What your ancestor tell you? Do you doubt your ancestor?

Get to know her male friends. Insist joining her gathering.

Then can decide if ok or not.

thats one of the main issue. she dont allow me to get near them

i think you to deep talk with your partner la.

if things cannot be resolved then it's time to move on.

errrmm she may hv caught the pickleball bug...
are u not welcomed to join her in the games? maybe can bring along the kids to watch their mommy plays

kids too young and they would keep want her attention. so she forbid them goingg, and as i need to care for the kids, it means i cannot go to her sessions. also she thinks their behavior embarass her, so she keep me and the kids away from her games

already talk. many times. fought as well. she wont budge

Engage a private investigator? Maybe that will give you a peace of mind and the absolute truth you need.

i know the truth.
even if there is no physical detours, i am not comfortable with her hanging out with a group of men until 1am in the morning

This post has been edited by Petre: Aug 26 2025, 01:38 PM

Divorce saja, no need milk her then let her with other men happy

this is very much what i am leaning towards bro

Actually you can do the same.

Pretend going out with your girl friends until late night. No girl friend also jyou ust make up stories.

See what her reaction.

If jealeous good.
Not jealous then you know it is time to split.



Be alpha.

Honestly you deserve better, you dun marry her and take care of her so she can go out buat bukan2 other guys out there

exactly my feeling.

If you provide her with any form of financial support, cut them off for a starter

whoaa... red flag
well can give her a surprise during one of her sessions

Gone case once i read that your wife thinks her children embarrass her.

Your kids and you deserve a better woman.

Be prepare for the worst, best is draft out a worst-case scenario plan to get your mind ready for any bad outcome

Good luck

You already know she is cheating on you yet you still hanging on to her for what??
Women who regularly hang out with male 'friends' are not there to hang out with you together with these 'friends'.

I saw how flirtatious these women are with males... and these batangs also love it. Sorry to tell you this but she already fucked a few of them, if not all. If not why she refused to let you join these gatherings with all these batangs?

before you initiate divorce... do the smart thing first. If the house is under your name...transfer the house ownership to your dad or mum. Then when divorce happens... she cant get anything from that house cos technically you dont own any house anymore so there is nothing for her to claim from you.

I already told you this.... and if you dont so this you can say byebye to your house cos the court may give her the house and she has the right to kick you out of your own house. Dont be a sohai. You better act fast!

Then after divorce is finalised....you ask your Dad or Mum to transfer back the house ownership to you.

This post has been edited by empire: Aug 26 2025, 05:07 PM

Talk from experience, nay

Never trust human nature, it's ugly, find a partner which's mature enough to avoid unnecessary affection proactively, dont find partner that involved in all the ding ding dong dong and say, "if you love me u should trust me". Don't test the boundaries of humanity.

When shit happened, they will cried Infront of u and claiming it's not what they intended in the beginning, it's accident, it's out of her control, and act like a victim. A mature partner will avoid that from the beginning to prevent him/herself to fall into such miserable situation.