In my previous relationship, my ex had several guy friends whom she hangs out with. And I know them as well, some even have their own partners.

They hang out often as they knew each other BEFORE she knew me. For me, as long as she is transparent with me, I am fine with it, and knowing that I have trust in her, she knows her boundaries.

Likewise, knowing that I trust them, they will take care of her when they are out catching up. Most women hate to lepak with women, cause the worst enemy for ladies are other ladies. Lots of back stabbers. They feel safer hanging out with men, but of course high value women will know which men is safe to hang out with, which one knows boundaries and which ones to avoid.

The moment you dont have trust in her, seriously there is no business for you to be in a relationship with her anymore. IMO

I believe you misread. The guys she hang out with are her working mates, whom i know. Its a closed group whom she trust a lot, and she dont give her contacts out easily. Other wise, she wont entertain other folks, and often enough, these guys will chase those men away.

My point is, not all women who hangs out with a group of guys are loose women. The common streotypes often put them in a bad sight amongst ppl who dont know them. And if your woman hangs out with other man, and if you dont like it, tell her outright. And if she doesnt seem to care what you think and still continues doing what she does, then you may need to reconsider the relationship

This post has been edited by DeyBeardy: Aug 25 2025, 04:32 PM