keyword cannot control herself

IMHO.... even 2 days every week is too much lo...

once or twice a month still acceptable.
if really group activities, no hanky panky can also include you to join the makan or activities

if just gf, dump and run
if married, then need to sit down
if got kids, good luck TS...

I also got acquaintance,
story is female got to know another guy
always go hiking in the weekend, dinner after work, etc....
guy no property, no fancy car, work as salesman only
female drop the husband got nice house, nice car to be with the guy
kids all under husband, get to see the kids on weekend only.
end up rent condo with the guy after leaving the husband

Am preparing and hopefully i get help courage and guide from tgis kind community

to anyone who has real knowledge and experience, can i ask

can i sue the guy for wrecking my marriage? i have voice recording of him admitting what he did, and also of course, all the messages he sent to my wife

Pls help him

mind chat in pm?

like you said too bro, should prioritize family first.

even two occasions i ask her to come back or dont go, she refuse and tell me i cannot tell her what to do

i am chinese btw but i think there is a universal law in marriage regardless race and skin color