success how many times out of 10 times

80% success, but you can sense the girl see she attracted to you or not.

imho, a movie cannot be the best reason to initiate a date. the gurl will know it is a "pretense" to ask her out, unless she's a movie-freak?

the best reason to ask a gurl out on a date is because YOU like to DATE HER, because you find her attractive, interesting, beautiful, funny. a dinner date is good. a walk in the park is fine. window shopping date is alright. watching something date is not so good...not in the beginning, maybe later and not *all* the time watching movies!

Thanks for reply... guys... I think I need to tell you all in more details... So that you all can tell what should I do now....

Back to Monday night.... I go over to her convo to fetch her.... So reach her place.... Call her that I reach already... Then she came out... on the way to my car... She said got a bit headache and keep massage her head... So I ask her ok or not... She said is ok.... So we proceed to watch movie....

In the car... I talk much than her.... She seems like not feeling well... And I ask her is she ok..? She said feel like want to vomit de... then I care of her and said might be she do assignment too late... not enough sleep de...

So when I reach GSC.... I go to find some seat for her since she is not feeling well... Go round and round... No place.... She is following me... but a bit blur blur de... walk slowly... So we come to sport shop... and there are some seat... So I ask her to sit there 1st... I go to buy some drinks for her.... She said buy later larr... I said... I buy 1st since she is resting over here... So I went to buy drinks... After came back... She is trying shoes... and ask me nice or not... I said nice... I like those style as well... but just test only... She din buy de... After that she said she headache again... then I ask her where is the spot... she showed me and I ask I massage for her... She said ok.... then I massage lorr...

Time reach.. We get into cinema... She sat down and keep on massage her head... then I said sit properly... I massage for you.. She do it as what I said... then after that watch movie... care of her... cover my jacket to her so that she is not feel cool... In the mid of movie.. She receive a call from her bf and she rush out.... After a while.. came back to seat but didnt say anything... After finish movie... We went out and go home... When almost reach her home... She cannot tahan and ask me to stop... go down and vomit.... I comfort her back so that she feel better... then she siad ok already.... After that send her home de..... When I heading home... I smsed her rest earlier... if not ok.. then see doctor lorr.. She replied.. ok.. thanks for helping just now... good night...

Next day morning.. I smsed her and ask her feel better... She replied ok already... just a bit headache but not so serious larr... then after that I ask want to proceed doing assignment tonight... and she said no need my help already.. Just send whatever I had done to her... She will do it at her friend's house since she want to discuss assignment with her friends de... At night I call her up and then said I send to her already.. She received it already..? She said will check later... then she hang up phone quite fast de...

Next day morning... I ask her want to go to Pasar Malam..? She siad cannot ... want to complete assignment and pass up on Monday.... then ok larr... After that I ask her got around or not at night... She said no... then I ask what time she went out... She said not at home also... then I got noithing to say liao.. just said I will bring the things to her next time... hang up like that....

Until now... I dint give a call to her already.... Cause my hp credit out of limit...

This is what happen lorr... What should I do arr..?

bf? did you say a call from her bf??? or a friend who is a boy....but you didn't mention how you know it is her bf? or a fren who is a boy?

trying to hook another's gf is a whole different can of worm my fren!

ya.. how come suddenly she got bf?? from the 1st post u edi mentioned u confirm that she dunhav bf... hmm confused,,

She told me she got bf... But their relationship is not good at all..... Totally different world between her and him de....

Nevermind brother, you are still doing very good. Big fish usually are hard to catch. Don't be too rushy, don't always called her and ask her out, she is sending signal "STOP bothering me". I would suggest you to send sms daily, encouragement and also hope her assignment and study score full mark, this one you "goreng" yourself.

Since she is sick, then you need to like very worry, "ask her see doctor already ma", u say u got get some good medicine (bluff la, u say my friend drink already very good, no vomit already), or u say u ask someone (mother or whoever) to make sup that can cure vomit and late sleep. You go her house give to her and flee, dont talk much. Let her feel like she is princess.

What her worry now is assignment, just encourage her. Also, try to observe what she like? maybe you can buy the shoe she see in the shop. It's okay, small money don't go, big fish wont come.

About the bf or guy friend? if bf, is ok la, probably she lost interest to her bf and going out with you. So, you gonna grab this opportunity and do good. If she every talk about some guy, just say wah, where can like that, me wont do this...just say u are best and ppl are worst. Ok la..it seem evil but that life.

Best of luck

i can see the ending of the story:
the gal will tell u tat u r a good guy, u both can become good fren and she eventually go back to her bf

This post has been edited by remix: Nov 29 2007, 02:50 PM

Wah ...congratulation to you already. You almost there, why? you see, if she lost interest to her bf, she is probably sick of love and want to rest. Don't give her rest, there's no more feeling to her bf, so need someone to be her companion to substitute. You come and save her from the sad love she has experience. She is now in lowest defend, send your troop and attack but slowly. Do step by step and you will succeed.

Dont worry of being the third party, this is a fair world. Everyday also got ppl break up, you are the best for her. You gonna think this way.

This post has been edited by vaio_me: Nov 29 2007, 02:47 PM

Maybe it's just that she's not feeling well that day or time of the month and what not.. girls can get pretty moody at times for no particular reasons.

How come can give up so easily? Since she and her bf is not happy, why wanna suffer. Sometimes, there's a need for someone to save a relationship from keep on dragging and break up.

Be optimistic, if you cant get her, probably one day she would know how good you are, the fish will swim back to you. because you have a good foundation at the beginning.

TS, set yourself a limit, 3 months or 6 months, if kenot, hunt for another. No longer worth to invest, find a bigger fish...haha..big sea !

This post has been edited by vaio_me: Nov 29 2007, 02:58 PM

IF

Their relationship not good=You are her Savior
Their Relationship good =You Clown
Their relationship so so =You Mr.Spannar

TS...

Got two outcome... either she using u as a spare tyre to complete her assignment . or her relationship got problem and the slim chance she blur now wat she wanted.... just prepare bro.

Damn it, i am lovin this thread man. Just like Denso Otaku. Keep on coming. I am listening.. Err for de moody part maybe aunty visit lar..

Six ways to make people like you

1. Become genuinely interested in other people.
2. Smile.
3. Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language.
4. Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
5. Talk in terms of the other person's interests.
6. Make the other person feel important - and do it sincerely.

shamelessly copied from a book

Wah, will keep visiting this thread.

I wish you good luck and all the best!

I would like to suggest using Blue Ocean Strategy. Not to outcast other challenger but make them irrelevant..

Ooopss, too much of book..

Btw, this is kinda Densha Otoko remake..

This post has been edited by adriankhoo153: Dec 3 2007, 09:47 AM

Interesting thread .. will continue visiting this thread ... TS keep it up ...

Good idea but the girl who is a bit streetwise will soon discover ur fakeness if you do it like so...