the capacity (for sure mentally) to care for them, i also dont want them to follow the antagonist

This post has been edited by Petre: Aug 25 2025, 02:53 PM

You sound similar to the doctor kelantan case.

To be very straight, something is wrong with your wife. She's not acting normal.

You need to be prepared.

This post has been edited by hellothere131495: Aug 25 2025, 03:06 PM

Am preparing and hopefully i get help courage and guide from tgis kind community

It is part of their strategy, that's why when they finally approached their bf/partner saying needed some space for both or wanted to breakup, most of the time their backup plan is already fully in-placed.

Keep records....

it might just be a phase she need or want to go thru, bored of current status quo but not cheating on you.

prepare for the worst, but hope for the best.

Try not to argue in front of the kids, they usually felt the brunt of the trauma more then adults but it doesn't show as they hide it deep down. Try not to use the kids to bad mouth the other party, this is quite normal in separation as one parent will bad mouth the other, etc....

Keep record of passwords and financial. hide the money and valuables away out of her touch, maybe with your parents if you can trust them. Keep record of kids medical history, dental, school, documentation, etc

Kids passports and birth cert, etc all file them away safely.

dulu dulu my fren's ex gf also like that, always want to go out play games with friends, sports, makan after sports, mamak until late.
Also end up breaking apart cause she dont care anymore might, but we all suspect that she have another interest. We all know each other.

what phase are you talking about bro? pls elaborate

I believe you misread. The guys she hang out with are her working mates, whom i know. Its a closed group whom she trust a lot, and she dont give her contacts out easily. Other wise, she wont entertain other folks, and often enough, these guys will chase those men away.

My point is, not all women who hangs out with a group of guys are loose women. The common streotypes often put them in a bad sight amongst ppl who dont know them. And if your woman hangs out with other man, and if you dont like it, tell her outright. And if she doesnt seem to care what you think and still continues doing what she does, then you may need to reconsider the relationship

This post has been edited by DeyBeardy: Aug 25 2025, 04:32 PM

Likely she doesn't want to come home to face you and the family.

Likely children are not to her expectation.

Hire private investigator to follow her, if she really cheat, divorce her without alimony

Shes probably have a crush on someone in the group?

Daily wor thats damn weird.

Already married and if have kids have so much time to hangout with outside male frens kaa?

Also, a very wise old man always say. Watch what she do, not what she said.

Also, to be on the safe side. Hire a private investigator. Let him take the photo. Video. Collect physical evidence…



This post has been edited by max_cavalera: Aug 25 2025, 04:47 PM

True. I told her that her words dont match her actions. Of course, what's the point of arguing?

I suspect she is having a big crush on another guy too

Play ball terang got record in reclub. Then she openly declare she just hang out and do nothing wrong, which i find very arrogant, ignorant and selfish