Yup, women will always find better version of men while still being in relationship or married.

This behaviour is already hard coded into women.

most of the time

if its gf, she is looking for better bf.

if its wife, she is tired/bored of current husband.

Often, these girls love the attention from guys. They always give the same stupid excuse : 'I dont like hanging out with girls cos they are bitchy!' Never trust any girl who says this as it is merely an excuse to hang out with her guy friends who are all waiting to fuck her...and she knows it!
Girls are not stupid to realise her guy friends are all waiting for the moment she says yes. If your GF hangs around with many guy friends... chances are she already fucked a few of them behind your back....but she is still keeping you for the time being until someone better comes along.

If your partner has been avoiding you and dodging your questions lately, that's already a potential red flag

Listen to this la.

My personal experience. Cheater's mind is truly unique punya they can always come up with all kind of reasons to justify what they did/doing.

Guy girl all the same. If they can only hang out with opposite sex they aint normal. Don't waste your time and move on.

Human can never change. It's a fact. We just learn to mask it better. When u tell your love one u have a problem with him/her and they proceed to give all sorts of explanation and brush it off. THey are not going to change. If they genuinely want to change they will listen and apply empathy. Give them ultimatum and force them to listen 99.9% of time will backfire on u, they will relapse and problem come back again then repeat. Took me very long time to understand this.

IF she never invite u to join her group gathering then yes, big red flag.

Wait, nowadays it become red flag?

Back in my days, quite often we see a group of males with 1 or 2 females. Some gals just feel like more comfortable around guys since no backstabbing, comparisons, and talk dirty.

Even if just pure innocent normal friend gatherings, your wife/gf should reduce or stop doing it because of how you feel. Not for her to admit she did something wrong, but to respect you and your feelings. If she cannot even do that, can consider leaving this relationship. If she dont care about your feelings now, she wont care about your feelings in the future.

Twice a year totally fine..My wife has a few guy friends too..TS is saying almost on a daily basis which is definitely weird..

this usually office affairs...

Trust is not “asking you to trust them”. Trust is how much you believe/confident what they’re doing without them telling you to. It’s a mutual respect and confidence between each other without the need to convince one another.

For OP’s case obviously there’s no more trust, doesn’t matter what other side is telling OP. That obviously means that the relationship is already beyond repair, doesn’t matter what the other side is doing. Even stop meeting those friends will not save this trust issue.

if you aren't comfortable, talk to her.

also trust your 6th sense, if you think she is lying, probably she is... (given you aren't clouded by your past of similar incident)

Trust is not “asking you to trust them”. Trust is how much you believe/confident what they’re doing without them telling you to. It’s a mutual respect and confidence between each other without the need to convince one another.

For OP’s case obviously there’s no more trust, doesn’t matter what other side is telling OP. That obviously means that the relationship is already beyond repair, doesn’t matter what the other side is doing. Even stop meeting those friends will not save this trust issue.

Daily? every day 30 days a month wor?

If nothing happening, shd be able to invite you along anytime. Try and see. If a lot of excuses, break off if g/f, hire PI if merried for evidence to use in divorce.

In my previous relationship, my ex had several guy friends whom she hangs out with. And I know them as well, some even have their own partners.

They hang out often as they knew each other BEFORE she knew me. For me, as long as she is transparent with me, I am fine with it, and knowing that I have trust in her, she knows her boundaries.

Likewise, knowing that I trust them, they will take care of her when they are out catching up. Most women hate to lepak with women, cause the worst enemy for ladies are other ladies. Lots of back stabbers. They feel safer hanging out with men, but of course high value women will know which men is safe to hang out with, which one knows boundaries and which ones to avoid.

The moment you dont have trust in her, seriously there is no business for you to be in a relationship with her anymore. IMO

TS, just observe how she dresses when she go out to meet them and decide for yourself what is her intention.

Discuss with her, how her actions make you feel.
Ask her to evaluate or tell you why she do what she do.

She's missing something in the marriage? Looking for more freedom? How can you fill in the gap? But remember sometimes you cannot be everything and it's okay.

Look for a way out, either both party tone down or find a compromise everyone agrees on. This is the fundamentals of marriage. Open communication.